Scorpio disappears

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Chocone
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Im with my boyfriend since 4 months. I feel like he doesn't really open up to me. He doesn't tells me his problems. I really love him but and we mostly have great times together.

But every now and then after we have a great weekend together he suddenly disappears.
I don't get any texts for like 3 days nothing. He will text me out of the nowhere and will act like nothing happend.
He tells me he loves me and that he's really 'proud' to have me. But then he just disappears?!

Lately he always tries to make me jealous - which works and I get hurt but I play it cool. I dont like to show my emotions.. Im a Gemini and I know that Scorpio - Gemini isn't the best match but oh well.

What do you guys think? Is it a Scorpio thing to just disappear for a couple of days?
Maybe he doesn't love me? What can I do!

Thanks guys luv you all
xxxxx

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Chocone
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Posted by bellyjar
A scorpio man tells you how proud he feels to have you?? Never lose him!!!

Sometimes if we get an overdose of a person, we go to our cave for 2-3 days. Then we clean our minds and get back. And that applies to friendships as well, I might disappear from friends for 2 weeks and then get back to normal.

If he says he loves your and he's proud to have you, then he really does. Not openning up to his problems is not something that you have to worry about. I prefer to keep my concerns in my head and express only positive things to the people I love.
Yea, but she said hes trying to make her jealous to. WHats that? SO maybe hes being a douche.
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Yeh im not sure what hes trying with making me jealous...
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Chocone
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Posted by bellyjar
A scorpio man tells you how proud he feels to have you?? Never lose him!!!

Sometimes if we get an overdose of a person, we go to our cave for 2-3 days. Then we clean our minds and get back. And that applies to friendships as well, I might disappear from friends for 2 weeks and then get back to normal.

If he says he loves your and he's proud to have you, then he really does. Not openning up to his problems is not something that you have to worry about. I prefer to keep my concerns in my head and express only positive things to the people I love.
Yes true but on the other side why is he making me jealous then?
Soooo weird.. haha im so confuused right now
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I think if he really cares about you then he isn't going to mind when you bring these issues up - don't pull a screamer on him or anything but why aren't you just telling him, that you've noticed this, "it's cool you need space, but can I get a text telling me, so I don't think you've been abducted by aliens?" or something of that sort, same with the, "are you intentionally trying to make me jealous, well it's working, I just want you all for myself" 😉 . I guess I don't get why if your in love then why not talk about it, not in a threatening way but in a, hey we are in love lets communicate? Just my 2 cents for what it's worth.
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Posted by Chocone
Im with my boyfriend since 4 months. I feel like he doesn't really open up to me. He doesn't tells me his problems. I really love him but and we mostly have great times together.

But every now and then after we have a great weekend together he suddenly disappears.
I don't get any texts for like 3 days nothing. He will text me out of the nowhere and will act like nothing happend.
He tells me he loves me and that he's really 'proud' to have me. But then he just disappears?!

Lately he always tries to make me jealous - which works and I get hurt but I play it cool. I dont like to show my emotions.. Im a Gemini and I know that Scorpio - Gemini isn't the best match but oh well.

What do you guys think? Is it a Scorpio thing to just disappear for a couple of days?
Maybe he doesn't love me? What can I do!

Thanks guys luv you all
xxxxx
Not wanting to chat over text for 3 days =/= disappearing.

However if it bothers you that much talk to him about letting you know when he needs space so you know he's alright. Unless you're making this all about you.
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FierySagittariusss
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It's normal for some Scorpio men to do that, I have dated ones that are really attached and then others like this. When you ask them why they don't text you for days, they'll say nothing is wrong because in reality there isn't. It's just how he is, but letting him just know-he may try to keep in contact more. Mine says he's an introvert so he is a reclus at times, but after a few months he stopped doing that so much. For this type you have to have a lot of patience.
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Posted by Chocone
Im with my boyfriend since 4 months. I feel like he doesn't really open up to me. He doesn't tells me his problems. I really love him but and we mostly have great times together.

But every now and then after we have a great weekend together he suddenly disappears.
I don't get any texts for like 3 days nothing. He will text me out of the nowhere and will act like nothing happend.
He tells me he loves me and that he's really 'proud' to have me. But then he just disappears?!

Lately he always tries to make me jealous - which works and I get hurt but I play it cool. I dont like to show my emotions.. Im a Gemini and I know that Scorpio - Gemini isn't the best match but oh well.

What do you guys think? Is it a Scorpio thing to just disappear for a couple of days?
Maybe he doesn't love me? What can I do!

Thanks guys luv you all
xxxxx
what's your zodiac sign? if you don't mind me asking