Out of No Where

Hi fellow Scorp ladies is it just me or are your old flames or people you might have talk to in the past making a return out of no where, I think it's a full-moon today maybe that it. I had a Sagg I meet back in Oct text me last night asking If I was still single, and could he take me out. Then this Aries a FB friend I really have spoken to in a while that is sending me messages this morning, and a Cappy who just txt me this morning that "he wants me" and that "he still loves me". Then there is the Sagg I am dating but I want more from, I feel like a confuse soul in my mind, my mind is all over the place I want to be settle with one men and happy but who deserves me.......

@scorpdiva,

what is your birthdate? including year!

@DMV 11/14/1978 I was born in Chicago, Illinois
also I am attracting a lot of fire signs lately it use to be earth signs

@Exo maybe it's something with the cappy, they just can be so damn persistent like they never give up

Let me rephrase the comment above I don't want to seem big headed like who deserve me, I mean when I settle down I plan on giving my heart, soul, and mind so I need a men who will be deserving of all this and I don't want to pass the good ones for the bad ones or waste my time with the bad ones so like EXO said I will just follow my heart.

@ellesque very good point, I am so content in my life right now it's ridiclous if I didn't have a man to the first I would be fine I am just simply content.

ok 2 things...

Venus is transiting through Sagittarius. SO everyone is feeling the love and reckless abandonment! Saggis feel it more than everyone.

secondly,

i checked out your transits. Your transits are what astrological flow your going through.

*venus conjunct mercury. You have a cheerful, friendly attitude today and enjoy socializing. You meet attractive people and conversations are witty and charming.

Yes I read about the venus transiting through Sagg and since that my rising I thought that might relate to me for instance when I read susan miller she always says read your rising sign also. I do feel cheerful today

My outlook right now:

The Sagg I am talking to now I truly feel like I love him and want to be with him but to me his attitude sometimes is indifferent to me like he wants to me to follow his rules or do the things that pleases him but he will not do the same, When I mirror what he does he then get upset or tries to act jealous and I know I am a scorp with a venus scorp but I never let my jealousy show cause I feel like I can trust him but when he says jealous shit to me it makes me think he is doing something. If I break things off with him I feel like I will regret it but what If I can't get this relationship how it should be I don't want a relationship where there is always a battle between me and him that why I feel like sometimes too I am open to other men for true happiness, but would it really be I don't know so what can you do but wait it out and let the cards play themselves.

interesting outlook.

what are you asking that he isnt doing?

9-12 Sagittarius/Pisces
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a nature with much scope and depth. Your love of mankind is genuine and deep-rooted, and you are always looking for a cause to which you can devote your time and effort. You respond to people in such an understanding and broad-minded way. Tolerance is so pronounced in your nature that it can sometimes be to your detriment; you can actually be understanding when you should be putting your foot down. Most of the time, however, you have such great powers of insight and of recognizing the truth. You live in a world of ideals and are not greatly interested in things on the material plane. You are not one to blow your own horn, in fact, it would almost seem you possess a true sense of humility of spirit. Emotionally, you are impressionable and romantic, and you can be imposed upon by individuals who play on your general sympathetic approach. You are forgiving, incapable of holding a grudge, and utterly free of meanness, spite, jealousy, or vengefulness. Perhaps you aren't practical minded, but you do know your own worth and you can succeed in your own way at whatever you do. Success may depend upon overcoming restlessness and perhaps a tendency to worry too much. You underestimate your own abilities, to keep in the background of affairs or lack somewhat in self-confidence. You dislike petty details and boring routine, but at the same time you can gain most in developing concentration and in focusing your energies on definite objectives.


@scorp diva, does this sound like him?

@DMV for instance his work schedule is crazy this I know so why can't you give me atleast 2 or 3days out of your week to spend time together you always have this or that to do,it doesnt even have to be ever week. He always has to do this or that so I leave it alone and then whe he feels like I am ignoring him or he wants SUM then I get a crazy text from him like you are not doing your part or your don't really care about me. I tried to express that I care, I have tried to spend time what more can I do. Secondly his phone I know sagg don't have good etiquette so I understand but if I call you please let me know some time that day oh sorry I was sleep or busy and I will talk to you later, I told him this he did what I ask for about a good week then back to the same ole.

That description sounds like him, exactly like him
you have such great powers of insight and of recognizing the truth (he does)
Emotionally, you are impressionable and romantic, He can be very romantic out first date he really knock me off my feet roses, downtown chicago nice resturant, rubbing feet the whole nine... but it's like now he think he has me or something or maybe he doesn't have as much time to be romantic.
he recently change work schedule in the begining of the year he works nights sometimes, then days, and swing he will do doubles and sometimes only get like one day off and he has kids so he has to spend time with too which I understand, but I still think he has something else stressing him that he hasn't told me. Also I know he is a Sagg and he has a outgoing friendly personality but his rising has to be an earth sign I am thinkin cause he is a workaholic and he is very laid back.

speaking of him he just txt me "I think you are only happy when we are beefing(into it)
I replied " not true, I try my best to keep everything cool with us, but the min I do something you don't like it's a problem when I look past a lot of things that you do that bother me"

speaking of him he just txt me "I think you are only happy when we are beefing(into it)


*no shit, this is something ive said to my scorp. WOW...

there is some truth to this or he wouldnt have said it. i feel like hes right. the only time when my scorp was happy was when we are beefing, when there is some type of tension between us. what i wouldnt have given for a normal week. nope whenever i think we were good, BAM. i get hit with a game.

silence and normalcy bores scorpios. you guys need tension in some way in order to FEEL. how do i know, im a scorpio moon. the first time i hit my scorp with a game, it blew his mind. cause now he has compeition in the drama department.

sag men do tend to work alot! i have a sag FWB for over a year and he is always on the GO. either working or doing something. always. saggis are much like a moving target.

so with the phone etiquette. he got better but then resorted back to his ways. this lets you know that this is a hard area for him to make a real adjsutment, if any! something you may have to accept.

something does bother me though....sag men dont necesarily get comfortable, we get bored. and drama doesnt fuel our attention like it does for scorpios.

he must feel unappreciated in some way. whenver i start to "slip up" its because im bored as fuck or feeling unloved and unappreciated (then again im a scorp moon and a venus cap).

Pisces tend to set sail every once in awhle...since he is a pisces moon.

scorpios dont view it as beefing. you view it as why has my lover gone distant. let me check to see if he still loves me or not. heres a test.

he must feel unappreciated, I could see this maybe becuase I did go like a couple of days without calling or texting him so he needs some type of communication everyday, he could have easily call or txt me but did he no cause I think he wants to be in control. Like you said in another text he needs to let just a little of that control go.

hes just hesistant...

You have to be careful with guys who "come out of nowhere" wanting to rekindle a flame.

I watch guys and noticed tendencies in some who don't really want anything- it's more of an ego thing for them. In other words, they wanna see if you're attracted to them or if they still got it, so to speak.

You can judge if they're serious by how hard they pursue you. Words must match actions.

Exactly Scorp Sup my the guy I was talking about a cappy he text me again this morning at about 2A.M saying "I Love You". it's like thanks but no thanks your action dont beg that up, I am over it so you should be too........

Scorpdiva, It's not just you. I think it has a lot to do with the sting.... they all come back.