please interpret this scorpio

we had a pretty intense seduction/courting and ultimately had sex. this was over about a 2 month time period. the sex was a little rough/dirty in a great way...but passionate too. we both ended like what just happened?! its been a couple weeks since then and he is never coming on to me anymore...he pulled way back on sex/baby talk. but he texts and talks to me everyday. so i was feeling crazy and impulsive and was bold as heck and said something really forward and dirty. and he was just like wow...but that was the only reaction. wth?? and he carried on like normal. i don't know what to think. if i'm being pushed in the friend category...it's not cool. i don't need a friend in him thank u. so i'm not sure what to do where to go from here. he won't say a word about his feelings for me but he seems more shy and reserved than before we had sex...quiet almost but still around. advice please?

i'm trying but he seems to be acting very cautious

Sounds to me like he's got a girlfriend. And he got what he wanted out of ya.

no girlfriend for sure. 2 months is too soon? i think thats totally reasonable. if someone gets bored that quickly...idk i'm not like that at all.

trying to figure out how to post these charts

me:

him: (i don't know his time of birth)

we both have moon conjunct uranus :/

i have maddening oppositions to mars

and he's got that nasty scorpio venus conjunct pluto

you think so? i feel like i'll end up pouring out my feelings and it will be overwhelming him...its all new.

i have been a good friend as well but i am prob just going to end it. it shouldn't be this difficult. you either want me or you don't and since then he really hasn't shown me...i guess he doesn't. its pretty simple. this is also a man whos always talking about relationships...but can't manage to keep one for very long. i think i should read the writing on the wall and move on.

oh and thanks for the great synastry reading

he has pluto, venus, saturn, and sun in the 5th.

http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/fifthhouse.htm

saturn in the 5th is a major bummer...


have you every done an analysis on your chart— its pretty spread out. usually plants group to gether in one hemisphere of the chart. your planets dont do that.

his might be wrong. i don't know his ascendant/time of birth.

yea my chart is crazy. i have 2 kites/grand trines and a mystic triangle. i have had one reading and she said it was an unusual chart. i have tried to study it myself. i would like to know more...and understand myself more.

thanks for the advice kilikina. i think that's a great idea.

Posted by madaboutlove
his might be wrong. i don't know his ascendant/time of birth.

yea my chart is crazy. i have 2 kites/grand trines and a mystic triangle. i have had one reading and she said it was an unusual chart. i have tried to study it myself. i would like to know more...and understand myself more.

what are the grand trines in?? i saw the configurations immediately.

fire and air grand trines. i have no earth and only water is my sun. but...i have saturn conjunct ascendant in the first house. i'm a tricky one! plus that gemini rising...i am fickle and loyal. and a lot of pluto and uranus too. i'm intense and goofy. i'm basically a walking contradiction.

thank you exoskeleton...actually i lightened up today and i have been kidding around more on text and facebook and he is responding better. i think you're right...he wants to see if we can be friends too. i just don't want to only be friends ya know?

Possibly, the reasons his other relationships have failed are because those women didn't get him, understand him. He might be reeling back, but I wouldn't take it as a negative. Now that you two have had sex, he wants to see if the rest of the package fits that bow. Patience is the key. Even if you do have patience with it/him, it's if you care and feel enough about him to succomb, and long enough to see there's more depth to him than meets the eye. And if you don't have patience, and STILL want to stick around, you will learn more patience than you think possible. Just don't get gamey on him. Be yourself, and don't try to get 'into' his head to figure out his motives or reasonings. You'll either have that ability or not naturally, and if you do it's a plus...you'll naturally figure things out, or get what he means, says, or does, even if it takes a minute or a day or two or week...even a year down the road, he'll do or say something that will 'dawn' on you 'now, and everything from before will make sense. If you don't have patience, then you might not have the 'depth' to go that far and deep to ever get it/him, and you'll end up walking away from something that can very well have potential. Just don't make it all about sex..even if it was great, if you start making it too much about sex, then that's what he'll take it as, and begin to look at YOU as only sex...and that's all you'll get in return from him...both physically and mentally. And it won't be pretty.

ocean deep...very solid advice. thanks.