In love with a Male Scorpio and need love advice..

I am a Libra woman that met a Scorpio mam 3 years ago. Throughout the time, we opened up and would talk, laugh and joke even about dumb stuff. He has been through the same type relationships as myself and just put his heart into work. I got out of a bad relationship a year ago, then fell hard for my friend about a month ago. I believe he feels the same.i wrote him a sweet letter letting him know my interest yet want him To have the time to absorb the info. I also explained that I don't do this ever.. We have so much in common and our conversations just flow with no effort. I believe I am falling in love with him.. any ideas when he will call me or text me about the letter? He is also shy.he has been checking me out and I would catch him looking when he thinks I am not looking. Please help me. What now?

mylife123: see scorpio men like honesty which you have depicted by writing your feelings in the letter..
and yes to answer your question that whether he 'll call or not depends on whether he feels the same way as you do and if he does then he'll defo call you.. Don't harass him with this question otherwise he'll get snappy and run away from you...

But keep this in mind if he thinks you're the one then he will chase/call and stop at nothing to get you..(like a heat seeking missile..)

You have made the effort.. now just wait for the reply.. 🙂

and ya one more that hing you can NEVER make a SCORPIO fall in love with you unless he thinks that you are defo the woman of his dreams..

Posted by mylife123
I am a Libra woman that met a Scorpio mam 3 years ago. Throughout the time, we opened up and would talk, laugh and joke even about dumb stuff. He has been through the same type relationships as myself and just put his heart into work. I got out of a bad relationship a year ago, then fell hard for my friend about a month ago. I believe he feels the same. i wrote him a sweet letter letting him know my interest yet want him To have the time to absorb the info. I also explained that I don't do this ever.. We have so much in common and our conversations just flow with no effort. I believe I am falling in love with him.. any ideas when he will call me or text me about the letter? He is also shy.he has been checking me out and I would catch him looking when he thinks I am not looking. Please help me. What now?

Perhaps just wait until he can responds (since you claim that's what you want to do)?

.....I'm already sensing there will be an issue. You seem to be putting a lot of expectations on your friend.

I am no longer making any moves. Do I not go see him? Should I just lay low? I only thought he needed to know where my emotions were at. I am not in a big hurry.. it's the "not knowing" that is hard.. I will wait as long as he needs. I know Scorpios are sensitive and secretive.. What should I watch for?

It wasn't a month in.. we have been friends for 3 years. I just realized my feelings were getting this serious about a month ago and felt he needed to know.

Posted by mylife123
It wasn't a month in.. we have been friends for 3 years. I just realized my feelings were getting this serious about a month ago and felt he needed to know.

Then that's all you can do is wait. I think men (and I hope we are talking about MEN, not boys) have more to deal with in getting into a relationship -- you know, man stuff. So when the woman initiates and he doesn't have himself together as he would want, he backs off. It may not be because he doesn't like you, but because he isn't ready. If he were ready, he probably would have approached you.

Yes.. he is older and has a business. Been through 2 bad relationships, as I have as well. Thanks for the tip..I also heard that Scorpio men take the time to check out their potential mate as well. I would hope that if he weren't interested at all, he would have called or texted me to say so.. So I am hoping that no news is good news when it is from a Scorpio.

He also makes little corny cute jokes with me..

Posted by mylife123
I would hope that if he weren't interested at all, he would have called or texted me to say so.. So I am hoping that no news is good news when it is from a Scorpio.

Well, one can hope I guess, but that isn't how we work. Silence can mean a million different things. I would think that if someone I cared about deeply confessed feelings for me I'd be all over them before they could finish their last sentence, but that's just me.

So, if I understand this correctly, you expect silence from your potential partner when you allow yourself to be vulnerable to them? I'm not trying to be snarky, just pointing out that if this is how he deals with things, you may want to take note that this will be an issue going forward. Whatever the reason for his silence (busy, not ready for a relationship, watching tv, etc.), as pathfinder stated, if he were ready he would have approached you and not wait 3 years and a confesssion later.

I do not want silence.. not at all, however, for 2 years of the 3, I was in a relationship and maybe he wonders If I am truly ready.. I would totally want him to just grab me and do what Scorpios do best. Lol. My intentions are true with him and I love and understand his sensitivity, sweetness and busy life. What more could he want?

@mylife123, all you can do is wait. But if I were you, I wouldn't wait forever. For my own peace of mind, I would have to set some limits so I can get some closure on this. Whether he answers me or not. Either way, I (not him) will have control over myself through this process and beyond it.

Well, it's been a week and I haven't heard from him. But I went to the gas station by his work and tried keeping him from seeing me so I didn't look like I was stalking him or needy. Haha. But when I went to leave. He came outside (for something) and asked me how I was doing. I was one the phone with my boss and I waved. I don't know how to take that? Unless he is the kind of guy to wait until he sees me again in person to discuss it. I would hope he would have

Let me know if he absolutely wasn't interested. And when he flirts with me, he always offers me his food.

I had our birth chart and daily horoscope done and I stated I would be falling hard in love and lots of sex. Haha and his said he was attracted to someone with strong personality but his timing was temporarily off. But he seems more comfortable and sweet to.me. today when I left his work, he handled hos customer then made sure he gave me his attention as I was leaving.