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This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by mysteriousTaurus on Saturday, August 22, 2015 and has 29 replies.

Understanding Scorpio Friendships and Second Chances

Scorpio friends value loyalty and honesty. Missing plans may upset them, but they often appreciate sincere apologies. If your friend is giving you a second chance, it indicates they still value the friendship. To maintain trust, communicate openly and show genuine effort to improve your reliability.

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@mysteriousTaurus
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so i stood up my scorpio friend. we had plans to meet somewhere and i never went. how mad would you be? hes giving me a second chance as a friend, is this my last chance lol.... just wondering so i can be on my best behavior or not.

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Posted by PV&Jellay

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
so i stood up my scorpio friend. we had plans to meet somewhere and i never went. how mad would you be? hes giving me a second chance as a friend, is this my last chance lol.... just wondering so i can be on my best behavior or not.

Damn first you fucked over your pisces friend until you lost her. Now you're fucking over your scorpio friend. Friendship just isn't your strength is it?

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No it's not. I have to say though that water signs are the best friends that I ever had and I love you guys. Maybe you're too good for me. No one will ever live up to my water sign friends. They're everything and more. I'm lazy and it takes me a while to realize that my friends need me sometimes. I'm happy he's patient with me though and he's giving me a second chance.

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Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
so i stood up my scorpio friend. we had plans to meet somewhere and i never went. how mad would you be? hes giving me a second chance as a friend, is this my last chance lol.... just wondering so i can be on my best behavior or not.

It depends on what size your breasts are.

D, perky and firm

He'll probably forgive you.

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That's if he's dumb as an ox.

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@mysteriousTaurus
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It was flakey on my part and it was extreme on his part. We're cool now though and we are friends again. I would annoyed if my friend flaked on me too but I wouldn't end an entire friendship over a change of plans. Thanks for your responses.

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@mysteriousTaurus
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Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
so i stood up my scorpio friend. we had plans to meet somewhere and i never went. how mad would you be? hes giving me a second chance as a friend, is this my last chance lol.... just wondering so i can be on my best behavior or not.

It depends on what size your breasts are.

D, perky and firm

He'll probably forgive you.

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He did πŸ™‚

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@mysteriousTaurus
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Posted by munchykin

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
It was flakey on my part and it was extreme on his part. We're cool now though and we are friends again. I would annoyed if my friend flaked on me too but I wouldn't end an entire friendship over a change of plans. Thanks for your responses.

Glad you can admit that and patched things up with him.

Just don't be surprised if he doesn't go out his way for you anymore. I had a friend like that - she flaked on me to the point where even though I didn't immediately cut off contact, I no longer drove out my way or blocked off time to meet with her. If she wanted to meet up, she'd have to be in the area at a time that's convenient for me.

Which may or may not be an issue for you, just be aware.

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I realized that he stopped going out of his way for me, its childish because I messed up ONE time, UNO.
this whole time that we have been friends I was decent to him. We would talk on the phone for houurssss at a time, he would tell me all his problems. Hes my first close scorpio friend and im just learning how to deal with his extremities. *friend messes up one time, block her number for life*

he really did tell me to delete his number after this happened lol. whatever we're 'friends' now so i guess i shouldnt be talking anymore

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@degenerate_ingenue
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I've tried writing a response like 6 times and at this point I think it's best all I say is: I've had terrible friendships with Tauruses due to this, only the Tauruses in my life would normally lie and then go do something else and post about it on social media. fake and superficial as hell. that's how all of my past Taurus friendships have been. fake and superficial. I do have 2 Taurus friends now. I like them a lot so far.....lol. hopefully it'll last. the newest one is a doll! I love her and she's very sincere but has a lot of air influence. I am convinced that's why we get along so well!!

I would just say don't lie to him. he will be dry when you cancel at first because he feels like you cancelled because he's not valued that much and he may feel you don't value him as much as he does you. he may suspect lies are at play, who knows. with my past, I take everything people say with a grain of salt. it may be overreacting, but he is trying to defend himself and his value. he doesn't want to be walked on like a doormat. I have a lot of opinions on this involving my own experiences....only one Taurus I knew told me the truth when he'd bail on me. I respected that. I valued that. I didn't get mad because I know things come up, but we pretty much barely talk anymore because he bailed a lot. he's a really busy person so I'm not "mad" so to speak, but if people really care they will make at least a little time even for a phone call. he didn't, so it's a wash and we hardly speak.

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P.S. I'm not saying you lied or implying it, but if it's ever a temptation in the future I used my own personal examples to show how it will negatively impact the friendship. once I deem someone a liar there is no redemption. he will understand if something came up....I think....lol...at least...I would.

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i havent spoken to an ex taurus friend of mine in a long while. every time we would make plans, they would break them. no show, no call, nothing. then when they finally got in touch there would be no reason or remorse for not showing up. after three times i was done. i wasn't mad. i came to expect that. so i just stopped answering the phone totally and moved on. after that, taurus would constantly try to get in touch with me. but i ignored every text, call, and attempt to reach out. i have no time for flaky people.

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@mysteriousTaurus
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Posted by LadyYin
i havent spoken to an ex taurus friend of mine in a long while. every time we would make plans, they would break them. no show, no call, nothing. then when they finally got in touch there would be no reason or remorse for not showing up. after three times i was done. i wasn't mad. i came to expect that. so i just stopped answering the phone totally and moved on. after that, taurus would constantly try to get in touch with me. but i ignored every text, call, and attempt to reach out. i have no time for flaky people.

maybe he had a lot of air in him.... hmm dunno but sorry to hear that.

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Posted by Impulsv
Wow
Only reason he's giving u a second chance is because he values the freindship. Don't ever confuse it with weakness though. After giving u benefit of the doubt continue n see the sting.

I sense revenge may be coming your way

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Posted by flowingwater
You're the same person with the ex Pisces friend. No wonder she didn't want you back in her life, she could smell the bullshit from you (pun intended).

This is funny.

Also posted about having issues with her aquarius and libra friend. Pretty sure she's going to go through the whole zodiac a few times and we'll definitely hear all about it.

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no the libra is the one who has the problem is you read correctly, the aqua is confusing, we are after all, not exactly compatible, im not surprised that we have communication problems. lets face it, i have problems with all my friends, never had me a perfect relationship. im a crazy gal πŸ™‚ take me or leave me.
if you dont like me, dont read what i write, carry on with your life if you have one πŸ™‚

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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
no the libra is the one who has the problem is you read correctly, the aqua is confusing, we are after all, not exactly compatible, im not surprised that we have communication problems. lets face it, i have problems with all my friends, never had me a perfect relationship. im a crazy gal πŸ™‚ take me or leave me.
if you dont like me, dont read what i write, carry on with your life if you have one πŸ™‚

I did read correctly. What I said in my post does not go against what you've posted.

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I've noticed with Tauruses the friendships are always one sided. Someone could be there for you but the minute it's time to reciprocate you guys are no where to be found. I had a Taurus friend like that and I just cut her off I usually tell her happy birthday every year this year I didn't bother because she never showed for my birthday dinner yet I wa one of the few that showed for hers.

You guys are selfish.