Jojo

Seriously? Why?

Well the thing is, I'm not so sure the man is willing to take her back. He broke up with her, you see.

He broke up with her because she slept with another man. Her guilt lead her to a confession and the man was acting a little out of line. Although unerstandable, he was a tad excessive but I musn't go into detail. She is a couple years younger than I and I feel like a father to her. Perhapps letting him go is the best option but I will certainlyt bring your advice up to her. Is it possible she just needs a proper outlet?

There must be something she can do to relieve the stress, though. I suggested drinking or suicide as a joke but she was less than amused. Put yourself in her position and tell me what would be a good idea for this?

It is apparent she wants to be close to someone. It is hard for me to speak of my friend like this, but does not have very high self-esteem. I find it heartbreaking she would consider spending a night at my house (with my knowing her fullest intentions) to get that feeling of closeness at the risk of a friendship. When I tell her that is not in her best intrests, she can only feel anger rather than trying to see the bigger picture.

I must have bored you. Sleep well, irishlibra. Thank you for the advice, which I will put into action soon enough.