scorpio man drives this virgo girl crazy

can anyone explain to me why the scorpio I'm dating keeps contradicting himself? he says he wants to keep it casual then calls to see me 3 days in a row . Then its seems he realizes it and tells me "oh I'm not trying to get into anything serious", as if i had called him? He tells me he's stopped seeing other girl since he stated dating me, and 5 minutes later makes a comment about how friday night is boys night to pick up on chicks? It's seems as if every time he says something sweet, or shows any kind of affection toward liking me, he freaks himself out and makes an asshole comment a minute later as if it counteracts what he said before. is this from insecurity?

Normally I'd cut and run.. but i have to admit this scorpio has some kind of hold on me 🙂

Any insight on scorpios and dating would be appreciated..

"he says he wants to keep it casual then calls to see me 3 days in a row . Then its seems he realizes it and tells me "oh I'm not trying to get into anything serious", as if i had called him? "

Have you never wanted to do something, even when you found yourself doing something completely different? Have you never told yourself you are going to apply yourself seriously to your studies, and then found yourself neglecting your work and watching a movie 5 minutes afterwards? It means he's either not very self-concious, or lacking in self-discipline. Fairly common, really.

"He tells me he's stopped seeing other girl since he stated dating me, and 5 minutes later makes a comment about how friday night is boys night to pick up on chicks?"

How is that contradictory?

contradiction: |ˌk?ntrəˈdik sh ən|
noun
a combination of statements, ideas, or features of a situation that are opposed to one another : the proposed new system suffers from a set of internal contradictions.

to tell someone you are only seeing them, and then turn around and make a statement that your going out to pick up on girls would fall under that definition.

See, the way your wrote it made it look like a general statement.

In my experience, scorp men are exactly this way. They want to have the freedom to do what they want, but when they are interested in you and start having feelings for you they mentally claim you as thiers whether it is a serious relationship or not. They are very macho, but very sensitive and easily hurt. It is very hard for a scorp male to
REALLY be in a casual relationship in my experience. He will soon become jealous and possessive, yet he will distance himself from his other dips if he really likes you, he may still delve into an activity or two with them from time to time. To keep control over his prospects. They hate to feel they have lost someone unless THEY are ready to be rid of them.

This is just the way they are. They rarely see thier fault in being contridictive or simply expect you to accept it.

Too much for me. Neva gonna work for a scorp woman... LOL!!!

ha ha thanks for the insight ... I'm starting to realize his easily hurt side. he always puts on this cool guy exterior.. i forget he can dish it but can't handle it sometimes.

i think i can handle the contradictions as long as i feel like he into me.. being a virgo though i thrive off stability, so not sure where this can really go in the end.

"You seem to be a very good looking and intriguing person......too bad you're not my type!"


Kat's Meow ... the above comment came from an male Ram and is referencing pick up lines, and this quote came to mind while reading your post.

A lot of people, both genders, all signs ... view the same way, and it appears that your Scorpio man is believing just as this man who made this quote believes.

It's an attention game ... give the woman enough to make her feel special through your eyes to get her hooked, then push her away to make her run towards you with intentions of trying to get her to make impressions upon you that she is your type.

Some people are so confused into believing that they want superficial attention ... and confused they most certainly are because it's these same people who come in here and woe about being hurt. They think their hearts have been invested, when really it was just the ego that was injured .. if it's the ego that has secured this other person through playing an attention game, then it's really the ego that was injured once rejected, or game is over .... and not really the heart at all.

Your man that you speak of reminds me of this type of person. He will tell you everything you want to hear, he will tell you that you are the only woman in his life right now ... to get you under his spell and feel bound to him, feel attached to him by the way he makes you feel ........ then, push you away.

What he wants of you, Kat, at this time, by playing his attention game for attention, by making reference of picking up women .. is for you to compete with other women in showing him that you are the one for him, so his ego can be inflated.

He catches ... phones all the time, tells you that you are the only one, tells you that you are sweet ...... into his net ...

Then dangles you out over a ledge ...


This is how players operate in life, Kat ... it's all ego, and nothing more. Unfortunately, women so want to be wanted and to be considered special in a man's eyes ... that they actually get confused and think this is real, and then invest their hearts into this man anyway ... only to get their hearts broken.

Swim now .... he's playing you.

i had one..?? don't know where it went 😢