~The Softer side~

I seen my Scorpio cry for the first time on Monday! I had to fight back tears of my own because it was hard to see him like that 😢 . We ventured out and went on a road trip I had to go see my father in the hospital and he wasn't doing well, I asked my Scorpio to come along for support and he didn't mind as he wanted to see my father too.

Before we left I decided to make a suggestion to make the trip about the both of us and not just me, I told him where we were going, was only going to be 4 1/2 hours from his kids and that we should go see them since he hadn't seen them since November on my birthday. At first he was excited then hours later he changed his mind then we just decided to go to where I needed to go then we would decide.

We made up our minds to go ahead and go see his kids! the look on their faces almost made me cry and the look on his face made me feel good that I kinda gave him a nudge to decide to go and see them it was a great time (minus a trip I had to make to the ER) when we left about an hour into the drive I had my hand on his leg and he was listening to music and singing I looked up at him and big tears began to roll down his face! I didn't know what to do or what to say all I did was rub his back and kissed his cheek.

He told me once we got home that he cries all the time just not around anyone, esp. not me because I'm supposed to see him as a tough man, I let him know it's ok to cry from time to time we are all human and have feelings and I understood why he was crying! I honestly felt a little closer to him.

He won't get to see his kids again till closer to June and they will be here all summer 🙂 but he did say we should go on more road trips, he kept saying "next time we should do this and that, take pictures and see more stuff"

I dont know about Scorpio men, but i know scorpio women are very soft & sensitive. I am.

Lucky you, your scorpio guy takes you to his kids. Mine is so secretive that he doesn't tell me anything. I am always wondering if he is serious about me or just playing around with my feelings.

@sweetscorp he's very protective of them and it took a while for him to let them be around me like that we've known each other for a little over 2 yrs but I feel good knowing he trusts me around them but then again he knows how I am around kids because I have 2 of my own.

@Jason- yes that's exactly how it is for him, their mother took them and moved a little over 6 hrs away and refuses to come back and is trying to make the kids think he doesn't care about them and they deserve a better dad, I want to ring her neck she is wourthless!!! but this is his battle all I can do is stand beside him and be there for him!

@stingerbaby- yes it's true the male scorpio's try their hardest to hide those emotions, I wanted to see his soft side but not like that not the hurt he feels, but he hugged me tight and thanked me for giving him the nudge because he said the long drive made him not want to go, he said if it weren't for me he wouldn't have went but he's glad he did and loved every minute of it! he's pretty comfortable around me but still keeps so secrets hidden but that's ok I still love him all the same.

Aw, that's so cute! I'm glad it turned out to be a good experience for the both of you.
My scorp ex cried all the time, so, just like people of other signs, there are sensitive ones.

@scenic- Ya I know all signs have some softies, I'm a big cry baby IDK why though I'm super sensitive which my scorp hates! but he's not mean about it, I see his eyes water like when he yawns or his allergies act up and it's like he's crying but it's not the same I actually seen his lip shaking and he didn't try to hide it but I wasn't trying to make him feel bad about doing it either! I just wish they were different kind of tears cause it hurt to see him drop them off and go from happy to sad.

Whenever a Scorpio weeps, for me it is the most heartbreaking scenario. I've known one before. Scorpio's are pretty tough. You won't ever see them cry unless they were really moved by such. Scorpio's tears for me are the most honest ones. They find it difficult to cry especially if with someone beside them no matter how special you are in his life.
A pretentious tear would be so impossible.