@SagienScorp23
14 Years
I caught my scorpio cheating? Need some Advice Pls
Posted by SagienScorp23
I found out that my scorp cheating on me again, I know that there is something wrong . He always tells me that he loves me and he never lie. This was the fourth time I knew he was having an affair with so many girls online, facebook, text and he tells me that those girls are nothing to him. We are living together , When were together everything is so perfect we are happy. I dont know. I love him so much but if this will go on, I know I have to leave.I am so confused. I dont know if after all of these, I will be the same person. Need your advice pls.
If I will accept him again, what things I have to change?
On second thought, how is he cheating online? Is he meeting up with these people or does he just have a following of admiring females online that he likes to entertain? Hmmm Give us details so we can understand better.
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The first one was his ex gf saw him message her on FB that he still love her second was a girl from online making comments like missin you , third was a girl from vietnam he met when he went their for vacation. Third one was his office mate 😢 I dont know is he bored being with me? I admit, the intensity is all gone even sex. He become very distant at time and whenever I ask him he said he has too much in his mind.
I try to understand because I love him so much ,But I love myself more and I dont want to be trap here.
Prove that you love YOURSELF more.
He abuses you in this way because you have allowed it.
Posted by SagienScorp23
I found out that my scorp cheating on me again, I know that there is something wrong . He always tells me that he loves me and he never lie. This was the fourth time I knew he was having an affair with so many girls online, facebook, text and he tells me that those girls are nothing to him. We are living together , When were together everything is so perfect we are happy. I dont know. I love him so much but if this will go on, I know I have to leave.I am so confused. I dont know if after all of these, I will be the same person. Need your advice pls.
If I will accept him again, what things I have to change?
On second thought, how is he cheating online? Is he meeting up with these people or does he just have a following of admiring females online that he likes to entertain? Hmmm Give us details so we can understand better.
The first one was his ex gf saw him message her on FB that he still love her second was a girl from online making comments like missin you , third was a girl from vietnam he met when he went their for vacation. Third one was his office mate 😢 I dont know is he bored being with me? I admit, the intensity is all gone even sex. He become very distant at time and whenever I ask him he said he has too much in his mind.
I try to understand because I love him so much ,But I love myself more and I dont want to be trap here.
I think you've answered your own question. Feeling trapped means that you're no longer present in the relationship; you're just compensating now. You need to have some freedom and be able to give it as well so that you grow trust. If you think you feel trapped, it's time to leave.
Especially if he is still professing love for other 'real' women
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Thank you.
You caught him again and your still with him
Me I,d have been gone the first time Once the trust is gone I,d be gone too
I wouldn't put up with that shit for 5 seconds
There were post here , says that scopios are loyal? I thought he's loyal .. because whenever your with him , He will makes you feel you the only one 😢
hitman
I'm pretty sure that I'm the only one laughing my ass off because she said third twice.
Your claims of cheating make no sense to me. 'making comments like missin you'?
Either way, you allowed him to do this. Suck it up and leave him. Don't talk to him because you would probably 'give in' to his crap about how he'll 'change' and 'work on himself'.
Not gonna happen. Once you LET somebody treat you like this.. there's no way back from it.
If I will accept him again, what things I have to change?
This is the part that kills me. What things will YOU have to change?!?!?!?!?!
YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS YOURSELF. GET SOME SELF WORTH. DON'T TAKE HIM BACK.. EVER.
Learn to respect and love yourself and NEVER EVER EVER settle for anyone who doesn't EXCEED the love and respect that you have for yourself and CONTINUOUSLY shows that without breaks.
Posted by SagienScorp23
I found out that my scorp cheating on me again, I know that there is something wrong . He always tells me that he loves me and he never lie. This was the fourth time I knew he was having an affair with so many girls online, facebook, text and he tells me that those girls are nothing to him. We are living together , When were together everything is so perfect we are happy. I dont know. I love him so much but if this will go on, I know I have to leave.I am so confused. I dont know if after all of these, I will be the same person. Need your advice pls.
If I will accept him again, what things I have to change?
Cheat on him and see how he likes it....guarantee that Scorp Stinger won't know what to sting first..
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Worst advice ever.
Just leave - you've embarrassed yourself enough by staying with him this long.
He has already proven that he isn't going to learn.
I found out that my scorp cheating on me again
I only read those first 10 words, and there is no point in reading more.
"again" says it all
You get what you deserve because you, yourself, lowered your value.
You deserve no words of support or encouragement.
"again" .... ::: shakes head :::
p://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php" title="Smiley"> I'm not even gonna read through the comments because my opinion wont change...
Posted by SagienScorp23
I found out that my scorp cheating on me againPosted by SagienScorp23
This was the fourth time I knew he was having an affair with so many girls online, facebook, textPosted by SagienScorp23
I dont know. I love him so much but if this will go on, I know I have to leave.Posted by SagienScorp23
Need your advice pls.click to expandWhat advice are you truly seeking? You've pretty much asked and answered your own question in the last statement. Smfh.
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I found out that my scorp cheating on me again, I know that there is something wrong . He always tells me that he loves me and he never lie. This was the fourth time I knew he was having an affair with so many girls online, facebook, text and he tells me that those girls are nothing to him. We are living together , When were together everything is so perfect we are happy. I dont know. I love him so much but if this will go on, I know I have to leave.
I am so confused. I dont know if after all of these, I will be the same person. Need your advice pls.
If I will accept him again, what things I have to change?