Libra here- want any insite into Scopio guy i am seeing as FWB ... anyinfo would be helpful !!

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I am in a kinda weird Friends with benefits relationship with a Scorpio guy... because i am not divorced yet and he is just recently seperated from his girlfriend that has his baby. This is my first time ever even dealing with a Scorpio. Basically we met online and things went kinda fast, we decided on a FWB relationship so its kind of weird... and I let him know that i am not seeing anyone else... and i didnt ask what he was doing...i didnt want to know....lol

We dont ask each other personal questions , etc. I just find him fascinating. He is very mysterious, doesnt say anything personal and me of course am a chatter box, i devulged all my personal info the first few days, i like to be upfront and honest and let him know exactly what he was dealing with.
I hear alot of scopio's say they dont like FWB situations and only sleep with people they have a connection with. So i am wondering if he may feel more than he is letting on.

We see each other about 2x a week we dont text much in between. I kinda like it that way because i feel i could have feelings for him if we spent more time together.

He is kinda moody, bossy... the first thing he made clear was that "he was running the show"...lol... i like an assertive man so i was cool with it... but lil things like me casually cusing at him saying "STFU" in a text wll seriously piss him off...lol so any info on Scorpio Guys would really be appreciated... i am a Libra / Sag Moon... feeling more like a Sag these days....


ME HIM
Sun: Libra Scorpio
Rising: Aquarius —exact time unknown
Moon: Sagittarius Virgo
Mercury: Virgo Scorpio
Venus: Libra Scorpio
Mars: Aquarius Scorpio
Jupiter: Sagittarius Leo
Saturn: Gemini Virgo
Uranus: Libra Scorpio
Neptune: Sagittarius Sagitarius
Pluto: Virgo Libra
N Node: Aquarius Virgo
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Basically.... i am trying to figure out how he sees our relationship...since he is so myterious and doesnt say anything about it.... I hear alot of scopio's say they dont like FWB situations and only sleep with people they have a connection with. So i am wondering if he may feel more than he is letting on.

Plus i just listed the planets... specifically his becasue i am interested on any insite into his personality from someone who may have similar placements... since i am not familiar with Scorpios at all...i never even had one in my family, work..etc...... and i really don't understand exactly what it is about him that fascinates me... since i know so little about him...ugh


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Mmmm...I like your response.. Seems on point.. I do get that feeling... like he is watching my every move n response..somehow testing me...he tries to boss me...its like a challenge...I only let him go so far and then I stop him..he will get mad.... Stop texting..... Then later text he wants to see me....as far the sex....omg...awesome... He has the best control ever....great stamina.. And sometimes he just sits there and let's me do all the work...staring at me with those sexy eyes....he doesn't like quickies.... And he will deny me sex if I make him mad...lol..
And as far as my husband.. We are separated..we Haven't had sex since February.. And I got with Scorpio 2 1/2 months ago....but I don't bring him up....and .Scorpio doesn't ask
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Basically.... i am trying to figure out how he sees our relationship...since he is so myterious and doesnt say anything about it....
Why don't you just ask him?
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I don't just ask him because he gives the impression that he is very private.... I am waiting for him to say first.....also I think its early to be pressuring about feelings when I am the one who is technically unavailable and I don't want to scare him off
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Basically.... i am trying to figure out how he sees our relationship...since he is so myterious and doesnt say anything about it....
Why don't you just ask him?
I don't just ask him because he gives the impression that he is very private.... I am waiting for him to say first.....also I think its early to be pressuring about feelings when I am the one who is technically unavailable and I don't want to scare him off
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I hope you're a patient person.
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Ugh.. Conformation bias.
You think its bias?
I think that you're going to believe what you want about this man.. and agree with the viewpoints from others that confirm your own.
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Lol..of course I may lean towards the typical stereo type you hear about Scorpio....bit at the same time I do analyze the info and compare to what I see in person.... Me for example.. I am a Libra... But I don't fit typical harmonious lover of beauty that is usually painted ...I am blunt, stubborn don't fall for flattery.. I want the ugly truth...and emotionally detached most of the time...I really am surprised I find myself liking this Scorpio
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I only know that people with mercury scorpios have dark odd humor that I find super funny
I have never heard him mention any dark issues that Scorpio's are usually known for... I think i don't have his trust there yet....but his humor is very sarcastic
they are not that dark and he sure wont tell you, don't try to know anything and he will spit out all his secrets. yes super sarcastic
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Yes...that is what I want.... For him to feel comfortable with me...he is super quiet about anything personal.... I don't wan t to seem pushy...he has mentioned several times that he Trust NO ONE
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Ha...he trusts no one...most people say this in search of people who they can trust.

You're married...why would he trust you.

Not being mean I just wonder if you don't think that this man thinks about things like that with you.

You could very well be honest in your intentions but his side eye is probably pretty strong with you or not...could be just sex for him and he knows you like the not knowing of it all.

It's thrilling until shit gets real like feelings and expectations lol



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I have no problem with a FWB.
I would think scorp Venus wouldn't like that
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I heard that to about Venus in Scorpio.....at first with him I thought it would be a one night type of thing ...it happened so fast...and I heard some scorpio men are into that... But he kept trying to see me... So we agreed on FWB....he said he was good with it....and he never text me until its our time..then he seems like he wants to totally control me...he is very demanding.. Like he wants to own me ....
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Posted by Twodrinks
You didn't ask if he was in a relationship with another woman? Come on now. Be honest here. You say you don't ask personal questions but you know he has a child (and the child's age) and they are "recently" separated. How recent?

Tell the while story. Everyone who posts on DXP always leaves out details to skew the answers into shit they wanna hear.
He is not with the girl... I didn't ask him how long... But I actually peeked her fb...she never mentions him....always has post about strong single mom stuff..I think they never even got together officially.. And no I didn't ask him about he...he just mentioned he had baby on weekend and Wednesday.... And that was it...I didn't try to get more out of him....and. His fb doesn't even mention her....if anything... I think he may talk to other girls.... But its not my place to ask because I'm still married.....(but not sleeping with husband ).. And wont go out publicly with him(because of my kids...since we aren't divorced yet).... So I can't offer him a relationship.. So I am not going to ask him not to date anyone....
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I only know that people with mercury scorpios have dark odd humor that I find super funny
I have never heard him mention any dark issues that Scorpio's are usually known for... I think i don't have his trust there yet....but his humor is very sarcastic
they are not that dark and he sure wont tell you, don't try to know anything and he will spit out all his secrets. yes super sarcastic
Yes...that is what I want.... For him to feel comfortable with me...he is super quiet about anything personal.... I don't wan t to seem pushy...he has mentioned several times that he Trust NO ONE
be patient then, I don't know... I find your approach a bit weird if anything it will make him uncomfortable, why do you want him to talk with you about personal stuff anyway?
for me personally, I mind my own business that's why I have lots of scorpio who trust me. even the ones whom ive known for +8 years and trust stll don't tell me EVERY detail of their life, it doesn't necessary mean they are uncomfortable around you. they just value privacy.
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Idk...I just am nosey...I really don't need to know
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Posted by Twodrinks
So you're in a little deeper than you care to admit if you're facebook lurking. Be honest with yourself first before you ask strangers to be honest with you. You're trying to oversimplify an extremely sordid situation.
Lol...you don't have to approve of my sordid situation..so call it what you will...there are very good complicated reasons why I am not divorced yet..which I told him about.... And if you call being curious about the girl..then yes..I lurked....I never said I wasn't feeling anything.. I said I was in a complicated situation and could not offer relationship
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Lol.....maybe I may have stalker tendencies.... Haha..... I blame it on my Venus being in the 8th house...but I never act on them....and yes..I told him... I will not be tree trucking anyone else because I don't like be dirty like that.... And FYI...I was faithful to my husband for over 20 yrs until we got separated...so no.....I don't do this often......haha.. Funny how people are so quick to judge without knowing the entire situation