I just finished with a Scorp....

.......and it ended badly to say the least! I'm happy though, I did the right thing in finishing it his game-playing was draining the life out of me.

This revenge thing you all talk about though, I'm wondering if I've to expect this from him. So far it's just been a bit of verbal abuse via text, calling me a psycho and a bitter women among other things, which to be honest I just found funny.

Have dated Scorps before and had a bad ending with one a little over a year ago - we resolved things though and while we'll never be "friends" again as we were before there's been no hard feelings or animosity. This one though is different. Seriously immature, unwilling to listen, completely selfish and always believes he's right. I have never met anyone so egotistical in all my life. Extremely intense too - sun, mercury, venus and jupiter in Scorpio. Plus he has Aquarius rising (that wouldn't have helped with the mind games that's for sure).

I'm not here asking how to get back with him, quite frankly I reckon I've had a lucky escape. I'm just not convinced he's going to lie back and take it, especially given that he'll be pissed with the fact that it was me who ended it and when he tried to get me into an argument over it I simply refused to engage and blanked him. Even the name-calling got no reaction from me.

So, is he likely to retaliate and if so what's he likely to do? I'm asking this more out of curiosity than anything else. I'm not actually scared lol.........although, should I be? 😛

Posted by ellessque
where is his moon?

if not, be prepared for his dying cold fingers to be clenched around your ankle for a period of time til he gets over it, moves on to someone else or falls off the face of the earth.

🙂

I like the last one lol.

His moon is in Libra.

Posted by ellessque


if you can find a way to turn it around so it "appears" to be him the one leaving you, he will walk away in a new york second.

🙂

To be honest he doesn't deserve anything from me so making him feel better is the least of my concerns.

I'm just wondering what, if anything, he'll do.

That is a Psycho ex bf wow i never heard of a "crazy" scorpio.

Posted by ellessque


if you really want to shake him loose and don't care about "who gets credit"....make him believe it was his idea. That would be the ultimate victory for you, really. I mean what is better than manipulating a scorp at their own game.

(I'm awfully sinister today, aren't I? :/)

There is only one thing more dangerous than a Scorpio woman.
Not even a nuclear weapon is as dangerous as a Scorpio female
because there are usually THREATS that warn you of an imminant
nuke attack and the destruction from it is absolutely predictable
and is usually a "one time event" ( though with residual effects ).

Therefor - Ellessque is almost correct - 99%

If you are as good at Ellessque at her game, you MUST be mindful
that you can actually cause him to COME AND SAY HE'S SORRY AND
TRY TO GET YOU BACK... as it may embarrass him to think that others
feel he "dumped you unfairly" or HUMILIATE him that he did not see
that you were "not really wanting to leave - that he pushed you away".
( go figure )

Of course - we know you'll be a bit disappointed if he gives you
NO revenge treatment at all. lol Sometimes, that's the worst revenge. lol
( ellessque - THAT would be "even more sinister" - ahahahahaha )

Confidentially, I think OP went out with the Scorpio for sport
to see if she could push his buttons like she did the last one
hoping the same results - a control issue.

Posted by MelanieM123
That is a Psycho ex bf wow i never heard of a "crazy" scorpio.

been living on the Moon??

I thought Pisces were delusional!

Completely ignoring usually works. Don't entertain at all. Eventually, he will give up and feel humiliated in the process because you haven't given him what he wants...a reaction.

Claire - yes it is the same guy.

Scorpiopics nope not at all. I genuinely liked this guy, despite people telling me he was no good for me and so on. Whatever you choose to think of me is fine, I have no qualms whatsoever about my faults and the mistakes I've made in my life, but one thing I do not do is intentionally play games. I dated an Aqua for several years who was very much into this and all it did was drain me and make me unhappy.

I really don't have the energy for drama these days which is precisely the reason I ended it because Mr Scorp seemed to THRIVE on the drama between us.

There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that he has belittled me to anyone who will listen, no doubt it was he who dumped me, I was this and that whatever I don't really care. The people who know me know the script and that's all that matters.

We do however live in the same area and it's very close knit. If I ever saw him out I would probably do my best to avoid him at all costs, not flirt in front of him or act up I'm not really into that but I'm pretty sure that he'll do whatever he can to "get me back" as he sees it. To be honest I'd have liked to have just parted on good terms but seeing as how he resorts to nastiness and immature name-calling and seems unable to have an adult conversation I felt my best bet was just to block all contact.

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Posted by wsigaf
victim portrayal, talking smack behind your back,
tantrums, suave smiles..

anything to maintain a connection that has died,
without *his permission*..

yep. spot on.

so, if you really want to shake him loose and don't care about "who gets credit"....make him believe it was his idea. That would be the ultimate victory for you, really. I mean what is better than manipulating a scorp at their own game.

(I'm awfully sinister today, aren't I? :/)

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I get what you're saying but really I just don't even want to talk to him again. As I said though I can't shake the feeling that it doesn't end here. I honestly have the belief that he will do whatever he can to retain some sort of power or control whichever way he can. All I can do is continue to ignore and block.

Posted by ellessque
Not even I wouldn ignore a venus in scorp. just sayin'.

They can plot shit to happen 6 months to 6 years from now.

Oh please. Venus in Scorp my ass lol

The guy wants a reaction. Don't give him one. Simple. If he plots revenge for 6 months down the road, it has little to do with venus in scorp and everything to do with him being a wackjob. I'd say bring it.

MsP you rock lol.

*MissP* 😉 So do you. I'm not worried about you at all. I know you'll be fine. Scorpio Shmorpio! 😛

Haha I love it.

Never understood it personally to be honest the whole "Ima get you" thing. Move on and be done with it that's what I say. Who cares lol.

Find yourself a nice Cap or Taurus 😛


You always had a thing for the Bulls, no?

Taurus and Caps love em both. 🙂

Think I am off men for a while though! 😛

Posted by ellessque
lol @ wsigaf.


It was four months AFTER the divorce was final that I found my tires slit (when I was at somebody elses home) and all my friends on my facebook contacted with threats and bullshit. asshole.

Nah doubt he would try that shit. I know people who can make shit look like an accident and he knows it. Not that I would, just saying that he wouldn't dare try anything like that. What I'm expecting is for lies to be told about me which I hate, don't mind him bitching about me but if he says anything that is untrue I will not be amused.

I could easily have humiliated him or hit him where it hurts but I didn't want to go down that route because I knew it would just go on and on and on and all I really wanted was to be shot of him. Which is why I never got into any of it with him and just called time, no bitching no nothing just cut the cord and said I was done.

Plus during the course of our "relationship" I told him some personal stuff, which I would be seriously disappointed in him not as an ex but as a human being, should he repeat any of it.

He's told me some shit, it has not and will not go any further despite the fact I think he's a dick. Should he not return the courtesy I don't care who he thinks he is he will regret the day he laid eyes on me.

Posted by ellessque
Not even I wouldn ignore a venus in scorp. just sayin'.

They can plot shit to happen 6 months to 6 years from now.

...my grudges yet to avenge go back 30 years ... haven't even started.

...in the meantime though
some have been "fixed" by others.

Makes my job easier.

Posted by ellessque


... my garage door would go up and down periodically throughout the night. fucker sat at the cul de sac opposite of me fucking with a copy of the garage door opener.

haha - when I was in grade 9 and one of my friends had a car
we "pooled" our garage door openers ( like - 9 of us in a
big 'ol station wagon ) and drove around helping people
air-out their garages ...after midnight.

Posted by tooseriouslol
not possible to try an amicable breakup?

it may require much more effort and emotional strengh (self control) if you are the one who wants to end but in the long run it's worth it for everyone's sake. just my 2 cents.

Unfortunately not, given that he instantly becomes defensive saying I've not given it a chance keeps going on about how he's "done nothing wrong" and then resorts to calling me names. I have to say it's been a while since I saw a grown man take such a tantrum.

Anyway I only posted this because I did (and still do) have the feeling that he's not going to let it go and wondered what to expect. In any case I could be wrong, maybe he'll not even care and that'll be the end of it? Here's hoping.

One thing I was thinking though.......given that it's now the weekend and no doubt he'll be out and there will be alcohol involved.

I would not be surprised if I received a late night/early morning drunken abusive phone call.

Posted by ellessque


What ever you do....if you are done, you are done. If he gets you back, it will only be to dump you later...kind of a "get even" ploy. seriously (I've done this, so I know firsthand)

Oh I know that already. He's definitely all about the power/control, which is a shame really because the one thing we did have was that connection everyone talks about with Pisces/Scorpio. Off the chart chemistry too. But I absolutely refuse to put up with being disrespected and made to feel like I'm just another female "minion" just to feed his bloody ego.

I really really hope someone takes him down a peg or two because he really needs to learn some humility.

Posted by ellessque
drunken calls from exes are inevitable regardless of zodiac sign....LOL

Lol I normally have them turn up at my door.

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Posted by ellessque
he probably won't "do" anything.

but his venus is in scorp, so you really can't know for sure. his moon in libra would probably talk him out of, or over analyze anything he'd like to do, but probably not lead him to any real action.

cover all your bases. don't leave the car out (keep it in the garage), protect yourself on facebook and block his butt and any other social networks, lay low and he'll blow over eventually.

As a Libra moon, I prefer to just move on. Hash things out with this one and then "it's on to the next one". 😛

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My Venus in Aries is like that.

Posted by bluemoon2
I can predict how this Scorpio is going to go on you. He is going to move on from you to someone else. When he gets another woman, he will rub this in your face. You will be made to feel like you meant nothing at all. So I hope that you are sure in your decision.

That was what I was thinking. Not really bothered though. Like Elle said I feel sorry for the girl.

Onwards and upwards. 🙂

The main reason I ended it was because of how he acted with other women, always flirting (and I mean REALLY flirting not just playful stuff) acting like he was available, lapping up any attention he got. So whoever he does get with next better be prepared to be one of many. He actually got a phone call from a girl he "claimed" was a friend at 6am one morning he was over staying at mine. I said well if it's a friend answer it. He wouldn't. Says it all really.

Me, I'm either number one to you or I ain't nothing at all. Jog on.

I will let you know what, if anything, happens lol.

Not an Aries nope I'm a Pisces but I have Venus in Aries. 😛

Someone said that to me once and I was like noooooo haha.

Ooo thanks I'll check that out, not good with all the technical aspects of astrology and never got that whole progression thing.

Nah I'm not gonna tar all Scorps with the same brush normally get on great with them couple of best mates are Scorps and the love of my life was a Scorp.

One bad seed in a normally good bunch that's all it is. 🙂

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Posted by MissPirate
Ooo thanks I'll check that out, not good with all the technical aspects of astrology and never got that whole progression thing.

It's good for predictive astrology and can explain why your emotional and psychological states change. It doesn't mean your signs change. Rather, it is better explained this way...

Your natal chart is your core, but the progressed signs add layers to your core personality.

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I'll have to look a bit more into that then, thanks for the info. 🙂