phantasmagoria
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13 YearsPisces
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Is there a possibility of friendship?
P.S. I'm new here. This is my birth chart in case you're curious:
sun: pisces
moon: aries
rising: leo
mercury: aries
venus: aries
mars: gemini
jupiter: leo
saturn: aquarius
uranus:capricorn
neptune: capricorn
pluto: scorpio
N. node: capricorn
sun: pisces
moon: aries
rising: leo
mercury: aries
venus: aries
mars: gemini
jupiter: leo
saturn: aquarius
uranus:capricorn
neptune: capricorn
pluto: scorpio
N. node: capricorn
Possible to try; low possibility to work.
That would likely complicate things A LOT more.
That would likely complicate things A LOT more.
Are you intrigued or something?
Posted by IntriguedScorpPosted by SkiesAfire
Are you intrigued or something?
Honey, when a Scorp and Fish meet there is always intrigue. 😉click to expand
That was meant as pun intention.😛
Intrigued: You're right I do like him. I mentioned that in my post. You're also right about the fiery influence. I always bite off more than I can chew. I've rationalized the situation though and come up with this.
1. It ends in a relationship. This is out of the question since he said he's not ready to commit and based on what I know about him I agree.
2. FWB. This is the alternative that is most likely to occur based on past actions. It's also the alternative that I've decided to reject. I would just start liking him more and I wouldn't ever be open when meeting anyone else.
3. We become just friends. I favor this because when we're together we communicate so well and it would be a shame to let go of someone who really gets you. I have a very small inner circle of friends and it's rare to meet someone who I like enough to join in can join in. I'm mostly indifferent to everyone I meet.
4. It ends completely. This is most likely going to happen.
As for the 'deed', it was good for a first time. It always tends to get better with practice. My personal opinion, however, is that he has conflicting views toward sex. One thing he said to me was "You like someone and then you sleep with them but what comes after?" My guess is that it's a result of several such relationships without feelings involved at all. Plus he's been the guy that a few girls have cheated on their boyfriends with, so I don't think he trusts girls that much.
1. It ends in a relationship. This is out of the question since he said he's not ready to commit and based on what I know about him I agree.
2. FWB. This is the alternative that is most likely to occur based on past actions. It's also the alternative that I've decided to reject. I would just start liking him more and I wouldn't ever be open when meeting anyone else.
3. We become just friends. I favor this because when we're together we communicate so well and it would be a shame to let go of someone who really gets you. I have a very small inner circle of friends and it's rare to meet someone who I like enough to join in can join in. I'm mostly indifferent to everyone I meet.
4. It ends completely. This is most likely going to happen.
As for the 'deed', it was good for a first time. It always tends to get better with practice. My personal opinion, however, is that he has conflicting views toward sex. One thing he said to me was "You like someone and then you sleep with them but what comes after?" My guess is that it's a result of several such relationships without feelings involved at all. Plus he's been the guy that a few girls have cheated on their boyfriends with, so I don't think he trusts girls that much.
Posted by IntriguedScorpPosted by SkiesAfirePosted by IntriguedScorpPosted by SkiesAfire
Are you intrigued or something?
Honey, when a Scorp and Fish meet there is always intrigue. 😉
That was meant as pun intention.😛
I know. How do you think I got my name? LOL
How are you Skies? Still being darkly adorable?click to expand
Oh, you know...
Yes😉
And how are you? HM?
Thank you all. You've given me a lot to think about. For now I won't rush into any decision. 🙂
Posted by IntriguedScorpPosted by SkiesAfire
And how are you? HM?
I am quite HM, thank you for asking! 😛
(not that I know what HM means or anything lol)click to expand
Y U always lie to me? hm?
Yah
Look how much time you've spent on here this morning, DeludedScorpio .... you carried on for page after page about how you must fend for the entire family now, and make all the arrangements to save the family (which of course is a lie since you're the bastard and have zero say-so in any matter) ....
..... I'm unclear how you have time to come here and post at all.
Rest assured, I will remind you at every turn how busy you are and don't have time to be here since you've got to be the hero in your head .... somebody has to keep reminding you to honor yourself.
:::: sighs :::::
You have so much to do .... I guess the first thing you need to do is to go to his wife and explain to her that you're going to take her belongings .. she needs to know that you've decided she's going to be destitude.
..... I'm unclear how you have time to come here and post at all.
Rest assured, I will remind you at every turn how busy you are and don't have time to be here since you've got to be the hero in your head .... somebody has to keep reminding you to honor yourself.
:::: sighs :::::
You have so much to do .... I guess the first thing you need to do is to go to his wife and explain to her that you're going to take her belongings .. she needs to know that you've decided she's going to be destitude.
Posted by LadyScorpP
.... mother knows nothing about the business and neither do I.
You mean the business that your sperm donor and his wife and children own?
You make it sound like you are of super importance to the situation .. over the top, like a Scorpio.
The reality is .... you, nor your mother have anything to do with his life, expect for being the collectors of child support.
Posted by LadyScorpP
Now, of course 'everything' in my future must be put on stall ....
.. because child support will stop, so there won't be anyone to pay for your career as a student.
Posted by LadyScorpP
..... who knows how much the medical bills will costs us ....
click to expand
You aren't included in the "us" ... so it won't cost you anything.
I AM CORNHOLIO! I need TP for my Bunghole!
Pat Attention to ME! I will stalk you from thread to thread and MAKE you pay attention to me, little Scorpio!
I have to, it's the only attention I get since my old man obviously refuses to put up with me and my shit!
Hatefully yours,
P-Angel
Pat Attention to ME! I will stalk you from thread to thread and MAKE you pay attention to me, little Scorpio!
I have to, it's the only attention I get since my old man obviously refuses to put up with me and my shit!
Hatefully yours,
P-Angel
Posted by bluemoon9043834
Omfg, lmfao! ^^^^ That is the best mock profile on Dxpnet... oh shit, I am howling. My sides hurt from laughing so much...
You are laughing because you SUCK! If DXP Posters would just stop sucking so much, I would not have to continually post my little steaming brown nuggets of wisdom for your betterment!
OP,
Maybe your scorp is afraid of commitment, not because he doesn't want to be tied down, but maybe because he is simply scared of love? I just find it interesting he was asking you about your intentions after sleeping with him, before sleeping with you (is that right?) that would indicate his worry that you might sleep with him and not follow through with any interaction afterwards, which seems to be where your aimed. It also seems to indicate that he takes things quite seriously with women.. Whether or not he can "commit"
I understand you both have certain wants for a relationship, but what's wrong with being attracted to someone and simply seeing where it ends up? I get the logic behind cutting things off because you'd rather not get attached and THEN have to deal with your differences in what you expect in a relationship, but you will never know what could come of this pairing if you never give it *any* chance.
I was with my scorp for like 9 months before we ever discussed that we were each others BF/GF. When I first started hanging with him he told me he wasn't looking fir a girlfriend, that he didn't need one. Well, when things are right between two people, lots of pre conceived ideals, or whatever, go right out the window,
Idk, sorry if my response is scattered. Just pointing out a few things I thought when reading your post. It's hard to say if any of what I said really applies though, since I, obviously, don't know either of you beyond what youve written.
I m a Pisces too btw.
And also, you're very pretty. I had an idea you were a pisces, because of your eyes, before I ever saw your placements. just thought I'd say :p
Maybe your scorp is afraid of commitment, not because he doesn't want to be tied down, but maybe because he is simply scared of love? I just find it interesting he was asking you about your intentions after sleeping with him, before sleeping with you (is that right?) that would indicate his worry that you might sleep with him and not follow through with any interaction afterwards, which seems to be where your aimed. It also seems to indicate that he takes things quite seriously with women.. Whether or not he can "commit"
I understand you both have certain wants for a relationship, but what's wrong with being attracted to someone and simply seeing where it ends up? I get the logic behind cutting things off because you'd rather not get attached and THEN have to deal with your differences in what you expect in a relationship, but you will never know what could come of this pairing if you never give it *any* chance.
I was with my scorp for like 9 months before we ever discussed that we were each others BF/GF. When I first started hanging with him he told me he wasn't looking fir a girlfriend, that he didn't need one. Well, when things are right between two people, lots of pre conceived ideals, or whatever, go right out the window,
Idk, sorry if my response is scattered. Just pointing out a few things I thought when reading your post. It's hard to say if any of what I said really applies though, since I, obviously, don't know either of you beyond what youve written.
I m a Pisces too btw.
And also, you're very pretty. I had an idea you were a pisces, because of your eyes, before I ever saw your placements. just thought I'd say :p
Yeah my initial plan was just to go with it, but then I started questioning myself. Thanks for the encouragement. I'll see how it goes.
LouLore: Nice to meet another pisces 🙂
LouLore: Nice to meet another pisces 🙂
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