what to do...what to do.....

I'm dating a scorp - for almost a year, ( i once was a scorp - but apparently am no anymore -disagree with the added sign)

I feel actually I know, that I am more committed with things then him.

1. when i type this i dont want it to sound like i do things to get things in return... not the case... I will go out of my way/ or not out of my way ( as im walking through a store.. etc ..) to pick something up that i know he'll like.

2. I have said the words... i love you - and got back... i'm 80% sure i love you, i just dont know yet and now your going to be all upset and different. - which i havent been towards him... i think.

3. his fam seem to like me, so perhaps hes keeping me around to avoid the argument

4. nothing has per say happened to create this post, perhaps im expecting to much to soon. and dont want to give my all to someone thats keeping me around to have someone around... ugh.

What to do.. What to do....?

then i guess we're both scorpios... me oct 30 him oct 31

what am i asking... I DONT KNOW AWWWWWWWWW!!

i guess im just thinking 80% is just barely an A in most parts of the world.
how should i proceed?

Posted by ellessque

why let it bother you this much? you said it because you meant it, right? that is all that matters.

you didn't say it so you could hear it back.

Elle you're great... just what I needed to be reminded ... thanks 🙂

"i'm 80% sure i love you"

What a fucking insult.

Posted by ellessque

the signs don't change unless you were born in 2008, I think. So, it's unlikely you are 3 yrs old.

hahaha omg thank you! Got an actual laugh outta that 🙂

Posted by ellessque

Posted by Sagittarius89
"i'm 80% sure i love you"

What a fucking insult.

not really.

i'd rather someone be honest with me and not just repeat what i said.

i'd rather invest in a parrot.

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So you wouldn't be upset if a man you have been with for a year said he loved you 80 percent when you told him you loved him?

Posted by ellessque
I wasn't upset when I told a man I loved him after a year and he said nothing back.

If you love someone and you express it, you should be expressing it because you feel it.

not because you hope to gain something or want something in return.

scorps don't love like that. it's more about us and how we feel.

when we feel it, we have to say it.

sure, it sucks when it isn't reciprocated, but if he didn't say it 100% and he said so, he was being honest.

i'd much rather have honesty and see where time and experience takes us.

Oh ya I forgot you guys like pain 😛

There is a debate on the signs...the sign change is by official star navigation, while most western astrology is based on seasons.

🙂 -moon sends a hug to pluto-

continue...

Scorpio and Scorpio from what I have read is a challenging pair. Both so jealous and competitive...an interesting story I am sure.

All of the above was good stuff...controlling I am not... just trying to understand or get a different perspective on what was said to me.

Thanks for the insight 🙂