Obsessive?

Do libras men ever get obsessive over a significant other? And I said OBSESSIVE, not possessive. I know scorpios can, but I'm talking about libras. For example: Can't get the person of interest out of his head (constantly thinking about her), wondering where she is, who she's with, the way she smells and feels?

Just curious; I have known a few, but not many.

Ant thoughts? . . Experiences?

One thing that I've noticed is that Libras can stalk the crap out of someone - get them - and then eventually grow bored.

Posted by sucha_d0ll
One thing that I've noticed is that Libras can stalk the crap out of someone - get them - and then eventually grow bored.

Unfortunately this is how I am. the chase is more fun than the catch! Theres one guy I have obsessed over for so long now that there is no way he can possibly ever live up to my expectations, even if he was the greatest boyfriend in the world I would still be dissapointed 😢

Posted by QLIbraMale
some toys last longer than others lol.

lol

Posted by libra sun

Posted by sucha_d0ll
One thing that I've noticed is that Libras can stalk the crap out of someone - get them - and then eventually grow bored.

Unfortunately this is how I am. the chase is more fun than the catch! Theres one guy I have obsessed over for so long now that there is no way he can possibly ever live up to my expectations, even if he was the greatest boyfriend in the world I would still be dissapointed 😢

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i can relate. luckily i mostly just care about dude's being good looking. but yeah, reality is often pretty dull.

i'll often just "stalk" someone, do research and stuff like that, fantasize a lot, then accept that they probably aren't that good in reality. so i move on without bothering to try to get them.

there was one guy who really was that great. he was a libra too. i'm not his type, but he was one of the sweetest people ever to me. there was a sort of spiritual love between us, but no real chemistry. even i didn't feel it once i got to know him. i loved being near him and talking, but i totally lost interest in dating him or sexing or anything.

on topic: yes, libras can get quite obsessive. lots of libras have lots of scorpio in their chart, though.

depemds on what you opened up. We libras and air signs period are dual natured so there is a shadow side. Love is ours and if you prvoke my feelings deep enough i can obsess. If i fall for some damn words(never again)or pillow talk.

but you'll never know it, i dont stalk, i just keep track to make sure you not playing me for a fool, the worst i have taken it was driving past some girls house at night, no unexpected knocks at the door, no crawling thru windows, just something subtle.

Driving by someone's house in the middle of the night is so fucking subtle! *sarcasm* I would SO do that ten years ago. Hahaha I had a sag camp out to watch me drive home from work. Haha Scorpios -- suns, moons, and all -- are such nutcases. 😛 I have moon, rising, and one more placement in scorp lol! My libra friend just declared that he is ready for us to hang out more. AND that he is "gonna get all stalkerish" on me. Omg! When we are out and about on the town, I'm not only stuck at his fingertips, I don't usually get any further away from him than his elbows! What's so entertaining to me is I'm actually getting a kick out of this! 😄 Let's see how quickly this gets old. His chart is all Libra and Virgo (not that I know what that exactly means), some gem and sag, but no scorp! I never feel like he is checking on my whereabouts, though there was this one time that I got hungry and posted on fb... Became a week-long bout! Haha I know there's brooding in there!

Posted by QLIbraMale
excitement is a mandatory requirement in most peoples love life lol. Libras like luxury, so every sparkle in my lovers eyes means, everything amazing to me lol.

You have the best posts. :-)

@ Kiara
from my experience,they become infactuated (obsessed) and put you up on a pedestal and think the world of you, as they are sort of naive but dont show it. When they finally catch you in their web of charm, they kinda have that "eh you were fun and cute but i found this little negative aspect, so on to the next one", kind of attitude.

But they come back if they dont find anyone to top the last one... (ofcoarse talking from experience w a libra)

haha my Libra bf Facebook stalk me

he was like bla bla..you on facebook...not that day..it was before the fight....not that im facebook stalking you or anything!
(yeah right!)

in addotion I agree that they stalk not because theyre obsessed with you but because theyre wanna make sure youre not playing them.

@LibraMale: my Libra left bc he "couldnt deal with others guys wanting to be w me & I know I have you physically 100% but not emotionally" < < would you say that?

Posted by SunPiscesMoonGemini
@ Kiara
from my experience,they become infactuated (obsessed) and put you up on a pedestal and think the world of you, as they are sort of naive but dont show it. When they finally catch you in their web of charm, they kinda have that "eh you were fun and cute but i found this little negative aspect, so on to the next one", kind of attitude.

But they come back if they dont find anyone to top the last one... (ofcoarse talking from experience w a libra)

This is spot on!! Pretty girl....i like....ill go see her all the time!!
Dont care if her mates thinks am weird!!
Oh she's falling...yep she loves me now!!
Nah,not so exciting.....i need to detach!!
And yes they will come back,if they really like you or your a scorpio. *cheeky wink*