Hmmm I dunno... I can get physically affectionate with people I like and feel comfortable with, but don't necessarily feel attracted to. Prime example: giving slaps to butts. I must stress this is reserved for friends only. I wouldn't reccommend trying it out on the subway, for example. 😛
Agree with Bean. It definitely doesn't mean she isn't being satisfied sexually by her partner. Like I said we flirt and sometimes play alot. Nothing major.
Ok then? perhaps this can be a potential clue for ya: does this girl behave this way with anyone else? Or just you?
...personally, I like to have fun with friends and indulge the bawdy and lewd facet of my personality. I wouldn't call it random flirting, but I wouldn't call it flirting with intent, either.
Again I agree with Bean. I can flirt with a guy that might be cute, but I don't have the slightest interest in. Not serious flirting just random silly shit. There have been times where I meet someone who is with my group of friends and I and I do something like, if someone says "this guy has great abs or a six pack" I have no problem with asking him to pull his shirt up so we can see or ask him to prove it. Or even rub my hand accross his abs to see for myself. Okay when that happened it was with a little alcohol involved and all in pure fun...
Otherwise. I will so walk up to a guy who I see and think is hot and ask him his name and tell him so. A little aggressive in that way. Ofcourse this is after the scorp stare and he already knows I am interested.
I have, but I guess I already knew he was interested and maybe a little shy or too intimidated to approach me, so I did the honors. So there was never fear of rejection or anything. Plus I am hot! LOL!!!
LMAO!!!! Roxi everyone knows you are HOT SHIT!!! I didn't mean it like that. However you gotta admit... Or in my experience because they think they are in charge. It shocks the HELL out of them when ever I approach them! I get a kick out of it. I only do this from time to time and if I am in the mood. Don't get me wrong, I too am approached. But I find they think it is hotness when a girl approaches them. They mostly blush cause they can't handle it... LOL!!!
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