Scorpio male blocked me

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Almost made it a year with Scorpio man... it wasn’t easy. He carried baggage in from a relationship he was in 9 years before me. We started off great but we had several issues ahead. He felt I wasn’t open for him enough. Too independent. He was somewhat codependent and had a drinking problem. He had so much potential though he is super intelligent we had deep conversations. It wasn’t enough though I felt I didn’t give him enough affection he felt i didn’t need him which wasn’t truth... things just ended in September. I blocked him from my fb. I never stopped worrying about him but I felt he was done with me. I got a text message in November early morning like 2am.,, I felt in my gut it might of been him but was unsure. I typed “wrong number” to realize it was indeed him while I was cleaning out my photo album to see a screen shot of a text me sent. The numbers matched... this month I thought of him more and more. I unblocked him to see he was in relationship since September! I was upset I text him and asked him why he text me in November while he was in a relationship after that I put a smart ass comment that was un needed. I felt stupid for that and I felt I didn’t give myself the closure I needed and the closure he deserved. I sent him a message saying some beautiful things and wishing him the best. He then replied swearing he didn’t text me and he needed proof. I sent him a screen shot of the messsge... then he blocked me.. wtf! I guess a taste of my

Own medicine ? We were never nasty to each other ever. The only reason he was block is he kept going back dnd fourth with me . One minute he missed me the other he would say this isn’t going to work . He kept ripping the band aid off my wound why block me now and cannot answer why he reached out?
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It doesn't really matter why he has blocked you. You knew he came w baggage so CHEERS to your new beginning. Celebrate it and let the baggage go. Sometimes, women are guilty of seeing "potential" and begin to give the benefit of the doubt to the new interest. But more often than not, "potential" is costly. Leave the "struggle love" to the birds. If a man isn't fully in position to play his role then he's not in position to be an asset in his relationship. Learn from this by accepting where the chips have now fallen.

Additionally, it's okay to be independent but as a woman it's important to know that we have to let men be men. They are to protect and to provide. Period! Amongst other things. But we are to allow them to play their God-given role.
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It doesn't really matter why he has blocked you. You knew he came w baggage so CHEERS to your new beginning. Celebrate it and let the baggage go. Sometimes, women are guilty of seeing "potential" and begin to give the benefit of the doubt to the new interest. But more often than not, "potential" is costly. Leave the "struggle love" to the birds. If a man isn't fully in position to play his role then he's not in position to be an asset in his relationship. Learn from this by accepting where the chips have now fallen. Additionally, it's okay to be independent but as a woman it's important to know that we have to let men be men. They are to protect and to provide. Period! Amongst other things. But we are to allow them to play their God-given role.

/rolls eyes

If a man says you are too independent you need a less insecure man.
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Not necessarily. Let's agree to disagree.
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Posted by sweetpea2977

It doesn't really matter why he has blocked you. You knew he came w baggage so CHEERS to your new beginning. Celebrate it and let the baggage go. Sometimes, women are guilty of seeing "potential" and begin to give the benefit of the doubt to the new interest. But more often than not, "potential" is costly. Leave the "struggle love" to the birds. If a man isn't fully in position to play his role then he's not in position to be an asset in his relationship. Learn from this by accepting where the chips have now fallen. Additionally, it's okay to be independent but as a woman it's important to know that we have to let men be men. They are to protect and to provide. Period! Amongst other things. But we are to allow them to play their God-given role.

/rolls eyes

If a man says you are too independent you need a less insecure man.

Not necessarily. Let's agree to disagree.

If he has to ask you to be more submissive, he's not dominant. You are. So own it.
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So....you don't want to agree to disagree? 🙄

Everything isn't always this way or that way. There are hidden factors at times. Hidden issues. False perceptions. Learned behaviors. Etc etc.
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Scorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.

You simply are not compatible.

So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol

Maybe in those few months, he'd dealt with it and let go? You telling him how you feel now might be too late in his mind. He might have drunk texted you at 2am that night, hence why he might not remember.

Lol that he blocked you - not at your feelings, but at how petty blocking is. I think sometimes people block though, to try to get over it.
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I agree blocking is petty... it was hard for me to do but I felt it was best at the time. We are both adults though and things could of been handled differently on both ends. I am aware he just might be “over it” just gotta wish him well.
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Posted by Eyes84
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Scorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.

You simply are not compatible.

So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol
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Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.

Then you commented something you admit was also petty.

It all sounds kind of childish.
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Scorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.

You simply are not compatible.

So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol

Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.

Then you commented something you admit was also petty.

It all sounds kind of childish.

You sound hella mature damn so yea shut up now
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What ?

I said IT was childish.

I didn't call you childish. Calm down 🙄🙄🙄

Stop with the pettiness. You literally admitted it was petty in another response. So why attack me out of the blue in a petty way? 👀
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Posted by LalasReturn
Posted by Eyes84
Posted by Vicktoria

Scorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.

You simply are not compatible.

So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol

Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.

Then you commented something you admit was also petty.

It all sounds kind of childish.

You sound hella mature damn so yea shut up now

What ?

I said IT was childish.

I didn't call you childish. Calm down 🙄🙄🙄

Stop with the pettiness. You literally admitted it was petty in another response. So why attack me out of the blue in a petty way? 👀

Im calm and happy 🙂 sorry not everyone can be as mature as you lol
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Your initial response wasn't very kind. It was passive aggressive

I wasn't trying to be rude like some other posters here.

It's weird how people just post to be rude. 🤔 As if they're perfect.

But yeah whatever you did sounds like the ish my ex Scorp and I would do in the beginning.

I saw it as playful fighting but then it got ugly. So he's done you a favour here.

Ruuuuuuuuuun and never look back.

Trust me. He'll be back if things don't go smoothly with his new SO.

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Posted by thethescorpio
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Posted by Eyes84
Posted by Vicktoria

Scorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.

You simply are not compatible.

So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol

Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.

Then you commented something you admit was also petty.

It all sounds kind of childish.

You sound hella mature damn so yea shut up now

What ?

I said IT was childish.

I didn't call you childish. Calm down 🙄🙄🙄

Stop with the pettiness. You literally admitted it was petty in another response. So why attack me out of the blue in a petty way? 👀

That’s not the op.

Some random butthurt
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Ooh oops sorry. My bad
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Posted by LalasReturn
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by LalasReturn
Posted by Eyes84
Posted by Vicktoria

Scorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.

You simply are not compatible.

So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol

Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.

Then you commented something you admit was also petty.

It all sounds kind of childish.

You sound hella mature damn so yea shut up now

What ?

I said IT was childish.

I didn't call you childish. Calm down 🙄🙄🙄

Stop with the pettiness. You literally admitted it was petty in another response. So why attack me out of the blue in a petty way? 👀

Im calm and happy 🙂 sorry not everyone can be as mature as you lol
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Sorry I retract what I said.

I thought you were the one who responded to me. It's someone else.



My baaaaad sis.

Sooooorrrryyyyyyy
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Posted by LalasReturn
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by LalasReturn
Posted by Eyes84
Posted by Vicktoria

Scorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.

You simply are not compatible.

So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol

Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.

Then you commented something you admit was also petty.

It all sounds kind of childish.

You sound hella mature damn so yea shut up now

What ?

I said IT was childish.

I didn't call you childish. Calm down 🙄🙄🙄

Stop with the pettiness. You literally admitted it was petty in another response. So why attack me out of the blue in a petty way? 👀

Im calm and happy 🙂 sorry not everyone can be as mature as you lol
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Now where da fuq are my glasses and the wall I can shamefully hide behind. 🤭