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Posted by tizianiMore like an unnecessary complication.
Is it calling them high maintenance, just poetically?

Posted by PhoenixRisingLove the wording. You have your shit together for a Scorp. Congrats. Not defensive and no stinger showing. You owned it. Only an evolved Scorpio lady can do that. Nothing sexier than an evolved Scorpio lady. Hats off to you.Posted by tizianiMore like an unnecessary complication.
Is it calling them high maintenance, just poetically?click to expand

Posted by starloverLOL. Didn't expect this thread to go in this direction. I just saw this and thought SCORPIO!Posted by Koniuchaintense, unreasonable, demanding.....will i go on?
I'm curious, what makes us difficult to love exactly?
i speak for myself ladies, so this may not apply to you all and i do have a massive FIVE planets in Scorpioclick to expand

Posted by GobshiteLOL. This is true. Least compromising I think.Posted by flowingwaterFixed!
You're expectations for others are too high.
Posted by flowingwaterPsssst! Scorpio is a fixed sign...
That's where compromise comes into play.click to expand

Posted by ellleWhere in my post did I state that you Scorpy ladies needed to be MORE compromising. I can flex quite a bit if I want to. We are fixed and can only flex a certain amount. I never said that you needed to be more flexible ELLE. We are who we are. We can only do so much.
it's adorable that leo and aqua....our fixed sign cousins are telling us we need to be more compromising.
*waits for taurus to jump on the band wagon*

Posted by ellleLOL. Own it ELLE. Just because I said you were the least compromising sign according to me does not mean that I think you should be more compromising. You said that I think you should be more compromising. Don't twist my words please.
Aqua - "That's where compromise comes into play."
Leo - "This is true. Least compromising I think."
If one says there is no compromise or describes something as the least compromising......doesn't that mean there is a lack of compromise?

Posted by ellleFrom what I have seen from Scorps is they want their cake and to eat it too.
my entire life theme has been 'compromise' due to all the libra in my chart.
It's a complete contradiction most of the time because everyone is different. there is no 'canned answer' to the level of compromise required from person to person.
some people need it.
some people demand it.
some people could give a rats ass.
you are right about one thing, we are who we are.
the entire 'expectations' thing is on point too.......except.....it's not the scorpio who has too high of expectations, it's those who try to be with us. I can only be who I can be.....so do not *expect* me to be something I am not because I certainly won't put that responsibility on someone else.

Posted by ellleExactly. You are not owning anything. Don't be the typical Scorpio and shunning stuff off.
What exactly am I owning?
you said we were the least compromising.
quite honestly, out of the fixed signs....... I think that belongs to aqua.
....and encompasses ALL aqua placements. Not just sun sign.

Posted by ellleHow about owning the fact that you are a fixed sign and are not really flexible.Posted by SsupermanYou have yet to tell me what I'm need to own.Posted by ellleExactly. You are not owning anything. Don't be the typical Scorpio and shunning stuff off.
What exactly am I owning?
you said we were the least compromising.
quite honestly, out of the fixed signs....... I think that belongs to aqua.
....and encompasses ALL aqua placements. Not just sun sign.
What? What do you mean I don't compromise? What about so and so? LOLclick to expand

Posted by ellleRight there. Cake and eat it too. What makes you think they are half assing it? They could be giving it all they have but its not up to your level of expectations.Posted by flowingwateryou really can't speak on this.
I kinda see it more like....
It's my way or the highway with scorpys.
🙂
while you were seeing your scorp you had a pisces in your back pocket.
like I said....if someone's heart isn't it.....why should mine?
I have way too much to give to someone who is half-assing it.
want better? go find it. I'll be more than happy to see you happy if that is what you want.click to expand

Posted by ellleBUT, I would have to accommodate yours.Posted by SsupermanHow about owning the fact that we aren't just made up of our sun sign?Posted by ellleHow about owning the fact that you are a fixed sign and are not really flexible.Posted by SsupermanYou have yet to tell me what I'm need to own.Posted by ellleExactly. You are not owning anything. Don't be the typical Scorpio and shunning stuff off.
What exactly am I owning?
you said we were the least compromising.
quite honestly, out of the fixed signs....... I think that belongs to aqua.
....and encompasses ALL aqua placements. Not just sun sign.
What? What do you mean I don't compromise? What about so and so? LOL
I mentioned several posts before that compromise has been a huge issue in my life due to other factors in my chart?
People have gone so far to call me a door mat, even on this site.
So, how am I not flexible?
You don't need to answer that....because you can't. I can't even answer it because it is based on the person dealing with me. Some people may say I'm super inflexible....other people may say that I let others take advantage of me because I'm too flexible.
I gave up a long time ago accommodating other people's projections....and that is REALLY what this comes down too.click to expand

Posted by ellleSay I didn't leave. But, didn't accommodate your projections to your standards? You would bounce because of it.Posted by SsupermanNo, you don't.Posted by ellleBUT, I would have to accommodate yours.Posted by SsupermanHow about owning the fact that we aren't just made up of our sun sign?Posted by ellleHow about owning the fact that you are a fixed sign and are not really flexible.Posted by SsupermanYou have yet to tell me what I'm need to own.Posted by ellleExactly. You are not owning anything. Don't be the typical Scorpio and shunning stuff off.
What exactly am I owning?
you said we were the least compromising.
quite honestly, out of the fixed signs....... I think that belongs to aqua.
....and encompasses ALL aqua placements. Not just sun sign.
What? What do you mean I don't compromise? What about so and so? LOL
I mentioned several posts before that compromise has been a huge issue in my life due to other factors in my chart?
People have gone so far to call me a door mat, even on this site.
So, how am I not flexible?
You don't need to answer that....because you can't. I can't even answer it because it is based on the person dealing with me. Some people may say I'm super inflexible....other people may say that I let others take advantage of me because I'm too flexible.
I gave up a long time ago accommodating other people's projections....and that is REALLY what this comes down too.
That's where your leo is showing.
You don't HAVE to. You can simply walk away and pretend i don't even exist. I do not care. Only a Leo would care.click to expand

Posted by ellleYou're right. Bad referencePosted by Ssupermanyou have expectations and standards switched.Posted by ellleRight there. Cake and eat it too. What makes you think they are half assing it? They could be giving it all they have but its not up to your level of expectations.Posted by flowingwateryou really can't speak on this.
I kinda see it more like....
It's my way or the highway with scorpys.
🙂
while you were seeing your scorp you had a pisces in your back pocket.
like I said....if someone's heart isn't it.....why should mine?
I have way too much to give to someone who is half-assing it.
want better? go find it. I'll be more than happy to see you happy if that is what you want.
expectations is expecting someone to do or be a certain way. I only expect someone to be themselves. That seems to be a bit hard for some.
standards are....if you don't cut it....I'm sorry, it's not going to work out. someone has to call it.
doesn't mean their standards are 'wrong'....just means they aren't in line with mine.
btw, that was not a cake and eat it too example....cake and eat it too would be keeping them around for my entertainment even if they were halfassing it. I'd rather let them go and part ways.click to expand

Posted by KoniuchaYea, ok. If anything Aqua would. I know damn good and well some things I absolutely will not compromise on at all.
Scorpio is the water fixed sign. We would be the most flexible of the fixed.

Posted by ellleThis was 100% BS. Contradicting everything you said earlier.
Bottom line.....
Whatever and whomever I am into....since I am black or white....I am 100% in it and not halfassing, ever. And You will know it.
The problem arises right there ^^^^^ that is your root to all problems with scorpios. The moment we make that decision it's constant, not dynamic......
unless......
If you are not 100% in.....we will recognise and start matching your percentages in order to protect ourselves. 90% , 80% , 50% , etc. We mirror.....you can only expect to get what you give with us. You give more, we give more until we reach that 100% level. We will give a certain amount of time for you to catch up but at some point, someone has to call it.....and it's probably going to be us out of frustration and exhaustion.
If I am not 100% in it....then I'm halfassing it and you just need to face reality in the fact that I'm just not that into you.

Posted by elllePretty self explanatory
Say I didn't leave. But, didn't accommodate your projections to your standards? You would bounce because of it.
this makes zero sense to me ^^^^^^
rephrase it, please.


Posted by ellleHow do you figure. I'm not a dick like that and you know it. I also don't expect you to see it.Posted by Ssupermanyou are full of shit and are just toying with me now, sag moon.Posted by ellleThis was 100% BS. Contradicting everything you said earlier.
Bottom line.....
Whatever and whomever I am into....since I am black or white....I am 100% in it and not halfassing, ever. And You will know it.
The problem arises right there ^^^^^ that is your root to all problems with scorpios. The moment we make that decision it's constant, not dynamic......
unless......
If you are not 100% in.....we will recognise and start matching your percentages in order to protect ourselves. 90% , 80% , 50% , etc. We mirror.....you can only expect to get what you give with us. You give more, we give more until we reach that 100% level. We will give a certain amount of time for you to catch up but at some point, someone has to call it.....and it's probably going to be us out of frustration and exhaustion.
If I am not 100% in it....then I'm halfassing it and you just need to face reality in the fact that I'm just not that into you.
I'm not going to sit here and be circle jerked.click to expand

Posted by ellleI dont know how to do quote inside quote or I'd show you.Posted by Ssupermanno it doesn't.Posted by elllePretty self explanatory
Say I didn't leave. But, didn't accommodate your projections to your standards? You would bounce because of it.
this makes zero sense to me ^^^^^^
rephrase it, please.
what the fuck are 'projections to your standards"?click to expand

Posted by starloverYes
Ssupes, did you ever have relationships with Scorpio ladies?

Posted by ellleGotta try ELLE. Otherwise, Why even have this site or answer ANY thread.Posted by SsupermanIf you don't expect me to see something, then why engage? It's just foolish. You can make it clear and have a conversation or play games and just make it fire moon banter.Posted by ellleHow do you figure. I'm not a dick like that and you know it. I also don't expect you to see it.Posted by Ssupermanyou are full of shit and are just toying with me now, sag moon.Posted by ellleThis was 100% BS. Contradicting everything you said earlier.
Bottom line.....
Whatever and whomever I am into....since I am black or white....I am 100% in it and not halfassing, ever. And You will know it.
The problem arises right there ^^^^^ that is your root to all problems with scorpios. The moment we make that decision it's constant, not dynamic......
unless......
If you are not 100% in.....we will recognise and start matching your percentages in order to protect ourselves. 90% , 80% , 50% , etc. We mirror.....you can only expect to get what you give with us. You give more, we give more until we reach that 100% level. We will give a certain amount of time for you to catch up but at some point, someone has to call it.....and it's probably going to be us out of frustration and exhaustion.
If I am not 100% in it....then I'm halfassing it and you just need to face reality in the fact that I'm just not that into you.
I'm not going to sit here and be circle jerked.click to expand

Posted by ellle^^^ herePosted by flowingwateryou really can't speak on this.
I kinda see it more like....
It's my way or the highway with scorpys.
🙂
while you were seeing your scorp you had a pisces in your back pocket.
like I said....if someone's heart isn't it.....why should mine?
I have way too much to give to someone who is half-assing it.
want better? go find it. I'll be more than happy to see you happy if that is what you want.click to expand

Posted by ellle^^^^^ this too. Read the contradiction
my entire life theme has been 'compromise' due to all the libra in my chart.
It's a complete contradiction most of the time because everyone is different. there is no 'canned answer' to the level of compromise required from person to person.
some people need it.
some people demand it.
some people could give a rats ass.
you are right about one thing, we are who we are.
the entire 'expectations' thing is on point too.......except.....it's not the scorpio who has too high of expectations, it's those who try to be with us. I can only be who I can be.....so do not *expect* me to be something I am not because I certainly won't put that responsibility on someone else.


Posted by ellleI just wanna hug you sometimes! Others.......GRRRRRRR! 😉
smh
I give up.
Great thread, btw....I have no qualms with being strange or terrifying. Keeps the faint at heart away................most of the time.

Posted by ellleIt was a compliment that turned ugly. I hate that. GRRRRRRRR! You Scorpy ladies kill me! I swear!
smh
I give up.
Great thread, btw....I have no qualms with being strange or terrifying. Keeps the faint at heart away................most of the time.

Posted by ellle/ALIVE AGAIN! 😉Posted by Rambunctious76hold me!
Not terrifying or strange.
Just misunderstood.click to expand

Posted by FrostAndBiteYou're such a DORK!
I expect your day to get better. And don't you dare tell me whether you need it to or not, because I refuse to compromise on the matter!
*Hand a piece of cake*

Posted by FrostAndBiteI wouldn't quite go there!Posted by SsupermanI think mischievously charming are the words you were really looking for. 🙂Posted by FrostAndBiteYou're such a DORK!
I expect your day to get better. And don't you dare tell me whether you need it to or not, because I refuse to compromise on the matter!
*Hand a piece of cake*click to expand

Posted by ellleNow I wanna hug you
another example.....
passwords.
I always tell partners to NOT give me passwords to anything. I won't snoop but if there is a point in the relationship where you betray me.....I will use them. I have a scorpio mars and I just don't want to be given the opportunity to do shady shit. So, NO PASSWORDS because I know what I could be capable of if pushed too far. I see it as being proactive.
However, I will give you every damn password I have and the permission to go into anything you'd like.....you don't even have to ask me. *shrugs*
So, yeah. It's not contradicting....it's being respectful to my needs and my partners needs and being aware that they are different.

Posted by ellleI know you do on some of it. Some of it, you just won't. Just like I won't ever see some of what you are saying or even agree with it. *Fixed sign issues*
I understand where you are coming from, ssupes, I really do.
We often get misunderstood and then it just gets all twisted until nobody really even knows what they were talking about to begin with. lol

Posted by IrresistableScorpOk ok! I can dig some of it! Not all but enough to give ya a thumbs up!
Ohh. Good convo. May I interject a little with the Fixed water version of being fixed and how "compromise" is incorporated? 😄
Let's say, I'm out canoeing with my friend and we've looked at the map and we decide we're going to make it to the mouth of the river. PLAN A: mouth of the river.
So we start canoeing and friend suggests going down one tributary that looks more beautiful than what we may have agreed at first. Scorp: "sure that looks great. let's do it!"
And then friend suggests we stop here or there for lunch--Scorp: "Great idea. Looks like a great place."
And so on and so forth. Scorpio being chill about how we get there.
Several hours into the canoeing, the friend suggests going back because they are tired.
Scorp: Uh--no. Plan A is going to the mouth of the river. I've had my heart set on getting to the mouth. Let's keep going.
Friend: But I'm tired, let's turn around.
Scorp: We agreed at the beginning we were going to the mouth of the river. Let's DO THIS! Tell you what. I'll paddle while you rest...but we are gong to the mouth of the river.
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The moral of the story?
The Scorpio is going to keep going until it gets to the mouth of the River. We might compromise how to get there. We might take on some of the burden. We will be chill during the journey. But we will get to the mouth of the river one way or the other. This is fixed water. Full of compromises en route. NO COMPROMISE ON WHERE WE ARE GOING ONCE WE'VE MADE OUR MIND UP.

Posted by ellleOh come on now! What if I got tired of canoeing? What if I wanted to walk it with you? What if I wanted to picnic under the stars for the night? None of this was "agreed" upon.
That is EXACTLY how you Scorpio 😛
I've already thought about reaching the mouth of that river after *we* agreed.....do not take that away from me! 😱
So.....don't sign up for something you take all the way to the end!

Posted by ellleAgreed. *fixed sign issues*
I don't think there is anything wrong with that.
Just don't commit if you can't handle the long haul.
I have no issue if you choose not to commit if you truly can't. That's okay. Honesty is best.
The problem arises when you do and then pull back, change your mind, act flaky, "forget" what we were working on, not take it seriously, become selfish, try to tell me that never hapened, etc........then you've left me in the grey and I get lost. That and after something is acknowledged and agreed upon.....you have my undivided attention. Having my undivided attention is a big deal.....I cant' afford to give that to too many.

Posted by ellleLOL! Most peeps have zero clue what's in that ride tho! 😉
If you can't hang.....just decline the offer. It's no big deal 😄

Posted by ellleWTF! This seriously made my freaking day!
"Where are you going?"
"To the mouth of the river."
"But I said I didn't want to go anymore, we were going to watch the stars insteand."
"Yes, you said you didn't want to go anymore. I've left a nice blankets and some snacks for you to watch the stars. I'm going to the mouth of the river."
"By yourself?"
"Yes."
*someone gets butthurt ends up on dxp*
😄


Posted by Foxthat's why i love you bae
i'm about as terrirfying as a snail.



Posted by KoniuchaYou're a dork too!Posted by SsupermanWe won! :p
On that note I will concede to you beautiful Scorpy ladies.
Yes, I'm not that "fixed". 😉click to expand

Posted by Rambunctious76Fixed sign issues. You wouldn't understand.Posted by DamnataWatching fixed signs argue about being fixed? Yep.
This topic couldn't get more fixed 😆
click to expand



Posted by starlover*hides in closet with butter knife*Posted by SoulI hold my hands up!
But seriously leo sun Scorpio moon Taurus mars Scorpio Pluto and Scorpio lilith. Still I gauentee someone here is more fixed then that.
Sun, Venus, Merc, Jupiter, Neptune in fixed Scorpy
Moon and Mars in fixed Taurus in 2nd house
😛 Winner!click to expand

Posted by IrresistableScorpThats what I'm talking about! Thats REAL compromising! MUAH!Posted by SsupermanSsupes. I'd lay on a blanket and watch the stars with you. 😄Posted by ellleOh come on now! What if I got tired of canoeing? What if I wanted to walk it with you? What if I wanted to picnic under the stars for the night? None of this was "agreed" upon.
That is EXACTLY how you Scorpio 😛
I've already thought about reaching the mouth of that river after *we* agreed.....do not take that away from me! 😱
So.....don't sign up for something you take all the way to the end!
No no no we press on.
HOWEVER, first thing in the morning, we're going back in the canoe and heading toward to the mouth of the river.
This what a PLAN B looks like. 😛click to expand

Posted by starloverHence *hiding in closet with butterknife*Posted by Ssuperman😄Posted by starlover*hides in closet with butter knife*Posted by SoulI hold my hands up!
But seriously leo sun Scorpio moon Taurus mars Scorpio Pluto and Scorpio lilith. Still I gauentee someone here is more fixed then that.
Sun, Venus, Merc, Jupiter, Neptune in fixed Scorpy
Moon and Mars in fixed Taurus in 2nd house
😛 Winner!
I am actually very calm (Taurus moon) but very stubborn
Easy going with friends
With the men in my life, a bit of a different story
lolclick to expand

Posted by tizianiGo hide in a closet with a butterknife Tiz. You will be safe
I'm always getting the Scorp to laugh at herself while she decides if she wants me to meet my unfortunate end in this lifetime, on any given day.
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