Oc_Libra
@Oc_Libra
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Posted by GetMistedlol... Tell me please....
You people will never understand the plight of a Mercury in Scorpio.
Posted by GetMistedI don't just ask him because he gives the impression that he is very private.... I am waiting for him to say first.....also I think its early to be pressuring about feelings when I am the one who is technically unavailable and I don't want to scare him offPosted by Oc_LibraWhy don't you just ask him?
Basically.... i am trying to figure out how he sees our relationship...since he is so myterious and doesnt say anything about it....click to expand
Posted by GetMistedYou think its bias?
Ugh.. Conformation bias.

Posted by GetMistedPosted by Oc_LibraI hope you're a patient person.Posted by GetMistedI don't just ask him because he gives the impression that he is very private.... I am waiting for him to say first.....also I think its early to be pressuring about feelings when I am the one who is technically unavailable and I don't want to scare him offPosted by Oc_LibraWhy don't you just ask him?
Basically.... i am trying to figure out how he sees our relationship...since he is so myterious and doesnt say anything about it....click to expand
Posted by GetMistedLol..of course I may lean towards the typical stereo type you hear about Scorpio....bit at the same time I do analyze the info and compare to what I see in person.... Me for example.. I am a Libra... But I don't fit typical harmonious lover of beauty that is usually painted ...I am blunt, stubborn don't fall for flattery.. I want the ugly truth...and emotionally detached most of the time...I really am surprised I find myself liking this ScorpioPosted by Oc_LibraI think that you're going to believe what you want about this man.. and agree with the viewpoints from others that confirm your own.Posted by GetMistedYou think its bias?
Ugh.. Conformation bias.click to expand
Posted by starwarsI have never heard him mention any dark issues that Scorpio's are usually known for... I think i don't have his trust there yet....but his humor is very sarcastic
I only know that people with mercury scorpios have dark odd humor that I find super funny
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Sounds like a fucking mess.
Lmao...could possibly be....I'll keep you posted
Posted by starwarsYes...that is what I want.... For him to feel comfortable with me...he is super quiet about anything personal.... I don't wan t to seem pushy...he has mentioned several times that he Trust NO ONEPosted by Oc_Librathey are not that dark and he sure wont tell you, don't try to know anything and he will spit out all his secrets. yes super sarcasticPosted by starwarsI have never heard him mention any dark issues that Scorpio's are usually known for... I think i don't have his trust there yet....but his humor is very sarcastic
I only know that people with mercury scorpios have dark odd humor that I find super funnyclick to expand

Posted by KoniuchaI heard that to about Venus in Scorpio.....at first with him I thought it would be a one night type of thing ...it happened so fast...and I heard some scorpio men are into that... But he kept trying to see me... So we agreed on FWB....he said he was good with it....and he never text me until its our time..then he seems like he wants to totally control me...he is very demanding.. Like he wants to own me ....Posted by GetMistedI would think scorp Venus wouldn't like that
I have no problem with a FWB.click to expand
Posted by TwodrinksHe is not with the girl... I didn't ask him how long... But I actually peeked her fb...she never mentions him....always has post about strong single mom stuff..I think they never even got together officially.. And no I didn't ask him about he...he just mentioned he had baby on weekend and Wednesday.... And that was it...I didn't try to get more out of him....and. His fb doesn't even mention her....if anything... I think he may talk to other girls.... But its not my place to ask because I'm still married.....(but not sleeping with husband ).. And wont go out publicly with him(because of my kids...since we aren't divorced yet).... So I can't offer him a relationship.. So I am not going to ask him not to date anyone....
You didn't ask if he was in a relationship with another woman? Come on now. Be honest here. You say you don't ask personal questions but you know he has a child (and the child's age) and they are "recently" separated. How recent?
Tell the while story. Everyone who posts on DXP always leaves out details to skew the answers into shit they wanna hear.
Posted by starwarsIdk...I just am nosey...I really don't need to knowPosted by Oc_Librabe patient then, I don't know... I find your approach a bit weird if anything it will make him uncomfortable, why do you want him to talk with you about personal stuff anyway?Posted by starwarsYes...that is what I want.... For him to feel comfortable with me...he is super quiet about anything personal.... I don't wan t to seem pushy...he has mentioned several times that he Trust NO ONEPosted by Oc_Librathey are not that dark and he sure wont tell you, don't try to know anything and he will spit out all his secrets. yes super sarcasticPosted by starwarsI have never heard him mention any dark issues that Scorpio's are usually known for... I think i don't have his trust there yet....but his humor is very sarcastic
I only know that people with mercury scorpios have dark odd humor that I find super funny
for me personally, I mind my own business that's why I have lots of scorpio who trust me. even the ones whom ive known for +8 years and trust stll don't tell me EVERY detail of their life, it doesn't necessary mean they are uncomfortable around you. they just value privacy.click to expand
Posted by TwodrinksLol...you don't have to approve of my sordid situation..so call it what you will...there are very good complicated reasons why I am not divorced yet..which I told him about.... And if you call being curious about the girl..then yes..I lurked....I never said I wasn't feeling anything.. I said I was in a complicated situation and could not offer relationship
So you're in a little deeper than you care to admit if you're facebook lurking. Be honest with yourself first before you ask strangers to be honest with you. You're trying to oversimplify an extremely sordid situation.
Posted by Vixen2Lol.....I hope I can keep him for a while.. And no feelings get hurt... But I'm willing to take the risk
*looks into crystal ball*
rule#1 of fwb...don't do fwb if you catch feelings. I see heartache and a sequel thread in the future...


Posted by KoniuchaPosted by GetMistedI would think scorp Venus wouldn't like that
I have no problem with a FWB.click to expand

Posted by GetMistedPosted by KoniuchaAqua Mars over powers it quite often.Posted by GetMistedI would think scorp Venus wouldn't like that
I have no problem with a FWB.click to expand

Posted by Koniucha
I have Mars in Sag, but Conjunct Neptune so it's all sensitive

Posted by KoniuchaPosted by 13thOh yeah? So your kind of passive then?Posted by Koniucha
I have Mars in Sag, but Conjunct Neptune so it's all sensitive
mines is conjunct Neptune also, and Mercury...Not sure what that means in terms of the topic lol but...
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We dont ask each other personal questions , etc. I just find him fascinating. He is very mysterious, doesnt say anything personal and me of course am a chatter box, i devulged all my personal info the first few days, i like to be upfront and honest and let him know exactly what he was dealing with.
I hear alot of scopio's say they dont like FWB situations and only sleep with people they have a connection with. So i am wondering if he may feel more than he is letting on.
We see each other about 2x a week we dont text much in between. I kinda like it that way because i feel i could have feelings for him if we spent more time together.
He is kinda moody, bossy... the first thing he made clear was that "he was running the show"...lol... i like an assertive man so i was cool with it... but lil things like me casually cusing at him saying "STFU" in a text wll seriously piss him off...lol so any info on Scorpio Guys would really be appreciated... i am a Libra / Sag Moon... feeling more like a Sag these days....
ME HIM
Sun: Libra Scorpio
Rising: Aquarius —exact time unknown
Moon: Sagittarius Virgo
Mercury: Virgo Scorpio
Venus: Libra Scorpio
Mars: Aquarius Scorpio
Jupiter: Sagittarius Leo
Saturn: Gemini Virgo
Uranus: Libra Scorpio
Neptune: Sagittarius Sagitarius
Pluto: Virgo Libra
N Node: Aquarius Virgo