I miss him

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Leogirl27
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13 Years

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So I’m a Leo woman and my Scorpio man is my ex from 20 years ago. We broke up in our 20’s. Now years later we reconnected. He reached out to me and I finally went to dinner with him. We decided on fwb but that kinda escalated to more. We were an unofficial couple but he damn sure acted like my man. Anyways this go round the sex is awesome and we get along but we argue a bit but mainly because he doesn’t want to open up or answer any major questions. One of the major issues we have is he is throwing my past in my face. When we were together the first time he constantly cheated and when we broke up his roommate told me he had a girl pregnant and he slept with other females. Well after some time I slept with the roommate. It was wrong and he was hurt and I have apologized a million times for. Well 20 years later he is still bringing this up and I’m frustrated. He hasn’t apologize for ever cheating on me or really acknowledging his fault in the story. I was willing to leave the past in the past but he doesn’t talk about it as much but we had an argument a few days ago that consisted of my last ex of 5 years. We used to live together and when I mentioned it he got so angry and started mentioning where did he sleep and where was his clothes and I felt attacked. I went off and told him he’s an hypocrite and I will not be judged about shit from the past or things that don’t affect him and then I told him to leave. Fast forward to yesterday I reached out trying to move past this. He didn’t want to talk. He did respond to a text and said I hurt him. I get it I do but I’m confused on why he’s so insecure and if it was an issue why reach out. He said he still loves me and always had over the years. But it confusing because his ex of 12 years still follows him on social media and she is in a club with him. He has unfollowed me on everything but I’m suppose to understand but he can’t move past my shit. I miss him. Idk what to do
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6 Years1,000+ Posts

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So... you're screwing an ex who HABITUALLY cheated on you in the past? 🤦 Where the hell does THAT make sense? Anything.....he puts you through NOW is COMPLETELY on you.

Suck it up buttercup because you went back in time and dug up an old, dusty bone. Why you'd choose to do that to yourself is beyond me. Let alone become a FWB. SMDH. His ex is the LEAST of what you should be worrying about 😒
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sweetpea2977
@sweetpea2977
6 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by dilettante
Posted by sweetpea2977

So... you're screwing an ex who HABITUALLY cheated on you in the past? 🤦 Where the hell does THAT make sense? Anything.....he puts you through NOW is COMPLETELY on you.

Suck it up buttercup because you went back in time and dug up an old, dusty bone. Why you'd choose to do that to yourself is beyond me. Let alone become a FWB. SMDH. His ex is the LEAST of what you should be worrying about 😒

lol can i ask your placements? i always luv your responses but dont even know your sun sign
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😂😂😂

I don't even know my placements 🙃 Never looked into it 🤷 Maybe, just maybe I should 🤔 Sag, nevertheless 😊

Found DXP over a year ago to look into an Aqua but fell hard for a Cancer 😍💘💋🔥

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sweetpea2977
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6 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by MareInfame

He habitually cheated on you... not sure why you decided to exhume this one out... he should have remained in his grave.

He doesn’t sound like he matured much. He’s not on same page as you.

Based on him bringing up the past about you cheating but not mentioning his doing nor willing to apologize and have accountability only tells me he’d have no qualms of doing it again.

Also... he sounds like a Scorpio from the gutter - I wouldn’t be surprised if he got back with you for revenge and even out his odds (meaning... he needs to destroy your ego again by treating you like crap so he can feel better about himself).


This! "He should have stayed in the grave!"

She thinks dude put her through some mess decades ago? Hmm. She's in for a rude awakening 😣
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sweetpea2977
@sweetpea2977
6 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by dilettante
Posted by sweetpea2977
Posted by dilettante
Posted by sweetpea2977

So... you're screwing an ex who HABITUALLY cheated on you in the past? 🤦 Where the hell does THAT make sense? Anything.....he puts you through NOW is COMPLETELY on you.

Suck it up buttercup because you went back in time and dug up an old, dusty bone. Why you'd choose to do that to yourself is beyond me. Let alone become a FWB. SMDH. His ex is the LEAST of what you should be worrying about 😒

lol can i ask your placements? i always luv your responses but dont even know your sun sign

😂😂😂

I don't even know my placements 🙃 Never looked into it 🤷 Maybe, just maybe I should 🤔 Sag, nevertheless 😊

Found DXP over a year ago to look into an Aqua but fell hard for a Cancer 😍💘💋🔥

lmao youve never done your chart??

sag sun, makes sense. your approach is so realistic, direct & no bullshit. wonder where your mercury is 🙃🙃🙃
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I'll see what I can do to find where my Mercury lies 🙂 Thank you 💙 And yes, direct truth is what we all need imo. I can't stand liars and bullshitters 🤷
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Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by sweetpea2977
Posted by dilettante
Posted by sweetpea2977

So... you're screwing an ex who HABITUALLY cheated on you in the past? 🤦 Where the hell does THAT make sense? Anything.....he puts you through NOW is COMPLETELY on you.

Suck it up buttercup because you went back in time and dug up an old, dusty bone. Why you'd choose to do that to yourself is beyond me. Let alone become a FWB. SMDH. His ex is the LEAST of what you should be worrying about 😒

lol can i ask your placements? i always luv your responses but dont even know your sun sign

😂😂😂

I don't even know my placements 🙃 Never looked into it 🤷 Maybe, just maybe I should 🤔 Sag, nevertheless 😊

Found DXP over a year ago to look into an Aqua but fell hard for a Cancer 😍💘💋🔥

I knew she was a fire sign! 😍😍 feisty ass lol
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🤣🤣🤣💙💙💙🔥🔥🔥
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sweetpea2977
@sweetpea2977
6 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by MareInfame
Posted by dilettante
Posted by sweetpea2977

So... you're screwing an ex who HABITUALLY cheated on you in the past? 🤦 Where the hell does THAT make sense? Anything.....he puts you through NOW is COMPLETELY on you.

Suck it up buttercup because you went back in time and dug up an old, dusty bone. Why you'd choose to do that to yourself is beyond me. Let alone become a FWB. SMDH. His ex is the LEAST of what you should be worrying about 😒

lol can i ask your placements? i always luv your responses but dont even know your sun sign

Me too! Love her comments 👏🏻👏🏻
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Posted by Leogirl27

So I’m a Leo woman and my Scorpio man is my ex from 20 years ago. We broke up in our 20’s. Now years later we reconnected. He reached out to me and I finally went to dinner with him. We decided on fwb but that kinda escalated to more. We were an unofficial couple but he damn sure acted like my man. Anyways this go round the sex is awesome and we get along but we argue a bit but mainly because he doesn’t want to open up or answer any major questions. One of the major issues we have is he is throwing my past in my face. When we were together the first time he constantly cheated and when we broke up his roommate told me he had a girl pregnant and he slept with other females. Well after some time I slept with the roommate. It was wrong and he was hurt and I have apologized a million times for. Well 20 years later he is still bringing this up and I’m frustrated. He hasn’t apologize for ever cheating on me or really acknowledging his fault in the story. I was willing to leave the past in the past but he doesn’t talk about it as much but we had an argument a few days ago that consisted of my last ex of 5 years. We used to live together and when I mentioned it he got so angry and started mentioning where did he sleep and where was his clothes and I felt attacked. I went off and told him he’s an hypocrite and I will not be judged about shit from the past or things that don’t affect him and then I told him to leave. Fast forward to yesterday I reached out trying to move past this. He didn’t want to talk. He did respond to a text and said I hurt him. I get it I do but I’m confused on why he’s so insecure and if it was an issue why reach out. He said he still loves me and always had over the years. But it confusing because his ex of 12 years still follows him on social media and she is in a club with him. He has unfollowed me on everything but I’m suppose to understand but he can’t move past my shit. I miss him. Idk what to do


Dump him.

End of story.