On saturday I was abroad and about to leave on Sunday. I met a scorp and we slept together...he kept asking when i was leaving but I didnt not answer for some reason...I needed to hurry home so we exchanged numbers and departed though we didnt know each others names. We corresponded abit over the phone and I told him I was going tomorow...I left him my email and msn and he added me.
When I got home we corresponded abit on msn, he seems to have thought I was on holiday and when i clarified that i had the left the country semi-permanently (I intended to return there in December), he seemed to have got a little pissed off. When I asked for his name he replied in a short monotone way and said he did not want to know my name. Then he logged off.
I think I've gotten attached to him...so today I left a voice mail on his phone and apologized for not telling him I was leaving the country the next day and that fate played us. Then I said that I could not forget "that night" and would call him sometime...that is if he wanted me to.
He feels you deceived him by omitting this information. In fact, in his head, you LIED to him. As you've already left the message, all you can do is wait and see if he contacts you. I bet he'll show up on msn or something, but you'll probably have to initiate the conversation, or you'll both just sit there and stare at each other's screen names.
"but i'm just wondering if the sex was that good, that now she's regretting NOT getting his name"
Yeah, I usually get their name and number (birth certificate, AIDS test, Social Security number, etc.) before letting them "enter the sanctum", as it were. There was that one night at the Halloween party with "Batman", but..nevermind.
"at the very least. i mean, if the sex is good, and he's a scorp, so we should ASSUME it was good,
Naw. They're not ALL good. There are quite a number of posts in the archives here that can attest to that. I'm thinking she was on vacation, having a good time (and maybe a few two many cosmos, Leo?) and didn't think too much of it. Did she owe it to him to tell him all her future plans after one night? I don't think so.
"LOL! but you forget ss..he's a scorp, and by GOD, how DARE she not bow down to him and give him all her information and itinerary."
LOL...Leo you should hang until he gets over what I call "the pity-pouts". You didn't do anything wrong. I do recommend getting at least a name first next time, though.
But, then again, in the dark, all cats are gray. 🙂
"Paul said that his daughter drew a picture and he asked her what it was and she replied "It's Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds." He denies it's about LSD."
"I bet he'll show up on msn or something, but you'll probably have to initiate the conversation, or you'll both just sit there and stare at each other's screen names" - he did actually, today and even IM-ed me lol.
"But how are you suddenly attached to someone you don't even know and just had sex with is my question??" - The sex was extremely intense and wonderful for a start and secondly I think it was relatively emotional too on a level.
"but i'm just wondering if the sex was that good, that now she's regretting NOT getting his name" - Well he did tell me and when he said he didn't want to know mine, I gave it to him anyway haha. So effectively he knows against his will.
We corresponded abit over the phone and I told him I was going tomorow...I left him my email and msn and he added me.
When I got home we corresponded abit on msn, he seems to have thought I was on holiday and when i clarified that i had the left the country semi-permanently (I intended to return there in December), he seemed to have got a little pissed off. When I asked for his name he replied in a short monotone way and said he did not want to know my name. Then he logged off.
I think I've gotten attached to him...so today I left a voice mail on his phone and apologized for not telling him I was leaving the country the next day and that fate played us. Then I said that I could not forget "that night" and would call him sometime...that is if he wanted me to.
Is there hope?