hellosaggy
joined August 16, 2017
34 years old maleSag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    Posted by hellosaggy
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    Posted by hellosaggy
    What's going on. How is everybody doing. I miss my sags, seems like we are all off adventuring like always.



    How are you doing? Haven’t heard from you for awhile. I’m doing well click to expand


    working, traveling, hanging with the bi-sexual Aqua lol.

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    Does that mean happy? I met a Libra... trying not to get too excited. But 4 dates in a week and just omg 😍 click to expand
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    Not happy, but content enough to not slore around at the moment and focus on other things. lol

    glad you are bouncing back. I happen to like libras
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by Senorita_LLP2
    Posted by hellosaggy
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    Posted by hellosaggy
    What's going on. How is everybody doing. I miss my sags, seems like we are all off adventuring like always.



    How are you doing? Haven’t heard from you for awhile. I’m doing well click to expand


    working, traveling, hanging with the bi-sexual Aqua lol.

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    🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ click to expand
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    Miss you! you gorgeous Gemini!
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    Posted by hellosaggy
    What's going on. How is everybody doing. I miss my sags, seems like we are all off adventuring like always.



    How are you doing? Haven’t heard from you for awhile. I’m doing well click to expand
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    working, traveling, hanging with the bi-sexual Aqua lol.

  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    What's going on. How is everybody doing. I miss my sags, seems like we are all off adventuring like always.

  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    I mean... where in the world has this popped up. I've had inquiries from a few women about interest in this act. Are any women here interested in this?
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by LaMadrina
    Posted by hellosaggy
    Posted by LaMadrina
    It's not rocket science. A woman can love the feel of a relationship setting, but she can still want her independence too. She wants to come and go as she pleases without it being messy. Living with you is not the plan. Think about this too. Why is the relationship smooth? Because she always had her option of independence. I bet if she lived with you permanently, things would change. Take people as they are and stop trying to make it your way so much. Women too have the right to come and go as we please.

    Side note: I hope she doesn't have to get liquored up first all the time in order to have intimate moments with you. She seems reserved otherwise. That says a lot too.


    Seems like you got some past demons.

    I help her pay for a place she never stays at. It’s like it’s a safety net. I ask her to stay at her place and she always asks if I’m coming along. She enjoys being around me.

    She’s an Aquarius sun/Aries moon and I’m a saggitarius sun/Aries moon. We get each other and it’s just an easy time.

    She’s intimate all the time physically. It’s the feelings and emotion that comes out when liquor comes into play.


    So me being able to see where the women is coming from equates to me having so-called past demons.
    Sag logic. Little silly ass boy, I AM the demon. Are you always so sensitive and defensive to advice you don't want to hear? If so, don't come here and ask questions. You offered help, she said no. You come here and cookiemonster about it. Sounds like you need to back off and man up. No is no. What else is there to say? How about helping her find a place since you want to "help" so damn much. Oh no, that's not the kind of help YOU want to give. You just want her to move in so it's easier for you to trick off. Fake ass good intentions.
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    calling yourself a demon shows your old age and "maturity"... hardly.

    You know nothing of which you speak. She's wanting to move to be close to her family (across country to Washington) , wanting to stay here, and wanting to look for opportunities in other areas. Signing another lease where she's at or anywhere, with her situations, isn't a smart idea. I told her she needs to figure her path out so she can pull the trigger. I don't WANT her to live with me, but its the most logical, as basically she's lived with me for four months. at least that way if it takes her 2 - 3 months to decide ultimately what she wants, she's not locking herself into an agreement, when I already know she's going to be over here all the time anyway.

    It's sad some of you ladies figure this is about in house vagina, when I'm already basically getting it in house everyday. One of my very concerns is once I allow her to truly live with me, things change and I become miserable. Part of me wants to be selfish and say "No, stay where you are, because I don't see things going the way I want." Another part of me wants to say, "hey come stay, save some cash, figure your butter out, and then make your decision without haste."

    @Still ... in terms of feelings. I have feelings for her, but she's so wishy-washy. I have my walls up. If I stopped talking to her today, I would miss her company, but that's about it.

    One day she wants to meet my family, another day she wants to find someone who loves her for her, another day she wants to find a woman to be with, another day I am her best friend and she appreciates me in her life, when she's drunk she loves me. when she's sober she says she doesn't, but exhibits every sign she does.

    She truly acts like a typical man in a woman's body. the only time she gets really feminine is during her period when shes wanting to cuddle and stuff, heck even sex is more like a tug-o-war for power, then she becomes submissive during, and as soon as its over, back to being standoffish.

    I really don't know what I'm getting every morning or throughout the day with her.

    So I am playing the FWB role, just to keep all the expectations down and be supportive. I have other things in my life that need my attention and I am sure of.
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by LaMadrina
    It's not rocket science. A woman can love the feel of a relationship setting, but she can still want her independence too. She wants to come and go as she pleases without it being messy. Living with you is not the plan. Think about this too. Why is the relationship smooth? Because she always had her option of independence. I bet if she lived with you permanently, things would change. Take people as they are and stop trying to make it your way so much. Women too have the right to come and go as we please.

    Side note: I hope she doesn't have to get liquored up first all the time in order to have intimate moments with you. She seems reserved otherwise. That says a lot too.


    Seems like you got some past demons.

    I help her pay for a place she never stays at. It’s like it’s a safety net. I ask her to stay at her place and she always asks if I’m coming along. She enjoys being around me.

    She’s an Aquarius sun/Aries moon and I’m a saggitarius sun/Aries moon. We get each other and it’s just an easy time.

    She’s intimate all the time physically. It’s the feelings and emotion that comes out when liquor comes into play.
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Wow. You all are judgmental as treetrunk... she’s having financial difficulties and is only making it because I’m helping...

    It’s nit about what I want it just makes sense
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    I’m not rushing... she has literally been around me or at my place everyday since New Years.... not an exaggeration.

    Feelings? Mmmm... not really. But our relationship works really well to the point where her being in my space the way she is doesn’t frustrate me 95% of the time...

    She can’t help but love me. In love, I’m not looking for, but she’s constantly complimenting and shows jealousy when drunk. When sober, she seems to absolutely don’t have jealousy though lol.
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    I’ve been seeing this aqua for the past 4 months.

    We basically spend every day together to the point where we practically live together. She is rarely if ever at her own apartment.

    Her lease is up and she’s thinking about renewing but we’ve been having such a good time being a “couple” that I was like “you are here every night you might as well move in permanently and we can save some money.”

    She kind of went on about having her own space and the ability for us to stop talking at anytime and go right back to her old life and on another note said she enjoyed being with me and the companionship.

    I asked if she actually saw that happening after living together for 4 months and that she has basically, accidentally turned into my girlfriend/roommate.

    She constantly tells me she’s not in love with me/loves me... but every time she drinks a little she’s all over me. Anytime she’s sober she’s adamant about not having feelings.

    What to do with this aqua to get her to realize she is all over the place with her words and actions.

    I’m a sag and I love my independence too, but I see the writing on the wall in terms of what we actually are.

  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    It's easy to talk to women in general. Atleast for me it is. One thing I have noticed pretty women are more self conscious than average women... I have to reassure pretty women all the time.

    I've also come to realize while I like looking at the "pretty" women among other things lol, they don't try as hard as their counterparts in pleasing and compromising...

    some of the worse sex partners I've had were the really hot ones. One told me, "oh, guys don't normally have a problem with how I give blow jobs"... I was like "yeah, they are probably just excited you are giving them one, they don't care how good it is"
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by hellosaggy
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by HoneyXx
    Ladies, if he's hot and sweaty, on top of you doing what feels like nothing... would you deal?


    So he has a small dick


    I don't know why guys get a bad wrap for having a small size. I've never had issues with feeling someone inside. I actually prefer smaller sizes to big ones cause they can pound away and be as rough as they want and not do much damage like make me sore after. lol

    The only disadvantage is not being able to do long strokes and certain positions. You women that can take these horse penises, kudos to you! lol

    I just quoted you cause you pointed out what op was talking about.


    @saggurl88

    Tiny dicks are so 90s. #teamlongstroke #whospu $ $ yisthis


    Laughing#Hater 😂😂😂
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    You right... I hate not having to get a running start to make a woman feel something.... or rub vigorously against her like two lesbians going at it rubbing their clits together LMAO
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    female.

    As a strong male in any type of relationship... I have power, but I tend to only exert it when necessary. normally I'm all about compromise and making my partner/friend happy, unless something has to be a specific way for protective purposes or I just absolutely don't want to do something.

  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    Hahahahaha I choose Leo’s but I’m a Sag. I also really like Sag guys. Better conversation - deeper - but Leo’s are warmer and can keep it in their pants longer. Big Grin

    They are both fun, sexy, smart.


    He doesn't like being confined to pants! claustrophobic
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by OCJack
    Posted by HoneyXx
    i'm good with 7-8 inches. i think that's average.
    It's not. I'll tell you exactly why you have been lead to believe that though:

    Most men know the average is a measily 5 inches(even smaller if you consider that the majority of the world's population is Asians with an average of 4 instead). So any dude above that knows he automatically has no reason to feel insecure, and even somewhat of a reason to think of themselves as "special" because they are Non-Average.

    This heightened confidence makes men more likely to confront chicks and try to get with them and bang them, in the first place. So if you go based on the people you've slept with there is inevitably going to be a bias towards Above Average. Especially the bigger and bigger the dude is.

    I'd imagine this is the same reason people think black dudes on average are HUGE. Aka 8 to 10 inches. Because I'd hate to be a black guy with anything below that. It'd be downright embarassing considering the culture.
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    yeah I'm around 8 and I'm self conscious lol
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by HoneyXx
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by HoneyXx
    Ladies, if he's hot and sweaty, on top of you doing what feels like nothing... would you deal?


    So he has a small dick


    I don't know why guys get a bad wrap for having a small size. I've never had issues with feeling someone inside. I actually prefer smaller sizes to big ones cause they can pound away and be as rough as they want and not do much damage like make me sore after. lol

    The only disadvantage is not being able to do long strokes and certain positions. You women that can take these horse penises, kudos to you! lol

    I just quoted you cause you pointed out what op was talking about.


    i'm good with 7-8 inches. i think that's average.
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    I think I read 5.7 or something is the high average across the globe.
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by HoneyXx
    Ladies, if he's hot and sweaty, on top of you doing what feels like nothing... would you deal?


    So he has a small dick


    I don't know why guys get a bad wrap for having a small size. I've never had issues with feeling someone inside. I actually prefer smaller sizes to big ones cause they can pound away and be as rough as they want and not do much damage like make me sore after. lol

    The only disadvantage is not being able to do long strokes and certain positions. You women that can take these horse penises, kudos to you! lol

    I just quoted you cause you pointed out what op was talking about.
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    @saggurl88

    Tiny dicks are so 90s. #teamlongstroke #whospu $ $ yisthis
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by hellosaggy
    I honestly just like helping people, introducing good karma into the world, and just trying to be a good person to people that need it.

    I don't need or expect anything in return as I give freely. I have noticed it does mind-quack people because they are used to selfishness, and subsequently I end up getting things I wasn't expecting in the long run.


    Thank you for sharing. That is good to know smile
    I was raised by a mom who always said, "I am doing x for you now so when I am old, you need to do x for me too." Therefore, I always feel a bit skeptical when people offer to help without expecting anything in return.
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    I hate when people give with expectations. I personally feel it devalues the good deed. Seems like a selfish act instead of one of caring.
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by sagittariusxo
    as a sag I do favors or offer my help whenever I can and as long is I can.
    but I wouldn't say it means I don't expect something in return.
    I would just hope that when I really need a friend or some help that that person is present to see it and able to help me. because 100% I have the hardest time asking for help.

    and although I feel like that's a good thing because I feel impowered and capable and proud of myself
    I also hate it because sometime things can be so hard and I wish people just noticed and wanted to be there for me when I need them the most.

    hardly ever happens tho.
    for me atleast


    Thank you so much for sharing! Now that I think of it, I cannot even recall a time when a sag friend asks for help. I feel they might feel too embarrassed to ask... Hmmm, I wonder if there are any signs of stress that I should watch for, so that I can offer help without them having to ask Confused
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    I don't like asking for help, because it means I have to be vulnerable. I'd rather suffer in silence.
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    I honestly just like helping people, introducing good karma into the world, and just trying to be a good person to people that need it.

    I don't need or expect anything in return as I give freely. I have noticed it does mind-quack people because they are used to selfishness, and subsequently I end up getting things I wasn't expecting in the long run.