Little help here please...

I just wanted to get some feedback on emotions. The reason being is there's a lot that's going on in my world, and I have no idea if it has gotten to me, or what's going on.
What I'm wondering is, is there anyone else who reads here that reacts previous to knowing the cause?
There's a lot going on in my family but nothing that should concern me personally. And for the most part, I've tried to stay dis-associated with it all. As far as I know, I've done a great job, but then here comes the emotions piling in, and I can't even figure out why... So can anyone let me in on what that's about? Why I have a tendancy to react, before I'm even bothered by it? Does anyone else have this issue—

All the time, Storm. I know exactly what you're saying. I'll react to something that really just feels indifferent to me, but, once I've reacted, then it hits me like a frieght train. I'm not sure why this happens and I'm thankful to hear that I'm not the only one to experience this.

Keep smiling!

Wow P-Angel thanks! I'm glad to know I'm not the only one either... It's so frustrating too, people will ask me what's wrong, and I'll have to say... I have no idea, can I get back to you on that?? lol...

Storm,

My sister acts the exact same way.She would tell me she would just start crying and sometimes she never really knew y but she said she would feel In3nse Emotion.Either really sad,gloomy.Or raging with anger, And her friends would ask her Whats wrong and she would just makee something up!LoL.B/c she didnt want 2 say I dunno Y.

The other peoples bickering and hurt feelings are getting to you.At least thats what is generally the case with me in those situations.

'The other peoples bickering and hurt feelings are getting to you.'

...because humans are social creatures, after all.(?) we don't live on a deserted island on our own.(?) that's just an assumption, though. i don't have a real explanation for that. but it happens to me just the same. only i don't react overly emotional or cry. but it's a strange, scary feeling because i'm reacting to situations that shouldn't concern me at all!!!—?? but can?t prevent it. and i?m arrogant enough to think that a have a sound and healthy mind, which tells me, that my reaction isn?t logical at all. but still can?t stop or prevent it. well, just get through it....

Well, to be honest, I'm not the type to become overly emotional either. But sometimes there are certain situations that I'll react to, and not have a clue as to what is up. Not really crying, just down and out. Or sometimes I'll get angry, again, for not apparent reason... And later on, I'll get the epiphany as to why. I consider myself a fairly logical person. But this is one of those things that logic doesn't work with. Hence the difficulty... Tiamat, you might be right, or it could be that I'm not as far from the situations as I thought.
I've had this effect with relationships as well, being with someone, everything is fine, and then poof... I'm upset, and eventually it will be me figuring out that something the other party has done really bothered me. Or some sort of forgiveness issue will come into play, where I think I've forgiven, but really, I haven't...

-- "Or some sort of forgiveness issue will come into play, where I think I've forgiven, but really, I haven't..." --

i had to work on the forgiveness issue for quite a long time. but now i'm through with it. i'm abele to forgive easily if its appropriate, sometimes even if it's not. but yeah, that can generate problems, when your sub conscience is telling you: 'you still have a problem with this situation or this person', but you're not aware of it straight away and have to figure it out first.


-- "I'm upset, and eventually it will be me figuring out that something the other party has done really bothered me." --

i'd be the opposite. sometimes my experience/prejudice gets in the way. i think that i can predict the outcome of a certain situation and if I think that the other person is wrong and will create problems or mess up i'd be down, upset and/or aggressive before the problem even occurs. just because i (subconsciously?) think/feel/sense that i know better and that there WILL BE A F****ING PROBLEM! there goes my arrogance again.
and guess what, in most cases the mess i see happening never happens. so, i end up boiling inside for no reason at all, because everything works out just fine. and when I then think about it, it seems to me absolutely logical, that all would?ve worked out. just that ?voice inside? that got me heated. that?s terrible. but hey, i?m working on that one as well. i need to learn to trust more.

Just an opinion.

Well, as for me I see your situation as mere natural instinct. Its natural for us humans to have sudden burst of emotions, especially when theres a situation that could cause problem to others, especially when we know that we could have prevented it. Its our instinct to help, especially scorp's(according to my observation). This have cause us subcautious to blame ourselves if ever something got wrong.

However, having this experience is far more better.

FYI
Because currently Im not having any emotion such like that and its far more difficult. Just imagine of situation's that you wanted to cry and yet there's no tear drop to come out.

patron, i see what you mean. thanx 🙂

why did you want my date of birth?

i mean, in another thread you did.

im a second decan scorpio,that was the second decan he was indicating it's ruled by neptune(pisces)depression,melancoholy,bitterness and prone to drug and alcohol addictions are possible with that decan.lizard is probably more common with that decan unless you were to ligten up to see things in a more positive light and start putting your foot down.

oh, i see 🙂

i'm third decan scorp.

but i didn't mean to express depression and bitterness by choosing lizard as a nick.
i meant the worse part of it: saying yes to everyone and everything, not having an own opinion, being sleazy and fouls, telling lies etc.

good image of me, ey?

i like that, it really amuses me, giving myself a bad name. but not out of low self esteem. i just don't take myself too seriously.

in fact, i'm the opposite of depression and such. i like fun. and although i do see the positive and negative sides to every story, i tend/like to concentrate on the positive and stay optimistic.

what about you, tiamat? du you have that tendencies as a second decan scorpio?

im kinda stuck up,very opinionated,too honest and direct,likes most people although still have no problem saying no,for the most part very optimistic and up for having fun.but do still see negatives in people and they will be avoided or put in thier place without a problem.depressive and bitter people are the hardest for me to see eye to eye with because it doesn't make any sense to me mainly because of the how do you know if you don't try it type thinking for me.that stuff confuses me more than anything else.maybe it was due to the fact that everytime something bad would happen as a child my dad showed up and is really rational(aquarius),or was given no choice but to stand up for myself.

my mom is aquarius, too. i know what you mean.

glad to hear that you're a cheerful soul child with attitude and a strong personality.

you came across as such (quite balanced) anyway 🙂