opinions please

Okay...here is what I want to ask....when I saw my scorpio he started asking me questions...like if I had been sleeping with anybody,If I had oral sex with the person. if I would ever sleep with this person or that person...Then he asked me what I wanted from him.....and the strange thing is that I hadn't seen him in ahwhile....It was like a mini interregation.... Doesn't that sound crazy??The Can anybody tell me if this is normal behavior of a scorpio...or what it means?

Ask him when was the last time he ever trusted anyone. If he's jealous, you can diffuse it at that point. If he's playing you, you'll know.

I don't think he trust many people.Next time I talk to him I will ask him....I've known him a long time ago and this is the first time he has behaved like that.We have not been in a exclusive relationship so I didn't really see the point or where he was going with the questions..it was actually quite foreign....

Well I went on and told him the truth....

Maybe he just wants to know what your intentions are. Maybe he wants an exclusive relationship now and wants to see where you stand.

Sofy.....never ever in a thousand years fess up to questions men ask like that........they don't want to know the REAL truth!!...no matter what they say.....always be elusive......with a flirty response like.....Oh, that's my secret....can't tell you that Mister!!! or I never discuss my sexual fantasies except with myself:-)!!!

But now that you have gone and done it....let's move on.....if you want to get back in touch and have him back....you simply text him...something along the lines...."Couldn't handle the big picture/story Mister??"....He'll be back....coz as we all know Scorpions think they can and usually can handle any situation.....

Good luck and ciao for now.

A x

LOl,,,your funny ALana. I know that u souldn't fess up and normally I wouldn't have,,,,The reason I did this time was because I hadn't been him physically or even seen him for ahwhile (due to him) And when he asked me,,,it was like he already knew the truth but wanted to see if I would lie......So thats why I fessed up. And I really think he respected the fact that I was honest...

LOl,,,your funny ALana. I know that u souldn't fess up and normally I wouldn't have,,,,The reason I did this time was because I hadn't been him physically or even seen him for ahwhile (due to him) And when he asked me,,,it was like he already knew the truth but wanted to see if I would lie......So thats why I fessed up. And I really think he respected the fact that I was honest...

Fair enough softy....fair enough:-)!!!
By the way, what age is this Mr. S?

I can't comment much on Scorpio men as I only had one that I know of! Funny though, now that you say it, he too would ask rather intimate questions with his eyes staring at me...blazing almost into my soul.......he was the only man I ever felt "intimidated" by in my life....I don't know why this should be?? Plus he's the only lover that I didn't remain "friends" with after....In the last year or so, he now gets on my bus home most nites from work....neither of us acknowledge each other.....I pretend to look out one window and he the other....it's embarrassing as we get off at the same stop also......strange how life turns out and stranger still the people in it:-)

Oh well..........once again good luck with your Mr. S. - Keep us posted.

A x

Hi Alana.....He is the only man who I ever felt intimidated by too!! I am usually the dominant one in any relationship I've been. At first this caused major problems between he and I...I finally realized it wasn't so bad to let him dominate, or at least let him think he is....It actually make me feel more of a woman when I am with him, unlike when I am with some of the other simps I date...Its been times when me and my scorpio would be in the same place...and not acknowledge each other out of pure stubborness on both of our parts...Mr. S is 26. I found that the less I feed into some of the Scorpio things taht he says....the better we get along. However,,,those intimate questions he asked really have me thrown off. If its game,,,,he put a lot thought into it.

Thanks for that info. Softy on his age and intimadatory presence etc!!
And yes, sometimes, it's good to let the guys THINK that they are THE MAN and you are their little lady.......:-)

Again, I thought of you last nite especially when Mr. Scorpio boarded the bus.....immedately I felt uptight......and as usual we played the "pretend not to see each other game"!!!...I really would like to be able to say even hello to each other but me just don't have the courage (at this moment in time anyway!) to make the first move!!

Anyway, enuf about me.....mines not a "heart affair" like yours is...
All we can do is wait and see what happens at your next encounter with him and what he has to say.........patience!!!
Or if you're feeling impatient to meet!!:-)....well, you know what you gotta do:-) - "manufacture" a meeting:-)

Bye 4now S.
Ax

Sounds like what it's like between my scorpio and I. He asks me questions about me being with other men yet is appauled if I do so in return. Its annoying at times. Anyhow, it's been like this for 3 years. We go back and fourth. The crazy part is that we aren't officially together. However, we do stay monogamous (have been for 3 years).

Hi ....
after reading several boards here..I'm wondering if it's a man-thing..rather that a sign-thing...not to be open and sharing..to ignore the other person when you see them and to keep secrets....because...this appears to be mostly women's complaints...
maybe we should keep our selfs tuned to this— 😉
sofia

hotcbns... my ex has the same problem with me, im like that too. Maybe it is a man thing, but my scorp friends are also like this 😉 I'm a lady.

BeautifulScorpion
lol..i guess i got lucky..i married a scorp...he is very different from most scorps and we been together many..years....

sofia

my scorp is sooooooooo different for others.... yes he's a bit possesive but he trusts me alot and i continually make sure he knows i love him... ( i guess scorp men are always insecure.. they feel their woman will leave them for someone better so u've got to reassure them continually its not the case...

u know even when he's had a hard day i just go to him, and kiss him and whisper in his ear how much i missed him and remind him that he's the hottest guy on earth... and u wont believe it, he gets so emotional and tells me how much he loves me.... etc..etc... but i honestly love my man and u know u've got to just lift hm up and that will strengthen ur relationship!!!

i'm an aquarius gal but i'm not a typical AQ... i just know how to handle my hot sexy scorpio babe!!!

yes they are sensitive.......but it took me a while to see it. But I do think that underneath they are really sweet people. And thet need to be handled very carefully and treated special.I didn't do this at first and had many fights with my scorpio friend, but I think we have both finally come to an understanding with each other...