Scorpio has plans to leave for another state...

...Things at his job aren't going as he'd like them to and he's gotten a few job offers. While I am happy for him I am also sad because we've been doing so well. We really connect and get through problems very easily.
I had considered moving to this same state (one of many I had on my list for places I'd like to go for grad school), but I don't graduate till may and it's not a sure fire thing I'll be going there. He'd be leaving in Feb if he left.

Anyone else go through a similar situation? What did you do? This hurts me, but I don't want to keep him from getting a better job.

Is he moving forsure?

Posted by Sag89
Is he moving forsure?

There are no for sures, but by the way he was talking he sounds like he really wants to move and he even has it all planned out.

Posted by aliennation
Yeah, don't sacrifice your life to be with him, and def don't hold him back.

My Cappy venus says- career comes first! 🙂

Is an LDR out of the question?

My venus in cap always says career comes first.

I'm not sacrificing anything for him. The state he's going to was one of my choices for places to go for grad school. I also don't wanna move anywhere where I don't know people so moving near him would be helpful so I'd know him, and I have family near there.

I don't like LDR. Most of a relationship is being intimate with each other and spending time together. Take that away and it's just talking. I'm not really up for a LDR unless it means I'll see him soonish in the future.

I'm not sure how you keep determining closeness by terms of state.

Two people could live in the same state and still be hours away from each other.

Something similar. A few months ago, my taurus told me about his desire and new plans to move to Australia for a year or so; he works in fine dining and Melbourne is getting increasingly popular with fine dining. Two of his friends are chefs and planning to go as well.

When he first told me this, it was really hard to deal with it. I couldn't even think about Australia in general without feeling upset. He first told me that it was just a plan and not definite, as if to reassure me. He certainly had no immediate plans to end things.

I told a couple of friends about it, and they just looked at me and said, "Why don't you go too?" At first, I couldn't fathom. I wasn't even sure if I was graduating on time... and what about gradschool?! However, kept thinking about it. As the semester continued, the more burnt out I felt towards school. At the end of the semester, like a month ago, I found out I was graduating in may of 2012 rather than december.

I also realized then that I had no idea what I wanted to do for gradschool. I decided I needed time off. Talking to my mother, she openly suggested that I travel or go overseas. When I told her that I couldn't go straight to gradschool, she actually approved of the idea. A friend of mine showed me links to work programs overseas, and I realized I wanted to try it out.

I suddenly understood why my taurus wanted to go so badly, and I realized that I wanted to as well. Not just for him though. I want to go for myself, to get experience.in new things, and to throw caution to the wind for the first time in my life. The fact that he would be there actually helps me because I know I would toss out the chance out of fear. But he gives me incentive to go big or go home.