Librius: A Balanced mind

Posted by Leo188881
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I miss him every minute, no matter if he is away for a minute or for months. It's the feeling, not what we do or talk. That's a huge difference. The Leo doesn't miss him personally, she misses/or not, how he fills the time with her. Selfish, I'd say.


How is your relationship? It seems like you are playing two parts to fill what's missing. So perhaps look inwardly before judging people you don't know. I let it go the last time because i figured you're just broken but maybe you would benefit from confronting your own problems too.
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I've been through all the phases with an Aqua.
I miss him every minute, no matter if he is away for a minute or for months. It's the feeling, not what we do or talk. That's a huge difference. The Leo doesn't miss him personally, she misses/or not, how he fills the time with her. Selfish, I'd say.
Are you clear about what you want from a relationship? It seems that what he is currently offering you is far from fulfilling, despite the facts. He is doing far more things for an Aqua, to be honest!
I remember when I had some problems with my satellite reception. I had replaced the receiver, but it didn't solve the problem. I was extremely disappointed and sad. My Aqua man was trying to comfort me, to no avail. I felt sorry for him as well, like having all this bad situation in my blood and totally restless until I fixed it (had to bring in a technician in the end). Do not underestimate such things, they do affect us, because it disturbs our peace of mind. But we will be back as soon as we solve it.
Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Posted by compy
Who can give me an example of an Aqua that is adventurous and spontaneous, as the solar sign predicts? Real examples, among you, Aquas. What adventurous actions did you initiate? Let's hear it out!


Skinny dipping in swimming pools that don’t belong to me.

Passionate sex in the wood. No blanket.

That’s just surface.
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Anything else? I've done that.
Who can give me an example of an Aqua that is adventurous and spontaneous, as the solar sign predicts? Real examples, among you, Aquas. What adventurous actions did you initiate? Let's hear it out!
There is no greater pleasure to me than to see him relax and falling asleep during a well deserved massage after a horribly long day at work.
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Posted by Wineaux15
If you ignore her it’ll spark her interest maybe.


What happens in your head if you get ignored?

I know i go clingy and psycho and get really annoying so ignoring a leo is bad. Really bad. Ive never ignored my aqua. How do Aquas react?


Yeah I get like that too when I'm ignored - main reason why Aqua put the brakes on us. But then when I would ignore her she would try harder. So it became a game and the funny thing is she claimed to hate playing games. Weird.

In this relationship with my aqua neither has ignored the other. We always reply or call back even after a fight. So i don't know why the advice is always give them distance or ignore them. I think we create patterns of behaviour in our relationships that can't be broken so it's important not to allow destructive patterns to emerge.
I think they like playing games but don't like being played. Early on if i sensed he's starting a game, I'd ask him if he wants to play games with our relationship and he would say no so I think it's something both parties need to participate in.


You are the one to look for constant attention. Beware. Aquas are AIR signs. Do not suffocate them!


Being mature and communicating isn't suffocating. Having insecurities and being needy is suffocating. There's a difference between the two.
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You are communicating it more here than to him.
You are two fixed signs. I am not sure who is taking the lead, but you won't take his.
Your words mean nothing in our eyes. Just don't put all your eggs on the same plate.

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If you ignore her it’ll spark her interest maybe.


What happens in your head if you get ignored?

I know i go clingy and psycho and get really annoying so ignoring a leo is bad. Really bad. Ive never ignored my aqua. How do Aquas react?


Yeah I get like that too when I'm ignored - main reason why Aqua put the brakes on us. But then when I would ignore her she would try harder. So it became a game and the funny thing is she claimed to hate playing games. Weird.

In this relationship with my aqua neither has ignored the other. We always reply or call back even after a fight. So i don't know why the advice is always give them distance or ignore them. I think we create patterns of behaviour in our relationships that can't be broken so it's important not to allow destructive patterns to emerge.
I think they like playing games but don't like being played. Early on if i sensed he's starting a game, I'd ask him if he wants to play games with our relationship and he would say no so I think it's something both parties need to participate in.
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You are the one to look for constant attention. Beware. Aquas are AIR signs. Do not suffocate them!
Fact: you are not his girlfriend. They are the masters of manipulation when it comes to non commitment and stringing along. Go strictly to facts and not to words.
I find Air signs+Pisces moon to be a strange mixture of bitterness, because they seems to be more aware of the world around them. Highly sensitive, yet not exactly positive. An accurate filter of the society through the eyes of a rational mind and a sensitive soul (not quite empathetic).
Aquas keep obsessions at the back of their minds. But since we are mental people, we can voluntarily bring up more mundane interests first, while "overthinking" in the background. You cannot emulate someone else's way of thinking, though. If it helps, go to therapy. I am not an Aqua though, but a Libra.
Spread yourself thin in a lot of completely different interests. From socializing with new and old people to hobbies and even your job.
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You are probably going for the stereotype that Aquas are all into adventures. Mine is a home body. You still need to know each other. And yes, they can be a monument of boredom!


His idea of adventure is going for a drive up the mountains and driving back. 😣
I think i need to tell him I'm getting bored and we need to do more stuff together. I just haven't worked out how to say it tactfully
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Just tell him that you need to go out more because you stay indoors too much already and you would appreciate going out with him and having fun together. But also respect his wish to rest, since he is working a lot more. Once in a while is good to go out, even though for them (mine, actually) the company of the loved one is enough. If he goes out, he will do it to please you, not because he enjoys it particularly.
You are probably going for the stereotype that Aquas are all into adventures. Mine is a home body. You still need to know each other. And yes, they can be a monument of boredom!
Has he been your best friend for 12 years? How many times did he sleep over? What is your sun sign?
Posted by 2Moon
Libras are winning, except 2moon*

i haven't took any W in a very long time..

L after L, only Ls 😕😥

😢😭😭


I'm Libra sun, Scorpio moon


You have my appreciation! From a double Libra
Posted by FitNebula
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As I told you, he won't text you unless he wants to hear about you or even see you, because you know each other too well by now. Your text had no reply involved. Text him after a few days, casually. So that he knows you have no resentments. Do your things until then. If you text him, don't mention the incident at all. Just say hi and ask him how he is. Only if he responds, you can vaguely suggest that you would like to see each other again and let him decide. These are the most treacherous waters with Aquas, because in such cases their moods may change unexpectedly.


Ok ok you're right. His birthday is on Sunday, maybe I'll text him then to say happy birthday and see how he is doing.

What do you mean by these are the most treacherous waters with Aquas? As in, the drama my friends caused?
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Times when they are stunned by an outburst of emotions. PM me if you wish, it would be better.