Scorpio guys: how do you like it?

Hello Scorpios. I've been with my scorpion for over a year now, and its hard for me to get a sexual read on him. As an Aries, I'm usually the initiator of anything sexual. Since I'm always initiating, I can't seem to figure out what he's in the mood for. Fast, slow, romantic, dirty, etc. What do you scorpio guys usualy prefer. What turns you guys on before anything physical starts? Obviously, pleasing him is very important to me. Is there anything I could do to get HIM to initiate?

I'm aware that every guy is different, but any insight I get into the Scorpio mind helps. I'm lost even after a year!

bind ourselves? huh

I just don't get it. Last year, for valentines day I gave him a box with a corset (for me of course) and a pair of handcuffs. He never mentioned it since. Keep in mind, I did break up with him for a bit due to his lack of sexual intrest. He's definitly gotten better...but why isn't he remembering those damn handcuffs? I guess i'll have to make him remember.

Man, I thot my scorp would like the bondage stuff, cuz I think it would be hot once in awhile, but he's not into it at all!

I'd like some info on this topic as well! He's horny, and hot for me, but I'd like to crazy it up a little. Sex should be lusty, dirty AND fun. 🙂

Law... put in a few words, i suggest you try subtle seduction. the kind you carry in demeanor... making it look effortless. if your aggression means he doesnt take the initiative then perhaps your submission means he does... the way i do the math... just dont try at all, or at least make it look that way. lol confusing?

well, im no scorpio guy, but i do know the power of the female body... we dont scream sex, we just are sex on a stick. errrr... ya. im not editing that, its too funny. lol

anyways, my point is... give his eyes and his imagination some cues while you go about doing your thing. know what i mean? a flash of rosy skin perhaps? think of a slow fueling of his imagination and anticipation (keyword for you there being 'slow', arieeeeesss hehe) and scorps are sensual creatures. sensuality is something you linger over. you take your time with it. all that should be a recipe for ignition ...and thats what definitely makes us initiate, right? when we're nearly ready to burst into flames, no?

Fast and furious

I am not a Scorp guy, but most of the Scorp girls love flirting and teasing (especially in public). It is like foreplay! Try flirting and teasing with him until the boy just can't take anymore and is about to go mad (...and, obviously, takes you).

I don't know. Just a thought... Maybe there are sexual differences between Scorp males and females (besides the obvious).

"I don't flirt, or tease. Neither do any of the other Scorp females I know. At least, not consciously. Perhaps subtlely."

With the person you are with, not some random shmuck... 🙂

Really, you don't flirt and tease with your boyfriends? Cause the ones I know do... Hrmmm. Learn something new everyday.

"Oh, I thought you meant randomly."

Ah! Okay. Misunderstanding solved. LOL!

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im a wellspring of goodness 😄 you can let loose in front of me, bling

Flirting and teasing work...when we're drunk. He's always calm, cool and collected and i think thats HIS way of teasing me. Damn him! I just love to see him loose it once in a while. Mr. Scorp is on his way home from hockey practice and I'd just love to jump him while he's all sweaty then hit the shower....call me sick, i dont care 😉. But...the thing is, he wont want me to jump his bones while he's all dirty. He just can't get going if he's self conscious. I swear, sometimes I feel like he's the woman and I'm the man.

Antibling

"I personally think 'fuck,I can't win either way !!!' ,and so, go back to my cave/shell, and people think I'm hermetic and unsociable..........."

You sound just like my scorp. Finally, he admitted to me that that's how he feels in certain situations. Its hard for me to relate to those feelings but I at least try to encourage him to stay out of that mind frame because people will definitly think he's unsociable when thats TOTALLY not the case. Is it insecurity? Who knows. He's a great person, I just dont understand how he could feel that way.

"how are you on this fine evening,Creepypants —"

😛 bling, i'm splendid. about to go deliver some brownies to some friends.
told ya... goooooodness. lol 😄

I mah flirt!....no not really...my word play and eye game is on point at all times!
Im subtle...its like an art...I cant explain...stop trying to take my info, grrr...

"It's all natural ,baby "

Hmmmm... I love flirting (with my boyfriend, or perhaps some guy I really really want) and generally am good at it. But, it is just flirting... I don't really see some special trick or skill to it. Perhaps it is just natural or subconscious, for Scorps or maybe just everyone. It is just feeling sexy, confident, and sensual (and in the case of bf's, typically, atleast moderately aroused) to the degree that it is communicated in everything you do with / towards them (whether talking, joking, playing around, just looking at them, smiling, whatever). When you feel sexy, then people find you sexy. Sometimes unfortunately so, because when you effectively communicate that then people believe you are purposely flirting, whether you actually intended to or not. That can be a bitch...

LawLaw410...the handcuffs...sounds more like "kinky" to me. and although i've never been with a scorpio male, i have a friend who has a weakness for them and she says they're not so much into kinkiness, they prefer "passionate, lusty sex" (be it fast, slow, romantic and what not). not quite sure what this means, but that's what she says about them. and besides, "they don't need to dig into the kink bag because they're already more than you can handle." again, this is just my friend's opinion about them. and as you mentioned, every guy is different.

Interesting agent006. Now I wonder how many of you scorpio guys like kinky sex?

I concur alcheme.

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