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This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by CapricornCutie on Thursday, February 18, 2016 and has 22 replies.

Understanding Scorpio Behavior in Relationships

Scorpios are known for their intensity, emotional depth, and sometimes unpredictable actions. Their mixed signals often stem from their complex feelings and desire for control. Recognizing these traits can help you interpret their behavior and decide how to proceed in your relationship.

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@CapricornCutie
10 Years

I don't get this Scorpio at all.

I've talked to him on and off for about a year. He's very attractive, seems nice, but blows me off everytime HE makes a set time and date to meet up. I've brushed it off, not put too much into it. He's told me on many occasions how he finds me attractive blah, blah, blah, and yet has a girl friend the while time he's saying this. I've always kept it strictly friends between us, he says he wants more but then says he's a horrible person, and won't speak to me for months. I'm really tired of what seems like a whole big game.

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@CapricornCutie
10 Years

At the beginning yes, when he was single yes. After he dropped off the face of the earth and didn't speak to him, but randomly hit me up out of the blue complaining about how his gf won't have sex till she married, and he can't do that yup friend zoned, wwwwaaaayyyyyyy friend zoned. I'm worth more than just a random roll around in the bed.

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@13th
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by CapricornCutie
At the beginning yes, when he was single yes. After he dropped off the face of the earth and didn't speak to him, but randomly hit me up out of the blue complaining about how his gf won't have sex till she married, and he can't do that yup friend zoned, wwwwaaaayyyyyyy friend zoned. I'm worth more than just a random roll around in the bed.

I can never be in serious relationship with a woman unless we have sex first...I dont mean on the first date or the 2nd date....Sex is very important to completing the whole "relationship" process....Not sure how that helps you cappy lol not sure if all scorpio men are like this, im assuming we all are

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@13th
11 Years1,000+ Posts

maybe its not all scorp men, maybe its my crazy saggi mars but i'd be shocked if all scorp men werent like this...im not shocked at all your friend lost her marbles lol

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@CapricornCutie
10 Years

Of course sex is important! But I'm sorry, I'm not going to fuck a guy all because his girlfriend wont. No. If you can't be mine, and mine alone then your not getting anything. Like if he really did like me he wouldn't flake out everytime he made plans to meet me, and then disappear with a very lame excuse.

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@CapricornCutie
10 Years

I'm bot surprised either, her mother was a walking, talking hot mess. Felt sorry for her in the end. She was a Scorpio too. I usually get along with most Scorpios.

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@13th
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by CapricornCutie
Of course sex is important! But I'm sorry, I'm not going to fuck a guy all because his girlfriend wont. No. If you can't be mine, and mine alone then your not getting anything. Like if he really did like me he wouldn't flake out everytime he made plans to meet me, and then disappear with a very lame excuse.

I agree. He probably would lost respect for you anyway if you would a slept with him cause his girl wouldnt .....We can be very confusing 🙂

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@SugeredSap
11 YearsScorpio

Posted by Vixen2

Posted by CapricornCutie
I don't get this Scorpio at all.

I've talked to him on and off for about a year. He's very attractive, seems nice, but blows me off everytime HE makes a set time and date to meet up. I've brushed it off, not put too much into it. He's told me on many occasions how he finds me attractive blah, blah, blah, and yet has a girl friend the while time he's saying this. I've always kept it strictly friends between us, he says he wants more but then says he's a horrible person, and won't speak to me for months. I'm really tired of what seems like a whole big game.

Why are you even entertaining anything he says, does, or does not do if he has a girlfriend....that's red flag #1 and blaringly obvious ...

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Agreed

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@Gennie
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by 13th

Posted by CapricornCutie
At the beginning yes, when he was single yes. After he dropped off the face of the earth and didn't speak to him, but randomly hit me up out of the blue complaining about how his gf won't have sex till she married, and he can't do that yup friend zoned, wwwwaaaayyyyyyy friend zoned. I'm worth more than just a random roll around in the bed.

I can never be in serious relationship with a woman unless we have sex first...I dont mean on the first date or the 2nd date....Sex is very important to completing the whole "relationship" process....Not sure how that helps you cappy lol not sure if all scorpio men are like this, im assuming we all are

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Not even a Scorpio and I cannot express how deeply I agree with the test drive. My Scorpio went into full relationship mode after sex.

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@CapricornCutie
10 Years

I'm just not one to go off and just fuck someone right off the bat. Never have been, never will be, just not for me. I'd personally like to know if our personalities, behaviours, way we live our lives mesh well before meshing genitalia together. Lol

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@Gennie
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by CapricornCutie
I'm just not one to go off and just fuck someone right off the bat. Never have been, never will be, just not for me. I'd personally like to know if our personalities, behaviours, way we live our lives mesh well before meshing genitalia together. Lol

I think the average is 4-6 dates before some type of sexual contact occurs, which translates into 3-7 weeks depending on the couple's speed and what's considered a "date". Some wait longer, some don't wait at all, but those are the exception rather than norm.

And all poll testers and psychology experts agree that timing is individual to each couple.