why do I find it so difficult to understand scorpios

Sun Taurus
Ascendant libra
Moon Virgo
Venus Aries
Mars Leo
Mercury Gemini

It's really hard for me to get along with them, we have the same sense of humor but anything else.... no we don't get along

Posted by ElTigre25
Umm okay. You asked yourself a question, btw. How do you share the same sense of humor with EVERY Scorpio?

Obviously there's exceptions

Posted by KinglyCrab
It's hard to make some people open up, they do the bare minimum with social interaction because they just aren't interested. Or I'm just talking out of my ass.

How can I make someone open up... or guide them to open up

Posted by GreyWiz
pluto is mysterious and mars is proud.

Scorpio is raw masculine energy covered by a secretive layer. I try my best to hug scorpios whenever i can to reduce their rough edges.

Grey, are we truly as rough as you may suggest, we do have a rather soft side.

Posted by GreyWiz
The soft side does not come out just for any man TLS. The rough edges are not always a bad thing. I see so many other women who get easily hurt because they trust too easily etc.

Also the masculine part doesn't mean scorpio women are not beautiful or womanly. I am simply describing the planetary energy of mars and pluto mixture. Though i feel mars is more in control of scorpio since pluto is thought to be of minimal infulence in both vedic and western astrology.

you have a very beatiful soft side that is very precious but it takes a while to get in there.

This is my experience of scorpio girls. I could be wrong.

I agree with this.Soft side isn't for everyone. I hate being vulnerable (or to show it)But I've to tell, even I had this impression that my soft side comes from my moon as @starlover said.Being a plutonian though, I don't know if the significance of pluto being little is true.I don't really relate to Mars many times.

Posted by GreyWiz
Pluto is such a enigma to me. I don't understand it's energy. It is so very far away from the sun.

Ah well, the Sun is equally as much of an enigma to me. The sheer unapologetic brightness of it all.

Although I would presume we as Stingers reap more benefits from your existence than could be said of the reverse. Unfortunately so.

No matter the distance, Pluto still receives the light of the Sun, the warmth may not reach it as so but we always seem to be able to gather a completely new perspective whenever we encounter you lot.

Posted by GreyWiz
very true. I think we just respect each other's very powerful yet very different energy. what is life without duality and variety eh?

Only in love are unity and duality not in conflict.
- Tagore 😉

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Posted by KinglyCrab
It's hard to make some people open up, they do the bare minimum with social interaction because they just aren't interested. Or I'm just talking out of my ass.

How can I make someone open up... or guide them to open up

I get all my opinions on what to do at Quora.com.
I say opinions because what you have to do is your choice. Go there sign in with a gmail account and ask away but frankly don't go out fearing the outcome and what people will think, I know social conditioning is hard to overcome but most answers you will find by just doing and living.

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Thank you

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Sun Taurus
Ascendant libra
Moon Virgo
Venus Aries
Mars Leo
Mercury Gemini

It's really hard for me to get along with them, we have the same sense of humor but anything else.... no we don't get along

your mars in leo is proud, and wants to be served.

and Scorpio is NO ONEs serving bitch. lol

(in a nutshell)

unless they have alot of serving signs.

Posted by GreyWiz
The soft side does not come out just for any man TLS. The rough edges are not always a bad thing. I see so many other women who get easily hurt because they trust too easily etc.

Also the masculine part doesn't mean scorpio women are not beautiful or womanly. I am simply describing the planetary energy of mars and pluto mixture. Though i feel mars is more in control of scorpio since pluto is thought to be of minimal infulence in both vedic and western astrology.

you have a very beatiful soft side that is very precious but it takes a while to get in there.

This is my experience of scorpio girls. I could be wrong.

True Grey, the soft side emerges in a very selective manner but even then it is not always half as predictable as most would wish it to be. Rather, let me rephrase it this way. Our soft side never changes, it is always there, but we may not be the most capable individuals in expressing that soft side in ways in which most others would understand.

The rough edges hardly protect us, in fact if treated without care we do more harm to ourselves more than to those external to us. The issue with most Stinger women, lies not in the fact that we trust too easily rather we trust the wrong people time and again. This has to do with our filter which we hone in on through life experiences and getting to know ourselves better. We are naturally guarded but this is a subconscious survival mechanism it is only when we go into fight or flight mode where we become hyper vigilant, for our emotions react as adrenaline would. It rushes forth and clouds our judgement and that is when our trust radar is compromised. Obviously we outgrow this but until we harness that knowledge, we are not any better than most other women.

Is Pluto not of a feminine energy?

No, you are not wrong at all just a different perspective on the oddity that we are. Thank you Grey, you are kind to say so although it may take a while to get in there but it is never impossible.

something i've noticed when i was researching on liliths, and how the descriptions show the darkest sides, and which is why Scorpio and leo square....

(unless of course there are planetary aspects that make it lovely)

i saw that Scorpio Maria Shriver has Libra mars, sag venus, (will adapt and please) and her leo moon gets the Arnold....

it's not a wonder they got together...

also hilary clinton with Bill clinton.

hilary 's pisces moon, and bill's taurus moon. and his libra rising. He will please and be comfy where he's at. Hedonistic or not.

her signs have alot of SACRIFICE ..so she will sacrifice.

Posted by Taureye
To me they are easy to comprehend

Just don't tell that to a scorpio though 😛

Posted by GreyWiz
It is not impossible. It simply takes desire and love to endure the many tests that the scorpio may throw at you. Most men these days are very fickle and shallow and want instant gratification. Scorpio women may feel like they belong in a different generation at times.

Pluto could be both femnine and masculine. I am assuming it is more masculine based on some descriptions but again it may be off. I can't really comment too much on a energy that is foreign to me i guess.

We test others? I think we do not test others rather we prefer to sit back in our fortress and observe how others react in events that are happening around us. Our opinions derived from those observations will guide us into taking the steps we feel most comfortable in, even then we need a lot of convincing before we open the floodgates. It takes patience and men who have the utter determination to do so.

Are we purposely making it difficult for others, I do not think so, I think we are selfish in that way, our love is based upon our comfort level (at least in the beginning). Only once we cemented the mutual love do we become much more selfless with our emotional self.

Although who knows, after all Stinger women still possess the strength of Mars as well and what I shared may not be relevant to others.

Posted by GreyWiz
It is not impossible. It simply takes desire and love to endure the many tests that the scorpio may throw at you. Most men these days are very fickle and shallow and want instant gratification. Scorpio women may feel like they belong in a different generation at times.

Pluto could be both femnine and masculine. I am assuming it is more masculine based on some descriptions but again it may be off. I can't really comment too much on a energy that is foreign to me i guess.

Wait!! I thought you hated scorpio women :/
N look at you writing infallibly about us!! You're right.I'm not sure about the masculinity though.

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Posted by Taureye
To me they are easy to comprehend

Just don't tell that to a scorpio though 😛

LOL with my bluntness it'll slip out

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N then she'll make you question yourself 🙂)

Posted by WhiteChocolate
Whether you comprehend me or not is none of my concern.

I just ask that you accept me.

Yes. An infinite amount of Yes.

To accept, without ifs or buts, and I try my hardest to be the best version of myself that I could be.

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Posted by Taureye
To me they are easy to comprehend

Just don't tell that to a scorpio though 😛

LOL with my bluntness it'll slip out

N then she'll make you question yourself 🙂)

NEVER! (again) LMAO 😄

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LOL!!

I've never found Scorpio woman to be masculine they are very feminine they may act tough but they are very soft once they are comfortable with you they become vulnerable. The toughness is all a façade the death stare they give you disappears when they realize you are not intimidated of them a Scorpio woman is the most sensitive woman you will ever meet.

Masculine women are Aries you want to see a woman that can be like a guy its Aries they are too rash and brash for this cancer man okay as friends but nothing much more than that.

Posted by Stihl46
I've never found Scorpio woman to be masculine they are very feminine they may act tough but they are very soft once they are comfortable with you they become vulnerable. The toughness is all a façade the death stare they give you disappears when they realize you are not intimidated of them a Scorpio woman is the most sensitive woman you will ever meet.

Masculine women are Aries you want to see a woman that can be like a guy its Aries they are too rash and brash for this cancer man okay as friends but nothing much more than that.

bitch, bye.

do you make it your business
to answer every scorpio thread
with your nonsense?

someone should kill you, quickly.

not you, OP.
stihl the tard.

I don't relate to the Mars energy description very well. With Pluto, more so, but still not an ideal fit. I'm too Venusified to connect with all of that easily.

I don't like the scorpion as a symbol at all. Really ugly creature that I don't relate to.