@BeautifulScorpion
21 Years500+ PostsScorpio
For a long term thing, no absolutely not... For a 'fun' thing, sure...
Storm
no im too much of a b-tch to put up with that,it's lies and the guy is only concerned with themselves
why is it lies? if he says "they can never have one, they always need two" and that's exactly what he does?
i agree with Storm, if it's exiting to be around someone like that, than why not have fun 😉 you can't trust them, but you don't need to trust to have fun, if it's only fun...
a relationship would be a nono! they're just not worth it!
Lets just say me and atlantic myst view it pretty much the same way,I don't even date people who are hos to many health concerns.The guy hos tend to be morons and can't get my attention anyways.The whole "I can't have just one" is just that an excuse for thier infidelity,then in some cases it's a different story when the woman sees someone else too.But thats not including just sex which doesn't require trust.I think beautifulscorpion should clarify in what way she means.
tiamat, respect! (realy mean that, not mockery)
i didn't even think about the health conerns, since you can (and must) protect yourself with condoms, but now you've mentioned it, yeah it's kinda off putting.
i just think that people are different, and as long as you use protection (physical and emotional protection) and as long as you're aware that it's just fun and you cannot trust this person further, then it should be ok for those who want to play...
i think awareness is an issue here. if it's a thoughtless action, than that makes you quite stupid... and you're going to get hurt 😢 as long as you know what you're doing and it's ok with you.... hm, i don't know....
BeautifulScorpion, to answer your question straight: no! you cannot trust this person
yeah,theres the protection that I use,it's just the herpies and warts that gets past condomns and dental damn that im too paranoid about.But your right it depends on that person and the situation at hand to be the judge of thier choices.
>>BeautifulScorpion, to answer your question straight: no! you cannot trust this person
See, that is what I think.
This post is about my ex-boyfriend :\ basically that is how he is. I don't think I'm exaggerating, well maybe 2 girls each month or something, he can't keep a relationship. But wants to be with me again and says that he'll change for me. I can't believe that.
let him change first, and if he can convince you that he's really changed, then you might think about it ... but only think about it!!!
it'll take a lotta time to change if he's willing, 'cuz it's hard... but not impossible. well, make him try and work hard if you still like him, but if you're not convinced and there's even the slightest trace of doubt:
"let it be, let it be, let it be, let it be! speaking words of wisdom, let it be!"
you're a scorpio, right? you'll know what to do - just trust your instincts!
good luck and don't forget to look left and right, there maybe another crazysexycoolnice guy who'll be good to you!
lizard
ditto on lizards post
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Went out with this one person and tried to get with her older sibling, during and after the relationship
Has 2+ girlfriends almost every week
Cheated on partner within a week
Glorifies himself for doing all of this
Says "they can never have one, they always need two"
Tell me. -_-