
OvS
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Posted by xxnightbynightPosted by OvS
Since I've dated a one, but I'm going nuts after a Scorpio girl. Like she has this magnet that absorbs me. Hasn't happened this to me since I can't remember.
I've done a synastry chart and her NN conjuncts my descendant and mine hers. A double whammy.
I know that she likes me and she might feel the same cuz yesterday we met for a lemonade and her hand was shaking.
I don;t know if I should take it easy or go deep. I think you could help me out.
Mr. Aries! It's funny you're attracted to Scorpios. I am VERY attracted to Scorpios. 😉
Good luck... O:-)click to expand




Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
i knew this would happen one day OvS, lol....you know that resistance is futile when it comes to scorpio and aries 😛
her hand was shaking cos she wants you. i do that....and my aries daughter says i do a strange 'jelly strut' when walking past the object of my desire. it's a pain in the ass really. you should at least be grateful she wasn't holding her drink near you when her hand was shaking, lol...otherwise you would've been wearing it! i've done that before hahahaha!!
i agree with the above advice of you just being yourself. just enjoy getting to know eachother and stick to lemonade for the next few dates, lol......do NOT let whiskey pass your lips you hear me??
she's a very lucky scorp! 🙂

Posted by ScorpSuperior
""I don't need luck, I make my own. I need patience. 🙂))""
For me, the admiration is mutual. 🙂 My best friend is an Aries. My dad is a super-Aries. He annoys the hell outta me, but I'm his favorite gal, and he's my favorite guy. 🙂
I guess I've just always felt this sense of undying loyalty between me and all the Aries in my life. Like we'll always be there for eachother and defend one another fiercely. The loyalty piece I also feel strongly with my Tauruses, but the willingness to go to battle on one another's behalf I've mostly experienced with my Aries folks. I feel safe with Aries- while everyone else in my life, I feel like it's my duty to shield from harm.

Posted by OvSPosted by ScorpSuperior
""I don't need luck, I make my own. I need patience. 🙂))""
For me, the admiration is mutual. 🙂 My best friend is an Aries. My dad is a super-Aries. He annoys the hell outta me, but I'm his favorite gal, and he's my favorite guy. 🙂
I guess I've just always felt this sense of undying loyalty between me and all the Aries in my life. Like we'll always be there for eachother and defend one another fiercely. The loyalty piece I also feel strongly with my Tauruses, but the willingness to go to battle on one another's behalf I've mostly experienced with my Aries folks. I feel safe with Aries- while everyone else in my life, I feel like it's my duty to shield from harm.
2 out of my 3 best friends are scorpios.click to expand

Posted by Let*It*Be
"So do you think I should play it cool a while or should I push things further. I had problems in the past when I went too far too quick and I treetrunked it up.
I'm Aries btw. I have problems with slow motion."
Hi OVS 🙂 It's sweet that you are feeling this Scorp bad. I think you should follow her lead just alittle, if you sense she is into you as much as you are with her, then just melt her heart with that vibrant, upbeat personality you guys are blessed with. You don't have to move so fast on a physical plane...move along on the mental plane
I met her last Thursday. I finished my salsa lessons and went to my fav pub to talk to a friend of mine. She came there hosting for a cigarette brand.(where I live it's something usual when they want to promote a new brand). She's a smart girl, med student.
She was easy target. She came to me to present the brand and I guessed her sun sign and her rising. That knocked her off. 🙂))



Posted by xxnightbynight
Patience... lol yes... if there's one thing a Scorpio can teach you... it's patience. 🙂












Posted by OvS
well...I wanted to pay but she insisted.

Posted by kalin
I'd prefer the guy take care of the bill though :p
I've never paid for a date in my life, but I do pay for my guy friends sometime 😛


Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
i always insist on paying on early dates. i hate that feeling of being paid for as there's usually an expectation attached to it.




Posted by OvS
I don't mind girls paying. 😛


Posted by kalin
I'd prefer the guy take care of the bill though :p

Posted by OvS
Why's that. She insisted. So..ok...fine with me, if you want the balls take them. If you can handle them.


Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by kalin
I'd prefer the guy take care of the bill though :p
She gets a reading, he gets a drink. The Aries was just being playful. I get where he's coming from. He scored more points by busting her balls some than if he had just played it safe.click to expand

Posted by DMV
when she comes back, start taking the tab. then see how jittery she gets because she cant steamroll u anymore.




Posted by DMVPosted by OvS
Why's that. She insisted. So..ok...fine with me, if you want the balls take them. If you can handle them.
but look where it led. to you having to have a sit down with her about her treatment of you. if u had paid for the drinks, that would never have happened. it would have been some other bs test to feel you out.
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Posted by enfant_terrible
Example. I had a "work-related" dinner with a Scorp colleague a while ago. She knows very well what I'm about and that I'm quite old-fashioned about certain things, so there were no uncertainties - the dinner was on me. But for whatever reason, she insisted on paying for it. Usually I won't even hear about it, usually it's just polite-talk, but I knew when I looked at her that she meant it. End of story. It was as if there was some sense of gratefulness in her gesture, I don't know for what, but that's what it felt like.
I didn't insist of insisting further... insisting too much can turn a beautiful thing between men and women into something quite uncomfortable... ugly, even. I let it go the moment she said, "You'll take it the next time", which of course brought a promise of a next time. She knew I wasn't gonna let it slip. Also, it shows that I'm secure in my masculinity and that it isn't reduced to what I have in my wallet. Further insisting and bitching about it would indicate the opposite.
There, a minute-by-minute account of when, why and how it is OK for a man to ease the grip off his balls every once in a while.
Epilogue. The next time we worked the late shift together I took her to the same restaurant. The final tab for the evening exceeded like twice what she paid for our dinner, and so there I was, back in my right element! She insisted on at least paying for the wine, but I wouldn't hear about it. She insisted again, so I physically pushed her away from the counter (in a playful manner of course 😛 ) and that was that.
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I've done a synastry chart and her NN conjuncts my descendant and mine hers. A double whammy.
I know that she likes me and she might feel the same cuz yesterday we met for a lemonade and her hand was shaking.
I don;t know if I should take it easy or go deep. I think you could help me out.