Pisces dating their own kind: good or bad??

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by sleepkel23 on Saturday, March 19, 2005 and has 34 replies.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Altough I got Sun in Pisces, I find myself always center of people in every enviroument lol. I dont care what people write about Pisces, 70% is BS. If I come to this world even once again, I want to be what I am now again. The only thing that I want to see near me, is same person with same traits that I got.

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@Sea Siren
21 Years1,000+ Posts

My experience with Pisces men, (and these are JUST THE ONES I have met, mind you. I'm not saying all Piscean men are this way) is that they are looking for a mother, not a lover. And, well, if I wanted a kid..I'd have one. I enjoy their creativity and can talk to them for hours, but as a relationship, just not what I'm looking for. 😉

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@sleepkel23
21 YearsPisces

Wow, well I have dated a few pisces and emotionally we connected, I felt like they really knew the inner hidden part of me that most did not notice, but see I have very high standards and all of the pisces that I have dated always were kinda sloppy and insecure, in my eyes they settled for less, I want to accomplish many things before I die, and to them a romantic evening was drinking a beer and having a barbie-q every friday.. yeah it is nice, but sometimes I want to do other things, like walk downtown, go to a opera and learn with the person I love, I dont know, maybe I am crazy.. one of the reasons why I asked everyone this question is because I always meet other pisces. so Its very interesting to hear your thoughts.. I think pisces are great and the chances of me dating another pisces may be great as well, it just depends on the chemisty with any person, it doesnt really matter what the sun sign is! But I still love taurus-geminis/ Any body out there who is—
Sleepkel23

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

People do us a favour and place your Signs on your profiles. This site is about zodiacs and people post and read here. Please update your profiles so we know whom we are dealing with.

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Whats going on here? Why do all people say about Pisces like a*holes of humanity? I dont get this point. Where do all of this is trying to be guided?

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

haffo

I Have a same battle in Virgo forum...! My guess is some form of "office rats" with the same IP try to make fun of people meaning and opinions?. Some of those are known "teen jerks" always tampering the forums and think it is fun to do so? locate those people please and report these as.sho.les to the administrator.

It'll help to block those jerks to disturb the boards members.

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

What is annoying is that several people could share a same IP (thru a single server) and having group "idiot fun" or one person bashing around with several ID's.

Both are stupid if you ask me? "Immature games" for the idiots.

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@Sea Siren
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Haffo, what I meant by the mother comment is that the pisces men I have known have needed a woman to take care of them, rather than an equal 50/50 partnership. They are all very artistic and creative, which I love, but the concept of getting a REAL job to pay the bills while they wait for their artistic career to take off has seemed to be a foriegn concept to the Pisces men I have known. Meanwhile, the woman in their life has had to support them. As a Pisces myself, I like to feel feminine, and me bringing home the bacon and supporting the male in the relationship is just not my cup of tea. I prefer a partnership that is more equal. And once again, I don't think that all Pisces men are this way. Just the several I have met..but they have all had this particular trait.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Excuse me, do those Pisces people that you know were your husbands or lovers, because it will be weird for me if you pay their bills. If we talkign about material relationship then I got you. But if we talking about emotional relationship, what kind of things make you think about them "unequalled".

"how people respond to their ideas"

Yo. This is my real life motto for thesedays. Its wonderful to know how people respond to any situations. What kind of differences they can create. It gives you mind of possibilies, and when real situations occur, you just do learn some litle details and identify which possiblity is currently occuring. That is great skill. I want it.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Damn those boards, they do not provide editing over posted message.

"Excuse me, do those Pisces people that you know were your husbands or lovers, because if they are lovers it will be weird for me if you pay their bills."

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Heh

Thanks. Thats because I'm not the native English speaker and still learning. (Damnit, Is that was me who made this stupid mistake? that cant be so bad 🙂...).

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

I am totally agreed with you Branh0913, and I didnt had anything against that in in my last post.

Even I as being a real "Dreamer" (LOL, I like to speak about myself like that) don't like to just sit and wait for my plans to sort themself out. I always do something. Not just I hate to lose 1 day for nothing (even hour), I also dont appretiate people who do nothing. But I do not place them in unwanted people list so fast. Life may place them into looping position and their talent may be wasted. First I will try to find out their real personality and deside if they worth for help. If they fail then I will leave them. If they succeed, I may earn lifelong friend and supporter (Isnt real supporters is in great need in life?).

Qbone:
Yep. I cant live without it. Even if I have everything.

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@sleepkel23
21 YearsPisces

I totally agree w/ Bran. I would not be with a person who only dreams and is overly emotional. Emotion is great but I need someone who is ambitious and can separate their emotions especially when they get upset. I do jump to conclusions and sometimes I will be an emotional gamit but that is only if a person has been pushing my buttons for such a long time and I have used up all of my logical coupons. 50/50 is the only way a relationship is ever going to work. Now inside the bedroom sometimes it is not always even.. but that takes work too..

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

I do not agree with you about this. Yes, do not tolerate such situation is ok, but adressing this as sort of only Pisces problem is unfair. There is many people from other signs that even worse than that.

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@Sea Siren
21 Years1,000+ Posts

LOL! Well I know two other pisces men who are the same way. My girlfriend lives with an "artist" who sits around and draws all day, meanwhile she works full time and goes to school part time.

A good friend of mine is a male pisces, and his parents have bought him a house, a new car, and paid for his schooling while he pursues a career in new age music. How he "pursues" this by hanging around the house all day, I have no idea.

And as I've stated twice, I don't think all Pisces men are this way. But as I've met three that are..it just seems to be a trait they sort of tend to cultivate.

And no, my ex's band broke up. I heard he had a new one, but I haven't seen them perform. I'm sure they are good though. He really, truly is a wonderful musician. Just not practical enough for me. I need someone like that to balance out my own dreaminess and escapist tendencies.

And haffo, please realize when I am saying these things, I am also talking about traits that I possess myself. Seeing those same things in your partner, as someone said before, is just too much sometimes.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Interesting. Could you tell me please, are they act this way because they lack of life experience and dont know how to handle it or just acting carelessly.

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@Sea Siren
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Personally, I think they are hiding from reality because they think they can't face it. Too harsh. And all of we Pisces can be like that...but sooner or later..you have to face it or it will bite you in the bum. I think many Pisces, men and women, just don't realize their own strength. We take a lot of crap from a lot of people throughout our lives, which makes us stronger than most. Once we realize that, I think we come into our own. I've only realized this myself over the last two years or so. 😉

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

The one interesting thing that I discovered by reading issues about Pisces is that they have much more strenght to whistand than they believe to have. You may noticed that when crisis situation arise (come by themself), there is "hidden power" that helps us whistand it. This is not just power, this is enormous power. It is definetly more than any strong character in whole zodiac have. Be aware of it.

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@twinflame2
21 Years500+ Posts

I have to agree it is not a right thing to do to take advantage of someone financially. I have been in two situations where a man in my life expected me to support him without any help. And I was raising a child on my own also and it was very difficult to make it each month. The person acted like they did not even care how hard it was making things for me. I finally made each of them leave my home. There seem to be more and more people that are like that in todays world, and it takes two people working to make life have any level of comfort for anyone. It is one of the most dissrespectful things a person can do to another I think.