TAURUSbelle
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SCORPIO Disappearing ACTS...
Posted by TAURUSbelle
1st it was a Capricorn.. A Sagg...Now its a Scorpio.. WTF gives??
Its been 3 days, since normal convo patterns (which included SWEET morning/night calls or text messages) have ceased without any warning..This is his 1st Official disappearing act since we've met in June. I get nervous whenever I see this happen with my beaus because I appreciate all the adulation & attention..only my Scorp lays it ON me, GOOD and THICK..Seriously, how can one go from speaking/texting me everyday...calling me "WIFE", dreamily & intensely giving my SOOOOUL stares while he says.."I'm gonna MARRY you."...to just -POOF- nothing.
I can't help not to feel the anxious feeling of not knowing whether or not the disappearance will be 3 days,
1-2wks..a Month until he "Returns from the abyss."
I already know to stand my ground.."keep busy" and "stay calm, carry on.." But during it all..he FLOODS my thoughts,
..all day...all night.
I'm sure he senses this, as he's already exhibited a slight telepathic connection that is proabably only going to grow stronger with time. He picks up on my moods almost psychically.
I understand one needs space from time to time...I guess now IS that time.
...just venting my emotions HERE rather than flooding him with these emotions...gotta keep it together..
For all other Scorpios..PLEASE DO give SOME prior notice before unplugging..cause THIS is such an unnerving feeling.
Scorpio Moon..missing her...Scorpio Sun...
Aww...
Yes, it's best to be careful with your moods.
Don't ever try to hide anything from him and don't
give him reasons to be suspicious or jealous.
example: talk about xs or other male friends with
excessive joy can be torture. Hell on earth.
Do that and you are literally torturing his soul.
But that is only because he loves you so much and
fears the possibility that you are losing interest in him.
What goes on inside his head are movies of potential infidelity
and all sorts of negative things that, in reality are just not
true, but he is condemned to be more apt to believe them.
Patience is what you need. IF he truly loves you, he will be
faithful. Honest yet considerate communication is key.
I don't know why I wrote that but I did.
Hope it helps, there may be a variation but that is from
a Scorpio Sun Pisces Moon Man's persepective.
Best wishes.
Posted by EllybeanPosted by Jynja
Awwwwwww... I know the feeling. When he gets back, it will be more exciting than before. 😉
To all you Scorpio Men - one of you kill this trait and render astrology moot. I dare you! hahahahaha
My Scorpio honest to god never had a FULL disappearing act. Lol. He withdrew and was distant and didn't text as much or invite me out for like two weeks. But he didn't drop complete contact.
Then again my cancer moon tribe my Scorpio stellium probably played a factor in not letting him. "I SEEEEE YOU. YOU WILL NOT LEAVE ME. YOU ARE MIIIIIIIIINNNEEEEE!" 😛
If he'd disappeared without notice we wouldn't be together now. And if he disappeared in the first three or four months for longer than our established pattern (ie gone for a week or two if we talked everyday, gone for three or more weeks if we talked once or twice a week ect) I honestly wouldn't have talked to him again. The one before him I dealt with back and forth disappearing stuff and constantly catering to his emotional needs and lost myself. Since that is a huge weakness of mine I set boundaries from the start to prevent myself from going there.
The astrological world is SHAKEN?!!!!!!
@OP, has this relationship followed the same pattern emotionally as with the other relationships you described? Are the bonds and/or the way they've been established at all similar?click to expand
I used to drive a big rig all over the US dreaming of coming home, ....to her. I never did get home and
I wonder if I ever will.
I was forced into retirement, but now and then it gets like this:
There's just something about the road. The Road can be like a peculiar woman.... I love her but then
there's somethin' she cannot fulfill. It's not her fault, it's just this "thing".
A sense of accomplishment, exploration, I don't know, but I DO know, for me, anyway it's never about
going to a certain place or looking for another woman to hold, but just being out there riding the wind.
(I didn't need to drink though)
Now, I could be wrong, but such a frame of mind may not be something a woman can fully understand.
Something that goes deeper in such a way that not even some men can understand.
For those of us that do, the highway never ends. It's a spiritual journey.
Something that goes deeper in such a way that not even some men can understand.
For those of us that do, the highway never ends. It's a spiritual journey.
Posted by Ellybean
@Firebird, wanderlust is not foreign to women lol. Well maybe to some, but not all. You should know that having been over at the saggie board time to time. Every time Sag 89 posts some song lyrics my heart giggle a bit with glee. For me and my Scorp, it's often been us and the road, sometimes with no place to go and other times with whole worlds to explore. 12th house Sag here, journeying IS my spiritual journey.
How did you know I was over on the sag forum—??
Hmmm... looks left.... looks right.....
You are spyin' on me, too—?
Quickly grabs his secret agent counterspy scope
O
Winks at the spies.
Posted by Ellybean
Cancer moon memory never fails. 😉
Gets nervous....
uh oh.... ummm Ellybeanie, sweetiepie, you don't you sing like birdie, do you?
OOMG..speaking of "drink"..I just had a TALL glass of refreshing drink of water, after roaming the Sahara desert for 3days & nights -He JUST Called. 🙂 With his charming little English accent..
He said: "How are you Soph.?..I missed you "small"..(his way of "playing it cool" as to how MUCH he missed me..lol)
I said: "I missed you -small- too".. He laughed..(a laugh that gave me SUCH a refill & replenished what I have missed so dearly of him in the last few days)
He asked: " So what happened??..Not even a text OR a call from you to check on me—"
I said: I wasn't sure if you just need time to yourself to sort things out, as the last time we spoke you seemed stiff & brief with me, so I just gave you the time you needed to bring me back my -normal- sweet.
His tone sounded a bit disappointed.. as he said "OH.." (That told me that he was DEF testing me to see if I would chase after him)
I told him: "You know, I'm not the nagging and suffocating type, I won't chase or force you to talk when you're CLEARLY not in the mood. We'll talk when you feel good and ready to. So I pull back even when it hurts to"..
Him: Hmm.. still, Not fair (I just let that slide, like I didn't hear it..Cause there was NO debating here)
I made him laugh, like always,& out of his shell he slid & told me about the stress he's been dealing with from his job & how he's looking for another one. Alot has been on his mind, incl. ME.
HE said he couldn't sleep the last 3 days, he checked his phone for any texts messages from me, checked my FB profile to see if I updated any status & nothing. He said he felt incomplete, not hearing from his "heartbeat"...said he felt an urge to call me but held back, incase I would call him. Then he gave in and called today. Said he's madly in love with me, but has been fighting it..and that's why he can't stay away for too long. Felt like an eternity.
I told him that I had trouble sleeping too, and that I felt uneasy and fragmented, like parts of me were missing...etc (I know, I know....we're a bit "mushy-mushy"..but I LOVE this about him, he expresses himself, sometimes he can get SO intense I have to take a breathe)..INTENSE!!
I told him that all this was unnecessary, all he had to do was just communicate to me, whatever was on his mind, big or small. I prefer this not to happen again. He said sorry & that it wouldn't, We'll see!
He said: "How are you Soph.?..I missed you "small"..(his way of "playing it cool" as to how MUCH he missed me..lol)
I said: "I missed you -small- too".. He laughed..(a laugh that gave me SUCH a refill & replenished what I have missed so dearly of him in the last few days)
He asked: " So what happened??..Not even a text OR a call from you to check on me—"
I said: I wasn't sure if you just need time to yourself to sort things out, as the last time we spoke you seemed stiff & brief with me, so I just gave you the time you needed to bring me back my -normal- sweet.
His tone sounded a bit disappointed.. as he said "OH.." (That told me that he was DEF testing me to see if I would chase after him)
I told him: "You know, I'm not the nagging and suffocating type, I won't chase or force you to talk when you're CLEARLY not in the mood. We'll talk when you feel good and ready to. So I pull back even when it hurts to"..
Him: Hmm.. still, Not fair (I just let that slide, like I didn't hear it..Cause there was NO debating here)
I made him laugh, like always,& out of his shell he slid & told me about the stress he's been dealing with from his job & how he's looking for another one. Alot has been on his mind, incl. ME.
HE said he couldn't sleep the last 3 days, he checked his phone for any texts messages from me, checked my FB profile to see if I updated any status & nothing. He said he felt incomplete, not hearing from his "heartbeat"...said he felt an urge to call me but held back, incase I would call him. Then he gave in and called today. Said he's madly in love with me, but has been fighting it..and that's why he can't stay away for too long. Felt like an eternity.
I told him that I had trouble sleeping too, and that I felt uneasy and fragmented, like parts of me were missing...etc (I know, I know....we're a bit "mushy-mushy"..but I LOVE this about him, he expresses himself, sometimes he can get SO intense I have to take a breathe)..INTENSE!!
I told him that all this was unnecessary, all he had to do was just communicate to me, whatever was on his mind, big or small. I prefer this not to happen again. He said sorry & that it wouldn't, We'll see!
Posted by EllybeanPosted by Jynja
Awwwwwww... I know the feeling. When he gets back, it will be more exciting than before. 😉
@OP, has this relationship followed the same pattern emotionally as with the other relationships you described? Are the bonds and/or the way they've been established at all similar?
@Jynja: YES he DID...like he was never too far to begin with. I missed my Papito!!
@Ellybean: This relationship is marching to a whole other pace compared to the others before. EVERYTHING you said about two nice ppl getting together...THIS is what is happenning. I never thought it could happen. I used to date the bad guys, but I'm bored of them & their dead-end ways. I want the GOOD, that treats me WELL like the Queen that I am! The relationhip with the Capricorn, he dissappeared for a month, I flew down to miami to find him, (which I did)..I learned he had severe coping skills whenever things in his life would turn difficult. He would isolate himself & smoke weed & drink for days..then he disaapears. Leaving me in the dark. The 1st time was on him...I told him I wouldn't be around for the 2nd disappearance..He disappeard again. That was my ticket OUT.
Sagg, he was inconsistent at times too..when he pulled away for about a week that freaked me out because Mr. Capricorn traumatized me with his lengthy month dip out. I'll be damned to suffer through another month long episode from someone else. So Sagg unpluggin, and learned to tell me in advance(SOMETIMES) Because from day one I told him about what ol Cap did, so he could understand where I was coming from, so he thought I was insecure and said that I was comparing him to an ex. ...it was only a matter of time for that to end.
BUT WITH MY SCORPIO.... HE's smooth & consistent with his emotions
We completed our 1st disappearance hurdle..now looking forward to more understanding days ahead!!
I wanted to post earlier that he may be sitting back and seeing if you will contact him. Guys do that from time to time.
"Aww" at the honesty. The two of you both seem very expressive which is a lovely thing!
"Aww" at the honesty. The two of you both seem very expressive which is a lovely thing!
Posted by TAURUSbelle
OOMG..speaking of "drink"..I just had a TALL glass of refreshing drink of water, after roaming the Sahara desert for 3days & nights -He JUST Called. 🙂 With his charming little English accent..
He said: "How are you Soph.?..I missed you "small"..(his way of "playing it cool" as to how MUCH he missed me..lol)
I said: "I missed you -small- too".. He laughed..(a laugh that gave me SUCH a refill & replenished what I have missed so dearly of him in the last few days)
He asked: " So what happened??..Not even a text OR a call from you to check on me—"
I said: I wasn't sure if you just need time to yourself to sort things out, as the last time we spoke you seemed stiff & brief with me, so I just gave you the time you needed to bring me back my -normal- sweet.
His tone sounded a bit disappointed.. as he said "OH.." (That told me that he was DEF testing me to see if I would chase after him)
I told him: "You know, I'm not the nagging and suffocating type, I won't chase or force you to talk when you're CLEARLY not in the mood. We'll talk when you feel good and ready to. So I pull back even when it hurts to"..
Him: Hmm.. still, Not fair (I just let that slide, like I didn't hear it..Cause there was NO debating here)
I made him laugh, like always,& out of his shell he slid & told me about the stress he's been dealing with from his job & how he's looking for another one. Alot has been on his mind, incl. ME.
HE said he couldn't sleep the last 3 days, he checked his phone for any texts messages from me, checked my FB profile to see if I updated any status & nothing. He said he felt incomplete, not hearing from his "heartbeat"...said he felt an urge to call me but held back, incase I would call him. Then he gave in and called today. Said he's madly in love with me, but has been fighting it..and that's why he can't stay away for too long. Felt like an eternity.
I told him that I had trouble sleeping too, and that I felt uneasy and fragmented, like parts of me were missing...etc (I know, I know....we're a bit "mushy-mushy"..but I LOVE this about him, he expresses himself, sometimes he can get SO intense I have to take a breathe)..INTENSE!!
I told him that all this was unnecessary, all he had to do was just communicate to me, whatever was on his mind, bi
what I was trying to say was ^ this makes my heart melt 🙂
@Jynja, @Ellybean: You guys are the best thanks for calming my Gemini rising/Venus in Aries nerves!!!
Posted by lnana04
I wanted to post earlier that he may be sitting back and seeing if you will contact him. Guys do that from time to time.
"Aww" at the honesty. The two of you both seem very expressive which is a lovely thing!
Yes honesty is definitely something important to us both, There's never a reason to lie. even if the truth will hurt. Its a long distance relationship, (He's in Africa..I'm here in the States)..so HONESTY is the policy. I think this is why its been really easy to gain trust from my Scorp, I'm honest with him, and he is the same with me.
Open expression is EVERYTHING too. I'm glad its the same with him, sometimes he asks the same question more than once, via text, skype..but HEARING a sentiment or a compliment makes all the difference.
Posted by aNEWday
what I was trying to say was ^ this makes my heart melt 🙂click to expand
@ANEWday..Yes he makes my heart melt too..besides the lil disppearance, things are so effortless.. I like it.
He was the first to say "I Love You"..and while I have yet to express the response.(I'm big on letting love grow), he's been rather understanding...
He told me: Thanks for not saying "I Love You" to please me..Its better to wait till your heart is ready to express it, so that you mean it and it makes it that much more meaningful. One thing I do know, is that when you DO tell me...I just may lose my mind."
..a sweetheart. Not letting this one go for anything.
can i ask if you've actually met this man in person?
Posted by NovLady
Hi Taurus Belle,
I read the boards occasionally. It was great to come across your post. You handle yourself eloquently. I wish you much depth of love with your Scorpio. Best Wishes!
Yes!
This is a really nice read!
@Nov Lady: THank You! I've been away from DXP for a little but great to pop in now & then. THanks for reading!
Sure, you are certainly free to ask. I'm already out on front street..lol
NO, we haven't met in person yet, and I know experiencing someone in person is better because you get to see them often, and we're working on that. He has applied for his visa (All on his own)to come for a month (or two) to see me during the Holidays. But the goal is for him to MOVE here. He admits he's a little scared but he wants to be where -I- am.
So far So good. in the meantime We Text, talk and Skype frequently.. But I look forward to finally putting the techie devices down and look UP into his eyes for good!!
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
can i ask if you've actually met this man in person?
Sure, you are certainly free to ask. I'm already out on front street..lol
NO, we haven't met in person yet, and I know experiencing someone in person is better because you get to see them often, and we're working on that. He has applied for his visa (All on his own)to come for a month (or two) to see me during the Holidays. But the goal is for him to MOVE here. He admits he's a little scared but he wants to be where -I- am.
So far So good. in the meantime We Text, talk and Skype frequently.. But I look forward to finally putting the techie devices down and look UP into his eyes for good!!
Posted by lnana04Posted by NovLady
Hi Taurus Belle,
I read the boards occasionally. It was great to come across your post. You handle yourself eloquently. I wish you much depth of love with your Scorpio. Best Wishes!
Yes!
This is a really nice read!click to expand
Thanks Inana04!!
Posted by JynjaPosted by TAURUSbelle
@Nov Lady: THank You! I've been away from DXP for a little but great to pop in now & then. THanks for reading!
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
can i ask if you've actually met this man in person?
Sure, you are certainly free to ask. I'm already out on front street..lol
NO, we haven't met in person yet, and I know experiencing someone in person is better because you get to see them often, and we're working on that. He has applied for his visa (All on his own)to come for a month (or two) to see me during the Holidays. But the goal is for him to MOVE here. He admits he's a little scared but he wants to be where -I- am.
So far So good. in the meantime We Text, talk and Skype frequently.. But I look forward to finally putting the techie devices down and look UP into his eyes for good!!
Wishing you the best, girl. Please be careful. 🙂click to expand
Thanks Jynja! I am and I will continue to be careful..my instincts never fail.
yeah you should be really careful. just get to the meeting part and see what happens although your expectations are gonna be excrutiatingly high i would imagine. when you've got all the senses working together you'll know if there's chemistry almost instantly but you'll also know if there's nothing real there at all in the same moment. you sound level-headed enough though. good luck to you! 🙂
My boyfriend mentioned marriage on the first date. Right between me cutting my well done steak and scooping up a helping of loaded mashed potatoes. He did say he wouldnt scare me and we would wait four years though. Goodness...should I be worried?
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
yeah you should be really careful. just get to the meeting part and see what happens although your expectations are gonna be excrutiatingly high i would imagine. when you've got all the senses working together you'll know if there's chemistry almost instantly but you'll also know if there's nothing real there at all in the same moment. you sound level-headed enough though. good luck to you! 🙂
Thanks R1g!
Yes, absolutely..I've told him that its not real until he crosses the ATLANTIC to meet me. and his voice just goes deep.."OH we WILL meet"..*insert sinister laugh* ..lol..
I've learned to keep expectations low, I'd rather be pleasantly surprised. Its not my 1st LDR either. I've actually vowed not to get into another..then -IN- THIS way, he comes. As far as chemistry goes..I am definitely feeling him. He says he feeling me MORE than I do him..(whatever that means)..I've tried to push/pull away but something tells me to give him a try. As long as he keeps being honest,forward and upfront, and his actions cash the check his mouth writes.. I'll have no complaints. I have weighed the Pros & Cons..
Posted by TAURUSbellePosted by R1g0rM0rT1s
yeah you should be really careful. just get to the meeting part and see what happens although your expectations are gonna be excrutiatingly high i would imagine. when you've got all the senses working together you'll know if there's chemistry almost instantly but you'll also know if there's nothing real there at all in the same moment. you sound level-headed enough though. good luck to you! 🙂
Thanks R1g!
Yes, absolutely..I've told him that its not real until he crosses the ATLANTIC to meet me. and his voice just goes deep.."OH we WILL meet"..*insert sinister laugh* ..lol..
I've learned to keep expectations low, I'd rather be pleasantly surprised. Its not my 1st LDR either. I've actually vowed not to get into another..then -IN- THIS way, he comes. As far as chemistry goes..I am definitely feeling him. He says he feeling me MORE than I do him..(whatever that means)..I've tried to push/pull away but something tells me to give him a try. As long as he keeps being honest,forward and upfront, and his actions cash the check his mouth writes.. I'll have no complaints. I have weighed the Pros & Cons..click to expand
but that's the problem. you don't really know his true actions...only during those moments you can see him on webcam. you just can't have chemistry with someone you haven't touched cos it's in the touching that you know cos it's like firecrackers!
the thing is that it is easier to idealise someone in your situation. this is gonna sound mean but you should think about it.
what if anything happened to either one of you at the current time. how would you know. who would contact you...do you even know his friends and family? does he know yours?
in other words either one of you could be *POOF* and GONE for whatever reason and the chemistry and connection you feel now will be rendered empty in a heartbeat.
it's for romantics and idealists.
Posted by Let*It*Be
With all due respect Taurusb, this is not reality. All of the energy and spirit you are putting into this man who you have never met is equivalent to a groupie falling in love with a band, actor, actress. Not to downplay the technilogical communication you have with this man, but ANYONE who hasn't met someone in person and says "im gonna marry you" is a red flag. Big one. Hell, it's a red flag if someone says i'm gonna marry you after only 4 months after they have met. I understand he's trying to get his visa and wants to move where you are, but again, I could see that after you've spent much time together physically, and you've confirmed. Long distance relationships last only if you are physically together 2-3 times a month. You haven't had any time. Have you checked this guy out? Confirmed who he is? Like Rig said, be VERY careful. I'm the official bubble burster around here, but out of concern. This thread started with you in a tizzy because you haven't heard from him. You finally have and what does he say? Why didn't you reach out to see if I was ok? Selfish trait right off the bat, and very inconsiderate. Please be careful and good luck to you.
Hi Let*It*Be*,
While what my Scorp has expressed may seem scary or a bit off putting to some, I actually find it amusing that he would dare to mention what he does in such a serious, no games, no nonsense manner. To best describe, its like two people who know what they want, have met. The only obstacle is the sea of distance. I set the pace & slow things down at times to make sure that things stay grounded and focused. He does know that before anything can blossom further, he would have to crossover to meet me (several times). As I've told him that I won't consider things REAL until we meet then we'll see where things will go from there..Then, we can plan more visits..meet family...Rinse & repeat.
Yes in the beginning of the thread my mind was in a spin b/c I didn't hear from Scorp. (I've gotten used to routine.)When he called and asked me why I didn't check on him, I didn't hear selfishness and inconsideration, I heard insecurity seeking re-assurance. Every relationship has its tests, we're still learning & growing. Things will take time. I'm in no rush..
Thanks for the concern and good wishes.
@R1g: What you said is not mean at all.
Yes, I informally met his friends and family (via skype) &..My Scorp's father is deceased but I spoke to his mom, (phone & skype) who is actually a very smart well connected business woman and a prominent figure who frequently attends galas, functions with people in Government..I do have her contact information, I've given her my number and email. Their family information checks out.
My Scorp prefers to live a low key life and has acted like a family rebel to set himself apart from the way he was lavishly brought up. When I'm ready, I'll visit them in Africa (with friends that have already visited and lived where they are.). But for now.. I'm taking my time..
I definitely get what you mean by Chemistry should also be felt by touch etc..I am one that MUST be stimulated mentally before even venturing futher physically. One must make love to and connect with my mind, before gaining access to the rest. Mentally we click..And from the physical standpoint, I LOooVE what I see..and had he been local, I wouldn't be here typing this..lol. 🙂
Yes, I informally met his friends and family (via skype) &..My Scorp's father is deceased but I spoke to his mom, (phone & skype) who is actually a very smart well connected business woman and a prominent figure who frequently attends galas, functions with people in Government..I do have her contact information, I've given her my number and email. Their family information checks out.
My Scorp prefers to live a low key life and has acted like a family rebel to set himself apart from the way he was lavishly brought up. When I'm ready, I'll visit them in Africa (with friends that have already visited and lived where they are.). But for now.. I'm taking my time..
I definitely get what you mean by Chemistry should also be felt by touch etc..I am one that MUST be stimulated mentally before even venturing futher physically. One must make love to and connect with my mind, before gaining access to the rest. Mentally we click..And from the physical standpoint, I LOooVE what I see..and had he been local, I wouldn't be here typing this..lol. 🙂
i think most people would be fibbing if they hadn't been in your shoes to some extent, me included. i realised that at the time i was involved in internet 'things' (can't really call them any more)...i was actually living in a very remote area and going through a marriage breakup and had some serious health issues and that's why i was seeking something 'remote' if you will....cos the reality wasn't ever feasible.
it's very easy to be emotionally in the wrong place at the wrong time when you 'meet' someone online and everything becomes clouded by your own desires and needs and how they are apparently 'met' by this stranger from afar. it's cos we want that connection so badly but deep down, there are other issues which are motivating you to become too involved with someone you haven't met.
internet dating sites are one thing. there is usually the intention of meeting up and seeking people locally. in the kind of 'relationship' you describe there are always way more obstacles that stand in the way of you physically being with that person. love that has lasted years sometimes struggles to overcome obstacles like distance so what hope of a love that isn't really love?
it's very easy to be emotionally in the wrong place at the wrong time when you 'meet' someone online and everything becomes clouded by your own desires and needs and how they are apparently 'met' by this stranger from afar. it's cos we want that connection so badly but deep down, there are other issues which are motivating you to become too involved with someone you haven't met.
internet dating sites are one thing. there is usually the intention of meeting up and seeking people locally. in the kind of 'relationship' you describe there are always way more obstacles that stand in the way of you physically being with that person. love that has lasted years sometimes struggles to overcome obstacles like distance so what hope of a love that isn't really love?
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Everyone over here doing well? There's a fucked up vibe in the air, and I think it's taking a toll on everyone's emotion
I'm a Pisces and started seeing a Scorpio a bit lately. The first week he texted me every single day and wanted to hang
Its been 3 days, since normal convo patterns (which included SWEET morning/night calls or text messages) have ceased without any warning..This is his 1st Official disappearing act since we've met in June. I get nervous whenever I see this happen with my beaus because I appreciate all the adulation & attention..only my Scorp lays it ON me, GOOD and THICK..Seriously, how can one go from speaking/texting me everyday...calling me "WIFE", dreamily & intensely giving my SOOOOUL stares while he says.."I'm gonna MARRY you."...to just -POOF- nothing.
I can't help not to feel the anxious feeling of not knowing whether or not the disappearance will be 3 days,
1-2wks..a Month until he "Returns from the abyss."
I already know to stand my ground.."keep busy" and "stay calm, carry on.." But during it all..he FLOODS my thoughts,
..all day...all night.
I'm sure he senses this, as he's already exhibited a slight telepathic connection that is proabably only going to grow stronger with time. He picks up on my moods almost psychically.
I understand one needs space from time to time...I guess now IS that time.
...just venting my emotions HERE rather than flooding him with these emotions...gotta keep it together..
For all other Scorpios..PLEASE DO give SOME prior notice before unplugging..cause THIS is such an unnerving feeling.
Scorpio Moon..missing her...Scorpio Sun...