@miso
13 Years
Do you lead a double life?
Are Scorpios Known for Leading Double Lives
Some believe Scorpios may hide different aspects of their personality, balancing public personas with private lives. This duality can manifest as maintaining a composed exterior while experiencing intense emotions internally. However, not all Scorpios lead double lives, and personality varies widely among individuals.
I kinda of think that is more of a virgo thing (saintly appearance, sinful deeds) ... our glyphs are very similar. I just like to have a secret life, so maybe I have to have a facade for people who want to delve where they are not welcome. But not actually living a double life, if that makes sense
Really I haven't known very many Scorpio's who lead double lives- a lot of times the person we appear to be is very similar to the person we really are. I don't think I lead a double life, however I feel that inside I'm utterly more insane then I appear to be on the outside. I'm actually a very dark person most of the time- inside but not outwardly. I like to appear more bubbly than I really am though- it saves a lot of time where people would be asking me questions or wondering why I am the way I am. ....Or telling me I need a therapist.
I don't think I lead a double per say. I mean most people in public think I'm reserved and I'm not a quiet person. I just am listening/observing/learning all the time so I like hearing people talk.
Posted by miso
It has been said many times that Scorps lead double lives: one for the eyes of the world and another for themselves.I'm curious as to what extreme this has been taken for those who are willing to share.
Are you a preacher on Sunday, and a sinner on Monday?
Are you a kindergarten teacher during the day, and a wild exhibitionist at night?
Out with it 😛
sigh... My FORMER Scorp would tell me that he was fasting & praying one minute.. then he's posting on instagram what he's Rollin', Sippin' & Poppin' the next.. If that's not a double life I dont know what is.
Not a dual life really, more like compartmentalization. I have circles of friends that dont know each other.
Posted by MeowScorpii
Really I haven't known very many Scorpio's who lead double lives
They must've been really good at hiding it 😛
I understand what you mean by the whole "more insane than you appear to be on the outside"
I often think this about myself as well. I like to attribute that to my Mars in Aqua.. which I feel gives others a much lighter impression of me that is quite different from my wildly emotive deep-shade-of-carmine inner self. However, sometimes it's the exact opposite! People tend to assume I am a much more dark and sinister woman than I truly am on the inside.
I do sort of lead/have lead a double life in many ways. Y'know, the whole "daddys girl" at home, and then when the weekend arrived, I was out venturing into dark waters. I tell you, those were some mighty powerful and bizarre psyche altering experiences I had.
Posted by Djz05
Not a dual life really, more like compartmentalization. I have circles of friends that dont know each other.
^^ 1+.
For me there are 3 sets of friends
a)The ones who understand me well, we bond emotionally,i trust them with my innermost feelings
b)People I enjoy spending time with minus sharing feelings.
c)People I see very seldom,not too close but still friends of sorts.
With a)I am completely open,speak without inhibition and they know and see the real me.
With b)& c),I enjoy their company but don't reveal anything much about myself.
So,as Djz05 said,it is compartmentalization.
We ALL Compartmentalize...
TRUE Friends,
Social friends
Acquaintences
That doesn't explain a PERSONAL "Double life" though..
@Miso
"People tend to assume I am a much more dark and sinister woman than I truly am on the inside. "
Yes! I agree with this as well. I think naturally Scorpios are a combination of both extreme light and extreme dark which may lead people to believe that we are split in two. Which isn't that case- with us light and dark work in unison to a point which we really can't define nor can anyone else who knows or observes us. Whether we're a sweetheart at home and out doing naughty things on the weekend- or treading in dark waters else where, deep in our personal life. The sweetheart and sinister work in unison- not split but two parts of the same whole.
In result of our nature we're inclined to live our lives along the pattern of our many extremes.
Posted by MellyMel
Of what?You're jealous because I'm not complimenting you. But you have to give me something to look at baby. So get to work getting me some sexy pics to look at, and I'll give you my final verdict.
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Are you trying to act like a pig? Ooorr...?
No one puts pictures on this website so you can have something to look at, get over yourself please.
I suppose it was awfully mean, don't even wanna know
@mellymel
hahahah oh my goodness- those are hysterical.
Posted by NovemberSun
Double in the sense that only a select few know my depth of intensity...
^^^^This.
T' Fucka outta here. You sound like a hoe. Scorpio women dream their entire lifes for the chance to be pleasured by a Virgo. Does it make you mad that you spend all your time and effort with Scorpio women to be shot down, when a Virgo like me doesn't have to try and have Scorp chicks all on my dick? Sucks to be you I guess.
Funny you should say that, since the man she is taken by... is me.
And aren't you the one who said, you couldn't bag a Scorpio woman?
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OOOoo THAT's what I'm TALKING about!!! Scorpio taking Possession and CLAIM!!!..NO better feeling in this LIFE!
T' Fucka outta here. You sound like a hoe. Scorpio women dream their entire lifes for the chance to be pleasured by a Virgo. Does it make you mad that you spend all your time and effort with Scorpio women to be shot down, when a Virgo like me doesn't have to try and have Scorp chicks all on my dick? Sucks to be you I guess.
Funny you should say that, since the man she is taken by... is me.
And aren't you the one who said, you couldn't bag a Scorpio woman?
OOOoo THAT's what I'm TALKING about!!! Scorpio taking Possession and CLAIM!!!..NO better feeling in this LIFE!
Oh please, get off of his dick.
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His is already taken hun.. READING is elementary. 😉
Posted by miso
It has been said many times that Scorps lead double lives: one for the eyes of the world and another for themselves.I'm curious as to what extreme this has been taken for those who are willing to share.
Are you a preacher on Sunday, and a sinner on Monday?
Are you a kindergarten teacher during the day, and a wild exhibitionist at night?
Out with it 😛
No, but I used to pull doubles all over the US.
Does that count?
Mr. Defense, you do not belong here.
If you so wish to be insulting and rude, please do so on home turf, your home turf on the Virgo Board. Do not barge in here with the expectation that you could disrespect us in whichever way you want.
Learn to be the gentleman Virgo that you are, or leave.
Capisce?
Well Done Dazed.
LOL @ 😆implez
What's there to want?? a beastly, ego inflated creature hiding behind a computer??..lol
speaking of SENSITIVE..go cry after your taurus.
Posted by TAURUSbelle
speaking of SENSITIVE..go cry after your taurus.I'm actually already over her. Even made a thread about being over her on the Taurus board. But there is a big difference between catching emotions for someone you've been able to touch, feel, and see and being sensitive about internet post.
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happy for you.
Posted by Pecheresse
Virgos are known for their annoying quest for perfection, and their annoying practical ways. Nothing really charismatic.I bet I can change that view in just a few short hours.
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There is nothing charismatic about a disrespectful man, if he feels he could go run his mouth off here on the internet. He will most likely do so in real life as well.
A bitter Virgo, I wonder how women will contend with you in the near future.
To Miso, sorry for de-railing your thread there
Not a problem 🙂 I'm sure it can recover from what happened here tonight. Isssa strong thread! Grrr!
Posted by Pecheresse
Virgos are known for their annoying quest for perfection, and their annoying practical ways. Nothing really charismatic.I bet I can change that view in just a few short hours.
There is nothing charismatic about a disrespectful man, if he feels he could go run his mouth off here on the internet. He will most likely do so in real life as well.
A bitter Virgo, I wonder how women will contend with you in the near future.
To Miso, sorry for de-railing your thread there
Yeah, has to really piss off people like you when I constantly succeed doesn't it? The world I live in is the world I strive in. I live in reality, while you dumb Scorps continiously live in a fantasy world. That is the reason why you always have a disadvantage.
Like DazedScorp, I mean it's entertaining how delusional he is. Maybe if I die from my plane trip tomorrow, I'll die and be resurrected in the world you people are living in.
I didn't have to say that, but I would have never been able to live with myself if I allowed you to have the last word
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Oh my, Virgo men and their last word.
Hahaha, if it comforts your already bruised ego, then so be it.
Since you cannot be the gentleman then I will be the lady, to compensate your rude behavior.
A good day to you, Mr.Defense.
Posted by miso
Not a problem 🙂 I'm sure it can recover from what happened here tonight. Isssa strong thread! Grrr!You're welcome by the way
Welcome for what?
Is she really supposed to thank you for your disrespect?
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Dazed, just leave him be. He does not deserve the words of any Scorpio here.
Let him wallow in the grave which he has dug for himself.
Here 🙂 and (hugs) from another fellow Scorp.
e the subject but.....
Posted by miso
It has been said many times that Scorps lead double lives: one for the eyes of the world and another for themselves.I'm curious as to what extreme this has been taken for those who are willing to share.
Are you a preacher on Sunday, and a sinner on Monday?
Are you a kindergarten teacher during the day, and a wild exhibitionist at night?
Out with it 😛
No, but I used to pull doubles all over the US.
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Does it make you mad that you spend all your time and effort with Scorpio women to be shot down... Sucks to be you I guess.
Funny you should say that, since the man she is taken by... is me.
Nice jump shot!
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He shoots, he scores 😉
Does it make you mad that you spend all your time and effort with Scorpio women to be shot down... Sucks to be you I guess.
Funny you should say that, since the man she is taken by... is me.
Nice jump shot!
He shoots, he scores 😉
So you're the mystery VinS lady? I remember you posted a video on that "How to Talk Dirty Correctly" thread that made me howl with laughter.
Nice to officially meet you. 🙂
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Yes yes, that stand-up snippet is a hoot! Nice to officially meet you as well, gum 🙂
Posted by NovemberSun
I just recently learned about the slang for DSL...I have to say that I find that so disrespectful. Would someone say that to a woman to their face? If not, no matter...its just as disrespectful online.
I just looked it up. Lately I've been ignoring MD posts, so I didn't even read it. This is why. I totally agree.
I also hate the term DSL. I don't see how it could be construed as a compliment by any female, it's just offensive. Like treating a beautiful feature on a woman as an object meant for male pleasure. Rather than respecting a beautiful thing when a male see's it- he is convinced it exists for his pleasure, THAT'S delusional. It's annoying- plain and simple.
But as I said before- I don't think Scorpio's typically lead double lives. We are who we are, we just have many different layers to our personalities. Our lives sort of fluctuate along with the light and dark sides of our psyche. Not really something we can help- extreme lights and darks are a big part of who we are, pieces of a whole.
Posted by TAURUSbelle
We ALL Compartmentalize...TRUE Friends,
Social friends
AcquaintencesThat doesn't explain a PERSONAL "Double life" though..
A more elaborate explanation would be more befitting
My previous post was related to double lives for the world.
Part 2-Personal double life
I have been out riding a bike all night with friends and have attended academic conferences next morning,enjoyed both equally.
So for me its more of a mix of disparate activities which might be perceived as a 'double life'.
Posted by tiziani
Tip my hat to Dazed. A Scorpio and a Gentleman. That's a double life right there, to get right back on topic.
100^infinity +
Posted by Mr. Defense
If she's a Scorpio, then it's ok, she doesn't have any feelings. And if she did, they wouldn't be hurt, because Scorpio women exist to be validated and acknowledged by Virgos. That's like astrology 101.Scorpio women need not be validated by anyone but themselves.
and yes... Scorpio women do have feelings. Rather strong feelings. And ones that should be treated with respect and offered a caring emotional love in return.
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woman say they want a sweet and caring man, but in reality, they need a man who isn't afraid to cross the line, with charisma and a big dick like Mr. defense. So i don't agree with this thread saying Mr. defense is disrespecting woman. Of course , I am only speaking from my personal experience. I seen alot of sweet and caring man getting friendzoned and not getting laid, so meh. This thread just prove woman's hyprocrasy by trying to potray Mr. defense to look like an idiot.
Posted by Mr. Defense
Scorpios just take themselves too seriously. Big whiners and cry babies.
So a Scorp woman broke your heart, get over it.
You all called Mr. defense rude, well i ask you, do you want to date a normal guy who is sweet and sensitive, or Tony Stark? You need men like us to rescue you from the mundane life of everyday reality.
Posted by red_aries
woman say they want a sweet and caring man, but in reality, they need a man who isn't afraid to cross the line, with charisma and a big dick like Mr. defense. So i don't agree with this thread saying Mr. defense is disrespecting woman. Of course , I am only speaking from my personal experience. I seen alot of sweet and caring man getting friendzoned and not getting laid, so meh. This thread just prove woman's hyprocrasy by trying to portray Mr. defense to look like an idiot.
There's a difference between having confidence and charisma and being a rude asshole. And usually men who are extremely crude towards men are the one's with tiny penis's- girls go for them, not real women who have respect for themselves. Women like gentlemen- men who treat us like ladies and not objects who they can throw disrespectful phrases at and insults. Insulting behavior does not make us want to sleep with a man- you're incorrect. A strong, charismatic, self confident man is always nice, but he needs to be respectful. YOU are right that in most cases sweet and dainty men get friend-zoned- but cocky rude guys who throw around impertinent degrading words will get BLACKLISTED by most females especially Scorpio females. Men who are STRONG, respectful, mature, and gentlemanly will however receive the chance to talk to us.
If men start thinking that being arrogant, brazen and offensive will make women want to sleep with them they will never get laid. Ever.
This is more likely to happen with virgos............there always claiming to be ladies in the streets and freaks in the sheets; a spade is still a spade, though. scorpios know this so why try so hard to hide it. plus, scorps are not afraid to rock the boat; nor confrontations.
Posted by Pecheresse
where is that vid? lol
Daaaaarling! *channel my inner Wendy Williams* How you doin'?
If men start thinking that being arrogant, brazen and offensive will make women want to sleep with them they will never get laid. Ever.
Yeah, I know women are just lining up for miles on end to give up the pussy to nice guys. I'm not a bad ass, but any guy can recognize there are some major inconsistencies in what women claim they want, and what they actually react to in real life. No woman, or very FEW women will just flat out say they want a lot of drama, but they generally do. When you have 'emotional' women like Scorpios, they strive on drama. So I really call bullshit on that. Again, women are about sounding good, but this isn't how most women think. Again, there is a way women "want to be", but there is also instinct, and a woman will simply "react" and "respond" to things or certain types of men. I could really care less, as I take no interest in women who cannot only recongnize their emotions, but are far from the path of controlling them. A woman who can't control her emotions is certainly not attractive or sexy in my book. And I think any woman who peddles around high and gradiose ideology is the woman probably not living in reality.
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You may think you know a lot about women, I understand that. Perhaps you've experienced irrational and whiny Scorpio women in your life but you can't let that represent all of us. I promise you, I mean I really do promise that I know more about what women want, and even subconsciously want. I am one.
" No woman, or very FEW women will just flat out say they want a lot of drama, but they generally do. When you have 'emotional' women like Scorpios, they strive on drama."
"Again, there is a way women "want to be", but there is also instinct, and a woman will simply "react" and "respond" to things or certain types of men. "
What you seem to be describing in these statements is a female with the mental capacity of an adolescent girl. Reacting before thinking, thriving on drama, not knowing what's good for them, going after the wrong kind of men. You're correct, naive girls do go for rude and brazen men who do not care enough to respect them. Which is exactly what (judging from your behavior) you've been attracting- females with the mindset of a teenage girl. You are taking what y
(cut me off.)
You are taking what you've learned from those mentally undeveloped females and projecting your impressions on women. Women have been through stages in their lives where they've made bad choices, they do not thrive on drama- in fact they absolutely loathe it and realize that an easy going relationship will truly make them happy. When a man is rude to a true woman- she will not "throw her pussy at him", but turn her head the other way and ignore him for the rest of existence.
Everything that you've just told me has proven that by acting the way you do, you've been attracting very unstable, insecure, and juvenile-minded females. If you were to be kinder and more respectful- your views on what women want would truly change. Some of us have learned enough about ourselves to know what kind of man is good for us, and which kind to show the door. Mr.Defense, I'm not trying to make you feel bad about yourself - just educate you, you're probably a good person. I hope you can take what I'm saying into consideration.
"This is not necessarily related to security, age or maturity but just part of their genetic and mental makeup."
That's true and I can't deny it, some people will always be that way. What I'm trying to say, is by being disrespectful he's not attracting emotionally stable women- but rather one's who always look for drama, the kind he says he doesn't like.
What I'm trying to get across is that unless he comes up with a new strategy for attracting women, the drama queens will always come running towards him- and the ones who seek happiness and stability will look the other way. 🙂
Scorpio women are a pleasure to be around. You just have to ignore half of the emotively driven nonsense that spews past their brain, which should otherwise act as a filter. If you can master this you can be friends with Scorpio.
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It has been said many times that Scorps lead double lives: one for the eyes of the world and another for themselves.
I'm curious as to what extreme this has been taken for those who are willing to share.
Are you a preacher on Sunday, and a sinner on Monday?
Are you a kindergarten teacher during the day, and a wild exhibitionist at night?
Out with it 😛