Just Curious...

I'm not really pressed about this issue.....But Just curious........

The Scorpio guy I used to really like(lives in a dif state)....and deep down still do, but I have my feelings in control at this point. Well anyways me nad him got into a big text war a couple of weeks ago...I said some really nasty things to him and he said some really nasty things to me....including to leave him alone and not text him anymore....Well I sent him one last text w/out going out on him..it was kind of just telling him MATURELY how I felt about his behavior......well a week later I was bored and sent him a couple of pics of me,,,And told him that I knew we were not cool,,but I thought he might want to use the pics for his desktop..(to be funny).....he can be a real arsehole and I expected him to write back and say something sh*tty or ignore me(he's really good at that)....well he writes back and says..."lookin good" and then comments on my breast still being little....(which he knows does not bother me).... I know this is juvenile, but none the less....It makes me wonder...Was he serious when he asks me to stop texting him? Does he really dislike me? because from past experiences, he is super good at giving the silent treatment. I was just wondering why he replied at all. Any opinions from any Scorpios....And was that a compliment? I'm thinking he threw the comment in about my breast, so it didn't seem like it was....I don't know...just curious

As a scorpio what I can say is that he likes you. Thats why he response and never the less, he even notice your breast. Although not sure.

well softy,

I have done the very same exact thing that you have done in your message and it has gone on for 2 1/2 years. I can only say as of right now! He has not changed or should I say," I am no closer to the truth of how he really feels about me! No CLOSURE I am sure you seek....I am sure there are so many ——— in your mind as to what should do. Continue to love him or go all out and hate him for not giving you the benifits of your doubts. I trying understand, where you stand yet he won't let you know. Only the strong survive. I hope you can handle it. I understand your grief.

Your right....But I just think its part of human nature...Notice I said...felling sare in control...not that I am over him...because I can't honestly say that I am. I never asked if anyone thought he liked me...his behavior just doesn't make sense sometimes to me....And I guess I just wondered if he despised me so much or wanted me to actually leave him alone....then why would he encourage it even more after he stated the fact.He does not consume my thoughts and if you have noticed (which u might not have) I have asked questions about several differet men, issues, and people....none of which CONSUME me. People waste their time because we are PEOPLE,,,sometimes we beleive what we want to no matter what someone else tells us and we have to see the light for ourselves. For everybody who will never waste their time on anything else in life,.....I am so happy for you....because you are not the norm.

I do agree with you....but sometimes its easier said then done for some of us.

Yes I know this...and I have always worked better undr pressure,,,and after al the emotional ups and downs I have been thru...I have learned a valuable lesson from most of them....I anticipate making more wrong decisions. I am an emotional whirlwind 24 hrs a day...And I don't think I will ever be in control of them...and sometimes I don't want to be in control of them

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