Pisces problem

Vent time! Advice is welcomed.

Ok guys, I just got back with my ex pisces, a week ago. And there are already problems! 😢 He is still bringing up the person he broke up with me over. He still thinks I like cancer when I dont even talk to him anymore. He hasnt even seen me and him together or heard anything and he is coming up with all of this imaginary stuff. And the fact is, he thinks it is ok to say to me "i still think u like him" and acts like it is nothing. And I do not want to say anything, because we will argue, and I think he'll just give up. He also tends to take everything I say to heart, we were on the telephone and he says "why do you have an attitude" I said "oh no I dont, i just have a headache" and he says "oh well then I'll just call you back since you have a headache" he was being sarcastic. So I said "bye" He does stupid stuff like call me 10 min. later. He is always pissed at me for something, like he feels that I am up to something. And its like that all of the time, he can never process that he is the only one I want. But he talked to my friend and said he wants to stop being so jealous but cannot help it. I think he can.

Also, it's like he thinks I'm out to get him with his remark before we went together, "you know you can't hurt my feelings, no one can" out of no where and i told him "i dont want to, i didnt say anything about that" then he goes "oh." what kind of mess is that? Did you realize what you just said and how out there it was? I mean, he's been hurt badly before but it does not reflect on me, I never hear this problem from all the other girls he went with. Then he has these things where he just looks at me and I'm like "—", does he think I am un-attractive or something, why are you looking at me like that!! And he wont stop, I wonder what he is thinking... but I'm told I do that to people too, he said I do it to him, so it's no big deal.

But he watches over me, and I try to make it clear to him that I'm not doing anything. I told him if I were to find someone better than I would dump him. And he said "OH MY GOD!" and hung up in my face, thats wasn't mean, that was sweet. He is just doing some out of control stuff that makes me think what the hell, I mean I still love him... but woa.

Could the suspicion be because HE is up to something ? ??

Maybe he's pumping you for info through being a bit paranoid.Or maybe even a test as to the first paragraph.It's new again so give it a little time maybe.He might have sensed you were lying so should of told the truth maybe on the phone about the headache thing.He might figure out the bluntness when he's actually feels reassured.He most likely loves you and no doesn't think your unattractive.Mine doesn't get why I get paranoid when he does that,to him it's just natural being as "Tiamat his woman".Just calm down girl wait it out a little.He might lighten up in a little while after he feels more secure.You can kick his butt verbally later when he's more rational about it.

BS:

You're incurable mazochist...

haffo i find no pleasure in suffering, maybe being dominated... a little bit though

Hrm..this guy is very insecure when it comes to you. This may stem from the fact that he feels he doesn't deserve you in some way (and he probably doesn't) 😉

Some little hints...when we say we'll let you go cause you have a headache..we actually WANT you to say "Oh no...I don't want you to go. I'll manage." Sick? Yes...but the truth.

He keeps bringing up this other guy because he is looking for reassurance from you. If he is the only one you want, tell him. That is exactly what he is after. Have a discussion about this jealousy issue. Keep telling him he has nothing to worry about in this area, and if you don't give him a real reason to feel jealous, this will eventually subside.

I'm glad you chose to give this another try. Once you work through the issues, this could be a very rewarding relationship for both of you. Hang in there, and don't give up on him! He's just a little insecure fishie right now. 😉

>>when we say we'll let you go cause you have a headache..we actually WANT you to say "Oh no...I don't want you to go. I'll manage."

Oh hun, I KNOW. That is why I said GOODBYE. 🙂 I don't like when people fish for attention like that. He does that all the time, the first time he dumped me and said he only wants us to be friends, I said "okay." and left it at that. And he said "what do you mean okay!?" and I said "I meant okay." He was pissed, but you get what you ask for.

LOL!

BS, you are not just like to have pain for yourself but you also like to make someone in pain too. That's sick!!

^^ NO HAFFO!

^^YES BS!

Wanting to see if you'd grobble for him beautifulscorpion?Don't mess with a young scorpios pride it will bite ya in the ass.I remember that thing,had it once,I think I lost it or something when I found out how to be a dumb ass intentionally for fun.I don't know*rambling old fart moment*snif,snif you make me proud.*pats BS on the back,two thumbs up*

Tia:

BS simply needs a good groaning. After than she will be nice to him.

How bout no. I am nicer than he is. It's just that he takes stuff up the butt a little too much.

Don't you think that you are too cold for him as a girlfriend?

Insecure and Horny,...
Sums me up.

LoL

Haffo.This is just the perfect example of why some pisces and most cancers prefer each other over scorpios,we don't play games to feed thier center of attention/insecurity needs.The ones with self confidence seems to be the ones that go for us and end up happy.He deserves it from what i've read so far,some pisces need a kick in the butt from reality that there's two poeple in thier relationship not just them.It works when the pisces is mature enough to know that the person is there because they do want to be there and stop confusing the"if they don't roll over for me over every little whime I have",as a they don't love me.Based on past stuff that sometimes don't even include the person they're currently with at all,maybe even they have a preconcieved perfect fantasy notion.They won't get the perfect imaginary partner when reality calls.Remember cancerladys man.

It's raining here.

He understands that she will dump him in the first chance as she get new BF.

>>Don't you think that you are too cold for him as a girlfriend?

Nope. I have softened up big time from how I used to be.

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Him being horny is nothing wrong with me, that makes two of us!

>>He understands that she will dump him in the first chance as she get new BF.

He would do the same thing.

"He would do the same thing."

You are more likely to do so. First sign for that is acting cold.

Ha ha oweee, i think he maybe bored,lol.when pisces get bored and start dropping hints,time to move on. But i'm giving u a challenge Scorpio, don't call him fo a week. keep yoself busy.Let's see who really deserving of who and trust.

>>when pisces get bored and start dropping hints,time to move on

We just got back together, for the 3rd time.
If he felt like dumping me he would definitely do it without dopping hints.

>>But i'm giving u a challenge Scorpio, don't call him fo a week
I've done that before.. :\ not a good idea at all. lol