OPPOSITES ATTRACT: can it work?

Well to start off, I just want to say hello everyone! I am new to this and I hope you guys might be able to help me out with a little situation...
See, it's like this:

I am a Taurus inlove with a Scorpio. I have recently saw so many compatibility reports on our signs, and was wondering if it's true what they say about it??

I would love to hear your views on this!
I just don't want to make a mistake or rush into something that might lead to unhappiness...

P.S. it's true what they say about that magnetism part between a Taurus and Scorpio...

Come on Scorpios!!!!!!!
Give me some advice on how to handle you guys!! Wow, and I thought Taureans were slow...LOL I posted the same on the Taurus bord and got replies within a day... ;o))

No it will not work but go ahead anyway. Nothing works being with your own sign is almost like incest. So if you must pair up do it with another sign. I am wating to see if the scarpion stings the bull or the bull gores the scarpion.

Hi james tate,

Well to reply to your last comment: "...waiting to see if the scorpion stings the bull or the bull gores the scorpion..."

Actually, I was stung at the beginning when he said that we must go back at just being friends for now...the reason was me getting too close to him...which was understandable at first...but surprisingly he made the first move to come back to me...(and this happened within a week to be exact) I didn't talk to him anymore and ignored him completely...so he was this time being serious about asking my feelings towards him and so on...so my question is: Why would he come back if he's not interested?

the chase, darling. the hunt. he hasn't had you yet. it's a man thing.

It is time for the Taurus to become a Fox...and a smart one at that!!!!

Mr Patato is right so is freebird he wants something he cant have If he knows he can have it he has to have it. once he gets it he will loose interest.

LOL!

I do think it's the other way around JT...I am more likely to loose interest and get bored if the situation drag itself to be not interesting enough, but either way, I am not expecting glorious companionship within the next few months...btw, I know what I want and how to get it and keep it! I wish you a fine day sir... ;o))

Hi Taurus 🙂

I am a female scorp who had one particularly intense relationship with a male Taurus which was on-again/off-again for like six years. It was a very, very tumultuous, heated relationship in all respects (on the good side and the bad side). We seemed to push each other's buttons very easily, and major arguments could erupt at any given moment. But for the most part we would always come back together. (This was throughout my adolescence, between boyfriends and sometimes overlapping other relationships...yeah, I know, not so good of me, but I was younger then) Anyway, at one point he tried to get in my window when my parents weren't home and I wouldn't let him in after some fight we had, and he also once did break in to my house once when nobody was there, I had evidence that someone had been there and later he admitted it. Not cool. What else...he constantly mentioned the gun that he supposedly had in his car, he once used his male friends to try to intimidate me one of the times that I broke it off with him....A lot of this I've never told anyone, but my aim here is to show you what a negative Scorpio/Taurus pairing can be like (lol)...we are polar opposites, so the relationship will be powerful no matter what direction it takes. I love Taureans, I really do, but I don't know if I could handle another relationship with one. A couple years ago this particular Taurus asked me to marry him, completely serious, and I had to say no of course, but then he kept asking, and asking, and asking, because I wasn't gutsy enough to just not talk to him anymore, but I kept saying no and I'd give him all the reasons and he'd have an answer for all of them...and finally (and this is an extremely summarized outline I'm giving here) we got into one of our famous fights a couple years ago and he made up some crap about meeting some other girl who suddenly he's engaged to (but I knew he was making it up just to mentally play with me, he was always playing mental games like that with me and then going..."I was just testing you") - anyway I basically told him to f--- off, that I hated him to the core and I never wanted to see him again. Fairly recently, he called my house and left sad-sounding messages asking me to call him but I didn't. The plan is to never get involved with him again, he was extremely toxic to my happiness.

I think what kept bringing us together was a combination of sexual magnetism, and some kind of addiction to each other and to the intensity we generated when we were together.

To sum up, when things were good they were very good, and it seemed a perfect match, deep chemistry, soulful conversations, talks about our future, all the things anyone would dream about. But as soon as things got bad, they got scary-bad, like...stuff you see in movies bad. A lot of head games, manipulation, power games, all kinds of stuff. And there was always that thing in the back of my mind that he *could* potentially get physical during a fight, because he was always getting into serious fights with other guys, once he threatened a boyfriend of mine at the time with a baseball bat (that was a "really fun" thing to witness and have to intervene into) and because we would just push each other to the extreme limits.

That was quite an experience...not one I would have again. But I'm sure that some of these relationships can and do work just great. I think both people have to be very balanced and concious of the potential problems, though, and make a very strong effort to keep the relationship as calm and nurturing as possible, considering that the temper each sign has can be deadly, figuratively speaking.

phoenix who havent you had a relationship with?

Hi Phoenix! 🙂

Thank you for your reply!

Yes, most of what I am expierencing at the moment is the mystery and trust issue. Although, I can be both of that at some times but not overly like my scorp. We are taking it slow, and that is best for now. He's so energetic and I sometimes feel like being "left out" of certain things. But it is still a very young "relationship" and therefore requires alot of giving and getting...at this point he's giving alot and I am being a bit calm. The reason for this? I am not about to pour out my whole life story to him and then afterwards feel like maybe I shouldn't have...You see, we are far apart from each other at this moment and I don't even know if it will ever come to the meeting issue...I don't really worry about it that much, because I figured, if it's meant to be, it will happen. Mmmmmm, suddenly I don't feel like a Taurean saying this...wonder what my moon sign is? Like I am not that sensitive in some issues...I guess I have learned it the hard way in some of my prev. relationships - maybe one of the reasons I am being this way...

Btw, Phoenix...
Do you think it will be a good thing to say that I will be going on holiday with some friends to my scorp? I get the feeling he won't be happy about it...Any way I can tell him gently?

JAMES TATE: I have never had a relationship with an Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius, or Aquarius.

Taurus:
Don't be afraid to tell your Scorp about the fact that you're going on a holiday, in fact you must tell him and tell him honestly and without mincing words. We hate having secrets kept from us; he's likely to be far more weird and quiet and jealous if you don't tell him. Just make sure that you make it clear that you will miss him while you're gone and can't wait until you come back and can talk to him. Otherwise he will get the impression that you are happy to leave him, or you're planning on betraying him while you're gone. (We can be slightly paranoid)

I think being calm, yet open-minded is the right way to be in the situation. It's smart of you to not get too hyped up on his words, or how he *seems* - people lie. It's happened to me. Suddenly your hopes are dashed, your heart is shattered, you hate men for awhile. lol. Then you're determined to not let it happen again. Luckily, you are saving a lot of time by being careful to begin with.

I do not beleave you phoenix I was just on the pron site you started on another board and I must ask where did you get that photo of me. I am glad you put someone elses head on it. I wating for your new movie to come out Phoenix does the 12 signs.

scorpios hate others having secrets or people keeping things from them, because that's their tactic. it's ok for them, but not for anyone else. how hypocritical they are. but all is fair is love and war. i forgive them for their faults and weaknesses. i'm a cap. according to JT we're the lowest of lows. (i don't think so.) but i do think we all have faults to overcome.
jt...you're on a roll today....i can't stop laughing.
thanks.

AH my Mis pato from Penn, you are most welcome.

Hi Phoenix! 🙂

Okay here's my first update since the last time:

First of all, things are getting good...as a matter of fact great! I told my scorp about my holiday plans and assured him that I will be thinking of him. He replied very pleasant and happy to it...he did however asked where exactly I was going to spend my holiday time so I told him and even sent him a map of where exactly we'll be staying for the time being. He said as long as I take some pictures and show him when I get back. Which of course I will do! Anyways...I'll be gone for a while so please leave your comments here still...I'll look at them when I get back! I wish you all a happy summer and thanks for all the positive and informative comments here!

Talk to you guys soon!

Taurus

UPDATE:
Taurus vs. Scorpio (in this current situation..yes)

Current status of mind's emotion (mine):
((( AAAARRRRGGGGG !!! )))

Reason:
I don't really know (confused)

Problem:
Retreat, silence, not talking enough (refering to Scorp's behavior)

Question: I NEED ADVICE! (again)

This must be the "lowest" and weirdest feeling I've ever had:

Oh, first let me say hi guys!!!! My holiday period have officially started with a slight twist in trust, emotional torment...(yes, it's about my Scorp again, as if I don't have anything else to talk about..I do, but first I need some opinions/advice again...)

First of all....when did silence, without a reason, play part of any relationship/friendship? I mean, if you gonna stay quiet all of a sudden, you might as well just dissapear never to come back again. Or, is this the way to withdraw one's self, to see everything in a open perspective of reality again?

Well, yeah...this type of behavior is just not what I call being open and honest! So, what, am I suppose to accept this? Well, I could, if only I knew why...but yeah, it's almost like asking this question to a wall or closed door.

The last message I got from him was about his pc troubles...it crashed for some reason...and the fact that he was quite busy at that stage. Understandable, it can happen...
Moving on to emailing instead....but, I was like sending enough info on my daily happenings, while he was just not responding to it...then after about a week not talking (I decided not to send emails anymore)...he suddenly talks to me again...telling me how much he has missed me (of course)..but only to chat for a while before he left again...(not really enough time, if you ask me, to chat about anything, except for exchanging feelings etc...)

Sorry for shooting down on the details..but I am not sure what to make of this whole mystery (approaching misery). Can anyone please give me some advice on how to handle this correctly?

And, yes...my stubborn streak is pulling at my heals, because of this (only natural behavior for a Taurean who doesn't know what's going on and feeling blindfolded).

The question, however, is if he doesn't have time to reply to my emails, why in the name of love, does he even take the time to read them—

Soooooo....let me hear ya already! Any suggestions?

Signed,
Worried/Emotional Taurus

Ouch, I think you have been stung.

First of all, there is no advice for being in a relationship with a Scorpio. Second, I am married to one for 3 years WOW he actually got married, although it hasn't been easy. I'm not easy to get along with either.

So for butters and giggles, have fun, that is my way of being in this relationship.. You must always be yourself, even if he hates you, or hates the way you are acting. That is stiff punishment for loving a Scorp, but the rewards are so much, My Scorp loves me, in that complete way, he believes in me, he let's me be myself, crazy self. he tucks me in bed. he balances the check book. There are so many rewards to tough it out, but only if it is worth it.
CG

Hi CG

I'm sorry for not replying sooner...I've been a bit busy and ofcourse to get over that sting I got....(if you can call it that) didn't really last long...I recovered fast 🙂

I took your advice and I'm handling this in a fun way...and it's working Ha!

From Happy Taurus

Hiya Happy!!

Glad you are not stressing about being with a Scorpio. They are really nice to some people! LOL
One thing my Scop reminds me of often, that he isn't a mind reader and if I want something to tell him. I don't think they are too mysterious. Maybe some people to too timid to stand up and tell it like it is.

Stay Happy,

CG

I think Phonex rising makes a good point. Tell him up front the truth... this way your up and honest about the whole thing. He has to accept you for who you are. And if he has a problem with that then there is an issue with trust in your relationship. Scorps like someone who they can trust... I know I do...

hi haw r u i am a scorpio girl whos dating a taurus guy heis sweet and caring and i care about him very much.wat i dont understand is that u guys get very depresed and moody somethimes if things r going but wen it comes to money matters does that effect ur relationship also>——??