Rituv13
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Scorpio Female & Libra Man
Make him think about you? I thought he never thought of you that way in the first place o.0
Well we were very good friends and we did have our special moments, he was attracted to me. but after I asked him, everything just went off. He would speak to me each night before sleeping.
Posted by Rituv13
Well we were very good friends and we did have our special moments, he was attracted to me. but after I asked him, everything just went off. He would speak to me each night before sleeping.
How do u know he was attracted to you?
aw,hun, Im sorry for your struggle. There is no way a person can "make" another person have feelings for them. If staying near him as a platonic friend only is painful, then detach. That also will be hurtful but it WILL pass. I promise. Who knows, maybe when you are not in his life, he will come to see how important you are to him and may come to have thise feelings. Let go..if you and he are meant to be, you will be.
Well, I know he was attracted to me, coz he used to find ways to come close to me physically and he really went out of his way to help me when I needed him. I haven't seen any1 do so much. I know he enjoyed us being close.
I tried to detach and may be your right, he didn't come back, I mean he did but not as before.
he still calls up to see how I am doing, but thats about it, i have lost him and it hurts.
I dont move on that fast. and now when i see him with another girl I am jealous. Its making me miserable.
I know being his friend would make me attached to him again, but I just dont know what to do —
I tried to detach and may be your right, he didn't come back, I mean he did but not as before.
he still calls up to see how I am doing, but thats about it, i have lost him and it hurts.
I dont move on that fast. and now when i see him with another girl I am jealous. Its making me miserable.
I know being his friend would make me attached to him again, but I just dont know what to do —
Libras suck lol. Kryptonite for this scorpio.
I still miss my first love, when I was 15 he moved away and we kept in touch for 2 years after that. You'll get peace, eventually. Till then it will burn. The only way I know of to come to peace with it is to understand the reason you aren't together. And that takes perspective... which takes time.
I still miss my first love, when I was 15 he moved away and we kept in touch for 2 years after that. You'll get peace, eventually. Till then it will burn. The only way I know of to come to peace with it is to understand the reason you aren't together. And that takes perspective... which takes time.
WEll my moon sign is Libra.
I still can't understand the perspective here, how do I even find out ?? I don't think so I can go back again and tell him how I feel even today.
I just want this hurt feeling and the miserability to go off.
I want to move on, but I am not able to.
I know we are different, but then no 2 people are same !!!
I still can't understand the perspective here, how do I even find out ?? I don't think so I can go back again and tell him how I feel even today.
I just want this hurt feeling and the miserability to go off.
I want to move on, but I am not able to.
I know we are different, but then no 2 people are same !!!
Rituv, the only advice I can give you is to find something (or someone) else to give your attention to. You need a distraction. I don't recommend getting involved with someone right now, till that hurt goes away, but at least maybe a pet? Or a friend who knows what you're going through? Scorpios have a particular NEED to give away the love that we keep hidden deep within, and it makes it incredibly hard to go through break ups, because there we had someone to devote ourselves to, to worship, to love, and wham! gone. Its like there is this gaping VOID. Volunteer at an animal shelter? Go read to children? Spend some time playing BINGO with the elderly? That love can be transformed from being for one person to being for those in humanity that need it. And in so doing, you will heal yourself and be able to love another individual.
Perchesse... "my" Libra (okay so I'm jumping to conclusions.. it hasn't been defined) is half scorpio with like 5 planets in scorpio. 😛 poor thing. lol
Perchesse... "my" Libra (okay so I'm jumping to conclusions.. it hasn't been defined) is half scorpio with like 5 planets in scorpio. 😛 poor thing. lol
Well sis, if it makes you feel any better... every libra man I've ever met is like that. 😉
Even if you two got together, you'll see it's not all that great, or the grass isn't greener. Libra won't get you on a emotional or physical level you need.
Oh is it ?? So basically Libra men don't gel with Scorpio women ??
Moreover he helped me so much morally and was with me in my hard time. So I feel ethically bound to be with him, if ever he needs me. I know it would hurt me to be his friend. But trust me what u said, made me feel a lot better. 🙂 I still have a project to move on though !!
just 1 thing.
what are you doing with a Libra?
ditch him and go find a Taurus.
'nuff said.
what are you doing with a Libra?
ditch him and go find a Taurus.
'nuff said.
My best girlfriend who is a true Scorpio married a Libra man...they have had nonstop marital problems and the only way they can make it work is if he goes away 2-3 weeks at a time for his job. They're still together though despite the fighting.
My ex husband is a libra..met him at 17, ended relationship at 38, Im not scorp sun, but scorp moon. I was madly in love with him but we did fight a lot also. He was a budding alcoholic when we met, and ya'll know how that goes. When he got sober for 4 years, he was a new man. So kind, loving.Our ying and yang with this: He passive, me explosive, controlling. He not wanting to face issues, me always wanting to solve issues. Remember the WHOLE chart matters, not just sun sign. Astrologers say Leo (me) and Libra are perfect matched...obv we divorced, so there aint no guarantee.
lol Minotaur. I am crazy about Bulls. But... they make me CRAZY. "I like you, totally into you" "Oh wait. Theres a butterfly, never mind".
I don't like Libra (I'm a cancer), I was married to one for 17 yrs...he never understood me. I married young, and stayed longer than I should have. He will never understand your emotional/passionate side. It's all about balance with Libra, they don't go deep. Ever. x
Couldn't resist. Sorry. 🙂
I was faithful to a Sag waaay longer than I should have.
I think this is due to a combination of my kids and the legendary scorpio loyalty bit.
My x sag will never understand me either. No matter how hard I tried.... it just isn't there for either of us.
I am thoroughly disappointed how she has treated my grandson. I am so convinced she's got serious issues.
I love what is unfolding now and the beauty of it is that this warm and caring lady has seen a side of me I didn't know
existed. Beautiful 🙂
I have a libra neighbor/friend I've known all my life who is amicable, oftentimes thoughtful and helpful with
good sense of humor and easygoing but he was raised by a strict cap dad and libra mom who raised him well. My hat's off to his parents. Of a certainty, though he doesn't strike me as a deeply emotional individual and there were times he'd say things that made me like knockin' his block off. - I resist and let the minor offense roll off my back and forget about it. Obviously, someone in a intimate relationship is going to have an entirely different perspective than that of friends.
I think this is due to a combination of my kids and the legendary scorpio loyalty bit.
My x sag will never understand me either. No matter how hard I tried.... it just isn't there for either of us.
I am thoroughly disappointed how she has treated my grandson. I am so convinced she's got serious issues.
I love what is unfolding now and the beauty of it is that this warm and caring lady has seen a side of me I didn't know
existed. Beautiful 🙂
I have a libra neighbor/friend I've known all my life who is amicable, oftentimes thoughtful and helpful with
good sense of humor and easygoing but he was raised by a strict cap dad and libra mom who raised him well. My hat's off to his parents. Of a certainty, though he doesn't strike me as a deeply emotional individual and there were times he'd say things that made me like knockin' his block off. - I resist and let the minor offense roll off my back and forget about it. Obviously, someone in a intimate relationship is going to have an entirely different perspective than that of friends.
I love what is unfolding now and the beauty of it is that this warm and caring lady has seen a side of me I didn't know
existed. Beautiful
existed. Beautiful
Posted by mysweetangel
I love what is unfolding now and the beauty of it is that this warm and caring lady has seen a side of me I didn't know
existed. Beautiful
Thank you mysweetangel,
I am so glad I met her, she just takes my breath away!
I love you, My Beautiful ...
A true love story unfolding, here of all places...
Posted by mysweetangel
I love you, My Beautiful ...
This one goes out that very, very special lady,
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by mysweetangel
I love you, My Beautiful ...
This one goes out that very, very special lady,
Posted by mysweetangel
I love you, My Beautiful ...
I love you too, forever more and you are MINE! 🙂
Posted by mysweetangel
A true love story unfolding, here of all places...
It's absolutely incredible.
I think of all those lonely years and miles... now behind me and there you are.
We'll have few years and miles ahead of us but we'll see them togehter.
Hmm, so to sum it up, libra's and scorpios dont gel well, but my libra sis and her scorpio bro have been together for like 8 yrs now into marriage and 7 yrs of dating before that.
Yeah u guys are right, they always quarrel but so far they are still together.
I do agree to it that Librians are a balance and a perfectionists, which I am not, but I am passionate and flexible in life to change myself. So what more does a guy need — I still miss him 😢 y does it take ages for a scorpio to move on !!! its already been like 9 months now.
I had an x who was a cusp of tauras and Gemini, he ignored me for 11 months while i was with him, didn't stand by me when i needed him, infact he stood against me and then he dumped me for god knows what reason - no reason actually. He came back to me a week after that and I just didn't wanna go back to him. That was 3 yrs back and he still wants to me. !!!
So basically which star sign goes well with a Scorpio, Yes I am more of a scorpio, I want solutions and I am not controlling ??
I have gemini's as 2 of my best friends, but I somehow cant trust them like 100 % . Is this because they are gemini's or is it because I am scorpio ??
Yeah u guys are right, they always quarrel but so far they are still together.
I do agree to it that Librians are a balance and a perfectionists, which I am not, but I am passionate and flexible in life to change myself. So what more does a guy need — I still miss him 😢 y does it take ages for a scorpio to move on !!! its already been like 9 months now.
I had an x who was a cusp of tauras and Gemini, he ignored me for 11 months while i was with him, didn't stand by me when i needed him, infact he stood against me and then he dumped me for god knows what reason - no reason actually. He came back to me a week after that and I just didn't wanna go back to him. That was 3 yrs back and he still wants to me. !!!
So basically which star sign goes well with a Scorpio, Yes I am more of a scorpio, I want solutions and I am not controlling ??
I have gemini's as 2 of my best friends, but I somehow cant trust them like 100 % . Is this because they are gemini's or is it because I am scorpio ??
haha. Geminis. Gemini and Scorpio are NOT a good combination. Scorpio is wayy too powerful, they just overrun the poor Geminis, who just seem to be suckers for punishment and keep coming back. Scorpio realizes how weak they are and can't help but toy with them.
First guy I slept with was a Gemini. I am not proud of how badly I manipulated him. Won't be messing with another Gem, I just can't help playing with their feelings and fucking with their minds because its just so easy. And I am not the kind of person that usually does that.
First guy I slept with was a Gemini. I am not proud of how badly I manipulated him. Won't be messing with another Gem, I just can't help playing with their feelings and fucking with their minds because its just so easy. And I am not the kind of person that usually does that.
I am not at all good at manipulating people, but this cusp(Tauras + gemini) really manipulated me and trust me he made me really angry then. I guess we Scorpions do have a temper that he manipulated and used it against me.
I cant figure out why is he still coming back when I have clearly said no ?
and yes i do agree that I get the enjoyment of giving him what I got 3 yrs back: IGNORANCE :: I just love it this time 😄
I cant figure out why is he still coming back when I have clearly said no ?
and yes i do agree that I get the enjoyment of giving him what I got 3 yrs back: IGNORANCE :: I just love it this time 😄
it depends ....
does he have moon, mercury or venus in scorpio ?
How do i find out this — I do have his dob, place and time.
does he have moon, mercury or venus in scorpio ?
How do i find out this — I do have his dob, place and time.
Lirba scorpio a match made in hell. Don't call just run.
Libra I mean.
Posted by Rituv13
Hey, Thats his chart
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 0.58 Ascendant Capricorn 22.30
Moon Cancer 2.45 II Aquarius 27.04
Mercury Virgo 25.45 III Aries 2.32
Venus Scorpio 13.42 IV Taurus 4.29
Mars Scorpio 3.03 V Gemini 1.50
Jupiter Leo 3.24 VI Gemini 26.45
Saturn Virgo 7.26 VII Cancer 22.30
Uranus Scorpio 14.03 VIII Leo 27.04
Neptune Sagittarius 15.46 IX Libra 2.32
Pluto Libra 16.00 Midheaven Scorpio 4.29
Lilith Cancer 27.51 XI Sagittarius 1.50
Asc node Virgo 26.47 XII Sagittarius 26.45
Are you an Oct scorpio?
yes my birthday falls on 31st oct and his is on 24th september
Mr Nice... want to check out my composite with my cusper? I think its kind of the opposite of what you just said... but I'd be interested in your interpretation. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/composite-2915043/
Posted by Skykomish
Mr Nice... want to check out my composite with my cusper? I think its kind of the opposite of what you just said... but I'd be interested in your interpretation. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/composite-2915043/
Without the time of your birth the chart might not be that accurate. You might be a Moon Sagittarius for all I know.
Posted by Rituv13
yes my birthday falls on 31st oct and his is on 24th september
Then I would say? there is hope for your relationship than maybe a Nov scorpio, libras seem to gel better with the October ones. I think Skykomish should be ok to with beening near the end of scorpio.
Ugh... Libra and Scorpio.
Why do I remember the OP's username? Meh, maybe it was just similiar to a name somone else had.
Why do I remember the OP's username? Meh, maybe it was just similiar to a name somone else had.
Posted by Rituv13
Hey, Thats his chart
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 0.58 Ascendant Capricorn 22.30
Moon Cancer 2.45 II Aquarius 27.04
Mercury Virgo 25.45 III Aries 2.32
Venus Scorpio 13.42 IV Taurus 4.29
Mars Scorpio 3.03 V Gemini 1.50
Jupiter Leo 3.24 VI Gemini 26.45
Saturn Virgo 7.26 VII Cancer 22.30
Uranus Scorpio 14.03 VIII Leo 27.04
Neptune Sagittarius 15.46 IX Libra 2.32
Pluto Libra 16.00 Midheaven Scorpio 4.29
Lilith Cancer 27.51 XI Sagittarius 1.50
Asc node Virgo 26.47 XII Sagittarius 26.45
Hmm...one thing in particular I notice is his venus is the same as my scorpios. When they love/care about you they will let you know. No secrets. They are very intimate/affectionate (hugs & kisses).
My libra friend dated a scorpio once. She couldn't handle his intensity and maybe he can't handle yours either. Libras like to keep friendships tho so it's no wonder he's still friends with you. I think if you were to push the fact that you like him a lot and be very intense about it he would stop talking to you because he wouldn't wanna deal with the intensity. Maybe you should push a little to see if this is what happens. It's kinda a win-win situation at that point cus if he does stick through the intensity you know he likes/cares for you. If he doesn't then he'll stop talking to you and you can move on.
Posted by Rituv13
Here is my chart:
Does this say anything about why has he suddenly gone so cold. I am fine now since I am with my family and tied up. But for all i know the next week I would be by myself and totally misearbale.
Pls help, I am really worried, I know he will not come back but atleast I need to know what happened. Y is he so cold towards me now ? Its like I see an entirely different person.
Sorry didn't read this bit. Sounds like you already got to intense for him.
By libra friend said that when guys she doesn't like anymore or guy who like her a lot are too intense or show they still like her then she drifts away from them cus she obviously doesn't wanna be with them anymore and doesn't see the point in carrying on a friendship with them.
She completely stopped talking to the scorpio she was with because he couldn't just stay in a friendship and he was way too intense. He wanted to be with her, but she wasn't wanting it. So she stopped all communication with him.
He's being cold cus you didn't get the hint to stay away from him when he clearly told you he didn't see you romantically. I can be the same way too. All of us can. When we don't like a person that way and we can sense they really like us we tend to grow cold towards them so they get the point.
hmmm I get the point. Thanks for this. I have already stopped contact with him since last week. I have decided not to call him back again, however miserable I feel.
I just hope I move on fast. I wouldn't do this. If i know some1 feels strongly for me, I would help him move on. I have done that and those guys are still my very good friends even after they have got married.
But thanks. 😢
I just hope I move on fast. I wouldn't do this. If i know some1 feels strongly for me, I would help him move on. I have done that and those guys are still my very good friends even after they have got married.
But thanks. 😢
Posted by Rituv13
hmmm I get the point. Thanks for this. I have already stopped contact with him since last week. I have decided not to call him back again, however miserable I feel.
I just hope I move on fast. I wouldn't do this. If i know some1 feels strongly for me, I would help him move on. I have done that and those guys are still my very good friends even after they have got married.
But thanks. 😢
I'm glad you're moving on. Someone who wants to be with you and will spend time with you is waiting out there for you. Just don't settle and don't let them play the games. You're worth more than some jerks cheap games
Definitely *NO* to Libra man.
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