Scorp Sexiness

We are often named the 'sexiest sign in the zodiac.'

Though this is not true for everyone, I am always getting called sexy... but I believe sexiness is through body language, grace, how we act, what we say; it's not all through looks.

Curious, how do you scorpios use your 'sexiness' to lure in your 'prey?' (yes I said prey)

I would appreciate some tips, for I think I'm headed towards a point in my life where I need to amp this up.

I Don't use my "sexiness". Never did. (I'm just me.)
Why? Lure the wrong woman. A shallow-minded superficial woman?
They are nothing but trouble.

If I am consciously luring such prey in, then... I am only luring grief unto myself.

IMHO, that's NOT a smart thing to do.

MrFirebird.

You made my day.. You made me laugh! hahaha.


heartlocket,

Aww. sexy thing... lol. Men and women called me *sexy* regardless of the signs.I'm curve.

I don't lure. I see men kept staring at me while walking...I sensed them. I don't give them a ''hi''.

Just let them in to get closer... lol. Plus.. I don't reveal any... just wearing high heels and

dark sexy stocking...and skirt even level knee.

The more mysterious woman is, the more men craving... lol

Posted by MrFirebird
I Don't use my "sexiness". Never did. (I'm just me.)
Why? Lure the wrong woman. A shallow-minded superficial woman?
They are nothing but trouble.

If I am consciously luring such prey in, then... I am only luring grief unto myself.

IMHO, that's NOT a smart thing to do.

:/ lol... Im sorry it didn't work out...

Posted by M143

MrFirebird.

You made my day.. You made me laugh! hahaha.


heartlocket,

Aww. sexy thing... lol. Men and women called me *sexy* regardless of the signs.I'm curve.

I don't lure. I see men kept staring at me while walking...I sensed them. I don't give them a ''hi''.

Just let them in to get closer... lol. Plus.. I don't reveal any... just wearing high heels and

dark sexy stocking...and skirt even level knee.

The more mysterious woman is, the more men craving... lol

I don't know if I agree with that last statement, although I hear it all the time, and I think it works with other women, but NOT me.

I was always mysterious, and well, people think I am cold and aloof. Even some say I look mean and intimidating, and well.... I can say it has definitely worked with one, but not with many. Perhaps I need to wipe the unfriendly glare off my face time to time.

Posted by TachiMichi
confidence is the sexiest thing ever.
feeling good is the second.
take care of yourself.
this all creates physical sexiness.
be charming and courteous.

how do i lure? all of the above,
and being myself. other than that,
i really cant say. ppl notice me.
im usually minding my business,
tending to my priorities.
then someone comes up to me and
compliments me. i say thank you,
and continue with what i have to do.

Agreed!! Confidence is key in everything. 🙂
But what do you mean by feeling good? Happiness?

heartlocket,

I mean Mysterious in its way... physical. like how you dressed up. The more revealing, men knows

how it looks like. So they turn aside... saw a woman who act gracefully and stunning.

scorpio looks are really mysterious... just add a friendly glare.

Posted by heartlocket
We are often named the 'sexiest sign in the zodiac.'

Though this is not true for everyone, I am always getting called sexy... but I believe sexiness is through body language, grace, how we act, what we say; it's not all through looks.

Curious, how do you scorpios use your 'sexiness' to lure in your 'prey?' (yes I said prey)

I would appreciate some tips, for I think I'm headed towards a point in my life where I need to amp this up.

Although I am no girl or Scorpio Sun I have a lot of Scorp. I'd say if you want to attract men in general as a girl then just act confident, superficially nice, project an aggressive, sultry feminine sexuality and make it look like you are very protective of it and keep it under wraps, generally unavailable to the public. This way you'll be more desired for being perceived as secretly sexual and for looking like you don't give up the goodies easily, thus making you appear more challenging. Always look approachable though.

Posted by M143

heartlocket,

I mean Mysterious in its way... physical. like how you dressed up. The more revealing, men knows

how it looks like. So they turn aside... saw a woman who act gracefully and stunning.

scorpio looks are really mysterious... just add a friendly glare.

Ah. Sexy physically 😉 I gotcha.
I agree, and It's not the revealing of skin, really, it's all about how the clothes fit you. And gracefulness on top of that 😄

But how does one do a friendly glare??

Posted by TachiMichi
feeling good is a choice.
you can choose to stay in darkness.
or you can choose to be happy in life.
what feeling good means is you
dont let anyone make you feel otherwise.
love yourself, treat yourself, and
stay positive. do not be pulled down.

when you feel good, confidence boosts.
when you have confidence, you feel good.
these are hand in hand.

This could not be more true. So fuckin true.

See, I struggle with this. But I have begun to realize this... being happy is a choice.
I do have confidence, but it gets taken away a lot. Need to get out of my 'melancholy state' lol.

@Acidbros,

thanks for the tip, but... being superficially nice is like TORTURE. I don't do superficial.
Only when I am trying to win over someone am I ever superficially nice. And I have to REALLY like this person.

I think I know what you mean by 'sultry feminine sexuality.' I think I ooze this, not to sound cocky. It's an unconscious thing. And I also agree with 'not giving it up easily.' That would definitely be me, lol.

Tbh, I don't know how to look approachable. I just cant fake smile, its one of the hardest things to do. Therefore, I have a resting bitch face, all the time.

-"I'd say confidence and approachability is a big one though. I get hit on or asked out countless times whenever my relationship is on a strong upswing. Being content with yourself, truly happy and open to experiencing life is very attractive to most people."

Hell to the yes. 😄

heartlocket,

Scorpios are just effortless to be that sexy...confidence and magnetism already there.

I wonder if you are asking how to use them to lure a prey...

Because sometimes Confidence is just an equation of ''pushy, what a typhoon'' behavior to others.

We may not see this in ourselves but people noticed it...and becomes a ''turn off''.

Posted by M143
heartlocket,

Scorpios are just effortless to be that sexy...confidence and magnetism already there.

I wonder if you are asking how to use them to lure a prey...

Because sometimes Confidence is just an equation of ''pushy, what a typhoon'' behavior to others.

We may not see this in ourselves but people noticed it...and becomes a ''turn off''.

Yes! Exactly!!

Posted by TachiMichi
feeling good is a choice.
you can choose to stay in darkness.
or you can choose to be happy in life.
what feeling good means is you
dont let anyone make you feel otherwise.
love yourself, treat yourself, and
stay positive. do not be pulled down.

when you feel good, confidence boosts.
when you have confidence, you feel good.
these are hand in hand.

+1

If you have to "act" like anything..it's an act and it's fake.

If you try to be like someone you are not..it's a total complete failure.

Natural..original and individual. Don't follow... it's extremely weak and pathetic.

If someone makes you happy..let them know they do.

If someone intentionally pisses you the fuck off..repeatedly..make sure they don't ever again.


Be yourself always. 🙂

I think you're overthinking it. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. I only wish. The Scorpio in you will always be there no matter what you do. Although, I can relate to the resting bitch face (had to laugh) it going to look really awkward if you make yourself conscious of it and try to walk around with a different 'face'. Own it, at least you know that anyone that does approach you isn't a wimp.... and you do not want a wimp.

Hmmmmm...... Maybe we have that look on purpose just to scare the wimps away?

Posted by LetltB
If you have to "act" like anything..it's an act and it's fake.

If you try to be like someone you are not..it's a total complete failure.

Natural..original and individual. Don't follow... it's extremely weak and pathetic.

If someone makes you happy..let them know they do.

If someone intentionally pisses you the fuck off..repeatedly..make sure they don't ever again.


Be yourself always. 🙂

Exactly.

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Consider a Leo.
Now Leo loves to be the main attraction and center of attention.
But is Leo really all that?
Nope.

Consider his entourage, that is, his or her "groupie" followers.
Sooner or later, they mature, get the message, and lose interest in Leo and move on.
But for Leo, the show must go on. - they don't know when to quit. They can continue
their act until long after everyone has left the theater. Leo, it appears, is the last one
to know.
Point: In order for Leo to rule his/her domain, he/she must have "subjects"
who are willing to give up their self-respect and kiss up to him/her. Somewhere along
the way, that BS gets old and such subjects correct their error and lapse in judgement,
and turn from their ways. They realize that they cannot perpetuate the act... or.. the "LIE"
and give it up.

Now, if you "try" to be something that you are not, you are being unnatural and in order to keep that which
you sought and found, you will have to continue the act. And the act will wear you out and your entourage
will lose interest in you and ultimately, you wind up being the one who gets hurt.
Is that really what you want? I don't think so, if you fully considered the inherent problems that match it.
IMHO, what you should want is to be the person who is all natural with no artificial flavors or preservatives.
Be real, but be willing to make the necessary inner changes when you are prompted to do so ONLY when those
changes are conducive to the positive refinement that ultimately yields the better person that attracts
people who, themselves, also, natural and are of the finer vintage.

Posted by MrFirebird
Consider a Leo.
Now Leo loves to be the main attraction and center of attention.
But is Leo really all that?
Nope.

Consider his entourage, that is, his or her "groupie" followers.
Sooner or later, they mature, get the message, and lose interest in Leo and move on.
But for Leo, the show must go on. - they don't know when to quit. They can continue
their act until long after everyone has left the theater. Leo, it appears, is the last one
to know.
Point: In order for Leo to rule his/her domain, he/she must have "subjects"
who are willing to give up their self-respect and kiss up to him/her. Somewhere along
the way, that BS gets old and such subjects correct their error and lapse in judgement,
and turn from their ways. They realize that they cannot perpetuate the act... or.. the "LIE"
and give it up.

Now, if you "try" to be something that you are not, you are being unnatural and in order to keep that which
you sought and found, you will have to continue the act. And the act will wear you out and your entourage
will lose interest in you and ultimately, you wind up being the one who gets hurt.
Is that really what you want? I don't think so, if you fully considered the inherent problems that match it.
IMHO, what you should want is to be the person who is all natural with no artificial flavors or preservatives.
Be real, but be willing to make the necessary inner changes when you are prompted to do so ONLY when those
changes are conducive to the positive refinement that ultimately yields the better person that attracts
people who, themselves, also, natural and are of the finer vintage.

well put FB......

Posted by MrFirebird
Consider a Leo.
Now Leo loves to be the main attraction and center of attention.
But is Leo really all that?
Nope.

Consider his entourage, that is, his or her "groupie" followers.
Sooner or later, they mature, get the message, and lose interest in Leo and move on.
But for Leo, the show must go on. - they don't know when to quit. They can continue
their act until long after everyone has left the theater. Leo, it appears, is the last one
to know.
Point: In order for Leo to rule his/her domain, he/she must have "subjects"
who are willing to give up their self-respect and kiss up to him/her. Somewhere along
the way, that BS gets old and such subjects correct their error and lapse in judgement,
and turn from their ways. They realize that they cannot perpetuate the act... or.. the "LIE"
and give it up.

Now, if you "try" to be something that you are not, you are being unnatural and in order to keep that which
you sought and found, you will have to continue the act. And the act will wear you out and your entourage
will lose interest in you and ultimately, you wind up being the one who gets hurt.
Is that really what you want? I don't think so, if you fully considered the inherent problems that match it.
IMHO, what you should want is to be the person who is all natural with no artificial flavors or preservatives.
Be real, but be willing to make the necessary inner changes when you are prompted to do so ONLY when those
changes are conducive to the positive refinement that ultimately yields the better person that attracts
people who, themselves, also, natural and are of the finer vintage.

Agree with the Leo point FB. However I also believe the lack of upbringing is what magnifies this behavior. Neglect, abuse. I mean read some of the poster's stories in these forums. The hatred of their own parents and family. It's very clear..upbringing is the core of that fake fasad. The only thing left is to mimmick and fake their way throughout their lives, and yep..when figured out by others, they end up again alone, until the next person comes along only to figure them out again. The followers are long gone. It must be a vicious & lonely cycle.

Posted by LetltB
If you have to "act" like anything..it's an act and it's fake.

If you try to be like someone you are not..it's a total complete failure.

Natural..original and individual. Don't follow... it's extremely weak and pathetic.

If someone makes you happy..let them know they do.

If someone intentionally pisses you the fuck off..repeatedly..make sure they don't ever again.


Be yourself always. 🙂

If by "follow" you mean follow the crowd... you'll never see me even following their footsteps, I've always been against that type of thing.

I was always the girl to be in her own little corner, doing her own thing 😄

Posted by MrFirebird
Consider a Leo.
Now Leo loves to be the main attraction and center of attention.
But is Leo really all that?
Nope.

Consider his entourage, that is, his or her "groupie" followers.
Sooner or later, they mature, get the message, and lose interest in Leo and move on.
But for Leo, the show must go on. - they don't know when to quit. They can continue
their act until long after everyone has left the theater. Leo, it appears, is the last one
to know.
Point: In order for Leo to rule his/her domain, he/she must have "subjects"
who are willing to give up their self-respect and kiss up to him/her. Somewhere along
the way, that BS gets old and such subjects correct their error and lapse in judgement,
and turn from their ways. They realize that they cannot perpetuate the act... or.. the "LIE"
and give it up.

Now, if you "try" to be something that you are not, you are being unnatural and in order to keep that which
you sought and found, you will have to continue the act. And the act will wear you out and your entourage
will lose interest in you and ultimately, you wind up being the one who gets hurt.
Is that really what you want? I don't think so, if you fully considered the inherent problems that match it.
IMHO, what you should want is to be the person who is all natural with no artificial flavors or preservatives.
Be real, but be willing to make the necessary inner changes when you are prompted to do so ONLY when those
changes are conducive to the positive refinement that ultimately yields the better person that attracts
people who, themselves, also, natural and are of the finer vintage.

LOL. your leo description sounds JUST like my brother. He is the biggest asswipe I know... and I'm not even exaggerating about that.

But anyway.... I'm not looking to be fake, thats not what I even asked.. I just want to know how to amp up my natural sexiness, but I think I know hat you are saying, that confidence and being yourself are sexy.

Posted by FixedWater
I think you're overthinking it. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. I only wish. The Scorpio in you will always be there no matter what you do. Although, I can relate to the resting bitch face (had to laugh) it going to look really awkward if you make yourself conscious of it and try to walk around with a different 'face'. Own it, at least you know that anyone that does approach you isn't a wimp.... and you do not want a wimp.

Hmmmmm...... Maybe we have that look on purpose just to scare the wimps away?

Hm, I didn't think about that. But yes, I have realized this before, that anyone who "dares" to talk to me (jk) must really want to, cuz I always look pissy...

Posted by basari
First off I'm a scorpio RISING. They say risings make your appearance and all so maybe this fits.

When I lost my trust in people (xD) I always walked around with a mildly angry 'agressive' face :') and I noticed people started avoiding me more and more. Always wondering why girls thought I was weird/didn't talk to me since I'm not an ugly guy. Maybe I came across as scary, I guess I only used the 'death' side of the rising or something.

But then.. I walked on the streets one day, and I thought like.. Fuck it let's just be confident and SEXY (use the sexy scorpio side). I started walking more and more confidently, proud look on my face with my head up. Leo midheaven may have helped here too lol. I think about 4 girls gave me a sexy look that day 🙂
That day I also FELT confident.

Start off looking confident.. And the feeling will come eventually.

But that's when I'm on my own outside.. When I'm in a group and there's a gemini talking everybody's ears off girls take one look at me to check if I start talking to them but they'll lose interest instantly for some reason.

Wow, hmm.. You are so right. I can relate to this.

Posted by heartlocket

Posted by MrFirebird
Consider a Leo.
Now Leo loves to be the main attraction and center of attention.
But is Leo really all that?
Nope.

Consider his entourage, that is, his or her "groupie" followers.
Sooner or later, they mature, get the message, and lose interest in Leo and move on.
But for Leo, the show must go on. - they don't know when to quit. They can continue
their act until long after everyone has left the theater. Leo, it appears, is the last one
to know.
Point: In order for Leo to rule his/her domain, he/she must have "subjects"
who are willing to give up their self-respect and kiss up to him/her. Somewhere along
the way, that BS gets old and such subjects correct their error and lapse in judgement,
and turn from their ways. They realize that they cannot perpetuate the act... or.. the "LIE"
and give it up.

Now, if you "try" to be something that you are not, you are being unnatural and in order to keep that which
you sought and found, you will have to continue the act. And the act will wear you out and your entourage
will lose interest in you and ultimately, you wind up being the one who gets hurt.
Is that really what you want? I don't think so, if you fully considered the inherent problems that match it.
IMHO, what you should want is to be the person who is all natural with no artificial flavors or preservatives.
Be real, but be willing to make the necessary inner changes when you are prompted to do so ONLY when those
changes are conducive to the positive refinement that ultimately yields the better person that attracts
people who, themselves, also, natural and are of the finer vintage.

LOL. your leo description sounds JUST like my brother. He is the biggest asswipe I know... and I'm not even exaggerating about that.

But anyway.... I'm not looking to be fake, thats not what I even asked.. I just want to know how to amp up my natural sexiness, but I think I know hat you are saying, that confidence and being yourself are sexy.

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Just be yourself. No need to "amp up". Beware of over-confidence or you'll magically turn into your brother and
be thought a dumbass. - I seriously doubt you would want to magically become your brother.

Posted by heartlocket


I would appreciate some tips, for I think I'm headed towards a point in my life where I need to amp this up.

I agree that Scorp sexiness is more about the way Scorps carry themselves. I don't think you really have to try to amp it up though. At that point, it becomes fake, and overdone. And sexiness is already overdone, and over-emphasized on a societal level. I agree with that Firebird dude that there's a huge potential for it to bring you trouble to focus too much on that. To me, overplayed sexuality taps into what is a more base level of our nature. Its great for TV Networks that have no real content, who need to flash that imagery in our faces to keep us from tuning out, but as a Scorp woman, you have real depth, and are innately sexy, so there's no real benefit to you. Its highly likely IMO that you'll get a lot of attention from the wrong types, looking for only one thing, inflate your own ego and potentially become addicted to this surface level gratification and this type of superficial power over others. Overplayed, it can actually scare the right types off, by giving them the impression that that is what you're all about, it can keep you from learning more genuine ways of communicating with others, and forming more meaningful bonds.

Never forget the Risings in Scorp.

Posted by heartlocket
We are often named the 'sexiest sign in the zodiac.'

Though this is not true for everyone, I am always getting called sexy... but I believe sexiness is through body language, grace, how we act, what we say; it's not all through looks.

Curious, how do you scorpios use your 'sexiness' to lure in your 'prey?' (yes I said prey)

I would appreciate some tips, for I think I'm headed towards a point in my life where I need to amp this up.

I've been called sexy often, but I don't really agree. I think girls confuse my nonchalant towards dating as playing "hard to get or something." In all honesty, I'm just usually so lost in my own thoughts I don't pay attention to anything. I'm not suave or anything. It's a bit strange. I do stare when I'm interested and I've had women say they like that. I wouldn't say it's me luring though. I just stare a lot.

Posted by Shruikan

Posted by heartlocket
We are often named the 'sexiest sign in the zodiac.'

Though this is not true for everyone, I am always getting called sexy... but I believe sexiness is through body language, grace, how we act, what we say; it's not all through looks.

Curious, how do you scorpios use your 'sexiness' to lure in your 'prey?' (yes I said prey)

I would appreciate some tips, for I think I'm headed towards a point in my life where I need to amp this up.

I've been called sexy often, but I don't really agree. I think girls confuse my nonchalant towards dating as playing "hard to get or something." In all honesty, I'm just usually so lost in my own thoughts I don't pay attention to anything. I'm not suave or anything. It's a bit strange. I do stare when I'm interested and I've had women say they like that. I wouldn't say it's me luring though. I just stare a lot.

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This sounds JUST LIKE ME! lol.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by heartlocket


I would appreciate some tips, for I think I'm headed towards a point in my life where I need to amp this up.

I agree that Scorp sexiness is more about the way Scorps carry themselves. I don't think you really have to try to amp it up though. At that point, it becomes fake, and overdone. And sexiness is already overdone, and over-emphasized on a societal level. I agree with that Firebird dude that there's a huge potential for it to bring you trouble to focus too much on that. To me, overplayed sexuality taps into what is a more base level of our nature. Its great for TV Networks that have no real content, who need to flash that imagery in our faces to keep us from tuning out, but as a Scorp woman, you have real depth, and are innately sexy, so there's no real benefit to you. Its highly likely IMO that you'll get a lot of attention from the wrong types, looking for only one thing, inflate your own ego and potentially become addicted to this surface level gratification and this type of superficial power over others. Overplayed, it can actually scare the right types off, by giving them the impression that that is what you're all about, it can keep you from learning more genuine ways of communicating with others, and forming more meaningful bonds.

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This is true. I guess what I was really trying to ask is how scorpios 'flirt' or something, not really sure. Myself, I just don't really try. I always keep to myself and I NEVER really pursue others, I don't flirt or know how to 'use my sexiness,' I stare and say hello. But I agree, if this is too aggressive or too obvious, people will get the wrong idea. It's like, I just have to keep being myself, what I really do need to amp up is my confidence.

@MrFireBird

I would rather rot in a hole...
That would be like me saying I wanted to become some fake popular stereotype.

Posted by Rabbit
I'm about as sexy as dirty socks.

Take a bath and your luck might improve.

Posted by heartlocket
@MrFireBird

I would rather rot in a hole...
That would be like me saying I wanted to become some fake popular stereotype.

Well, now.... we've come full circle to my original replay and comment.
You see.. if you try to be something your not, you will get tired of it sooner or later.
It's just best to be yourself and act naturally.
Be cautious of those whom you choose associate yourself with and watch for signs to see
if they are being real or if they, themselves are putting on a show. - Leo's not the only
one that does this look-at-me thing. Other signs do it too. But it's really their maturity
more than their sign that reveals who they are.
Anyway.

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by heartlocket
@MrFireBird

I would rather rot in a hole...
That would be like me saying I wanted to become some fake popular stereotype.

Well, now.... we've come full circle to my original replay and comment.
You see.. if you try to be something your not, you will get tired of it sooner or later.
It's just best to be yourself and act naturally.
Be cautious of those whom you choose associate yourself with and watch for signs to see
if they are being real or if they, themselves are putting on a show. - Leo's not the only
one that does this look-at-me thing. Other signs do it too. But it's really their maturity
more than their sign that reveals who they are.
Anyway.

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Ohhh yes. Maturity is a biggie.
Leos... -_- yep, definitely LOVE an audience.

Posted by heartlocket


This is true. I guess what I was really trying to ask is how scorpios 'flirt' or something, not really sure. Myself, I just don't really try. I always keep to myself and I NEVER really pursue others, I don't flirt or know how to 'use my sexiness,' I stare and say hello. But I agree, if this is too aggressive or too obvious, people will get the wrong idea. It's like, I just have to keep being myself, what I really do need to amp up is my confidence.

I think that's a tough one. I don't pursue others either. I have no idea how to flirt with someone I'm interested in, *but* have no reason to be talking to. I don't do small talk, or just approach people on something random, and it seems that that is what a lot of flirting revolves around. All I really do myself is stare to express interest. In my experience with the Scorpio girl at work, we both obviously liked each other but neither would make the move verbally so we just wound up staring at each other constantly. Really silly...lol. She is gorgeous too, but still very shy. I think its hard when you're really attracted to someone because your body reacts so much and its hard to maintain control, focus, etc.

Posted by heartlocket


But anyway.... I'm not looking to be fake, thats not what I even asked.. I just want to know how to amp up my natural sexiness, but I think I know hat you are saying, that confidence and being yourself are sexy.

I think of sexy in a way that is a bit counter to what passes for sexy nowadays (basically looking like a porn star). I like a woman who is a bit shy, understated, wears less makeup, dresses more modest and less flashy, etc. A lot of people I know think to look sexy is all about drawing attention from others, so the goal is to flaunt as many of their assets as they can, be as loud as possible in attitude and attire. To me, this just winds up being less sexy, as this kind of need for attention betrays a lack of inner confidence, and a dependence on other's approval (kinda how I see Leo energy).

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by heartlocket


But anyway.... I'm not looking to be fake, thats not what I even asked.. I just want to know how to amp up my natural sexiness, but I think I know hat you are saying, that confidence and being yourself are sexy.

I think of sexy in a way that is a bit counter to what passes for sexy nowadays (basically looking like a porn star). I like a woman who is a bit shy, understated, wears less makeup, dresses more modest and less flashy, etc. A lot of people I know think to look sexy is all about drawing attention from others, so the goal is to flaunt as many of their assets as they can, be as loud as possible in attitude and attire. To me, this just winds up being less sexy, as this kind of need for attention betrays a lack of inner confidence, and a dependence on other's approval (kinda how I see Leo energy).

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Wow... yes I think the same thing, that's why I can't stand leos lol. I always disliked the girls that use slutty clothing and piles of makeup to get what they want. It's not right, and they always end up having major self-esteem problems somewhere to some degree.

And... I find that interesting because I am literally all those things, except maybe a bit too shy. Now i'm thinking, why don't I ever get approached then? 😢 Because yes, making small talk and pursuing is the HARDEST part for me, I just cannot do it. That's why I kind of have to lure them in somehow myself... without being slutty. I think the best way to go about this now, is to look confident and happy. I think.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by heartlocket


This is true. I guess what I was really trying to ask is how scorpios 'flirt' or something, not really sure. Myself, I just don't really try. I always keep to myself and I NEVER really pursue others, I don't flirt or know how to 'use my sexiness,' I stare and say hello. But I agree, if this is too aggressive or too obvious, people will get the wrong idea. It's like, I just have to keep being myself, what I really do need to amp up is my confidence.

I think that's a tough one. I don't pursue others either. I have no idea how to flirt with someone I'm interested in, *but* have no reason to be talking to. I don't do small talk, or just approach people on something random, and it seems that that is what a lot of flirting revolves around. All I really do myself is stare to express interest. In my experience with the Scorpio girl at work, we both obviously liked each other but neither would make the move verbally so we just wound up staring at each other constantly. Really silly...lol. She is gorgeous too, but still very shy. I think its hard when you're really attracted to someone because your body reacts so much and its hard to maintain control, focus, etc.

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Lool yeah, I will sit and stare...and stare...sometimes its unconscious, sometimes I am daring them to stare back!

It's our natural aura we give off. Just be yourself young one.

@Infinite8

Woah... you are a tough one! I started to laugh when you said how you pulled him to the floor xD
I like that, you definitely respect yourself.

Scorpio vibe can either draw people in or make others run, and far away too.

You are right, and I have been told this by numerous people... that I need to get to know myself and have more confidence... thank you 🙂

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Posted by Shruikan

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We are often named the 'sexiest sign in the zodiac.'

Though this is not true for everyone, I am always getting called sexy... but I believe sexiness is through body language, grace, how we act, what we say; it's not all through looks.

Curious, how do you scorpios use your 'sexiness' to lure in your 'prey?' (yes I said prey)

I would appreciate some tips, for I think I'm headed towards a point in my life where I need to amp this up.

I've been called sexy often, but I don't really agree. I think girls confuse my nonchalant towards dating as playing "hard to get or something." In all honesty, I'm just usually so lost in my own thoughts I don't pay attention to anything. I'm not suave or anything. It's a bit strange. I do stare when I'm interested and I've had women say they like that. I wouldn't say it's me luring though. I just stare a lot.

This sounds JUST LIKE ME! lol.

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It's a blessing and a curse. Haha!

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Posted by heartlocket
We are often named the 'sexiest sign in the zodiac.'

Though this is not true for everyone, I am always getting called sexy... but I believe sexiness is through body language, grace, how we act, what we say; it's not all through looks.

Curious, how do you scorpios use your 'sexiness' to lure in your 'prey?' (yes I said prey)

I would appreciate some tips, for I think I'm headed towards a point in my life where I need to amp this up.

I've been called sexy often, but I don't really agree. I think girls confuse my nonchalant towards dating as playing "hard to get or something." In all honesty, I'm just usually so lost in my own thoughts I don't pay attention to anything. I'm not suave or anything. It's a bit strange. I do stare when I'm interested and I've had women say they like that. I wouldn't say it's me luring though. I just stare a lot.

This sounds JUST LIKE ME! lol.

It's a blessing and a curse. Haha!

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Now youre just freaking me out! That's exactly what I said lol

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@Infinite8

Woah... you are a tough one! I started to laugh when you said how you pulled him to the floor xD
I like that, you definitely respect yourself.

Scorpio vibe can either draw people in or make others run, and far away too.

You are right, and I have been told this by numerous people... that I need to get to know myself and have more confidence... thank you 🙂

🙂 hehehe... yeah, I know! It is definitely a story that gives me the giggles to this day! I can be tough at times... but I am also very kind and affectionate. In the end I balance off 😉

Good luck hun! You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you. Use this time wisely. Remember: confidence is attained by practice and not attained in one single day. So every day focus on one thing that you love about yourself. Repeat it to the point that you can actually say it out loud and not just keep it hidden within. Or: do something that you love! Like me: I'm a dancer and that has helped me a lot with my confidence.

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Aww, thank you! I will definitely take your advice, its good... I'm good at drawing so I will work on that 🙂

Being balanced is tough!

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It's our natural aura we give off. Just be yourself young one.

"young one"

😉

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Posted by MrFirebird

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@MrFireBird

I would rather rot in a hole...
That would be like me saying I wanted to become some fake popular stereotype.

Well, now.... we've come full circle to my original replay and comment.
You see.. if you try to be something your not, you will get tired of it sooner or later.
It's just best to be yourself and act naturally.
Be cautious of those whom you choose associate yourself with and watch for signs to see
if they are being real or if they, themselves are putting on a show. - Leo's not the only
one that does this look-at-me thing. Other signs do it too. But it's really their maturity
more than their sign that reveals who they are.
Anyway.

Ohhh yes. Maturity is a biggie.

Leos... -_- yep, definitely LOVE an audience.

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So do you.

You happen to be one of the "other signs" who is doing this look-at-me thing, from one fake popular stereotype.

As you are asking advice on how to become some, albeit other, "fake popular stereotype."


The irony in this thread is delish. 🙂

I knew a leo would have to leave a comment xD
cannot help yourself.

Well said jeanne 😄

Our gaze is just much lol

Damn sounds effective to me! I'll have to give it a try...