Scorp guy not attracted to gf?

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Had drinks with my Scorp guy friend who's dating a Sag girl. He says they don't fight and get along, but he doesn't have any passion for her. In the bedroom, ahem*

She's not happy about it, brought it up and he said "should we break up?".

He said he never had that crazy passion for her even from the start. I thought Scorp was a very passionate sign..what's going on here?
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Why is he telling you his personal relationship issues? Are you guys BFF's?
You know how Scorps are, intense. Idk why he tells me, and lately he's been asking me about my stuff too and said "I don't know much about you..."

Tbh, I sense he might be interested or at least curious about me.

I've known him for 4 years and am one of his longest friends in our city. We met in a working capacity and then later turned into friends.
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Why is he telling you his personal relationship issues? Are you guys BFF's?
You know how Scorps are, intense. Idk why he tells me, and lately he's been asking me about my stuff too and said "I don't know much about you..."

Tbh, I sense he might be interested or at least curious about me.

I've known him for 4 years and am one of his longest friends in our city. We met in a working capacity and then later turned into friends.

Ew he sounds gross. Anyone who shows interest in someone else WHILE being in a relationship is not trustworthy in my opinion. He should have ended things with her and THEN tried to pursue you. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you don't reciprocate his interest then he'l stay with his girlfriend. If you do, he'll break up (or pretend to break up) and then get with you.

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He's never made a move on me or I would have cut him off. I don't mess around with other girls' bfs like that.

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Why is he telling you his personal relationship issues? Are you guys BFF's?
You know how Scorps are, intense. Idk why he tells me, and lately he's been asking me about my stuff too and said "I don't know much about you..."

Tbh, I sense he might be interested or at least curious about me.

I've known him for 4 years and am one of his longest friends in our city. We met in a working capacity and then later turned into friends.

Ew he sounds gross. Anyone who shows interest in someone else WHILE being in a relationship is not trustworthy in my opinion. He should have ended things with her and THEN tried to pursue you. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you don't reciprocate his interest then he'l stay with his girlfriend. If you do, he'll break up (or pretend to break up) and then get with you.

Fuck boy detected!
He's never made a move on me or I would have cut him off. I don't mess around with other girls' bfs like that.



He already has in his own subtle ~Scorpio~ way though.

Talking about his sex life and how he's not passionate about his gf in the bedroom. And then hinting he wants to get to know you better.

Girl please. I was not born yesterday to believe he's being innocent with his approach.
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Yikes, I don't like this. Arghh, I miss subtleties, that's a problem on my end.

If he talks to me again, I'll just say, you should work it out with her.

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Why is he telling you his personal relationship issues? Are you guys BFF's?
You know how Scorps are, intense. Idk why he tells me, and lately he's been asking me about my stuff too and said "I don't know much about you..."

Tbh, I sense he might be interested or at least curious about me.

I've known him for 4 years and am one of his longest friends in our city. We met in a working capacity and then later turned into friends.

Ew he sounds gross. Anyone who shows interest in someone else WHILE being in a relationship is not trustworthy in my opinion. He should have ended things with her and THEN tried to pursue you. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you don't reciprocate his interest then he'l stay with his girlfriend. If you do, he'll break up (or pretend to break up) and then get with you.

Fuck boy detected!
He's never made a move on me or I would have cut him off. I don't mess around with other girls' bfs like that.



He already has in his own subtle ~Scorpio~ way though.

Talking about his sex life and how he's not passionate about his gf in the bedroom. And then hinting he wants to get to know you better.

Girl please. I was not born yesterday to believe he's being innocent with his approach.
Yikes, I don't like this. Arghh, I miss subtleties, that's a problem on my end.

If he talks to me again, I'll just say, you should work it out with her.



I say ignore him all together. He doesn't seem trustworthy. And his intentions aren't genuine.

The more you hang around him, the more you may fall into his trap and end up being interested in him. And then you're stuck in a stupid situation.

If people like this were "soooooo unhappy" in their relationships they would have left by now. He's just looking for another girl to fuck on the side.
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What's your sign?

He said they will decide in March next year if the relationship will continue or break up. They have a trip planned so it's awkward to end it now as it's all booked and paid for.



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Why is he telling you his personal relationship issues? Are you guys BFF's?
You know how Scorps are, intense. Idk why he tells me, and lately he's been asking me about my stuff too and said "I don't know much about you..."

Tbh, I sense he might be interested or at least curious about me.

I've known him for 4 years and am one of his longest friends in our city. We met in a working capacity and then later turned into friends.

Ew he sounds gross. Anyone who shows interest in someone else WHILE being in a relationship is not trustworthy in my opinion. He should have ended things with her and THEN tried to pursue you. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you don't reciprocate his interest then he'l stay with his girlfriend. If you do, he'll break up (or pretend to break up) and then get with you.

Fuck boy detected!
He's never made a move on me or I would have cut him off. I don't mess around with other girls' bfs like that.



He already has in his own subtle ~Scorpio~ way though.

Talking about his sex life and how he's not passionate about his gf in the bedroom. And then hinting he wants to get to know you better.

Girl please. I was not born yesterday to believe he's being innocent with his approach.
Yikes, I don't like this. Arghh, I miss subtleties, that's a problem on my end.

If he talks to me again, I'll just say, you should work it out with her.



I say ignore him all together. He doesn't seem trustworthy. And his intentions aren't genuine.

The more you hang around him, the more you may fall into his trap and end up being interested in him. And then you're stuck in a stupid situation.

If people like this were "soooooo unhappy" in their relationships they would have left by now. He's just looking for another girl to fuck on the side.
What's your sign?

He said they will decide in March next year if the relationship will continue or break up. They have a trip planned so it's awkward to end it now as it's all booked and paid for.





Gemini.

Just so you know, men like this always have excuses. They tell the mistress or whoever they're pursuing "oh, we're ending it in a few weeks." "Oh, we don't even sleep together anymore." "We're basically already separated, just still live together." It's one excuse after the next to keep their interest locked in and have their stability at home.
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Omg!! This so sounds like a guy "friend" of mine. I'll just remember all these points you made.

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I only ever had intense sexual chemistry with one man

He had Moon, MC, Saturn and Pluto in Scorpio and they all made aspect to my Scorpio stuff. It was off the scale intensity and i am grateful to have experienced it (and gotten out alive lol)

I believe it is quite difficult to find and for it to last

Scorpio people, yes we are passionate, but not with everyone and actually not that many, in my experience. We need the emotional connection combined with the physical...
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Why is he telling you his personal relationship issues? Are you guys BFF's?
You know how Scorps are, intense. Idk why he tells me, and lately he's been asking me about my stuff too and said "I don't know much about you..."

Tbh, I sense he might be interested or at least curious about me.

I've known him for 4 years and am one of his longest friends in our city. We met in a working capacity and then later turned into friends.

Ew he sounds gross. Anyone who shows interest in someone else WHILE being in a relationship is not trustworthy in my opinion. He should have ended things with her and THEN tried to pursue you. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you don't reciprocate his interest then he'l stay with his girlfriend. If you do, he'll break up (or pretend to break up) and then get with you.

Fuck boy detected!
He's never made a move on me or I would have cut him off. I don't mess around with other girls' bfs like that.



He already has in his own subtle ~Scorpio~ way though.

Talking about his sex life and how he's not passionate about his gf in the bedroom. And then hinting he wants to get to know you better.

Girl please. I was not born yesterday to believe he's being innocent with his approach.
Yikes, I don't like this. Arghh, I miss subtleties, that's a problem on my end.

If he talks to me again, I'll just say, you should work it out with her.



I say ignore him all together. He doesn't seem trustworthy. And his intentions aren't genuine.

The more you hang around him, the more you may fall into his trap and end up being interested in him. And then you're stuck in a stupid situation.

If people like this were "soooooo unhappy" in their relationships they would have left by now. He's just looking for another girl to fuck on the side.
What's your sign?

He said they will decide in March next year if the relationship will continue or break up. They have a trip planned so it's awkward to end it now as it's all booked and paid for.





Gemini.

Just so you know, men like this always have excuses. They tell the mistress or whoever they're pursuing "oh, we're ending it in a few weeks." "Oh, we don't even sleep together anymore." "We're basically already separated, just still live together." It's one excuse after the next to keep their interest locked in and have their stability at home.
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He did say that he's going through a mid-life thing and so is she.

He alluded to his thinking that sex isn't as important as she thinks it is. He's quite candid and told me other random negative things about himself like he forgets a lot of things lately and doesn't like his job.

Doesn't that make him look bad in terms of being a potential partner? And doesn't it sound like the sex life with him would SUCK?

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I have an aqua mate that talks about his gf to me and I talk about my guy with him.

We aren't interested in hooking up.

Humans can get advice from opposite sex friebds.
but you don't make a thread to ask about your aqu guy friend though ๐Ÿ˜‰

something's up for a girl to make a thread about a *guy friend*
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Yeah, the "up" thing is I sensed his interest. My mom is a Scorp so I know when they are asking those "fishing" questions.

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Women are so selfish.

A man has stresses and he's still expected to be hot and horny for a woman who guilts him for not being horny enough for her.

No wonder dudes use hookers to release stress.
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What does my sign matter when we are talking about a scorpio and a sag?

He's venting he's got stress so sex can't happen unless someone is happy with them self.
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Curious, it's interesting to see different signs' viewpoints. For some reason, I thought you were an Aries or Cancer.
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*intriged* by his interest in you?
It's kind of intriguing if I'm to be honest. He's successful and could match me in ambition and assets. I'm not naive enough to think he doesn't think the same about me.

Not to the level that I would consider doing anything with him now.

He caught me in a moment, as I'm dealing with relationship stuff too.

Whenever we hang out (maybe 3-4 times a year) we talk about work, money, property, relationships, health.



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Had drinks with my Scorp guy friend who's dating a Sag girl. He says they don't fight and get along, but he doesn't have any passion for her. In the bedroom, ahem*

She's not happy about it, brought it up and he said "should we break up?".

He said he never had that crazy passion for her even from the start. I thought Scorp was a very passionate sign..what's going on here?
OP, how long have they been seeing each other and do they live together

It is one thing going off sex when you have been living with someone forever but if they are still only just dating, then something isn't right at all
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Had drinks with my Scorp guy friend who's dating a Sag girl. He says they don't fight and get along, but he doesn't have any passion for her. In the bedroom, ahem*

She's not happy about it, brought it up and he said "should we break up?".

He said he never had that crazy passion for her even from the start. I thought Scorp was a very passionate sign..what's going on here?
OP, how long have they been seeing each other and do they live together

It is one thing going off sex when you have been living with someone forever but if they are still only just dating, then something isn't right at all
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Seeing for around 3 years. Living together...maybe 1.5 years.
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Had drinks with my Scorp guy friend who's dating a Sag girl. He says they don't fight and get along, but he doesn't have any passion for her. In the bedroom, ahem*

She's not happy about it, brought it up and he said "should we break up?".

He said he never had that crazy passion for her even from the start. I thought Scorp was a very passionate sign..what's going on here?

Not feeling passion for another is not the same as lacking passion. There probably lies the reason for the lack of bedroom satisfaction with his girlfriend.

I think the better questions would be why did your friend pursue a relationship with someone he wasn't really into and worse, continues to stay. Thing is, he doesn't seem bothered lol.

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Why is he telling you his personal relationship issues? Are you guys BFF's?
lately he's been asking me about my stuff too and said "I don't know much about you..."

Tbh, I sense he might be interested or at least curious about me.

I've known him for 4 years...

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4 years is a long time to not know "much" about a person and suddenly be "curious". Looking for another place to put the stinger me thinks.