Ms. Virgo needs help getting started w/Mr. Scorpio

I have been out with Mr. Scorpio on two separate occasions within a 2 week period. We finish each others sentences, laugh at the same thing; it was if we have known each other in another lifetime. He is married to his work and we talked about getting together this weekend, last week. However,yhis week he is exhausted and needed to rest. He suggested that we get together next weekend. He has been single for 10 months and seems to be completely slow and secretive; not really a big communicator. I have read plenty of items about Scorpios...nothing regarding the beginning of the relationship and what to expect. I want to walk this out but not sure if I am receiving mixed vibes or if he really isn't that into me. Can anyone help with this?

LOL Tina, you sound very like me. I read the other day that Scorpio and Virgo have a LOT of trouble starting the relationship because they are so alike and so cautious!

I doubt he isn't into you. I started seeing my Scorp last year and it fizzled out when he said he needed Space and I took that to mean it was over. (Long story! He said the other day that he didn't mean that, but he could see why I assumed he did. In fact it DID do us good so...)

Anyway we had/have that same rapport. I know that whether or not they say it, this isn't something Scorpios expect to find and they treasure it (Scorps, please correct me if I'm wrong here). Before we got back together (a year or so later, we've never lost contact though) he texted me that I was his favourite person in the world 'apart from family' - seemed like quite a compliment to me!

My Scorp is a workaholic AND we have to work around when he sees his young kids (who haven't met me, and I don't think that will be quite yet). His Ex sometimes changes her mind about which day he's having them, and I have to be very flexible - he hasn't met a woman prepared to do this before, but I have grown kids and I treasure them above all else, so I'm just thrilled to have met a guy who is such a loving father.

We quickly found (and I've read this is common with Virgos/Scorpios) that I have an extremely soothing effect on him. (We have hot times between the sheets/on the sofa/on the floor, don't get me wrong!!!!!) He LOVES it, now that he knows I am not offended, when I go round after one of his busy weeks, and just let him lie next to me on the sofa, watching TV, whilst he totally unwinds and I just hold him close.

We talk about any and everything under the sun, our Inner Children are best buddies and play a lot and we laugh an enormous amount... but we also share this silence, and I bet you anything it's what he values the most. Acceptance of the fact that he's NOT always in a place where he can be 'up' (!) and needs downtime.

I spent this slow start time working on squashing my Virgo analytical tendencies - cos they weren't as accurate as my deep-down feeling that there was something good to be had here, and that only patience would bring it about...

I hope this is of some help - I guess I'm saying, if you feel like hanging in there, DO.

BTW althouh I wasn't deliberately calling his bluff when we split last year, I don't think it did any harm at all for him to know that I was able to live without him AND remain friends... 🙂

Thank you ScorpAscVirgo.....I was beginning to think I lost my mind. We met several months ago on a dating site and he was gorgeous but we never connected because he was dragging it out. I thought he either had a girlfriend or was married. After a few exchanges, we agreed to connect in the summer b/c I was going to Texas. Seven months later, I kept my promise and reached out to him again advising I was coming to him in Texas and gave him my number again, it turns out he was coming to chicago, the weekend before. Hence, we meet here in Chicago last weekend and I flew to Dallas, only after he asked me to squeeze him in to my weekend I was in Houston.

Maybe, I have made the assumption that since we have physically been in each others presence that things should go smoothly from this point and that shouldn't be the case. Ugh! I did find out that he has recently dissolved a long distance relationship up of 5 years because it got old. She was moving to Texas but never did, so they split and that was in October. He says he did love her and that explained the delay when I met in initially back in February. I have never dated a Scorpio and surprised that he actually fell in love with someone several states away and not seeing through her deceit in never moving as she agreed to.

Because she never moved, doesn't mean she was decietful .... life happens .... the option was always open for him to move near her, but, he didn't, so how in love was he really?



If you ask the normal person who is in love ... they would tell you that they would move mountains for their beloved.



Don't be so quick to make an assessment of this situation based off of what you're being told, blindly .... some common sense should be present.

You've only just met this man, only 2 actual physical encounters ..... and already, you would believe exactly what he told you, without question.


Rather than trying to figure out whether he is into you .... it would probably be more prudent of you to try and figure out why you blindly believe that his ex of 5 years was at exclusive fault, when a partnership consists of two people.



In time ...... is he going to consider YOU to be deceptive if you don't put forth the effort necessary to come to him on his terms? And it's not about the "moving", it's the principal.



You have a judgement in your mind of this womans character that she was deceptive because she didn't go to him, while during this 5 years, if he loved her so much ... then why didn't he go to be with her? But, them not being together anylonger is her fault, according to him, and he has put this within you to believe ....... when common sense is screaming that it takes two to tango.



Sounds to me like he is the one who is deceptive .... and you are his current fool.

"Wow P-Angel, sorry you are taking offense to this situation."



Don't be a further idiot ..... if you cannot handle truth, this isn't my problem.



"please understand that I am not looking to fight"

Don't mistake the truth again ..... you were the one who uses words like "offense", not me .... which is a clear indicator that you have the behaviour of fighting in mind, not me.


I'm merely pointing out to you that you are being decieved/manipulated ...... and as manipulation works effectively, you have no clue, so when someone points this out to you, you think it's about offenses/fighting.





Are you so one-way in your thinking that you cannot comprehend the condition of considerations in love?

If a person loves another ... they are willing to move mountains.

He is telling you that she promised to move mountains for him, and when she couldn't abide because life happens .... then no aid from him came to help her succeed .. instead, she was sent to the curb.



If you choose to refuse to hear the message because you cannot handle the tone of the messenger .. then sobeit, it's your lose of the meaning of the message that is in place for your benefit .. not my lose, I still have my husband of 27 years.

All, I found this website to be fun and informative as astrology is very interesting and many of you have a wealth of knowledge. If anyone has any insight on getting to know a Scorpio Man that would be greatly appreciated from your experience. I would like to draw from your mature astrological experiences with this new friendship that is very new.

Please excuse the previous exchanges as I AM NOT ACCUSING, FAULTING OR BLAMING ANYONE for this gentleman's past relationship and truly not interested into getting into heating exchanges and name calling. I am looking for some fun facts about getting to know Scorpio man.

I haven't got much to add... just, be prepared to be flexible, make sure your needs are being met, don't make assumptioons until further down the line you KNOW if you can trust him, be aware that sometimes he will throw you a curve ball... etc 🙂

Your previous post was classic (good girlfriend talk) and fun, thank you for taking the time to pretty much put your business out there. It was truly appreciated. Best wishes to you and Mr. Scorpio.

My age of 50, or if I was 5, mature or not mature ..... has nothing to do with whether you are being an idiot, or not.


"I am sure you have lived long enough to know it's not what you say its how you say it"

And I have lived long enough to know that it's the message that matters, not the messenger.

So, if I pat you on the head affectionatelly and say, "You stinky little dog breath girl" in the sweetest tone you've ever heard in your life, then this means the message to you is more valuable?

I thought you said you were a Virgo? And a Virgo can't handle direct honesty?


Hum ... maybe that ^^^^^ is the only problem at hand that needs addressing.



"not sure if I am receiving mixed vibes or if he really isn't that into me. Can anyone help with this?"

So, you come here saying you want to know and you want help ... and then recant after hearing something you didn't want to hear and now are making the claim that you only want fun facts .... do you want the truth, or don't you?


He's fucking you ... .... if I put sparkly things on it, maybe some lace, make-up, a bad of perfume ..... will you then be able to open your mind? Or do you only know how to open your mind for logical reasoning when it's delivered to your ego because I do have a pretty good vocabulary .. I do know other words like, "wonderful", "sweet", "nice" .....





"I did find out that he has recently dissolved a long distance relationship up of 5 years because it got old."


Well, maybe it doesn't even matter ..... because maybe you will never get old to him and so he will have to trade you in for a different model.

"we agreed to connect in the summer b/c I was going to Texas. Seven months later, I kept my promise and reached out to him again advising I was coming to him in Texas and gave him my number again, it turns out he was coming to chicago, the weekend before. Hence, we meet here in Chicago last weekend and I flew to Dallas, only after he asked me to squeeze him in to my weekend I was in Houston."

That ^^^^^^ was in your second post, and it clearly leaves the suggestion in the readers mind that the two of you are in two different states .... Texas and Illinois.



"we talked about getting together this weekend, last week. However,yhis week he is exhausted and needed to rest. He suggested that we get together next weekend."

That ^^^^^^ was in your first post, and it clearly leaves the suggestion in the readers mind that the two of you are close enough in physical promixity that you can make weekend by weekend plans for hooking up.



Which is it?


Let's look at the first quote, which comes from you second post .... you say that the two of you agreed to hook up, then 7 months later you reached to him again (((((((AGAIN))))))) to tell him you were coming to him, and gave him your number (((((((((AGAIN))))))))).

To use this wording, it leaves the suggestion in the readers mind that during this 7 months he had been pretty dispondent ... for you had to reach out to him """"again""""", which implies you had to chase him to this. Suddenly he's all eager and shit.


You had originally asked whether you were reading his vibes right and/or were his messages mixed ..... and the answer is "no" ... his vibes are perfectly visible to those who aren't blinded by their heart. Why are you so blind just after 2 encounters?


He expected his ex of 5 years to run to him .... he withdrew from you and awaited until you said you were going to come to him ...... what's so fucking confusing about what that means?


Why did you lead us to believe that you two were capable of making week by week plans for being together and then tell us that it took you 7 months to be able to fly to Texas?




What the fuck are you playing at?

Is any of this the truth, at all?

Tina

I think Mr Scorp already knew at the time when he met you online, that his long-distance relation is not going anywhere. That is why he was on the dating site.

We are hard workers, not sure if one can be called workaholic for that. I used to be at my workplace before the owner and much after she left. In the whole department I used to be the first to come in and the last to leave. I know how it feels to be extremely tired doing this day after day. When in my holidays, I used to get sick the first week, my body couldn't handle off-work.

I slightly changed over the years.

Anyway, my point is, Mr Scorp probably feels tired. If the relationship gets to a certain level, he may end up enjoying lazy time on your couch. Before then, we like being perfect for the person of our fancy, especially in the beginning we don't want to give the wrong image. We want to look good (presentable), which is always important to us; we want to have the energy to charm you and give you our full attention. Later once we know you cannot misunderstand our need to rest, we may show you our more 'home' side. I can say that I dated a man for 6 months, but never stayed over at his place because I didn't want him to see me at sleep; wake up with crazy hair and unbrushed teeth. Appearance is important.


If he places too many 'curve balls' by always finding excuses not too meet you, then that could be an indication he doesn't feel as strongly for you, which I highly doubt.

Any meeting I had with a man I dated face-to-face, I let them know right away about my feelings. I had one incidence only when I agreed to see this scorpio man, but I knew from the beginning that we had potential to being good friends. He was fun. Our first meeting unfortunately felt odd. I knew I was never going to get attracted to him. He on the other hand found me much to his liking. I feel bad to say that at the end of the night I felt telling him that I didn't feel the chemistry for him. We can be friends, nothing more.

So if you have any questions that occupy your mind, ask them directly to Mr Scorpio. We have a hard time lying, because we don't think it does us any good. He will tell you if it is still early to know, or whatever way he feels.

Yes... pleeeease... talk to him rather than assuming, because I know first hand there can be misunderstandings between Virgo and Scorp.


Yes we can love you from afar and we will be loyal to your image.

Ms. FUMRedFairy_tales, I truly appreciate your insight.....I have read many things about Scorpios and their slow to start or get into a relationship which could be difficult for a Virgo. But nothing in detail as to what that looks like. He calls a lot or not, he prefers to be pursued or not. Some signs are very aggressive and there is no doubt that they are hot on the trail but Scorpio is a very different animal that I have never encountered.

He is a workaholic and as a Leader, he takes his career and team development very seriously. So much so, I believe he is possibly spending more lazy days on his day off then he would prefer. Since we are long distant, it makes it a little more challenging to read, if that is all possible to read a Scorpio. And, your right we are too early into this before determining the validity of whether he is throwing a "curve ball". Believe it or not, after much debate (in his head), I can actually see him contemplating or discussing his thoughts and then he opens up and shares what seems to be some very intimate and personal thoughts for him as a man. Initially, I perceived him to be a little arrogant because of his silence but after the long private day where there was no one but he and I sharing, shopping at the market, cooking dinner; just really sharing some "alone time" free from the world, he was nothing like I expected. He has such a soft undertone with a kindred spirit, it was almost shocking to see someone so gentle underneath the textbook Scorpio that he does share similar qualities. Combine this with the fact that I was out of town and he was a complete gentleman, never making advances but a nice thank you kiss on the cheek for cooking dinner. The following morning, he popped up cooked breakfast, brought me coffee....is that normal? I was suppose to leave at 6am but our morning was very lazy and relaxing, he even hinted of wanting to take the day off but I needed to fly home for work the following day myself; so, I didn't leave until 1pm. Trust me had I been local, I would have taken him up on his offer to stay in our PJ's.

This seems like it will be interesting and almost scary as I am completely sold on him being a "good guy" to know and we haven't tapped into the deadly piece of Scorpio sex. Yikes!!!!!!!

Tina ...

all signs seem to speak for themselves, honey. If scorpio cares for you in a romantic way, our mind is mainly occupied with that person. Him coming over with coffee and preparing breakfast shows that he has been planning for ways to impress you. I know many scorpio men who will iron their own shirt, cook or do things around the house. It is normal for Scorpio to be serving regardless of leadership qualities. We have very similar qualities like Virgos in planning things for the person we love.

Also, him as this 'workaholic' willing to take the day off to further spend time with you, explains to me nothing but his sincere interest in you. The kiss on the cheek seems his caution that he doesn't want to mess things up by coming across as agressive. Not sure of other scorpios, but I believe as confident as we may appear to the outside world, we are shy in initiating a romantic approach. He seems like a nice gentleman, Tina.


Throughout my life, I heard from a number of people that they thought of me as arrogant in the beginning, but after knowing me closer, they felt I was sweet and kind. Not that I like to brag, but that is a pattern I experienced myself. I will not show everyone my 'sweet/ soft' side, only those will see who I trust. My pride will be hurt if someone takes advantage of my kindness... so we are rather cautious.


It also appears that he does not wish to relocate. What if this relation takes on a more serious tone, would you be willing to relocate? These questions will come in the near future. Perhaps even faster than you may expect to hear and your answer might be a defining one, because he already seems to have waited for the previous woman for all these years. And obviously, it must have been not important enough of her to move to him. He may test you on that one.

I am good on this end....I have one more year to finish my MBA and we are ready to move, if not sooner. My current employer is not doing so well in this economy so there is not much room for promotion once I am done with school. I sold my home 3 years ago to avoid being trapped here after I am done. We actually met because I visited his online page as he lived in the town I was willing to move to.

He is shy and I believe a little off guard with his feelings because we didn't have high expectations with meeting and it was like opening a box of chocolates; and, based on what I have read it is easier for me to digest so quickly, not necessarily for a Scorpio. Thank you again for your time and advice. Have a Super Day.

I thought I was imagining things sagigoat.

snow_child, u bring experience to the table of "even what not to do" and that is just as equally as valuable as to how to sex someone's pants off or get to know them. THANK YOU!

And, btw, I am not discounting P=Angel, I think the subject was going way too far to the right about this other woman that frankly I don't give a damn about-I don't wallow in the EX or obsess with a man's previous relationship. I value love and relationships, he said he loved her-YEAH. And, as you gracefully put it, she is the ex, the past and not my concern. I have no negative thoughts about this women one way or another and most certainly not trying to waste your time, P-Angel or mine about this past relationship that we know nothing about or to use your astrology expertise on. This is another one of those missed opportunities between a writer/reader when utilizing email or text-just trying to give a little background information so you can have some info to comment on how Virgo/Scorpio meet. Back to your advice......

"I have a feeling you should be prepared for a dissapearing act soon... but just be cool."


Snow_child...how could you leave me hanging with just be cool? What is that suppose to mean? Disappearing Act? please, elab.

snow_child that is a GREAT IDEA....we are both 41. I am not worried just not use to anyone with a totally shy demeanor. This was something I picked up right away because he always seemed silent at first; his communication seemed to flow in spurts and when he jumped in his excitement would take over and before you knew it, it was like we were broadcasting a sporting event. I then immediately and asked are u shy? He said yes and explained that once I get to know him I will want him to shut up. I can't see that as I love to hear how he thinks and what's going on deep in his mind.

virgogotme...thank you for your thoughts, I appreciate them and ur caution to the wind. I am moving South whether its near Mr. Scorpio or elsewhere so I am okay with the move-TOTALLY; he lives in a great city. The fact that he is strong and desires to excel professionally drives me wild. Plus, I love to get involved with all kinds of things myself, always on the go so if I can "do me" while he is "doing him" and we can meet back at our safe heaven of peace and happiness, I am pleased.

I am attracted to driven men as legacy is important to me. However, there is a fine line of balance needed to transition into very hectic lives and combining that with long distance; I'm just a bit challenged. Just to let u guys in on an important factor about me is I have been celibate for close to 5 years and HE has awakened a side of me that has been dead for a long time. So, my concerns that you are sensing is I do not want to react inappropriately because I will eventually, if not sooner, want to satisfy those needs TODAY. I don't know anything about Scorpios as it relates to the typical dating steps and he today represents all the positive textbook Scorpio signs. Finally, he appears to have a young exterior but an old soul that he set in his ways; complete daily regimen with no deviation; however, I am willing to walk this out; besides I will grow with patience and less worry.

Oh, I forgot to share that he mentioned that he really wanted to establish a relationship because he knows he has a lot to learn and would learn to finish the last half of his life learning to grow together.

virogotme....does this clarify things?

snow_child....sorry, I had to come back to page 2 to see if I answered all of your questions and I hadn't. We had a slightly serious conversation on the way back to the airport because it seemed warranted and it was initiated by him. It went something along the lines of me saying that I wish he had made this easier for me so I could move on but I found something in him that is very different than any new encountered that I had ever experienced.

He then went on to restate that he feels he is ready for a partner as he is totally tired of seeing life through the eyes of a single person, however, he is a little concern of the distance because she is not there all the time which I found contradictory because he lives at work. I assured him that distance was not an issue and I too have a heavy plate to fulfill each week with school, my daughter and work; I am off usually 4 days a week so I (or we-my daughter and I) can spend a great deal of quality time with him, if and when he wanted closeness. Plus, he works a lot so this would enable him to drown in his work as he so passionately loves to do a large chunk of the week.

What my instinct was telling me, while he was saying that he thought my daughter was delightful and pleasurable which was ideal and an easy transition for them both, was that he was getting scared or losing control too fast. I think he was looking for something TOTALLY and SLOWLY gradual that could marinate over a years time or so and he opened Pandora's box for a renewed passion for life. He said he wanted to think about this, how does he change work behavior, is it time for him to live for him and not the family, etc.

He is a complete loner and admitted to liking the person he has become but made several statements throughout the visit that he wants more, he needs life around him.

Reading what you wrote made me laugh because I remember thinking how quiet Mr S was. These days he starts talking and only stops when I start to smile as I wonder if he will ever draw breath! (I am amazed this doesn't irritate me, but it doesn't. He also listens!!)

I suppose - hope - this isn't a neceassary question, you sound very thoughtful - but where is your daughter in all this? Will she be happy to uproot and move? Have they met?

stayed tuned snow_child...maybe someone can enlighten us.

ScorpAscVirgo.....My daughter will be 5 in October and doesn't realize the difference in moving to date as she is not old enough to attend school in Illinois til next year. And, she doesn't mind changing daycares as a Libra she is a social butterfly, new friends is new fun for her.

Yes, she did meet him. When he came here to Chicago he was coming for his Girls Basketball team that he coaches; two of the team members are his nieces. He has 1 brother and 2 sisters but the entire family is females for the most part. So, I took my daughter to the tournament as a casual outing. We enjoyed him so, she (my daughter) invited him to join us at the local playland and he accepted. From there we had such a blast that we concluded the evening over dinner. That was our first meeting. He texted me at the end of the night, expressing pleasure in meeting me, desiring to spend more time together and commenting on how I have done such a wonderful job with my daughter. My daughter asked both of us, if we could take him home. She was smitten with him too.

Lovely story of your daughter and Mr. Scorpio meeting. Children know and can catch well on vibes ... 🙂


Surrender -- this is a magical word. It is wise to weigh its timing. From what you wrote, I am confident to say that he is already making plans for a long-term relationship with you.


EX partners. Sorry I disagree that scorps make them an important part of their life. What is past is truly past.

I think in general it is just not right to bad mouth exes or family members. That's just a general rule for everyone. However, we are human and it can slip... I don't think Mr. Scorpio would take that too much to heart unless it is pounded on his head at every occasion. Tina sounds like a very sensible and considerate person, and I think, Mr. Scorpio is lucky to have her. He knows already.


I also really like Sagigoat on these boards. She is another dear one who understands us very well... I think she sees some of Scorp traits that I have not been aware of, but hearing from her makes me think.

FUMRedFairy_tales...ok, I have heard surrender twice now. Surrender— You mean have sex soon?

And, disappearing act both w/mixed views:

Sagigoat believes that if he disappears then forget him.

Snow_child says, remain cool and allow him to return. What is the significance with the disappearing act? Will he disappear for a week, months? If u don't here from me within the day, definitely in a week, I have moved on. I believe there is a significant difference in which a Virgo reaches out, communicates and expresses interest versus a Scorpio.

Posted by Tina T
I am good on this end....I have one more year to finish my MBA and we are ready to move, if not sooner. My current employer is not doing so well in this economy so there is not much room for promotion once I am done with school. I sold my home 3 years ago to avoid being trapped here after I am done. We actually met because I visited his online page as he lived in the town I was willing to move to.

He is shy and I believe a little off guard with his feelings because we didn't have high expectations with meeting and it was like opening a box of chocolates; and, based on what I have read it is easier for me to digest so quickly, not necessarily for a Scorpio. Thank you again for your time and advice. Have a Super Day.

Wow, only a short period of time that includes only 2 actual physical contacts and you are already using the word "we" as it pertains to long-term plans.

Didn't you say somewhere that you thought he had changed his status back to dating on the site where you found him? Maybe that was someone else.



You are ready to rush to him, after just two actual encounters ....





:::::: shakes head :::::::::

Posted by Tina T


And, btw, I am not discounting P=Angel, I think the subject was going way too far to the right about this other woman that frankly I don't give a damn about-I don't wallow in the EX or obsess with a man's previous relationship. I value love and relationships, he said he loved her-YEAH. And, as you gracefully put it, she is the ex, the past and not my concern. I have no negative thoughts about this women one way or another and most certainly not trying to waste your time, P-Angel or mine about this past relationship that we know nothing about or to use your astrology expertise on.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^ You've missed my point entirely. For you believe I was talking about the ex.


How can you count or discount what a persons says to you if you don't even comprehend what they said?

"Yet he went out of his way to get to you in Chicago"




I disagree with that conclusion, VGM ..... he didn't go out of his way to go to her at all.



"Seven months later, I kept my promise and reached out to him again advising I was coming to him in Texas and gave him my number again, it turns out he was coming to chicago, the weekend before. Hence, we meet here in Chicago last weekend ...."



After she contacted him AGAIN after seven months by means of "reaching out to him", and giving him her telephone number AGAIN (which means he wasn't even phoning her because if he was calling her, he wouldn't need to be told her phone number) ..... she finds out that ......


........ it turns out he was coming to Chicago, the weekend before.




That ^^^^^^^^ is a coincidence, not making plans out of the way to get to her .... hell, he didn't even know her phone number, why else would she have to give it to him again.



Why am I the only who can see the inconsistencies?

who's VGM?

Surrender a Scorpio would tell you to do .... as I'm sure that the not surrendering of her to him is what made him break up a 5 year relationship, instead of doing what a person in love is suppose to do and that move mountains to be with her.




Surrender yourself to him ............... how much more do you need to hear before you open your mind to the fucking truth?

Right, Emma ......... he has to move the mountains, not just want the rewards to come to him without the effort.

There are two people in a relationship ...... it appears to me that this man thinks a relationship goes like this ...



I will sit here, and let you
You will come, or I'm done

"I hate these shitty reationship topics lol, and i always see the same ol' people responding as well, "

I so agree. Everbody is NOT Dr. Joyce Brothers or relationship experts who get joy out of disecting a topic to its lowest core.

VGM = VirgoGotMe.

I appreciate evryone taking 2 their time 2 share their experiences & knowledge. How else do u learn life? Most thru trial error, I get that. The same holds true w/ having ur first child, they don't come with manuals. Plus, its always healthy 2 hear others view point as the world does only consist of me. Often, it is difficult 2 view ur situation b/c ur on the inside; someone on the outside may see things differently. Keep posting as u will never know when u will have plenty of interest. Best wishes 2 u. In the meantime, thank u all 4 ur insight-I am taking it 2 heart.

This man had no interest in moving any mountains ...... just waited for her to come to him .... and when she couldn't/didn't .... he tired of her.




let's just hope that this Virgo woman never lets the relationship get old, so he is always intrigued, stimulated.


maybe she can empty out Lake Michigan, and move Texas up north, and then insert it in ..... that should put Houston only a couple hours drive to Chicago ... maybe that would be enough to get him to remember her phone number.

good point emeraldgem.

vgm, loved the cowboy line and ur input

Remebering her phone number would be the first step in moving a couple boulders of this mountain ..... or maybe you are right, maybe remembering her phone number should be left for the romantic novels because it isn't realistic.

"After a few exchanges, we agreed to connect in the summer b/c I was going to Texas. Seven months later, I kept my promise and reached out to him again advising I was coming to him in Texas and gave him my number again"




Maybe when she moves her mountains to Texas to be with him .... she won't have to give him her phone number again.

People's stupidity is boundless ....... it would appear that only trees are realized .......



You really think it's about expectations?

That's like her saying my words to her were about the ex.



Funny shit ..............




Try this on .. see if you can follow ...... it's NOT about ((((((((((((((((((expecting))))))))))))))))) him to remember her phone number ..... it's about 7 months have gone by in which he isn't interested enough in her to remember her phone number from his own desire in knowing it ......

....... and she's talking "we" ........

I'd hit it & VGM, love is truly an individuals perception. In a perfect world, both wud have the same perception. I believe that wud fall under "soulmates", not necessarily every relationship that exist. Scorpios r a unique sign in & during a relationship. If it's true they love control does it also mean their the aggressor at the beginning? Setting the dates? Making the plans? Or, do they sit & wait, anaylze & wait? Or, jump in the water & worrying about how 2 swim once their in the water?

::::: shakes head :::::

Thank VGM for your opinion, u have some valuable feedback that is specific to my questions. Thank you agains as ur time is truly appreciated.

I haven't read all of this it's too long winded but original post indicates he is interested but he may be dilly dallying because of the long distance thing. I personally cannot and will not start anything long distance, cannot emotionally connect with that person..the distance and the breaks between meeting just makes it all too unreal for me and I would feel disconnected..I have heard several scorpio men say the same. We are all about togetherness so if this isn't happening then it makes it all difficult.

I am sorry if I couldn't be anymore insightful Tina..but I would agree with VGM on most of what she said..

I think the Scorpio/Virgo compatibilty works out real well!

The Scorpio/Taurus compatibality...No way!


Virgo is a mutual sign, and you all are able to adapt. You will need it. Scorps are a lot of work!

Me want a bull 🙂

Overall the best match for a scorpio is definitely an earth sign in my opinion...they balance us out, calm us erratic folk down and just bring inner peace...Although any sign with strong earth and adequate water placements will do the trick as well...

Hell I even know Aquarius with a venus in SCorpio..be totally mushy so hope is not lost!..lol

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Overall the best match for a scorpio is definitely an earth sign in my opinion...they balance us out, calm us erratic folk down and just bring inner peace...Although any sign with strong earth and adequate water placements will do the trick as well...

Hell I even know Aquarius with a venus in SCorpio..be totally mushy so hope is not lost!..lol

Lol! A person's venus sign is usually 0-2 signs away from the sun sign. 3 signs away is possible but less likely... I think. If you're looking for a venus in scorpio, start looking for sun signs in virgo, libra, scorp, sag, cap. Maybe some leos & aquas. Don't you like Leo's?

I don't know much about astrology..so yeah if you can teach that's great! 🙂 Yes I like Leos and taurus..first it was all about the leo..but as you get older you realise you just can't be arsed to fight all the time..LOL..as long as its someone I can get along swimmingly with then its all good...but I do know that I need someone who brings me calm...because I am chaotic and a bit aggressive so someone patient...

On a different note, anyone know how I can upload a different pic on here.. I know just the one but sadly dxp keeps telling me it is too big 😢 I don't have any photo resizing software...I am sooo bored of this image now..i want change..