Scorpio Man & Pieces Female ~~~ Advice/ Open Forum

I'm currently in a relationship with a Pieces female that is 10 years older than me. We've been together for about 3 years. She constantly attempt to lie and deceive me. Where I do try to giver her the benefit of the doubt and pay no attention to it because I know what she is doing. In essence, her game became boring. I did catch her writing love letters to another man. She travels for work as well.
I confronted her about the letter and again she masked her lies with anger then I told her that we are on a break and whatever she does I do not want to know and whatever I do she surely won't know.
I'm in no way affected by what she might or might not do, like I said her game became boring and found her loyalty severely lacking. I'm more interested in my education, work, and adventuring out with my friends on the weekends and the sweet revenge of her knowing that she dose not have me anymore to lean on or burden with her, solvable problems that she blows out of proportion.
I'm just curious of thoughts from Pieces and Scorpios (or any other's with experience) thoughts out there.

Agreed.

Get rid of the evil woman 😛

Of course, I'm a Scorpio and do have back up plans, lol. And I meant I have a loose relationship with this "woman" now. Though, I'm more disappointed for the time I lost instead of the investment into something else.
Thanks for the positive feed back though. But also, it's just weird. She's been my longest relationship, and I kind of have the other side of me wanted to gain my revenge on her for crossing her bounds with me and the betrayal that has been plotted/ carried out.

Posted by Rabbit
Who writes love letters these days?

Apparently, she does through email. Remember she's 10 years older than me and has this spoiled 16 year old high school crap going on with her

Posted by Scorpio1288
I'm currently in a relationship with a Pieces female that is 10 years older than me. We've been together for about 3 years. She constantly attempt to lie and deceive me. Where I do try to giver her the benefit of the doubt and pay no attention to it because I know what she is doing. In essence, her game became boring. I did catch her writing love letters to another man. She travels for work as well.
I confronted her about the letter and again she masked her lies with anger then I told her that we are on a break and whatever she does I do not want to know and whatever I do she surely won't know.
I'm in no way affected by what she might or might not do, like I said her game became boring and found her loyalty severely lacking. I'm more interested in my education, work, and adventuring out with my friends on the weekends and the sweet revenge of her knowing that she dose not have me anymore to lean on or burden with her, solvable problems that she blows out of proportion.
I'm just curious of thoughts from Pieces and Scorpios (or any other's with experience) thoughts out there.

I'm a Pisces female, I can see her doing this. It happens when we aren't wholly into the person, or if we don't feel the persons completely interested in us. I'm very sorry about that, I think she is a disgrace to our kind, and it really upsets me. I've dated scorpios and I just think their incredible people, there can be no one I feel safer with, so I think it depends on the two. Good Pisces and scorpio, amazing relationship, I've seen it, and Pisces and scorpios have hit it off very well, but once again I really do apologize for that, it's horrible! :/ she should be ashamed as should all is pisces who've wronged people.

Posted by Rabbit
Who writes love letters these days?

Me....

Thanks SuperMissMan. I understand, but I don't understand how she couldn't see what I sacrificed for her. When her mother died, I was there. When she got into a huge accident I was there. What boggles my mind is that everyone is saying how good Pieces are and I agree she is a disgrace as a person and to her sign. It's that when I sought to help her she took advantage of it for herself.
I'm at a stand still with her in attempts to get away. But she's very confusing, she keeps coming back and speaking to me and then becoming all lovey dovey with me and I entertain it because we do live together.
I give her space then she sobs that she misses me.
But this break is really for her to assess what she's done and in a way punish her (if she does care) for the crap she's done.
I do not expect to have a longer relationship with her. I'm just inquiring as to WHY is she so stupid, emotional, and contradicting?
But most of all when you disconnect with a Pieces, like I did, allowing her freedom of doing what ever she wants and not have me know and vice versa, what would be the most likely reaction?

I am more than likely to go back into the Military after this semester, if everything goes well, if not I'll be able to join sooner.
So sad that even a 35 year old woman is so immature and I have to pick up that slack. How does that even work?
Well good job on her, she did get me good. But when she becomes all alone where no one is going to want her anymore and she realizes what she lost out on. Better for me.
She is vain by the way and her looks are starting to go... so patience is a virtue for this Scorpio to have everything rectified.
Thanks for the support and advice to all. And please don't let me stop any of you from voicing your opinions on the matter.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
You live together? Are you in an official living together relationship with her or are you in a roommate, living with her scenario?

At this time it's a roommate senerio, I have my own room and stuff. But if she wants to date and all that she can go to a Hotel, same for me.

Posted by Impulsv
Our family Freind attorney is being sucked by a women, Pisces who just uses him for his money. She doesn't care but call him keeps him at arms length enough to get the money she need. We all see it but him. He finally saw after he asked to move back in n she said no!! But she fine him paying for everyone's place n her kids not his, which he loves as his own. Very manipulative. That day his perspective of her changed no more white knighting.

Geez, and that's true too with this one! Money = Happiness and Power. I'm sorry for what he is going through and that's something I can relate to. She kept telling me that I'm her 401K and that when I become a successful attorney then everything that she "did for me" would be paid back when I could pay for majority of things. WOW.... figuring this stuff out is just blah.
I think venting here is better than considering therapy.

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by Scorpio1288

Posted by IrresistableScorp
You live together? Are you in an official living together relationship with her or are you in a roommate, living with her scenario?

At this time it's a roommate senerio, I have my own room and stuff. But if she wants to date and all that she can go to a Hotel, same for me.

Hate to say this, but she's off finding "love." It doesn't sound like it was more that friends with benefits scenario at least for her. Cut your losses. Good luck.

Also don't do the revenge thing--that NEVER works. It time consuming, draining and stings you as much as her. Either ice it or live well.

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Yea you are right about the revenge thing, I am concentrating my energy into other productive things. She can find "love" all she wants, I know that people like her doesn't deserve people like me.
But you reap what you sew, all that matters is if you can handle the consequences at the end.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
There is a certain type of Pisces that is in it for the money and the trappings of wealth--which someone else pays for. I've seen it myself. They are miserable but hey they have fun. :/

Yea, I can understand lust, greed, and vanity for money. Where a lot of people believe money equals power, I think it's wise in my belief that money , and all that this Pieces believes in, the with Power comes everything else. Wealth is a by product that any economy class can show that monetary value can fluctuate in value. Plus, you cannot take money with you when you die but will leave a legacy in the way you used your obtained power.

Posted by Scorpio1288

Geez, and that's true too with this one! Money = Happiness and Power. I'm sorry for what he is going through and that's something I can relate to. She kept telling me that I'm her 401K and that when I become a successful attorney then everything that she "did for me" would be paid back when I could pay for majority of things. WOW.... figuring this stuff out is just blah.
I think venting here is better than considering therapy.

So can you share the list of what she "did" for you? Sounds like she helped you out and took care of you.

ie..Paid back to her for what "majority of things"?

Posted by LetltB

Posted by Scorpio1288

Geez, and that's true too with this one! Money = Happiness and Power. I'm sorry for what he is going through and that's something I can relate to. She kept telling me that I'm her 401K and that when I become a successful attorney then everything that she "did for me" would be paid back when I could pay for majority of things. WOW.... figuring this stuff out is just blah.
I think venting here is better than considering therapy.

So can you share the list of what she "did" for you? Sounds like she helped you out and took care of you.

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Not really, every time we fought she went out and bought me something to calm me down. I never asked for any thing, I worked over 50 hour weeks to keep my end while going to school. I took care of her when her mother died about 2 years ago when she fell into a deep depression where I thought she might of killed herself.
Again, I took care of her when she was in a car accident, totaled the car and she was hospitalized for a few good days, where after I still took care of her. She never had to clean, wash clothes... ANYTHING. All she had to do was get up from bed to take a shower or go in the living room when I took days off from work and classes to be there for her. I pay her back if I know that there is a debt to pay.
And if you are a Scorpio as well, you would understand that if you owe a debt to someone it's annoying and has to be paid back as quickly as possible so it would not be used as leverage.

So she did not pay anything for you or do anything for you?
Then what did you mean by this:

"She kept telling me that I'm her 401K and that when I become a successful attorney then everything that she "did for me" would be paid back when I could pay for majority of things."