Venus marriages....

Are women supposed to marry their Venus sign? Mines is in Scorpio...

No I don't think so. I'm virgo sun with venus virgo and would NOT want to date a virgo sun.

Venus in Cancer

Yup, I can see that. 🙂

Posted by Hotbeefy
Venus in cancer... only I did dated Cancer sun once. But it wasn't much since we're both high school, but I won't forget that attraction.

But the marriage thing you should look at the planet Juno.

yup. also check vertex, but Juno is good to check on.

You'll find the right partner with the Juno, it doesnt have to be the "sign" persay, but the dominant energies of that person.

I.e. juno in leo for example, may not be marriage to leo sun, but a leo dominant man.
and also look at House placement too.

juno leo in 3rd house, examples can be....3rd house could be a gemini sun man with leo personal planets. Or leo sun man with gemini personal planets. something like that.

I sure hope not because my Venus is in Libra and I would NOT want to date or marry anyone like myself!!
Oh, and I can't even imagine marrying a Libra dude..not with all the horror stories I hear about them..LOL.
Makes me think about the hit TV series, CSI.

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Posted by Hotbeefy
Venus in cancer... only I did dated Cancer sun once. But it wasn't much since we're both high school, but I won't forget that attraction.
But the marriage thing you should look at the planet Juno.

yup. also check vertex, but Juno is good to check on.
You'll find the right partner with the Juno, it doesnt have to be the "sign" persay, but the dominant energies of that person.
I.e. juno in leo for example, may not be marriage to leo sun, but a leo dominant man.
and also look at House placement too.
juno leo in 3rd house, examples can be....3rd house could be a gemini sun man with leo personal planets. Or leo sun man with gemini personal planets. something like that.

Interesting so i will marry a Sag with cap dominant in his chart... weird. Or a Sag with Dominant cap planets... man both signs don't appeal to me. One is out there and adventerous.. and cap is just practical hm. Both signs are not emotional not sure how they will handle me.. lmao.

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well i married a Pisces guy, my ex, and he wasn't anything like the Juno i need in my life. Right now in this time of your life, you are young so you are not going to think much on marriage at this time.

plus, i dont get the feeling guys around your age (teens to young adult) are actually looking for marriage and commitment long term right now. Right now, people are trying to get a good job and making money to HAVE the long term commitment for later on.

Venus and Juno both in Cancer and in the 12th house. As I said countless times before: I'm not attracted to Water-based personalities. On the other hand, I'd pay more attention to my 7th house. I use the Water placements in my chart for other more practical purposes.

Posted by tiziani
Isn't Vertex just showing the person you'd write bad cheques over? Give up your life and move to an island with them until they leave you 😛

I think perhaps you are being cheeky, but that is actually true in my case. I paid for everything, picked up and moved my life, to have him steal everything from me......Dam Cancer man!

Posted by Easha23000us

Are women supposed to marry their Venus sign?

No.

The match you want to find is: her moon to match his venus

My moon is in Cancer, so my perfect (emotional) match is a guy with his Venus in Cancer

Posted by tiziani

You get a person with action-oriented positive planets throughout their chart, they're probably going to want someone who matches their Mars.

Probably

I would think most people really identify with their Mars, and a match here would seal a deal ... personally speaking, my husband's Mars is in Pisces, and his Venus is in Cancer, and our marriage is still very connected.

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Posted by Easha23000us

Are women supposed to marry their Venus sign?

No.

The match you want to find is: her moon to match his venus

My moon is in Cancer, so my perfect (emotional) match is a guy with his Venus in Cancer

agree with my mom

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i agree too. 😄

Posted by PVandJellay
Moon/Venus sounds great....for other people. But not for me. I'd rather have a lobotomy than date a Virgo Venus. I know more than one Aqua Venus, like myself, who has dated a Virgo Venus person and it does not end well. Nah. I'll pass on that one.

i also notice mars like what has been said. Definitely mars.

I do not like air suns, or air moons on men. I'm not fond of air venus either on men, but women i get on just fine with them. I know myself, it's something i've noticed and seen in patterns.

Just like you can't be with an aqua sun, or gemini sun, but you're okay with libra sun, but with certain elements in their chart. Like maybe he has a scorpio mars or moon or something you know??

My past patterns were aries dominant, with aries venus 3x in a row!! *smh*
Leo moon was my first husband and so is my current one. 😄 So funny how we can compare astrology patterns like this. It's kind of fun!!

I'm glad you are very self assured and know exactly what you like, PVAF. 🙂

confidence in what you want and KNOW what you like, is awesome!!

i mean, how NERDY can we be? 😄 I love being an astro nerd at times.

Oh your libra mars -- why you like those venusian men. 😄

btw, i dont like fire venuses either, but i love fire mars. So weird!

i know i didnt even factor in houses. 😆 but ehhhhhh i'm married so i'm just having fun.

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Posted by PVandJellay
Moon/Venus sounds great....for other people. But not for me. I'd rather have a lobotomy than date a Virgo Venus. I know more than one Aqua Venus, like myself, who has dated a Virgo Venus person and it does not end well. Nah. I'll pass on that one.

And I still love you too PVAF!

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i hope people don't take offense. I mean i'm MARRIED so i dont know why people take offense. I come here to share experiences and also understand astrology on a deeper meaning, and why we had the past we have.

So i wonder why people take offense with certain people saying confidently how they feel.

if people like aqua suns like a friendship type, then awesome, but not romantically ...hey that's good..that's ALL good...why? Why should it bother us especially if we're married or committed to someone else.

The only thing I would hate ...is people being super jealous about which sun sign is paired with who because they are single and wish desperately to have that certain sun sign...so they push other sun signs to be with this certain sun sign. It's a fucking stupid ass GAME. And they wonder why they are single.

Just don't play games.

also, PVAF is single, and she has been learning astro for short while. She likes what she likes.

Don't take offense, tiz.

Posted by starlover
Lisa. can you look at my post on the page before and let me have your thoughts

Hey single is good lol 😛

Thanks! x

i dunno. i'm lost *scratches head*

Posted by tiziani
That has nothing to do with me or anything I've said. I made a joke, and what's best, no one died.

oh ok, lol

i always get this feeling around the board that people get a bit offended if someone says something against a certain placement. As long as it's not cruel, i dont see why people can't just say what they say and what they like.

of course dxp isn't a place of deeper astrology. lol but i still learned a bit here. The other astro site i learned faster though, and more in depth.

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Lisa. can you look at my post on the page before and let me have your thoughts

Hey single is good lol 😛

Thanks! x

i dunno. i'm lost *scratches head*

No prob 😄 i am still trying to work it out too...

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just spill it, Star. say what's on your mind.

oh and star......here's some coffee for your wake up!! 😄

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Hm, I never really considered Aries men tbh. I like them in general but more as a friendship kind of way.

You should.

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Posted by PVandJellay
Moon/Venus sounds great....for other people. But not for me. I'd rather have a lobotomy than date a Virgo Venus. I know more than one Aqua Venus, like myself, who has dated a Virgo Venus person and it does not end well. Nah. I'll pass on that one.

And I still love you too PVAF!

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Daww sorry bout that Tiz. LOL! None of the virgo venus men I'm speaking of were Libras. You know PVAF is Team Veunusian Men all day.

my Aries sun sister is married to a Libra man. They make a great couple. She and him are NOT into astrology.

But just know, tiz, there are other sun signs that like libra suns romantically. I know this site has aries women that don't really like libra men though i notice. But just know, in real life, Tiz.....
my aries sister loves her husband and he loves her. That's family support from me.

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Posted by tiziani
Isn't Vertex just showing the person you'd write bad cheques over? Give up your life and move to an island with them until they leave you 😛

I think perhaps you are being cheeky, but that is actually true in my case. I paid for everything, picked up and moved my life, to have him steal everything from me......Dam Cancer man!

No really, when I hear about what Vertex is and how people use it.. that's really what it strikes me as! I was being humorous yes (at least I hope it's humorous... too soon JAG? too soon?) because I don't really talk that much about asteroids with people so I have no idea. You're the first person to give me a story that confirms it.

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Naw, not too soon, it happened 13 years ago when I moved to Vegas. I was devastated at the time, I came to peace with it years ago. I grew into the person I am because I went through what I did. I understand true independence & self reliance and not everyone can say that 🙂 But yes, I made many life choices because of him or more so to continue to be with him that I do not think I would have made if I had not crossed paths with him. This all happened when I was 30... so not sure if I was having an early mid life crises when I choose to move away from family/friends and everything I had in my life. But yes my vertex is in cancer and this was the one and only cancer I have dated to date.

^I have a vertex in cancer also.

jag my venus is on your vertex. quit fooling around and let's get married.

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Posted by PVandJellay
Moon/Venus sounds great....for other people. But not for me. I'd rather have a lobotomy than date a Virgo Venus. I know more than one Aqua Venus, like myself, who has dated a Virgo Venus person and it does not end well. Nah. I'll pass on that one.

i also notice mars like what has been said. Definitely mars.
I do not like air suns, or air moons on men. I'm not fond of air venus either on men, but women i get on just fine with them. I know myself, it's something i've noticed and seen in patterns.
Just like you can't be with an aqua sun, or gemini sun, but you're okay with libra sun, but with certain elements in their chart. Like maybe he has a scorpio mars or moon or something you know??
My past patterns were aries dominant, with aries venus 3x in a row!! *smh*
Leo moon was my first husband and so is my current one. 😄 So funny how we can compare astrology patterns like this. It's kind of fun!!
I'm glad you are very self assured and know exactly what you like, PVAF. 🙂
confidence in what you want and KNOW what you like, is awesome!!

LOL. I just recently figured out what I like. I've compared some charts of exes too, who I found were all Libra, taurus, or sag dominant. I there Aries strong in your chart? It would explain the attraction. In terms of air venus, Libra venus was pretty nice. I have no experience with Gem venus or Aqua venus men. Same with air suns, I like Libra sun.

Posted by lisabethur8
i mean, how NERDY can we be? 😄 I love being an astro nerd at times.
Oh your libra mars -- why you like those venusian men. 😄
btw, i dont like fire venuses either, but i love fire mars. So weird!
i know i didnt even factor in houses. 😆 but ehhhhhh i'm married so i'm just having fun.

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Possibly. Everyone I've dated has always had Libra sprinkled in their chart somewhere. In terms of fire venus, it appears I like Sag venus, since it is the fire venus I meet the most. Sag venus seem to get my push/pull style and not take offense when I wanna be alone one minute and affectionate the next. -_-
No experience with Aries venus, but sounds lik

i dont like earth venuses either. lol i have alot on my list. I'm very very choosy but since i found my husband,i know now what energies i love alot. 🙂

Posted by Easha23000us
Are women supposed to marry their Venus sign?

I think it's best if I stick with friendship when it comes to my astrological neighbour.

Posted by Easha23000us
Are women supposed to marry their Venus sign? Mines is in Scorpio...

And how's that been working out for you?

Posted by Hotbeefy
Moon in Aries with the male of Aries Venus... I don't think it would be that great idea. I like Venus Taurus more since they conjunct my Sun. 🙂

But one thing, if you have a bad aspect towards your hubby.. how would you deal with it?

Especially with a lot of squares or opposites?

personally i believe too many squares is no good. I have no idea about too many opposites.

i dont know why...but my husband and i have squares in our chart and for some reason because we live with the squares in our chart, we're A-Ok with our energies. Also we have mutability (adaptation) so that helps BIG TIME. I would hate to think about super duper fixed/cardinal and both going at it cray cray style ...fighting and bullheading eachother. that would be INSANE!!!

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Posted by lisabethur8
i dont like earth venuses either. lol i have alot on my list. I'm very very choosy but since i found my husband,i know now what energies i love alot. 🙂

LOL. I've had good experience with Taurus Venus. I think that's the only one I could reasonably make work. Otherwise for me Libra, Sag, and maybe Aries Venus.

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i do notice that personal planets in libra and taurus, always marry taurus or libra suns. I don't know why...just so....

like my sister has taurus moon. she married a venusian man. So weird!!!

so the mars people usually marry martians or dominant martian energy.

Posted by Damnata
^I have a vertex in cancer also.

jag my venus is on your vertex. quit fooling around and let's get married.

Did you just propose? 😄

Posted by justagirl

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^I have a vertex in cancer also.

jag my venus is on your vertex. quit fooling around and let's get married.

Did you just propose? 😄

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*side steps*
*scuttles away*

Venus in Scorpio .

Goes well with other Venus in Scorpios, Venus in Taurus

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Posted by Damnata
^I have a vertex in cancer also.

jag my venus is on your vertex. quit fooling around and let's get married.

Did you just propose? 😄

*side steps*
*scuttles away*

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haha you aren't a crab!

*cough* i'm getting sick I need soup.... 😛

You can't resist!!!

No Jupiter for women Venus for men.

My venus is taurus as well and my male friend is mars in Gemini if I remember correctly. Haha at least one of these two people need to keep chatting constantly, and keep active, and keep up with inconsistencies you must deal with it or lleave cause there's no compromise when gemini is around. And when taurus comes around we stick to the ground and become immovable. But taurus side wants stable movements. Thats just an observation. I don't know much about this side of astrology.