@SunAngel34
14 Years
Scorpios + Scorpio=
Understanding Scorpio Compatibility and Challenges
Scorpios are passionate and intense partners, which can lead to both deep connection and conflicts. Their emotional depth can cause head games and misunderstandings. Open communication and patience are key to building trust and reducing conflicts in Scorpio relationships.
lol my mothers womb?
Posted by EyesOfFire
It really depends on the individual scorps and their other placements, as well as their individual pasts/experiences colliding. I'm guessing your two typical scorps would start off hot, then to a mixture of hot/hell... then more leaning toward destruction... then rebirth after it's over. Never experienced it... just how I'd see it playing out with two typical scorps.
That does sound about right. Which kinda sux. 😢
Posted by SunAngel34
Hot? Or just hell?We make one hot couple and have been steamy in the short time we have been together. Everything is intense just how I like it. This guy drives me wild in a good way but he also drives me wild in a bad way. I have not wanted to kill anybody like I want to kill him sometimes. Why must scorpio guys be such assholes at times and how do I get him to stop with he head games so we can get serious?
I'd say just enjoy the sex and don't worry about the rest...
Source:I am a Gemini with a Scorpio🙂Good luck!!!!!!!
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LOL Maybe that is what I should just do.
what kind of games has he been playing? and what kind have you been playing, too? 😉
Posted by SunAngel34
Hot? Or just hell?We make one hot couple and have been steamy in the short time we have been together. Everything is intense just how I like it. This guy drives me wild in a good way but he also drives me wild in a bad way. I have not wanted to kill anybody like I want to kill him sometimes. Why must scorpio guys be such assholes at times and how do I get him to stop with he head games so we can get serious?
I'm hoping Exo or Elly see this...
They are the ones you want to talk to. (Both of these Scorp ladies are with Scorp men and have wonderful relationships)
Not the psycho Gem above me.
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Ok Thank you, but any and all advice is welcome really.
Posted by FireGemgirl
By the way,you look like Kim Kardashian!!
Thank you! I don't have her butt. However, I am working on it! LOL
Posted by BigGirlPanties
what kind of games has he been playing? and what kind have you been playing, too? 😉
He will always make me text or call him first so I do. He flirt with girls when I'm with him but yeah I play games too and flirt with other guys to piss him off. 😆
Posted by BigGirlPanties
what kind of games has he been playing?Yeah, it may be best to stay away from anything other than casual fun when it comes to a male scorp that plays mind games. Odds are it would turn in to major hell.
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There is no way to say hey fuck you lets be serious?
I don't know why it says treetrunk it's suppose to be the F bomb.
Posted by BigGirlPanties
what kind of games has he been playing? and what kind have you been playing, too? 😉He will always make me text or call him first so I do. He flirt with girls when I'm with him but yeah I play games too and flirt with other guys to piss him off. 😆
Nevermind...
I'm done with this thread before it ever gets started. Peace
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Alright.
The problem is that I cannot get him to be serious. I only play games because he plays them first. Immature I know but that is the way it goes. He knows I want something serious and he says he does too but he never shows it well and and continues to play games and since he can't seem to change and I cannot get him to change its starting to be hell and the beginning of the end.
Posted by JanahC
Hmmm.. did you confront him about this?
I confronted him on the phone and he said he would call me back when he could talk. He has not called me back of course.
Posted by SunAngel34
The problem is that I cannot get him to be serious. I only play games because he plays them first. Immature I know but that is the way it goes. He knows I want something serious and he says he does too but he never shows it well and and continues to play games and since he can't seem to change and I cannot get him to change its starting to be hell and the beginning of the end.Yeah, I was playing my own games with women a couple of years ago because I was scared to take things further. Not sure if this is why he's doing it, as no two people(in this case, scorps) are the same. You have to mean what you say, because the fact that you tell him that you want something serious, but play his game shows him that he is in control. Also, in his mind he thinks that you don't want what you say you want when you continue playing his game. You have to be stern and tell him you'll move on if he doesn't show through his actions that he wants something serious like he says he does(unless you're cool with a casual relationship). And if he starts to change, just keep in mind, it could be another game just to keep you around. Not saying it definitely would be more games, but you always have to be on your tippy toes, lol.
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I guess I am just giving him the benefit of the doubt and being nice because I should end things with him and I probably will if he doesn't call me back before I go to bed.
Posted by JanahC
Hmmm.. did you confront him about this?She said she was playing games...
That's not being upfront and confronting the issue at hand.
That's passive aggressive bullshit.
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I do both.
I think you are just trying to get a rise out of me. 😉
Why can I get scorpios and you can't?
Jk 😛
Good luck to you
Posted by DominOo
Since younger women look up to that socially driven crap shoots, you people just fuel their lust for it. And in essence, every non-attractive chick (painted from society), only gets it worse off. Thanks for hurting younger kids you jerk.
Are you talking to me?
Btw, I have never found that chick humorous.
Ok
Ok Dominoo I don't know what your problem is really. I live in Florida. The average temp year round is 71 degrees. For me the less clothes the better. That's just the way it is. Sure guys notice but it is not like I care.
You have a really powerful chart sunangel
I'm a whole lotta Scorpio and Sagittarius. I'm basically a ticking time bomb. LOL
Scorpio+Scorpio can = Beauiful disaster if the two don'temotionally evolve and do it fast. The best thing to do when you fear something is to run towards it. Whats it worth if two people can't put it all on the line?. I would tell him, and if you get hurt.. let it be based on your fullest efforts( not some " what could of been" two step) To live to the fullest is is the only way you really LIVE!. Now go grab him by the collar and shake some sense into him 😉
Haha that song is funny
Am i the only one who notices pretty much 99% of people here love the sign their moon is placed in?
I dated a scorpio male and I'm a scorpio female. It was very intense emotions. I cared for him but the aspect of revenge made it bad. It was more hell than hot since he was more sensitive than I and got easily hurt. I never tried to hurt him but he would twist things and then he would try to sting me but I never divulged as much info about me. In the end, he ended up hurt. My experience is that it's more trouble than it's worth.
I'm married to a Scorpio man. We have a very...intense relationship, often too intense, virging on destruction. Although, it's kind of the way both of us like it. We usually end up pulling through in the end as long as one of us backs down...without resenting the other for it. If you can't get your Scorpio guy to commit, then, most likely he won't end up committing.
Also, completely agree with Gem...don't go overboard with the flirtations, scorp guys (well, guys in general) like their egos stroked. So, deliberately flirting with other guys might make him move on faster. Also agree with Gem in that Scorp men are very slow in trusting. I've been with my husband for 3 years and I STILL have to do everything I can to keep him from being jealous and overly possessive. If it was legal he'd probably tie me up in the house to make sure I never leave so that no one else can ever lay eyes on me. LOL A little creepy and overwhelming at times, prob one of our biggest problems, for I enjoy my independence.
If I were you I'd just move on. He might just need some space to decide or chase after you. If he doesn't, then prob not worth your time.
Posted by SunAngel34
Ok Dominoo I don't know what your problem is really. I live in Florida. The average temp year round is 71 degrees. For me the less clothes the better. That's just the way it is. Sure guys notice but it is not like I care.Nice excuse. Likewise, as you could see, it is bluntly obvious what my issue is. Chicks like you force children to grow up into shit depressions with the lust driven by dis-respectable people. Children look up to people like you.
There are plenty of means of staying cool while not trying to be provocative. Don't derp. 🙂
Stop making younger children grow up to lust for that dumb shit you chicks go through.
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No need to attack. You're pretty excessive with your policing on others' clothes.)))) I don't see her "making" children do anything.
She looks good in the dress. No reason to not be proud of how you look and flaunt it. I don't see how whether she cares about guys looking at her or not is your concern, it is her business.
Don't be such a prude. 😉
Posted by AA
Am i the only one who notices pretty much 99% of people here love the sign their moon is placed in?
I could see tht since a lot of the guys I've dated have been scorpios
Hot, then hell hath no fury like two Scorpios scorned.
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Hot? Or just hell?
We make one hot couple and have been steamy in the short time we have been together. Everything is intense just how I like it. This guy drives me wild in a good way but he also drives me wild in a bad way. I have not wanted to kill anybody like I want to kill him sometimes. Why must scorpio guys be such assholes at times and how do I get him to stop with he head games so we can get serious?