just shows you how ridiculous we are!!!!

There's this cancerian guy who's been in hot pursuit of me since being the man who moved me to my new house two weeks ago. he's also painted my daughter's room (i paid him for both things of course cos that's what he does, lol). we've also seen quite a bit of him....well, almost every day in fact...as he's shown me and my daughter where things are and acted like a tour guide to our new area.

yesterday, he saved my dog who had disappeared for hours until we found her trapped in an undergound courtyard in an empty building (still not sure how the fook she got there). he came with his ladder immediately and lifted her aloft after chucking her in an ikea bag cos she was mucky, lol.

i know he fancies me cos he's said but there's nothing on my side, which i've also said. we haven't spent any time alone as my daughter hasn't started school yet and so there's no way i would expose her to any funny business between me and him anyway. he's kinda cool about it although at times very persistant.

anyhow. despite not having feelings for him. he didn't text good night last night. i was mildly bothered. i texted him this morning saying i felt rough and was going back to sleep....no response. consequently, i couldn't get back to sleep and called him to ask why he was ignoring me LOL!!!! he wasn't. he said 'you said you were sleeping??'.

what's all this about eh? i am not attracted to him in the slightest and he even irritates me a little with his clinginess but i was PISSED OFF that his attention took a dip.

how ridiculous is that!!!!! just shows you though....ignore a scorp and we DO NOT LIKE IT!!!

pathetic.

It is ridiculous. You Scorpios are such backwards creatures. We tell you that we have feelings for you and you run away as fast as you can as if your hair is on fire, we completely ignore you, and you come crawling back looking for acknowledgement. Scorpios must be bi-polar (LOL).
Just admit your feelings or not and the whole world will be a better place.

You became use to the attention that's all. Doesn't really require too much thought. You don't miss something until you no longer have it.

Dribble or Shoot Rig .....good men are about as rare as canary diamonds these days.

oh i'm perfectly aware of the ridiculous reasons, i'm just sayin' that's all. it illustrates how to make a scorp sit up and take notice if that's your goal 🙂

i've had a word with my ego though. told it not to be such a greedy guts, lol.

I think it's cute (or "mighty decent of you", if you perfer that) that you actually called him. 🙂

Besides, don't Scorps appreciate a little persistance in a suitor? It's not that unusual that Scorpios eventually pick the guy they were annoyed with in the first place. I guess you need a little drama before you surrender.

Oh and I'm sure he kidnapped the dog in order to save him so that he could become the hero of the day. That's what I would have done (Moon in Cancer) lol!

Yeah I don't get Scorpio's at all either. I'm pretty much staying away from them if I find out they are one. Some odd reason Scorpio's chase me and yeah not having any of that!

Posted by enfant_terrible
Oh and I'm sure he kidnapped the dog in order to save him so that he could become the hero of the day. That's what I would have done (Moon in Cancer) lol!

OMG, I totally thought this but I didn't want it to appear that I was hating on Cancers, yet again.

Come on people, don't be so self-righteous! It's creepy but it's cute creepy... for a bigger cause. Anyway, that's what I keep telling myself.... 😛

You must have no shame ...

aw he found your dog. I do find cancers sorta shady tho. I wouldn't date one either.

Posted by P-Angel
You must have no shame ...

You must have no sense of humor -_-

What's the no shame comment mean?

Posted by enfant_terrible
I think it's cute (or "mighty decent of you", if you perfer that) that you actually called him. 🙂

Besides, don't Scorps appreciate a little persistance in a suitor? It's not that unusual that Scorpios eventually pick the guy they were annoyed with in the first place. I guess you need a little drama before you surrender.

Oh and I'm sure he kidnapped the dog in order to save him so that he could become the hero of the day. That's what I would have done (Moon in Cancer) lol!

i have never uttered the words 'mighty decent of you' in my entire life, lol!!! you are confusing me with dick van dyke i think 😉

he did arrive at the scene where lola was trapped in his big white van announcing that he was thunderbird 2 LOL. i do like his sense of humour for sure but then he talks over me and shizz and i know i talk a lot and there's not often a gap but still....I'M TALKING!!! i'm a bit intolerant in that department. i'll yawn my head off if someone was boring me but noooooo, you don't wanna do that to me.

people are already taking the piss out of us cos he's half italian and i'm jewish and so gesticulating is a genetic malfunction for both of us. i swear we bloody look like we're having a spazz attack in conversation, LOL!!!

oh yeah and the dog lola has been renamed the anti-lassie. it's supposed to be children trapped down a mineshaft...not the goddamn dog!!!

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Posted by cbseawind
It is ridiculous. You Scorpios are such backwards creatures. We tell you that we have feelings for you and you run away as fast as you can as if your hair is on fire, we completely ignore you, and you come crawling back looking for acknowledgement. Scorpios must be bi-polar (LOL).
Just admit your feelings or not and the whole world will be a better place.

As a Scorpio, it's up to her, not the other, non-Scorp party. Astrologically, he has no say in this. That's just how it works.

This isn't a Scorpio issue so much as it's *her* issue, given events over the past year. She enjoys the ego boost. It'll happen. The key is to keep to a bare minimum the act of writing cheques her body doesn't intend to cash.

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i know this sounds completely awful but i do like having someone around right now. it's my libra actually. i kinda always like to have someone tagging along? even if it's not romantic? of course, there's usually an agenda either side but if you're open about things, which i've tried to be with him, there shouldn't be any reason we can't remain friends. i'm not flirting with him or even writing cheques but i think he's misinterpreting the situation cos tbh, you just have to laugh at a man's joke once and he thinks he's 'in' lol.

besides. i was actually introduced to this cancerian by the leo who fucked me over. long story. don't wanna talk about it. anyway. let's just say it's a very small community and like living in a goldfish bowl (nearly typed bowel then, lol)...i'm very concerned about how people perceive me and that's mostly as i have a young daughter who looks to me as to how to behave.

Posted by P-Angel
You must have no shame ...

if you're referring to me P, you're absolutely right. i have zero shame. why should i!! as the late, great edith piaf sang....je ne regrette rien dollface!

*without dollface on the end of course.

i don't think anyone likes it much. i can imagine geminis taking being ignored badly if my sister is anything to go by, lol. they'd be in the psych ward after being ignored for a nanosecond!!!

didn't say it.

I have to agree with the ignoring us Scorpios part. If I text you or call you, I better get a reply ASAP dammit!! :-)

ooOOOOoooo dinner at el trillo? sounds like a wager!!

i dunno how it'll pan out really. trouble is that he's made himself indispensible in a way. besides, i only want to remove his expectation of sex. i could grow to like him a lot over time cos he is a nice guy but then they're ALL nice when they WANT something and then everything turns to shit after they've got it. so i'm not giving in on that level which usually separates the men from the boys.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
besides, i only want to remove his expectation of sex. .

Couldn't you just use him for sex instead? I hear Cancer guys are pretty much the opposite of Arieses... but if that's a good or a bad thing I don't know.. 😉

Maybe you became too fond of him. Any company is better than no company. he is investing time into you, there's probably a good reason for it, his own good reason

intrigued: that's a great 'tude 🙂

i saw crabman again yesterday cos he fitted some new speakers in my car. god the man is too bloody useful but he's also really NICE!!! i've not written him off romantically completely but i've just changed my modus operandi in the dating game having made soooooooooooooo many errors of judgement with the common denominator being giving into my lust way too soon. i kept forgetting how it changes the dynamic between two people and how usually it has me reversing back into shadow which can just be more horrible all round. i don't like hurting people as much as i don't like getting hurt and so i decided to remove the action that usually causes this grief by abstaining from anything physical until such times i feel there's an ongoing thing happening.

his argument is that because we are older, we basically haven't got the time to hang around and if we want someone, we should just have them. up until recently, i was completely of that view myself too but the consequence has been 5 years of singletoness with intermittent romantic horrors of the worst kind.

i think it still is important to me about how i'm perceived by others in this regard too and that's mainly cos of the microness of the expat community here. i tell you these people stare at me and my daughter like we're fucking aliens!! everytime we go somewhere new, it's like entering a bar in the wild west, lol!! feel like drawin' my gun every five seconds!!

according to this community we are already an item and that bothers me but i think it bothers me cos of the person who introduced me to the crab tbh.

anyway. this is my new luuurrrve style . i can hold out FOREVER, lol. porn sets you freeeeeeeeeee!

I am envious. Mr. Cancer man got his Scorpio girl. My hats off to him. He was able to get the Scorpio to admit that she likes him, eventhough he does not know it yet.

it's tiny seraph....in terms of the circles people mix in anyway. 'everyone' drinks in the same bars and works together. it's way too close for comfort and yeah, people gossip about EVERYONE....well other english anyway. even if you don't actually see people they will know what you've been up to and if they don't know, they'll make something up, lol!!

it's quite a surreal existence.