Player Information Exchange

okay, this is a players only thread...if you are juggling less than three members of the opposite sex, this thread does NOT apply to you and i am STRONGLY encouraging you NOT to clog up this topic with meaningless posts...

okay, so now that i have gotten the players' attention, i would like some helpful advice on juggling 3 women or more at a time...to be more specific, how do you compartmentalize everyone so that shit doesnt get too messy?

to be clear, i only play the field and have so many girls at one time out of necessity....i am in love with a girl and i am sure she is the love of my life, but after 2.5 years, this girl has given me no form of security whatsoever. so some time ago, i resigned myself to the realization that maybe things between us wont work out...

as a player myself, i am of the firm belief that insurance is a good thing when it comes to love and the opposite sex..so i keep a lot of girls in constant rotation as a form of insurance...just in case things between the love of my life and i dont work out..i mean, even if things between you and the love of your life dont work out, i think its best to have a plan b and a plan c...i mean, why should you end up with nothing in the end?

that makes no sense...losers end up with nothing and i love to win...so its always nice to have options to fall back on...

when you are a player, you are the prize and you just sit back and let the opposite sex compete for your time and affection....

sounds like a great secnario...except if you are like me and you are in the situation and find that you are getting spread way too thin from all of the juggling thats involved in playing the field..

so players, please help me out...how do you keep everyone as happy as possible without jeapordizing your standing as the prize to be won? i know you cant please everyone, so i mean to say, without outright lying and being dishonest, how do you keep all of your prospects content enough so that they still chase you and recognize you as the prize, while still going after the true prize in your eyes?

I thought you were a dingleberry before, now it's official.

To OP, and yes, I am clogging your thread with useless non-player tips. Get over it.

okay, so where is the helpful advice i was asking for, king p?

you took the time to tell me that you have 5 women, but offered no constructive advice..its nice to know you think i am living a lie, but since you have 5 women and all, surely you could EASILY help out a player like myself who only has THREE to worry about!

well, it would be 4 but i left her in france when i moved and decided that since she is 50 and i am only 32, we really wouldnt have any long term potential..but the sex was definitely hot while it lasted...


so, that aside, help a player out...this should be a piece of cake for you...


i posted this over an hour ago and got only one reply!

what an idiot i must be for thinking that there would be any players on here who could actually help me out in the first place..i mean, this is dxp after all..this place aint exactle player central...just a bunch of geeks trying to get e-laid...

umm, "dingleberry"?!?


who the hell still uses that word and what part of the usa are you from again? i bet when you state the name of your trailer park it will all make sense...


and trust me, im way over your senseless, unsolicited post..

carry on..

okay, i havent evolved because i recognize the need for multiple insurance policies?

but whatever, i am not here to convince you of how evolved i am as a human being...i could care less what anyone thinks about that..

but what, you dont hit that number anymore because you are too old, or are you just too evolved?

think about that and get back at me...

players recognize players just like real recognizes real...and in the game of love, there are no gurantess which is why i stated previously that i am a firm believer in having insurance policies for myself...

the best player can get played and i know because i feel like i was played by another consummate player, and because i got played by her, i took out numerous insurance policies, hence this thread..

why do i feel like you wanna run around in circles and dance with me, king p?

Posted by PrinceofTheUniverse
umm, "dingleberry"?!?


who the hell still uses that word and what part of the usa are you from again? i bet when you state the name of your trailer park it will all make sense...


and trust me, im way over your senseless, unsolicited post..

carry on..

As if I would grace you with either my place of residence or anything of the sort.
Like I give two figs what you think about me or my post. You wonder why you have problems with women? I will tell you why. You are a cad, a bounder. A pile of steaming hemmorrhoidal tissue. In short, not fit to lick the feces off of one of my satin pumps.
If you were indeed such a magnificent player, you'd not need advice from anyone. Now, if you will excuse me, I need to pay the mortgage on my 4 bedroom house. And cleanse my brain with bleach to remove the stain of your stupidity. Have a wonderful evening.

you have a mortgage?

what a loser...


winners pay cash...remember that..




and i see why you are so out of touch that you use words like "dingleberry"...you are 39, for god's sake! no wonder!

that word was in use about 20 years ago, when you were still young! remeber those days? they were good, werent they? but for you unfortunately, youth is but a fleeting memory..

now all you have to look forward to is likely another 15 years of mortgage payments, which aint such a good thing considering the mortgage crisis in the usa, and more grey hair and more outdated words!

cheers...

Posted by PrinceofTheUniverse
you have a mortgage?

what a loser...

winners pay cash...remember that..

and i see why you are so out of touch that you use words like "dingleberry"...you are 39, for god's sake! no wonder!

that word was in use about 20 years ago, when you were still young! remeber those days? they were good, werent they? but for you unfortunately, youth is but a fleeting memory..

now all you have to look forward to is likely another 15 years of mortgage payments, which aint such a good thing considering the mortgage crisis in the usa, and more grey hair and more outdated words!

cheers...

Go to church. Find a nice girl. Drive a boring car.
or
Drive all the girls crazy. Stay in hell.

If you really paid cash for a house ... you could just BUY a girl and not bother us.

Did you not hear what he said guys? "playa's only!" haha

i can give you lessons but it's going to require a modest down payment. do you have paypal?

*da game is to be sold, not told*

Posted by LovelyScorp
March 15th is a Pisces, right?

Sure is. That's the birthday of the creature that brought me to this board. lol

"well, it would be 4 but i left her in france when i moved and decided that since she is 50 and i am only 32, we really wouldnt have any long term potential..but the sex was definitely hot while it lasted..."

So, you hitting the retirement homes now Playa? Hang out in the local restaurants during the earlybird specials decked out in your polyester suit and they will fall at your feet!

Did we used to date? Jake, is that yooooou?

I still want my CDs back, you dick! 😛

🙂

Actually, this brings up a question. Has anyone else noticed that players' names have an unusual tendency to start with "J"?

lol I noticed this trend and spent the last five years of my single-dom avoiding them. So sorry you didn't get a slice of this pie, Jeremy, Jimmy and Jeff! 😛

lol! I think you may be onto something, BG. J must be a subliminal message of WARNING! 😛

Posted by LovelyScorp March 15th is a Pisces, right?

Posted by ScorpioPics Sure is. That's the birthday of the creature that brought me to this board. lol
-- However she is not what has kept me here. Two below have.

Posted by KingPisces I was brought here by a Scorp. Fancy that.
-- Interesting (Seriously). But forgive me if I don't go into shock. lol

Posted by SeaVixen2 hahahaha...I came to DXP in search of info on Scorpio
I hope you found some good stuff.

Posted by LovelyScorp and look how great you turned out KingPisces, he still has hope

I think we all have a character arc on this board.
It changes us - by making us more self-aware. Agree?

Posted by seavixen2
...and if i hear that ish about "don't hate the playa..hate the game" I will seriously e-puke

dont hate the playa hate the game owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmfao.


now clean up ur mess lmao.



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Posted by Pesca2
playing games is risky. playing with other people's feelings and emotions is just plain wicked. and there is a term for this: what goes around comes around.

to be able to maintain this situation of yours you will have to lie and be deceitful. you will be on edge constantly. checking and rechecking - change your behaivour and so on and so forth; eventually this construction will break down.

but the worst thing will be that you lie to yourself.

Exactly, plus I wouldn't trade my mermaid for any other woman out there.

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All human interactions are temporary. Do not get attached to that woman. Unless you desire to suffer.

Posted by KingPisces


The connection between she and I is that of the soul. It is ever lasting, racing towards infinity, beyond mortality, hard to comprehend by those that are superficial. We might not be perfect due to our human nature but our love is eternal.

I used to have one of those ever lasting, racing towards infinity, beyond mortality, hard to comprehend by those that are superficial connections with a Pisces girl, too! - Was totally awesome while it lasted!


lol

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Posted by Pesca2
playing games is risky. playing with other people's feelings and emotions is just plain wicked. and there is a term for this: what goes around comes around.

to be able to maintain this situation of yours you will have to lie and be deceitful. you will be on edge constantly. checking and rechecking - change your behaivour and so on and so forth; eventually this construction will break down.

but the worst thing will be that you lie to yourself.

Exactly, plus I wouldn't trade my mermaid for any other woman out there.

All human interactions are temporary. Do not get attached to that woman. Unless you desire to suffer.

The connection between she and I is that of the soul. It is ever lasting, racing towards infinity, beyond mortality, hard to comprehend by those that are superficial. We might not be perfect due to our human nature but our love is eternal.

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Poet, nothing is forever, much less something as sensory based as human attraction. Regardless of all the flowery words, that girl - or you - will eventually stop 'feeling' what you are or what she's feeling for you. And she might find someone she likes better.

A guy I know had the same idea. All romantic, very cute stuff. His wife cheated on him and now he's a schizophrenic.

As I've said. Desire(love is desire) leads to suffering. Attachment leads to loss of self and the loss of self leads to the destruction of your conscious mind.

Posted by KingPisces
@Simius:

And this is coming from the man that explicitily said he would run away from a fight and not defend a woman in order to protect his own welfare...? What if that woman was your own mother? You can't love anyone if you only love yourself...If everyone had you mentality of abandonment then you and I wouldn't exist and mankind would cease...It's love for which keeps us going my friend. I may be a poet and a graceful romantic but I did admit of being human and prone to making mistakes. She knows that and I know that. It's not about the mistakes...It's what she and I do afterwards and what happens after the sun rises.

Yes, this coming from a man who wasn't indoctrinated by Feminist ideas(this entire world is a feminist society); why would a woman's life be more valuable than mine?

When I was built to do far more things than a woman could ever could? My life should be traded for a woman's life because she has a womb? Why does that make her special? There are artificial wombs out there(or being worked on, not sure). Does that mean the wombs are special?

I only have one life and when you see guys dead, stabbed, because they were protecting their female friends, when you see guys getting their heads smashed because some guy wanted some guy's girlfriend, when you see(the whiter feather propaganda) women offering white feathers to the men who didn't go to the wars(its a sign of cowardly), you realize that all that man has been doing since we appeared on this planet has been done to get laid.

Is that romantic enough for you? All this technology, all the wars fought; everything was done to please women.

I remember reading some guy who earned the Nobel Prize in Literature. He said that everything he did, he did to meet a pretty girl. All the respect I had for the guy was lost. So basically the guy was a vagina - worshiper(like most males). How about living for yourself, creating stuff for yourself, and protect yourself, instead of laying down your life for a woman?

And they say women have the lowest self -esteems? At least they have some self - esteem! Men, if they are giving their life, working themselves into an early grave to support a wife and a family(and lets not forget about the alimony), and all the time, emotion, effort, the dramas you guys put up with to get laid or to get female attention, then you guys deserve the crappy lives

crappy lives you're all going to have.

Since you lot don't want to break free from the chains of dreams.

Seriously, it sure amazes me how most guys are still living by 12th century ideals. Look, women abort. Millions of unborn babies were killed, that is, when a woman miscarriages, she has lost the baby, but when she decides to abort, its fine because it wasn't formed yet. Give me a break? Look at the amount of divorces being initiated by women. Look at how get drunk and take drugs. Look at how women will have occasional sex(because it either feels good or because she wants to stick it to the big man), and you're telling me that I'll never know how to love?

Have you ever heard of the golden key under the pillow? many, many males are being raised by their divorced/single mothers(because they divorce the kid's father). What happens? The males, have, as the only source of attention, a woman. So they grow up trying to act feminine and sweet and romantic, to attract a woman, thinking that women want that(trust me, as soon as a masculine man appears, there goes the feminine guy). Worse, these guys spend their lifetime worrying about getting female approval.

The golden key under the pillow is what keeps you from achieving male Independence. If you ever manage to break free from your feminist indoctrination, the next step towards your male freedom is to stop carrying so much about what mommy thinks of you. Then you'll realize that all this romantic nonsense and this "our love will stay forever" is nothing more than an attempt at trying to recapture your mother's attention and approval. Only then will you become a man.

Not this parody of "manhood" you see around. Bunch of guys parading around with their entire faces shaved off, expensive clothes(women like fashion!), their need to speak of feelings and and emotions and to tell their girlfriends about everything.

For crying out loud. Grow a friking pair of balls and go hunt a bear!

"What if that woman was your own mother? You can't love anyone if you only love yourself...If"

Hey, did you know that my mother farts and burps like every other guy? Did you know that my mother is flawed, and that the fact that she gave me birth doesn't make her the Virgin Mary or something like that? My mother is old. I am young. To die for her would be senseless and she knows it.

Fella, why would I want to love anyone but me? Why would I need to? What for? To get an emotional high that feminist guys like you claim to be true, everlasting love? Nothing stands forever, let alone something as illusory as bodily chemicals. Understood? Human beings aren't meant to stay forever. Human beings are made to feel attraction - lust - what you consider love, for the propagation of the species. Did you know that asexuals very rarely feel "love"? Why would they? They weren't made to reproduce.

Do you know the difference between a masculine man and a feminine man? it really has nothing to do with the scruffy facial hair or the muscles. It has everything to do with how you carry yourself, what you think of yourself and how you treat yourself. Do you honestly believe that Phillip II of Macedonia gave a flying damn about what his wife felt when he was away expanding his empire?

Do you think the colonizers of the American West cared about their women "emotional needs" when they were toiling the fields, gaining themselves an early grave? Do you think the American Indies were worrying about women's need for attention when they were keeping the colonizers away from the land?

Do you think the Spaniards were worried about being cheated back home, when they were conquering the lands of the Incas?

Look fella, little children need attention and affection. If women need those things; what can you conclude from that information?

What the hell? A man, a true man puts his interests above everything else and above everyone else. This is called self - esteem. It'd do you some good to have some of this. Seriously, this is ridiculous. How we went from sea faring people, conquerors, liberators, and heroes(true heroes, not this silly concept of chivalry and dying to save women) to THIS.

A bunch of guys talking about feelings and how to make their girlfriends feel good. How about a sex change?

Man, we're really living in the century, the century of the decline of Man. A guy criticizes a woman, he gets called a woman - hater. A man won't put his life on the line for a woman, that means he's a coward, not a real man. Did you know that hundreds of years ago when Casanova was alive, he was considered a creep, something to be avoided because he gave so much of himself to women and made women the focus of his life? While the other guys were kicking ass, founding new sciences, battling the diseases and so on, this casanova was following women around. And now, centuries after his death he's admired by most males.

Because most males made the pursuit of vagina their lifelong goal. This is what they live for. They spend inane amounts of cash on women hoping to get sex. They head to the gym - not with the desire to stay healthy - but to get those beach muscles to attract women. They dress clothes that seem pretty much what a sissy would wear, again, to attract women. They shave off the entirety of their face because women don't like bearded males(never mind that when men ruled this world, most of them had fully grown beards) and boy, do I laugh when I hear of guys waxing of their pubes or body.

I'm a man. I have a furry chest and body and that's how its going to stay. I was made to look like a man, I'm sure Nature didn't intend for me to act and think and look like a woman, while having male genitalia. But then again, what do I know? I'm wrong because I think I should worry about myself instead of worrying about a woman who will have her life saved by me, then get another guy while I'm rotting inside my grave.

If everyone had you mentality of abandonment then you and I wouldn't exist and mankind would cease."

Does that mean that if everyone didn't want to walk through a forest, it would cease to exist? Please, use some imagination. If people had my mentality, we'd evolve faster. Have you ever heard of artificial wombs? genetic engineering? Do you know what those "things" are? Genetic engineering is the future. Do you honestly believe that mankind will continue to reproduce through sex, when genetic engineering can get you rid of any genetic defect etc etc? And no, this has nothing to do with Nazism, unless you're saying that by going to the doctor you are going against the nature of life.

You are simply updating your life by "mechanical" methods.

".It's love for which keeps us going my friend"

Heh? No, sugar pie, its passion; not the sexual passion. Not the passion a man feels for a woman he's never slept with before. Passion is the burning light inside a warrior. Inside a scientist. Inside a philosopher. Inside a novelist. The endless chase of our own development. This is what made men what they were. You probably know that relationships for love are fairly recent, so how come great Historians, novelists, mathematicians, and so on appeared when "love" wasn't even that much looked at?

Your "love is what keeps us going" is nothing but the result of feminism. This obsession women have with relationships and sex and clothes and attractive people and babies, it all translated into man becoming more and more like women to please women. That's what women wanted or so it seems. Now more and more women are complaining of the lack of "Alpha" males. No kidding, sherlock? You can't demand for one thing and then complain of the lack of the other.

Its sad when you go to a mall to buy whatever it is and you see grown up males walking hand in hand with their girlfriends and acting like teenagers. I'm sure Copernicus, when he was laying the ground for our current science, was also walking hand to hand with his wife and offering her flowers and declaring eternal love.

And there are pink bears living inside that cotton - made house.

You know what is going to happen to mankind? With men giving so much of themselves to attract women, to make them happy, and to keep them: men's ability to want, to desire, to be restless, will fall apart until its no longer there.

What makes us go up instead of down is our ability to move. And that is only possible when you aren't worried about materialistic pursuits(women need financial security and stability) nor you're interested about staying "attractive" to keep their attention. Do you know how my grandfather achieved what he achieved? Because he didn't give a damn. About the conversations my grandmother wanted to have, about her "feelings" and so forth. And the funny thing? Decades after his death, my grandmother is still a widow because a man like that doesn't exist anymore. She had respect for him.

When you do your own thing, when you care about yourself first, the women will respect you, despite of what they say, they want a man who sees himself as a being of importance, much unlike all these silly feminist males going around trying to please women to get laid.

Christ. Thousands of years ago, the greatest joy a man could have was to die for what he believed. Nowadays, a man has such low self - esteem(none at all) and is so desperate for female attention(due to the feminization of the entire world) that pleasing a woman, even dying for a woman, is seen with good eyes.

Someone invent a time machine so I can go back in time to the year 6000BC so I can be near real men!

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Posted by Pesca2
playing games is risky. playing with other people's feelings and emotions is just plain wicked. and there is a term for this: what goes around comes around.

to be able to maintain this situation of yours you will have to lie and be deceitful. you will be on edge constantly. checking and rechecking - change your behaivour and so on and so forth; eventually this construction will break down.

but the worst thing will be that you lie to yourself.

Exactly, plus I wouldn't trade my mermaid for any other woman out there.

All human interactions are temporary. Do not get attached to that woman. Unless you desire to suffer.

The connection between she and I is that of the soul. It is ever lasting, racing towards infinity, beyond mortality, hard to comprehend by those that are superficial. We might not be perfect due to our human nature but our love is eternal.

Poet, nothing is forever, much less something as sensory based as human attraction. Regardless of all the flowery words, that girl - or you - will eventually stop 'feeling' what you are or what she's feeling for you. And she might find someone she likes better.

A guy I know had the same idea. All romantic, very cute stuff. His wife cheated on him and now he's a schizophrenic.

As I've said. Desire(love is desire) leads to suffering. Attachment leads to loss of self and the loss of self leads to the destruction of your conscious mind.

Right, because there has never been a relationship in the history of mankind that has withstood the test of time and only ended due to death. Yep, that never happens *rme*

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Extremely rare. Relationships lasted until a person's death(and notice that life's expectancy was short) because they had to be together, society told them so.

If you're speaking of late 20th century upwards - there's always a few exceptions to the rule.


Imagine that

Imagine that the most attractive woman in the world(whoever you might think she is) comes to you and offers you sex. But there's a catch. She has AIDS. Will you have sex with her? Even with a condom? What if the condom breaks? What if the condom is defected? What if the condom for some odd reason(to trust latex hm..) the condom stays intact but you can still catch it?

Will you have sex? change the "most attractive woman" with a woman you have deep feelings for. Will you still do it?

Then you are a Kamikaze pilot and Kamikaze pilots are only respected within the Japanese Society. If you change the obsession with relationships and "love" and "Sex" that women have, and you think of how most males are becoming like that, you find a feminized world and only there the "love" kamikaze is respected.

Me? I'd rather stay sane and be "paranoid" than risking everything for a piece of "action".

Posted by Asleep
@ Simius: It sucks to be crippled by fear doesn't it?

No, it sucks to be surrounded by guys like you. Fear? You're saying that I'm fearing some esoteric power called love because I'm not interested in sacrificing myself over a woman?

Posted by Asleep
Guys like me? You know nothing about me. The fact is, NOTHING comes without sacrifice, you just have to pick what it is you do sacrifice. You chose a path of celibacy, I can respect that. The fact remains, men and women are hardwired to be attracted to one another sexually. Your brain also releases chemicals meant for NOTHING more than BONDING. No man/woman is a castle, remember that.

There are some fucked women that will put the torch to your ass, just like their are some fucked men that will crawl into his bed with his wife, just hours after having his dick in another woman.

I'm idealistic, it's why I am where I am.

Salmons are also wired to die after impregnating the female. The black widow is called the black widow because she kills the male after sex. Nature wired it, so it makes it right? Did you know that Homo Sapiens Sapiens descends from Apes? Why aren't we still apes? Because we changed. We evolved. We broke Law's nature. Just because something is because of what it was made to be, doesn't mean you have to stay that way - when its damaging to yourself.

Would we live so many decades if some guy didn't decide to defeat the diseases, increase the quality of our food, thus the increase of our life expectancy? Yes, I know nothing about you. You're a unique snowflake, like everyone else.

"No man/woman is a castle, remember that."

A castle is not a castle until you built one.

"Your brain also releases chemicals meant for NOTHING more than BONDING."

Which makes sex a bad decision. You get attached to the woman or to the man when having sex which makes it so harder when the woman or the man cheats on you or leaves you for some other guy or woman. The price of a chemical high(sex) is freedom. We've fought and died to get our freedom from Kings and Emperors, and now, we jump into the pool of pleasure(sex, porn, emotional intimacy) because it feels so "good" and because we were wired for it.

Bloody hell, this is what annoys me the most. When pleasure is in order people accept the way we were wired. When someone says that men were wired to sleep with as many women as possible, every woman goes haywire. When someone says that men are attracted to financial security, every broken ass male gets mad. When men are told that women like men with muscles, every skinny guy whines and cries about it. We seem to use the "way we were wired" as

"I'm idealistic, it's why I am where I am."

I'm realistic. It's why I will never fall, I will never suffer, I will never be enslaved. Not by the feminist society, not by women, not by sex and sure as hell not by my hormones.

We seem to use the "way we were wired" as justification for our hedonism; that eternal flood that blinds the senses and the body's actions.

Leave it to the Scorp forum for such "interesting" thread. This is funny as hell! And unfortunately sad at the same time to see how some of us view life and relationships. And I thought I had issues! 🙂

Simius, funny how you assume you will lose the fight against another male. And you will lose in love because it should endure for a lifetime always? Then why bother getting a job? Will it last a lifetime? What about friendships, will they endure the test of time? Quite the pattern. Self-defeat before you even try. How sad. Those chips on your shoulder really bring you down.

Posted by wsigaf
threads like this make me realize humans need positive feedback and a HUG.

I think for the majority of people that gravitate to the negative aspects of life, and I feel this guy that originally posted falls into that category, feel very misunderstood. They need that love and affection and for what ever reason don't get it. I think this is self-preservation at the raw level. It's really usually not what is going on, just what we see on the surface that the person decides to present. Sometimes the reason is self-imposed or could just be due to unfortunate circumstances. Unless you're severally mentally ill with some form of severe personality disorder that impairs your abilities I this this is so true, so true.

Have you hugged your kid today——

Posted by wsigaf
I don't give hugs..
this is some water sign thing..

I think you need a HUG =)

Posted by wsigaf
how would you/one know ?

Because there are few people on this earth that don't need the closeness and understanding of another. So, knowing that's the majority of the population of this planet I just guessed. Odds. are I'm right but have been know to be wrong.

Any, sending a cyber-hug whether you want it or not! 🙂-

🙂

I don't know why my post keep getting cut of but Libra Lady - response to you

A lot of what you said is true. But you are one of the people that actually thinks. Most, don't really, they follow and just go the easier of many routes. You are unfortunately arguing against millions of years of evolution and the woman is to be the nurturer in that game. Look at nature, most species develop with the female being responsible for the raising of children. Penguins are pretty cool though, the male takes his turn on the egg. The problem really just comes to our physiology IS NOT keeping up with the human species mental abilities to rationalize. I'm sorry to say that will still be a problem when we are both dead and buried, oh wait, I want to be cremated but you get my point.

It's good to have your beliefs but think about the strength of a river, you are powerless against it. You can spread your beliefs and give people things to think about but the fruit will not be produced for hundreds of years.....not really, not really really produced. We are exposed daily to how far we have come, racism comes to mind, but really, really, how are have we come? Pretty far, but we still, still have to deal with the nut jobs out there that feel like they are superior and more deserving than others. Guys that use women to compliment themselves as you say are just as much nut jobs. Go figure.

As far as being equals, I really prefer a man that has a SLIGHT edge on the equality topic. I like my man to be the leader so I'll never be a feminist. That's different than respecting me which he obviously has to do. Equality? Really don't care about that, respect for my role in the relationship, required.

Posted by cancersunleomoon123
imo,men and women are equals but man SHOULD be dominant. I also find it offensive to think a woman HAS to be a mother. A woman has just as much worth even if she chooses not to ever want to have kids.

Most certainly Cancersunleomoon,

Many women and men are forced to do things they don't want to every second of every day because of suppression from other people that for whatever reason have the power over them.

I had kids because of that biological clock and what society and parenting had drilled into me. Now, I have two GREAT kids and would NOT give them up for the world. However, I'm a different person than I was 14 years ago and if I had to make the decision now would be child-free.

Posted by Midgetbull
I can't stop coming back to this thread. So many people on such self-destructive paths, and it appears the original poster of the thread has abandoned it.

You don't gain friends or love from anyone if you toy with them or use them. This is shit you learn from your peers in kindergarten.

This is a SCORPIO forum. Is this lesson ^^ for "us" —

The m.o.r.o.n. who posted here came in hating on Scorpios and
got what he wanted - a reaction.

If that lesson ^^^ is for Scorpios ... here's one for "you".

We don't really care to HAVE many friends because we are not the
superficial smiley-type who SECRETLY hates our friends. We take
and care for the ones who earn our friendship... the very few.

No Taurus woman can understand that....but I know you value LOYALTY.

We just happen to be more selective with it ...and most of us
don't check our Facebook times a day hoping to get "friend requests"
so that others can see how popular we are ( among people whom we
don't even know and who are probably fake accounts. haha )

Of course, you're probably too stubborn to change your mind, so...

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Posted by Midgetbull
I can't stop coming back to this thread. So many people on such self-destructive paths, and it appears the original poster of the thread has abandoned it.

You don't gain friends or love from anyone if you toy with them or use them. This is shit you learn from your peers in kindergarten.

This is a SCORPIO forum. Is this lesson ^^ for "us" —

The m.o.r.o.n. who posted here came in hating on Scorpios and
got what he wanted - a reaction.

If that lesson ^^^ is for Scorpios ... here's one for "you".

We don't really care to HAVE many friends because we are not the
superficial smiley-type who SECRETLY hates our friends. We take
and care for the ones who earn our friendship... the very few.

No Taurus woman can understand that....but I know you value LOYALTY.

We just happen to be more selective with it ...and most of us
don't check our Facebook times a day hoping to get "friend requests"
so that others can see how popular we are ( among people whom we
don't even know and who are probably fake accounts. haha )

Of course, you're probably too stubborn to change your mind, so...

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I guess this thread has transformed and at this point I personally didn't even equate it to Scorpios other than the fact the the Scorpio Board usually has some interesting stuff!

Posted by crzydiam63
Now, I have two GREAT kids and would NOT give them up for the world. However, I'm a different person than I was 14 years ago and if I had to make the decision now would be child-free.

All three women who have made international news in the past 25 years
for drowning their own children (because their new lovers didn't want
kids and were abandoning them for that reason) ...were Capricorns.


Glad you stated: Now, I have two GREAT kids and would NOT give them up for the world. lol

Posted by cancersunleomoon123
imo,men and women are equals but man SHOULD be dominant. I also find it offensive to think a woman HAS to be a mother. A woman has just as much worth even if she chooses not to ever want to have kids.

The only valid reason a woman would not WANT to be a mother
is to put her career first - which is the cause of the decline
in our economy.

I don't believe women should be allowed to be EMPLOYED in real
career jobs ( unless you enjoy the homeless rate ) but of course
if she's self-employed - that's different.

In China, until the past 30 years or so, especially after restrictions
limiting the number of children per household to ONE (1) to control the
exploding population ( a food provision and waste management crisis )
it was common practice to drown a newborn baby girl, in the hopes that
"next time" you'd be given a son to carry on the family name, business
and chattels. Simply, until the parents are about 65, a daughter is worth
NOTHING.

But as parents get older, the daughters who lived become worth 5 sons.

Also, the ration of males to females is about 10 to 1, so that means
that females now have THE POWER to be more selective with mates and
can marry and render offspring that are strong/smart enough to make it.

But of course, they are only worth anything if they will be a mother.

I am a sexist cow. There I said it. Huge relief. 😛 Men should be men and women should be women.

oh, god no. If there are no women around, whose going to keep all those brat kids out of our hair?

Posted by Midgetbull

Posted by venusianbull
I am a sexist cow. There I said it. Huge relief. 😛 Men should be men and women should be women.

I agree.

I also think the definition of feminism is different. I believe myself to be a feminist, not because I believe I am better than men (I don't) but because I'm aware that I don't need a man to live my life happily.

But I do enjoy the company 😛

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:::applause::: I'm really not sure how the idea that feminism = women want to be men got started. — But, yeah, I don't NEED a man...I WANT one. It's an important difference that I would think men would prefer, actually. If I NEED you to survive, then I have an ulterior motive, don't I? I may not even love you, but you'll financially support me, so yeah, I'll keep you around, watch my stories all day and vacuum. 😛

On the other hand, if I WANT you, doesn't that create a peace of mind that men of former generations didn't have?

I think everyone is just confused about gender roles these days. We're still in an adjustment mode. All of this was already done by the time I was born. I had no say or control over it, but merely had to live with the hand I'd been dealt. Of course, knowing myself as I do, hell yeah, I would have fought for womens' rights! Not because I want to be a man, but because I'm a citizen of this country, too. And if we're going to continue this struggle for true democracy(will we ever really have it? Who knows?), then every person's opinion and vote should count.

Posted by Midgetbull

Posted by venusianbull
I am a sexist cow. There I said it. Huge relief. 😛 Men should be men and women should be women.

I agree.

I also think the definition of feminism is different. I believe myself to be a feminist, not because I believe I am better than men (I don't) but because I'm aware that I don't need a man to live my life happily.

But I do enjoy the company 😛

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Muhammad, founder of Islam was considered to be (one of) the world's first feminists.
I have never once met an Islamic man who didn't treat his wife like furniture.
He also had no problem with advocating female circumcision (removal of clitoris)
in order to make the women into nothing but a sexually inert hole.
( And it worked very well to prevent adultery, too. )

Are you missing that; all you girls who are self-proclaimed "feminists"?

I know for sure is that the economy, family structure and crime rate suffers as
women are allowed to become more involved with income earning, whereas in regions
where women MARRY before they have 2 kids; - men have jobs and there is low crime
and dinner is on the table for the children. With no aspirations to "do stuff on
their own" ... these women lead a nice, quiet, happy traditional life with company.

I also know that most people who call themselves feminist have NO CLUE about the
actual definition or origins of feminism. So I just laugh my a** off when I see one.