Scorpio man Cancer moon needs help

Hi there, so a while ago i lied for a stupid reason to my Taurus/Pisces moon lover. As we know taurus cant be lied to she just knew instantly something was up... Since then she doesnt trust me anymore and its been really difficult for us in our relationship. I have heard that when you loose a taurus trust its really hard to win it back. I would never lie to her again and i love her more than anything in the world. How can i regain this little perfect qualf from the sea trust?

Doing drugs... I could have tell her and she wouldnt had been mad but i felt super bad doing it.. It was just really dumb...

It won't be easy for sure but it's not impossible either. One word....CONSISTENCY....don't tell her, show her but as a Taurus woman that is what she is looking at especially now. I hope it was only something small you lied about and not something major. Betrayal of trust IS huge for a Taurus woman. What's your sign?

@cr19

Im scorpion cancer moon

Good luck with that. I have a really hard time letting ppl back in after they've lied to me. Consistency is key and time!

Oh Mr. Scorpio...why wouldn't you just tell your bull the truth? She may not have liked it but I guarantee she would have been understanding and appreciative of your honesty. She is hurt, wounded and it's going to take a lot of consistency and patience for you. She's not just going to hand her trust back over so easily.

@GetMisted

it's irrelevant in this conversation.

@Cr19

I know and im willing to provide both of these things... I just get overemotionnal and scared sometimes and i make things harder for her... She is truly the love of my life and i wont do that ever again... I know he is caring (the most caring person ive ever met) sometimes she needs space and i have a hard time with that considering my obssesive and paranoid nature...

@GetMisted

I snorted a lot of sangrila

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@GetMisted

I snorted a lot of sangrila

wat

I have a question, OP.

What compels you do lie or hide things from your girlfriend? Really think about this. Is it because you are afraid of her getting angry, dumping you, or what?

If you are afraid of her getting angry, well that is something that happens in relationships all the time, especially long term ones. If you are both in it for the long haul that shit shouldn't matter.

If you are afraid of her dumping you... well... how fair is it that you hide shit from her just so you can keep her?

@Reincarnation

shut the fuck up you piece of trash

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Posted by TiCrab
Hi there, so a while ago i lied for a stupid reason to my Taurus/Pisces moon lover. As we know taurus cant be lied to she just knew instantly something was up... Since then she doesnt trust me anymore and its been really difficult for us in our relationship. I have heard that when you loose a taurus trust its really hard to win it back. I would never lie to her again and i love her more than anything in the world. How can i regain this little perfect qualf from the sea trust?

Just get her alone somewhere and shag her. Rip her clothes off.

She'll forget about it.

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You forgot, he has to feed her first....

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Posted by TiCrab
Hi there, so a while ago i lied for a stupid reason to my Taurus/Pisces moon lover. As we know taurus cant be lied to she just knew instantly something was up... Since then she doesnt trust me anymore and its been really difficult for us in our relationship. I have heard that when you loose a taurus trust its really hard to win it back. I would never lie to her again and i love her more than anything in the world. How can i regain this little perfect qualf from the sea trust?

Just get her alone somewhere and shag her. Rip her clothes off.

She'll forget about it.

You forgot, he has to feed her first....

I prefer to be fed. Home cooked.

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But he's the one asking for forgiveness, you can't expect me to cook you, your favorite meal, when I'm the one that's been wronged.

Posted by TiCrab
@Cr19

I know and im willing to provide both of these things... I just get overemotionnal and scared sometimes and i make things harder for her... She is truly the love of my life and i wont do that ever again... I know he is caring (the most caring person ive ever met) sometimes she needs space and i have a hard time with that considering my obssesive and paranoid nature...

This is def things you should communicate with her because I'm sure she gets scared and unsure also. You have to SHOW her she can trust you again and show her you can communicate and be honest with her. For now the damage is done and will take time to repair but the fact that she is still around lets you know all hope is not lost. Just talk to her and tell her things from now on. The funny thing about us is that most of the time we don't react to things the way people expect we will. We empathize and try to be nonjudgmental and understanding of others even if we may not like it or agree. We look at things from all different angles. It's just when we are blatantly lied to or made to look like a fool...lies, deceit, and betrayal are big red flags for us and make us even more cautious. Talk to her and tell her what you have told us. She will listen and respect you laying it out so she can understand why better.

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Posted by TiCrab
Hi there, so a while ago i lied for a stupid reason to my Taurus/Pisces moon lover. As we know taurus cant be lied to she just knew instantly something was up... Since then she doesnt trust me anymore and its been really difficult for us in our relationship. I have heard that when you loose a taurus trust its really hard to win it back. I would never lie to her again and i love her more than anything in the world. How can i regain this little perfect qualf from the sea trust?

Just get her alone somewhere and shag her. Rip her clothes off.

She'll forget about it.

You forgot, he has to feed her first....

I prefer to be fed. Home cooked.

But he's the one asking for forgiveness, you can't expect me to cook you, your favorite meal, when I'm the one that's been wronged.

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you guys are being the extreme of both signs... but in the end yes i want passionnate intense lovemaking with her and feed her gourmet grilled cheese afterward.