Scorpio intentions?

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I'm a female Leo with moon in Cancer, Venus in Leo and Mars in Cancer. Over a week ago I went out with a Scorpio gent with moon in Capricorn, Venus in Libra and Mars in Sagittarius (we exchanged birthday info on our date). We had met through a dating app and didn't spend much time chatting online before we met in person. We met up for a drink and spent the rest of the night walking around the city talking for hours. It was lovely and he made me feel very safe, which is not easy for me with men. At the end of the night he walked me home and asked if he could see me again and I said yes. On his way home he messaged me that he had a great time and that I was a knockout (with a kiss face emoji). I messaged him back thanking him for a fun night. He's messaged me intermittently since then. The first he asked how my week was going. Later in the week he told me he had finally put his place up for sale. A few days later he messaged me that in a few weeks we would be neighbors because he was moving into a new place two blocks from my place (I can see into the building from my balcony). Now, it's been almost 2 weeks since we went out and he hasn't made any initiative to see me again and now he's telling me we're going to be neighbors. I don't have anyone else in my life who is a Scorpio so this is my first real interaction. Can anyone give me some insight? I'm very confused about his intentions here. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Posted by Infinite8
? I'm also extremely suspicious of his intentions ?...

He never mentioned his need to seep his place and move in your area? Was this an old plan and therefore coincidence?!?

Or is this all because of you?!?!?

What do you feel right now?

If it were me, I would create a huge distance because of that... it just gives me a very uneasy feeling...
He did mention that he was working on fixing up his place to sell and that he wanted to move closer to my area but not in my neighborhood specifically. So him moving down the street from me was a big surprise. He is going through a divorce. Him selling his place is the last part of the process. But in the week and a half since we went out he's put his place up for sale and signed a lease to live two blocks from me.

I honestly don't know how I feel let alone what yo think. It's a little bit crazy that he's moving so close to me after going out once but he also hasn't made any attempt to see me again.
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? I'm also extremely suspicious of his intentions ?...

He never mentioned his need to seep his place and move in your area? Was this an old plan and therefore coincidence?!?

Or is this all because of you?!?!?

What do you feel right now?

If it were me, I would create a huge distance because of that... it just gives me a very uneasy feeling...
He did mention that he was working on fixing up his place to sell and that he wanted to move closer to my area but not in my neighborhood specifically. So him moving down the street from me was a big surprise. He is going through a divorce. Him selling his place is the last part of the process. But in the week and a half since we went out he's put his place up for sale and signed a lease to live two blocks from me.

I honestly don't know how I feel let alone what yo think. It's a little bit crazy that he's moving so close to me after going out once but he also hasn't made any attempt to see me again.


So... how is it that he knows where you live?

It might all be a coincidence. But for the moment, just create a bit of a distance to make sure he isn't a creep.

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He walked me home on our date.

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? I'm also extremely suspicious of his intentions ?...

He never mentioned his need to seep his place and move in your area? Was this an old plan and therefore coincidence?!?

Or is this all because of you?!?!?

What do you feel right now?

If it were me, I would create a huge distance because of that... it just gives me a very uneasy feeling...
He did mention that he was working on fixing up his place to sell and that he wanted to move closer to my area but not in my neighborhood specifically. So him moving down the street from me was a big surprise. He is going through a divorce. Him selling his place is the last part of the process. But in the week and a half since we went out he's put his place up for sale and signed a lease to live two blocks from me.

I honestly don't know how I feel let alone what yo think. It's a little bit crazy that he's moving so close to me after going out once but he also hasn't made any attempt to see me again.


So... how is it that he knows where you live?

It might all be a coincidence. But for the moment, just create a bit of a distance to make sure he isn't a creep.


He walked me home on our date.


? Sucks...

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Looks that bad, huh?

So what are his intentions here? That I can't figure out. It's usually 1-3 days when I hear from him and it's usually very brief. And he still hasn't asked me out again. If he was constantly in contact and asking to see me again I'd write him off as a creep and move on. The moving so close to me after one date is strange but the whole thing is perplexing.
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Posted by erniechick
I'm a female Leo with moon in Cancer, Venus in Leo and Mars in Cancer. Over a week ago I went out with a Scorpio gent with moon in Capricorn, Venus in Libra and Mars in Sagittarius (we exchanged birthday info on our date). We had met through a dating app and didn't spend much time chatting online before we met in person. We met up for a drink and spent the rest of the night walking around the city talking for hours. It was lovely and he made me feel very safe, which is not easy for me with men. At the end of the night he walked me home and asked if he could see me again and I said yes. On his way home he messaged me that he had a great time and that I was a knockout (with a kiss face emoji). I messaged him back thanking him for a fun night. He's messaged me intermittently since then. The first he asked how my week was going. Later in the week he told me he had finally put his place up for sale. A few days later he messaged me that in a few weeks we would be neighbors because he was moving into a new place two blocks from my place (I can see into the building from my balcony). Now, it's been almost 2 weeks since we went out and he hasn't made any initiative to see me again and now he's telling me we're going to be neighbors. I don't have anyone else in my life who is a Scorpio so this is my first real interaction. Can anyone give me some insight? I'm very confused about his intentions here. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
How do you feel about him? Do you like him? How often do you initiate contact? I ask you these questions because as a Scorpio myself it's important to know that the other person is interested in me. Usually Scorpio's wouldn't go so fat as to moving into the same neighborhood of the person they like. That would be creepy. But it does seem like he is interested in you and keeps you up to date about his life. If you like him let him know what you are looking for in a relationship. Scorpio's are one of the most loyal signs in the zodiac. But if you give them wrong messages or play games they will do that to you too. They equally give you back what they recieve. At this point if you want to see him again it's better you ask when you want to meet up. Maybe he's just not bringing the subject up because he's shy or he's just busy.
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Posted by compy
Coincidence. He wanted to move to your area before meeting you. I do not believe you gave him your full address during your first date.
He said he wanted to move "near" my area. He told me he was looking at neighborhoods north of mine but was not looking at my neighborhood specifically. I never gave him my address on our date but when we were walking around the city at the end of the night he ended up walking me home to my building. A week later he told me he just looked at places in my neighborhood and was going to apply for a place down the street from me so he remembered where I live.