Sag leaves and scorpio ex steps in to rescue me...

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Posted by exoskeleton
did he step back in to rescue you or did let him back in to fill the void for the time being? i don't mean to offend you, but it just seems like you get in a lot of fucked up situations with men.

maybe he still has feelings for you, maybe he wants to see if he can still have you. talk to him.



Nah if I had wanted to fill a void I would have taken his offer to date again. I told him what was up about the sag and that I needed some time. We're just hanging as friends for now.

After the deal with the sag I'm not up for dating for a while, but I do enjoy the company of guys.
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Posted by exoskeleton
^true.

"hanging as friends" with someone who obviously still wants you is not really a good idea.

are you just keeping him around?

take some time to reflect on what and who you truly want.



No, not just keeping him around. Idk how else to explain it further. He knows the situation and he knows I need time. We both like hanging out together as friends. He's the one who didn't want the relationship the first time around so I don't think this is hurting him any. Could be wrong tho.
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Posted by exoskeleton
^true.

"hanging as friends" with someone who obviously still wants you is not really a good idea.

are you just keeping him around?

take some time to reflect on what and who you truly want.



No, not just keeping him around. Idk how else to explain it further. He knows the situation and he knows I need time. We both like hanging out together as friends. He's the one who didn't want the relationship the first time around so I don't think this is hurting him any. Could be wrong tho.
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I agree. Why should you even care about how he feels? He dumped you. He didn't want you, how can you trust him again?


This happened with my libra. We started hanging out again and he was like I love you, maybe I was wrong would you wanna try?


I was like f*** no. But I don't mind chilling with him every now and than. But If someone leaves you once, they will just do it again. Why go through that shit all over? Why abuse yourself?


If your break-up was mutual than that is a different story. But it sounded like he really hurt you, so if you just wanna mess around with them than I think that is perfectly fine.


Do YOU man.
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Posted by exoskeleton
^true.

"hanging as friends" with someone who obviously still wants you is not really a good idea.

are you just keeping him around?

take some time to reflect on what and who you truly want.



No, not just keeping him around. Idk how else to explain it further. He knows the situation and he knows I need time. We both like hanging out together as friends. He's the one who didn't want the relationship the first time around so I don't think this is hurting him any. Could be wrong tho.




I agree. Why should you even care about how he feels? He dumped you. He didn't want you, how can you trust him again?


This happened with my libra. We started hanging out again and he was like I love you, maybe I was wrong would you wanna try?


I was like f*** no. But I don't mind chilling with him every now and than. But If someone leaves you once, they will just do it again. Why go through that shit all over? Why abuse yourself?


If your break-up was mutual than that is a different story. But it sounded like he really hurt you, so if you just wanna mess around with them than I think that is perfectly fine.


Do YOU man.
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Hmm Idk, I have a lot of thinking to do. I've put guys in the "Waiting" place before whenever I wanted to keep them as friends, but didn't feel the same about them. It's a little bit different with the scorp tho. I could see us getting back together. At one point I saw myself being able to marry him.

We talked about the reason why we broke up and how it was somewhat mutual, but mostly on his part because he didn't wanna deal with the drama of a relationship. Now he wants a relationship and I just got out of something with the sag. While I'm nearly healed (it only lasted 2 weeks), I'm still weary of getting hurt again. I'd like to approach any relationship I'd like to go somewhere as a friendship first then if I see that they are will to commit after so long then I'll take the next step.

It's a difficult bridge to cross. Maybe one that shouldn't be crossed. But there's something about scorpios that gets me going and makes me come back for more :/
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it seems like your in an endless repetition with men, where you end up getting hurt. ironically, with the same guys.

the only sequel that were better than the original was the The Godfather II. all other sequels arent even worth the time.


*what do you think you need rescue from?

you may hate me again for what im going to say, but you cant rely on a man to rescue you or give you a boost of self esteem. whose going to rescue you from this scorp?
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Posted by beccy
..what do you make of that?

Whore?

Girl, I already told you that all this has nothing to do with Love.
You're a player.

Fuck him if You need to. But don't pretend to fall for him. because you're way to selfish to do that.
I mean hey.
You know I'm right. Fuck the boys but take the consequences. (revenge, isolation, a lonely heart with a stuffed vagina) and so on....
I'm not a christian virgin, I'm just telling the truth people^^



i agree here and there. i wouldnt call Happy a Player because she seems to be on the receiving end.