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Is it calling them high maintenance, just poetically?
More like an unnecessary complication.
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Love the wording. You have your shit together for a Scorp. Congrats. Not defensive and no stinger showing. You owned it. Only an evolved Scorpio lady can do that. Nothing sexier than an evolved Scorpio lady. Hats off to you.
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Posted by ellle
it's adorable that leo and aqua....our fixed sign cousins are telling us we need to be more compromising.

*waits for taurus to jump on the band wagon*
Where in my post did I state that you Scorpy ladies needed to be MORE compromising. I can flex quite a bit if I want to. We are fixed and can only flex a certain amount. I never said that you needed to be more flexible ELLE. We are who we are. We can only do so much.
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Aqua - "That's where compromise comes into play."

Leo - "This is true. Least compromising I think."

If one says there is no compromise or describes something as the least compromising......doesn't that mean there is a lack of compromise?
LOL. Own it ELLE. Just because I said you were the least compromising sign according to me does not mean that I think you should be more compromising. You said that I think you should be more compromising. Don't twist my words please.
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Posted by ellle
my entire life theme has been 'compromise' due to all the libra in my chart.

It's a complete contradiction most of the time because everyone is different. there is no 'canned answer' to the level of compromise required from person to person.

some people need it.
some people demand it.
some people could give a rats ass.

you are right about one thing, we are who we are.

the entire 'expectations' thing is on point too.......except.....it's not the scorpio who has too high of expectations, it's those who try to be with us. I can only be who I can be.....so do not *expect* me to be something I am not because I certainly won't put that responsibility on someone else.
From what I have seen from Scorps is they want their cake and to eat it too.
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What exactly am I owning?

you said we were the least compromising.

quite honestly, out of the fixed signs....... I think that belongs to aqua.

....and encompasses ALL aqua placements. Not just sun sign.
Exactly. You are not owning anything. Don't be the typical Scorpio and shunning stuff off.

What? What do you mean I don't compromise? What about so and so? LOL
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What exactly am I owning?

you said we were the least compromising.

quite honestly, out of the fixed signs....... I think that belongs to aqua.

....and encompasses ALL aqua placements. Not just sun sign.
Exactly. You are not owning anything. Don't be the typical Scorpio and shunning stuff off.

What? What do you mean I don't compromise? What about so and so? LOL
You have yet to tell me what I'm need to own.
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How about owning the fact that you are a fixed sign and are not really flexible.
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I kinda see it more like....

It's my way or the highway with scorpys.

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you really can't speak on this.

while you were seeing your scorp you had a pisces in your back pocket.

like I said....if someone's heart isn't it.....why should mine?

I have way too much to give to someone who is half-assing it.

want better? go find it. I'll be more than happy to see you happy if that is what you want.
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Right there. Cake and eat it too. What makes you think they are half assing it? They could be giving it all they have but its not up to your level of expectations.
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What exactly am I owning?

you said we were the least compromising.

quite honestly, out of the fixed signs....... I think that belongs to aqua.

....and encompasses ALL aqua placements. Not just sun sign.
Exactly. You are not owning anything. Don't be the typical Scorpio and shunning stuff off.

What? What do you mean I don't compromise? What about so and so? LOL
You have yet to tell me what I'm need to own.
How about owning the fact that you are a fixed sign and are not really flexible.
How about owning the fact that we aren't just made up of our sun sign?

I mentioned several posts before that compromise has been a huge issue in my life due to other factors in my chart?

People have gone so far to call me a door mat, even on this site.

So, how am I not flexible?

You don't need to answer that....because you can't. I can't even answer it because it is based on the person dealing with me. Some people may say I'm super inflexible....other people may say that I let others take advantage of me because I'm too flexible.

I gave up a long time ago accommodating other people's projections....and that is REALLY what this comes down too.
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BUT, I would have to accommodate yours.
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What exactly am I owning?

you said we were the least compromising.

quite honestly, out of the fixed signs....... I think that belongs to aqua.

....and encompasses ALL aqua placements. Not just sun sign.
Exactly. You are not owning anything. Don't be the typical Scorpio and shunning stuff off.

What? What do you mean I don't compromise? What about so and so? LOL
You have yet to tell me what I'm need to own.
How about owning the fact that you are a fixed sign and are not really flexible.
How about owning the fact that we aren't just made up of our sun sign?

I mentioned several posts before that compromise has been a huge issue in my life due to other factors in my chart?

People have gone so far to call me a door mat, even on this site.

So, how am I not flexible?

You don't need to answer that....because you can't. I can't even answer it because it is based on the person dealing with me. Some people may say I'm super inflexible....other people may say that I let others take advantage of me because I'm too flexible.

I gave up a long time ago accommodating other people's projections....and that is REALLY what this comes down too.
BUT, I would have to accommodate yours.
No, you don't.

That's where your leo is showing.

You don't HAVE to. You can simply walk away and pretend i don't even exist. I do not care. Only a Leo would care.
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Say I didn't leave. But, didn't accommodate your projections to your standards? You would bounce because of it.
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I kinda see it more like....

It's my way or the highway with scorpys.

🙂
you really can't speak on this.

while you were seeing your scorp you had a pisces in your back pocket.

like I said....if someone's heart isn't it.....why should mine?

I have way too much to give to someone who is half-assing it.

want better? go find it. I'll be more than happy to see you happy if that is what you want.
Right there. Cake and eat it too. What makes you think they are half assing it? They could be giving it all they have but its not up to your level of expectations.
you have expectations and standards switched.

expectations is expecting someone to do or be a certain way. I only expect someone to be themselves. That seems to be a bit hard for some.

standards are....if you don't cut it....I'm sorry, it's not going to work out. someone has to call it.

doesn't mean their standards are 'wrong'....just means they aren't in line with mine.

btw, that was not a cake and eat it too example....cake and eat it too would be keeping them around for my entertainment even if they were halfassing it. I'd rather let them go and part ways.
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Bottom line.....

Whatever and whomever I am into....since I am black or white....I am 100% in it and not halfassing, ever. And You will know it.

The problem arises right there ^^^^^ that is your root to all problems with scorpios. The moment we make that decision it's constant, not dynamic......

unless......

If you are not 100% in.....we will recognise and start matching your percentages in order to protect ourselves. 90% , 80% , 50% , etc. We mirror.....you can only expect to get what you give with us. You give more, we give more until we reach that 100% level. We will give a certain amount of time for you to catch up but at some point, someone has to call it.....and it's probably going to be us out of frustration and exhaustion.

If I am not 100% in it....then I'm halfassing it and you just need to face reality in the fact that I'm just not that into you.
This was 100% BS. Contradicting everything you said earlier.
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I tried following the argument, but I got too impatient lol...

I mean, I guess I'm an oddball then because I think I'm TOO compromising. I mean I'm picky somewhat. It depends what we are talking about in regards to being picky in love. I want someone to meet my expectations, but my expectations are pretty broad and definitely abnormal. I'm into the underdogs. If they are too uppity or act overly clingy and dependent on me, that's what I will avoid. If we are in a relationship then I like more communication but not to the point where I get double texts due to me not responding. I'm a busy person. I cant sit still. Lol. I once went to NYC, and I gave this guy a chance and I was on vacation w my best friend so we were having fun. This guy texted me like 3 times a day everyday for my whole 5 day trip. We were NOT dating. Then I drove 12 hours home and he starts texting me saying he wants me to come hang out...mentally I was like "ur joking right? I just drove 12 hours and you want me to go hangout - no". That's when I had to weed him out of my life - I felt like he wanted to box me in. Plus one time he randomly bit me when we were watching a movie and it was NOT a turn on....in fact I was really irritated because I was really into the movie. I dont know if that counts as black or white, but I thought it was a good example of what I want and don't want. Idk. I'm more of a challenge type of girl, and this guy would talk about marriage/kids and stuff and I just avoided his commentary, because I knew what he was hinting and I was not down. The guy knew me for about a week to two weeks. it's like wat?

If a guy I REALLY like wants something his way (depending on what it is) I'll make compromises. I'm not going to be like "hell no go screw yourself. this is how I want it". Lol....that sounds like a terrible relationship. I was in a controlling relationship with a Virgo. I lost myself. I adapted to what HE wanted. Once it ended....I had to start completely over and form myself into who I wanted. After all that suffering, I would NEVER want to be that way to another human being, and I will NEVER tolerate being controlled or clung to. It was very damaging and destructive. I could never be that way to another person, knowing how it feels to be on the other end.
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Bottom line.....

Whatever and whomever I am into....since I am black or white....I am 100% in it and not halfassing, ever. And You will know it.

The problem arises right there ^^^^^ that is your root to all problems with scorpios. The moment we make that decision it's constant, not dynamic......

unless......

If you are not 100% in.....we will recognise and start matching your percentages in order to protect ourselves. 90% , 80% , 50% , etc. We mirror.....you can only expect to get what you give with us. You give more, we give more until we reach that 100% level. We will give a certain amount of time for you to catch up but at some point, someone has to call it.....and it's probably going to be us out of frustration and exhaustion.

If I am not 100% in it....then I'm halfassing it and you just need to face reality in the fact that I'm just not that into you.
This was 100% BS. Contradicting everything you said earlier.
you are full of shit and are just toying with me now, sag moon.

I'm not going to sit here and be circle jerked.
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How do you figure. I'm not a dick like that and you know it. I also don't expect you to see it.
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Say I didn't leave. But, didn't accommodate your projections to your standards? You would bounce because of it.

this makes zero sense to me ^^^^^^

rephrase it, please.
Pretty self explanatory
no it doesn't.

what the fuck are 'projections to your standards"?
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Bottom line.....

Whatever and whomever I am into....since I am black or white....I am 100% in it and not halfassing, ever. And You will know it.

The problem arises right there ^^^^^ that is your root to all problems with scorpios. The moment we make that decision it's constant, not dynamic......

unless......

If you are not 100% in.....we will recognise and start matching your percentages in order to protect ourselves. 90% , 80% , 50% , etc. We mirror.....you can only expect to get what you give with us. You give more, we give more until we reach that 100% level. We will give a certain amount of time for you to catch up but at some point, someone has to call it.....and it's probably going to be us out of frustration and exhaustion.

If I am not 100% in it....then I'm halfassing it and you just need to face reality in the fact that I'm just not that into you.
This was 100% BS. Contradicting everything you said earlier.
you are full of shit and are just toying with me now, sag moon.

I'm not going to sit here and be circle jerked.
How do you figure. I'm not a dick like that and you know it. I also don't expect you to see it.
If you don't expect me to see something, then why engage? It's just foolish. You can make it clear and have a conversation or play games and just make it fire moon banter.
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Gotta try ELLE. Otherwise, Why even have this site or answer ANY thread.
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I kinda see it more like....

It's my way or the highway with scorpys.

🙂
you really can't speak on this.

while you were seeing your scorp you had a pisces in your back pocket.

like I said....if someone's heart isn't it.....why should mine?

I have way too much to give to someone who is half-assing it.

want better? go find it. I'll be more than happy to see you happy if that is what you want.
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^^^ here
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Posted by ellle
my entire life theme has been 'compromise' due to all the libra in my chart.

It's a complete contradiction most of the time because everyone is different. there is no 'canned answer' to the level of compromise required from person to person.

some people need it.
some people demand it.
some people could give a rats ass.

you are right about one thing, we are who we are.

the entire 'expectations' thing is on point too.......except.....it's not the scorpio who has too high of expectations, it's those who try to be with us. I can only be who I can be.....so do not *expect* me to be something I am not because I certainly won't put that responsibility on someone else.
^^^^^ this too. Read the contradiction
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another example.....

passwords.

I always tell partners to NOT give me passwords to anything. I won't snoop but if there is a point in the relationship where you betray me.....I will use them. I have a scorpio mars and I just don't want to be given the opportunity to do shady shit. So, NO PASSWORDS because I know what I could be capable of if pushed too far. I see it as being proactive.

However, I will give you every damn password I have and the permission to go into anything you'd like.....you don't even have to ask me. *shrugs*

So, yeah. It's not contradicting....it's being respectful to my needs and my partners needs and being aware that they are different.
Now I wanna hug you
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Posted by ellle
I understand where you are coming from, ssupes, I really do.

We often get misunderstood and then it just gets all twisted until nobody really even knows what they were talking about to begin with. lol
I know you do on some of it. Some of it, you just won't. Just like I won't ever see some of what you are saying or even agree with it. *Fixed sign issues*
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Ohh. Good convo. May I interject a little with the Fixed water version of being fixed and how "compromise" is incorporated? 😄

Let's say, I'm out canoeing with my friend and we've looked at the map and we decide we're going to make it to the mouth of the river. PLAN A: mouth of the river.

So we start canoeing and friend suggests going down one tributary that looks more beautiful than what we may have agreed at first. Scorp: "sure that looks great. let's do it!"
And then friend suggests we stop here or there for lunch--Scorp: "Great idea. Looks like a great place."

And so on and so forth. Scorpio being chill about how we get there.

Several hours into the canoeing, the friend suggests going back because they are tired.

Scorp: Uh--no. Plan A is going to the mouth of the river. I've had my heart set on getting to the mouth. Let's keep going.

Friend: But I'm tired, let's turn around.

Scorp: We agreed at the beginning we were going to the mouth of the river. Let's DO THIS! Tell you what. I'll paddle while you rest...but we are gong to the mouth of the river.

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The moral of the story?

The Scorpio is going to keep going until it gets to the mouth of the River. We might compromise how to get there. We might take on some of the burden. We will be chill during the journey. But we will get to the mouth of the river one way or the other. This is fixed water. Full of compromises en route. NO COMPROMISE ON WHERE WE ARE GOING ONCE WE'VE MADE OUR MIND UP.


Ok ok! I can dig some of it! Not all but enough to give ya a thumbs up!
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Posted by ellle
That is EXACTLY how you Scorpio 😛

I've already thought about reaching the mouth of that river after *we* agreed.....do not take that away from me! 😱

So.....don't sign up for something you take all the way to the end!
Oh come on now! What if I got tired of canoeing? What if I wanted to walk it with you? What if I wanted to picnic under the stars for the night? None of this was "agreed" upon.

No no no we press on.
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I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

Just don't commit if you can't handle the long haul.

I have no issue if you choose not to commit if you truly can't. That's okay. Honesty is best.

The problem arises when you do and then pull back, change your mind, act flaky, "forget" what we were working on, not take it seriously, become selfish, try to tell me that never hapened, etc........then you've left me in the grey and I get lost. That and after something is acknowledged and agreed upon.....you have my undivided attention. Having my undivided attention is a big deal.....I cant' afford to give that to too many.
Agreed. *fixed sign issues*
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"Where are you going?"

"To the mouth of the river."

"But I said I didn't want to go anymore, we were going to watch the stars insteand."

"Yes, you said you didn't want to go anymore. I've left a nice blankets and some snacks for you to watch the stars. I'm going to the mouth of the river."

"By yourself?"

"Yes."

*someone gets butthurt ends up on dxp*

😄
WTF! This seriously made my freaking day!
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That is EXACTLY how you Scorpio 😛

I've already thought about reaching the mouth of that river after *we* agreed.....do not take that away from me! 😱

So.....don't sign up for something you take all the way to the end!
Oh come on now! What if I got tired of canoeing? What if I wanted to walk it with you? What if I wanted to picnic under the stars for the night? None of this was "agreed" upon.

No no no we press on.
Ssupes. I'd lay on a blanket and watch the stars with you. 😄

HOWEVER, first thing in the morning, we're going back in the canoe and heading toward to the mouth of the river.

This what a PLAN B looks like. 😛
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Thats what I'm talking about! Thats REAL compromising! MUAH!
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But seriously leo sun Scorpio moon Taurus mars Scorpio Pluto and Scorpio lilith. Still I gauentee someone here is more fixed then that.
I hold my hands up!

Sun, Venus, Merc, Jupiter, Neptune in fixed Scorpy

Moon and Mars in fixed Taurus in 2nd house


😛 Winner!
*hides in closet with butter knife*
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I am actually very calm (Taurus moon) but very stubborn


Easy going with friends


With the men in my life, a bit of a different story


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Hence *hiding in closet with butterknife*

That was just a joke btw. I ain't scared of any woman.
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