I think some people are just pure evil?

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I am a scorpio sun, capricorn moon and libra in venus

I consider myself extremely loyal in all of my relationships/friendships. The THOUGHT of cheating makes me feel sick! If i cheated on my boyfriend, i honestly don't think i could sleep at night, even if there was no chance of him ever finding out, the guilt would kill me.


I know that at the end of the day each person is different and someone's zodiac placements cant determine who a person is... but i know this girl, she is a scorpio sun, sagitarrius moon and libra in venus. her placements apart from moon are simular to mine.

ANYWAY, she is 22 and has been with her boyfriend who is a bit older for 6 years. she cheats on him consistently with another guy whom i also know, she is soooo extremely munipulative and sly and the boy she cheats on him with who is HEAD OVER HEELS for this girl and has been for the past 3 years. they regularly text eachother and when her boyfriend is away (every 2 weeks, for 2 weeks) they meet up etc. he KNOWS that she will never leave her boyfriend for him but he's so in love with her.

I've known her for a while and us two now clash because i find her very fake. She has a bubbly fun personality and gets along with everyone but I can see straight through it. She deserves a gold medal for being a horrible hearted person and how she can sleep peacefully at night knowing what she is doing, i will never understand.


sorry for the rant.

people like this deserve alot of karma.
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ok fine, evil is probably too strong of a word. but cheating on someone who loves her for the past 3-4 years whilst also telling this other guy that she loves him but cant be with him and then being able to sleep peacefully every single night and act like an innocent little angel to everyone else is

HORRIBLE!

i cant believe a scorp steals your keys? :/ thats scary haha
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Posted by scorpio24
ok fine, evil is probably too strong of a word. but cheating on someone who loves her for the past 3-4 years whilst also telling this other guy that she loves him but cant be with him and then being able to sleep peacefully every single night and act like an innocent little angel to everyone else is

HORRIBLE!




Hmm-- she's greedy.

Sounds like she enjoys drama-- that reads like a soap opera.





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Posted by scorpio24

22 is old enough to know what is EVIL and WRONG.

her age is not an excuse in my opinion




+1 Someone taught her to be deceptive, or she just simply grew up watching and learning. Upbringing.
I've never cheated, never will. The thought while with someone makes the stomach churn. In your first post you say she acts so kind and sweet..boy do I know what you mean. I am at the point in my life if I know people around me are doing this I ASK..how the f*ck can you do that and smile? With a dead point blank stare.
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Well just in the moon signs alone I can tell a difference.

Cap vs Sag. And I mean no disrespect to any Sag moons but most placements in Sag have a really hard time making a full time commitment to anything or anyone (esp Sun/Moon/Venus or Mars). I've made a few posts about Sag's having a hard time settling down.

But for now that has a little to do with it but also I don't think this girl has been burned enough yet. I know that it's frustrating seeing things like this go on with little to no repercussions. But there will be, it's just a matter of time.
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Scorpio24
"but i know this girl, she is a scorpio sun, sagitarrius moon and libra in venus. her placements apart from moon are simular to mine."

I have the same placements as your friend. I also have (Scorpio in Mars)I am 51. In my younger days I never thought about or wanted to cheat on any boyfriend I had and I still don't. It sickens me as well to think of ever cheating on someone that I am in a relationship with. Your friend is sowing her wild oats.
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I doubt he is in love with her. A situation like that has not LOVE in it. He is just co dependent and weak and mostly likely cheats in other ways. But on the surface no, so he can play victim and look like a hero who " puts up with this awful woman "

People like they purposely chose partners like that. And she chose him cause she knows she can get away with it.

This is obvious stuff come on now.
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Do you really think a " normal " person this " so claimed perfect loving boyfriend" she has, is really perfect if he chooses a mate like that?

There is no such thing as a relationships that dysfunctional having any " normal " people in it.


This is why scorpios are so bad at reading people. You see things like a child. Good or Bad. You don't get things are complex and so are humans. You base things off actions and words which is not how you get to know someone. People can lie through both.


You try and figure where they are mentally at and that will tell you everything.
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I'm not taking it so personally just felt the need to rant a bit and get your opinions on the scorp board. It just frustrates me how so many people of my friends/acquaintances are so blind to how she is really like! She lets OTHER boys (that we are both friends with) sleep in her and her boyfriends bed after a night on the town etc when the boyfriend is away even though she has SPARE mattress's and couches at her house!! I know this for a fact! She is just SOO flirty and she puts on the "I'm just really friendly and bubbly act" when really she just loves the attention! Now ill admit l, being a scorp sun and Venus libra I love attention too but I would NEVER EVER let another boy sleep in my bed! Even if nothing were to happen I think it's disrespectful to her boyfriend. It just sickens me, and her boyfriend is oblivious (or in denial?) to it all! Alot of people are beginning to catch on to what she is doing and how she is really like.. But it's almost as if everyone puts a blind eye to it because she's just sooooo "friendly to EVERYONE and fun" oh please, give me a break!!!

A few months ago I straight out told her what I think of her and that I think what she is doing is wrong, and have completely blocked her out of my life cause I could no longer act like I liked her when I really didn't. Lol ๐Ÿ™‚ also, I'm a massive believer of karma so there is no way I'm going to be the one who "tells everyone" everything she does cause I know it would make me look like a bitch but I can not wait until the day the truth comes out on its own. Not sure if it ever will though go be honest, she's incredibly smart with her little game.
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i'm prett over the years, people have exposed it to her boyfriend.. the thing is she is SO good at being manipulative, and he isnt the brightest crayon in the box compared to her. I know they already have their own issues regarding thec other guy. so at the end of the day if the boyfriend wants to act oblivious towards how she really is then thats their problem.

she just frustrates me.

i cant expose her, the karma will hit me like a ton of bricks and we have a huge group of mutual friends and i know it will be taken the wrong way.

there is a quote

"what sally says about susan says more about sally then it does susan"

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Reminds me of a friend of mine. Now deceased.

I introduced him to a girl and they clicked.... for a short time.
I then discovered her sitting on another mutual friend's lap at a bar.
I then left the bar and told my friend what I had observed and that
he should see this for himself. He did and that relationship came to
an quick end.

The girl and my other friend ended having a child and they got married.
I was the best man at their wedding. Albeit drunk as a skunk BEFORE the
wedding started. I hardly remember a thing.

It would be the last time I would ever introduce anyone I knew to anyone
else I knew.

Today, they have two kids. Lousy parents. And in spite of it, I feel slight
bit sorry for the guy. She wears the pants and he pitches a fit.
He's a little guy she a BIG woman. It's a sight to behold... trust me.
I stay as far away as I can.



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"but i know this girl, she is a scorpio sun, sagitarrius moon and libra in venus. her placements apart from moon are simular to mine. "

You know, how she was brought up and her moral values "may" differ from other women possessing the exact same
placements. I could be wrong. But I would be willing to give another the benefit of the doubt until she
proves me wrong. Also, we have to consider age and experiences. A young person may behave poorly while an older counterpart may have learned from her ways and overcomes those weaknesses.

Just a thought.
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I agree Mr F. My father used to say *you can forgive the young for their mistakes, which hopefully they learn from as they age*

It reminds me of young guys who sleep around in their teens and 20s only to find how meaningless it has become for them and they then begin to look for something deeper

We can be a little stupid when young




Your father's right.
And yes, we CAN be a little stupid when young.
Regarding sleeping around, I was an exception to the rule.
I'm kinda opposite of those gigolos. They may have problems finding something deeper,
whereas I have trouble finding something shallow. My problem is... I don't look for shallowness at all.
Instead, I'd searched and continue to search for that which is still deeper and far more meaningful.
I've gained much along the way, among which are material possessions but those things are a vanity
and vexation of spirit. Contrary to popular opinion, I have learned that happiness is not found in such
carnal wealth as such can yield much misery in their perpetual maintenance requirements.
The vanity of empires. Countless empires of such diverse wealth, might, knowledge and wisdom, fame, and security.
They are become as nothing and meaningless stones for the grave.
Indeed, mistakes.

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Is and TS, you both make some very good points.
Here are some thoughts I had when I read your comments (I am not sure exactly where I am going with it, if anywhere.

When I was a youngster everything I did, said, stood up for and believed in was based on what my 'tribe' or family taught me. As we grow older we will break away from the tribe and that mentality in order to spiritually awaken. As we do, our perceptions and interpretations of the "Rules" come up for question and debate. Deciding which are flawed, and which to keep. It seems to be in this phase where we come to a full understanding that people are in fact on their journey. The lessons they need to learn are being set up for them, or they are in the midst of learning them. It is hard to find fault with someone or consider it "Evil" when you know it's a lesson in the making.
My Family had ingrained in me such a complete and utter brainwashing about intimacy that it was not until later in life where I even allowed the thought to 'enjoy' it let alone understand that I was made for it. I can say this has definitely caused many struggles with my sexuality.

To the OP, I think that because you do not agree with how she lives her life is good enough reason to distance yourself. I also feel that judging others isn't good for you, personally, and that even if you do not agree, try to find some understanding that she is on her journey, just as you are.