Scorpio friendships

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Have any of you scorps have friendship with other scorps? If so are they the same gender or opposite? Do you get along or butt heads? Are you alike or different?

The reason is I am friends with another female scorp and I do find we butt heads but try hard not to but for the most part we get along. We are kind of similar in personality but still different. I'm October and she's November and I can tell the difference. October scorps are more humble and lay back we only spaz out when someone has really true our patience. She on the other hand is always on a 100 like she can't control her emotions at all and it's annoying in public. She also shows way too much skin I mean butt cheeks out and all and I get somewhat embarrassed because I'm nothing like that. I cover my body up and still remain sexy but classy she on the other hand is just out there. It's a shame because her vibe is chill but it's embarrassing to be seen with her in public I know I shouldn't feel like that but I'm at the age where you should have values and morals and I just can't get down with ppl who look like they don't love themselves. I try to help her and it seemed she was doing well but now she's back to talking explicit sex on networks and just acting poorly like have some class us scorpios are the sex sign but there's more to life then to behave as a sex symbol. I'm disappointed in her more than anything but I don't think I can continue this friendship until she gets her life together...idk why I feel this way but I do.
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Hello Scorpio!!

Yes I am a scorp (15nov) and I have a friend that is a scorp (14nov) [I am 1 day older than him (both male)] we are chilled maybe a bit on the weird side, sex and puberty go hand in hand but we do not really have that..we are chilled and have same interests and avoid conflict with eachother as much as possible..wonder why...come to think of it?

As for your friend...maybe age and friends group may have a influence or online friends or even her own interests
or what level of scorp she is on because scorps have a few levels that define the scorp in question 😛
[3 scorps in 1 sentence haha]

"First Stage: A "stage one" Scorpio exercises power through emotion and instinct. This Scorpio is symbolized by the scorpion, an insect more likely, in the end, to sting itself rather than others. Aggression and instinct are particular features of the Scorpion aspect, which is where the tendency to potential destructive behavior and competitiveness resides.

Second Stage: A "stage two" Scorpio is symbolized by the Golden Eagle and exercises power through the intellect. Golden Eagle Scorpios show signs of maturity above Scorpion Scorpios in that they possess the ability to see what others miss, discern hidden motives, and discover deeper truths beneath the surface of life. This can prove to be either beneficial or exploitative, where while Golden Eagles can indeed use these skills to help invent new medicines, save a patient's life, successfully psychoanalyze the problems of others and help them find purpose, etc., because Scorpios also are known for valuing power and wealth as well, Golden Eagles are nonetheless not above exploiting others to suit their own purposes or interests, and can be used deceptively if not guarded.

Third Stage: A "stage three" Scorpio is symbolized by the Dove of Peace and the Phoenix, which exercises power through love, healing and transformation. The Phoenix represents a Scorpio who has been transformed, and has reached deep within him/herself to embrace the more subtle, mystical qualities of the soul, rather than ones ego, and in result soar to spiritual heights like a bird on the wing. The tendency to be judgmental and power-obsessed is gone, and rather the observational talents of Scorpio are fused with compassion rather than judgment, defeating a life of extremes and polarities and finding greater purpose through self-spiritual development.
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(http://scorpios.tribe.net/thread/98b27bb9-ba00-4320-8a74-ed25a6
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Yes that may not answer your question but dive into the definition of being a scorpio and you may find the answer
I do not wish to speculate or give my opinion on the matter because I feel I do not have the right to do so because only you can really do so 🙂 or I would be judging a book by its very murky front picture or at least
that is how I feel 🙂

I have very limited info and experience so you may wish to wait for someone more experienced to answer you,
Just wanted to give a shout out or comment really on a fellow scorp's page 🙂

Best of Luck on Finding the Answer.
Jaco

(this part got cut off) 😢
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She is a year older than me I'm 23 and she's 24 but I'm a stage 2 and she's a stage 1. We grew up different though I'm well off financially and she grew up poor. I guess life style s play a part but us scorps are not weak and she displays weak behavior and self esteem. As I watched her become more destructive I try to offer spiritual advice and she always say easy said then done but she has little faith not to mention let men use her as sex object but it's a pattern she has a hard time with bc it's not really the guy she always talk about sex and even guys that's initially wanted to date her she just get sexually right off the back which in turn loess respect for her. I have compassion but I can no longer watch this go on I can give advice til my face turns blue but she needs to save herself and I'm on a positive journey I don't have time for friends who chooses the dark path never waking up to reality.
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I had a male scorp friend as well I did consider him as my brother until he was trying to get with me but I had no romantic feelings for him then he disappeared forever lol

I get along better with males of any sign tho women are just difficult to be friends with they vindictive evil ways is why I'm very selective. I wouldn't mind friendship with female scorp as long as they display that their not weak.
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I'm a November scorp and she is a October scorp. She shows more skin than I do. I speak my mind a little more than she does. I'm more of a get straight to the point scorp. She takes her time getting there. We both are strong and have the same amount of patience. We bump heads once in a while, but not often. You do realize that you have to go by her chart, not just her sun sign, right? For example, I'm venus in scorp and my friend is venus in sag.
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Oddly we have the same sun rising cancer and moon in Leo. Maybe it just goes to life experiences as well. I am paranoid with friends once I see they negative traits but I'm very warm and friendly her on the other hand are too trusty with people who she just met later finding out they are fake. I take my time with ppl and speak my mind at an appropriate time.