Scorpio Prediction anyone?

The situation:

After about 4 mo. My Scorp we'll never fully admit we're exclusive. Although he calls me EVER night and occasionally he's make a comment implying he's not seeing anyone else or sleeping around. (he's considered a playboy , but since we've started hanging out he's made an effort to let me know he's toned that part of his life down.) up until a week ago he from time to time would make comments that if he ran into me while he was out on a date he would be diplomatic and leave and bar and hope vice versa. Or he'd tell me I should date and then he'll conclude this remark by try to question me about POSSIBLE men that I'm dating? I tend to ignore these comments because his actions seems to show i'm the only one in the picture at the moment. My personal opinion is someone is a little afraid to give up his party boy image, but things have been pretty smooth and great with us lately (rare for a virgo/scorp if you ask me) it seems there was a turning point and so i have no reason to push or complain (just baffles me)

SO..That said..

A little while ago I was asked to go away for the weekend , with a man that I used to see off and on.. About month ago my scorp made a comment about how i should keep my options open. And so I decided to give him what he wanted.. I told him that i had a been asked on a date in sept. He of course insecurely made fun of the fact it was so far in advance and made some comment about how cheesy this guy must be. I didn't mention it was for a entire weekend.. and I haven't brought it up since. In the last week I've notice my scorp has change a bit. He's become more loving and romantic and always wants to hold my hand in public.. And my weekend date is coming up fast.. And I'm sure he'll ask me to hangout that weekend in which i'm going to have to decline.

So how do you think My scorp is going to react??

I figured..i was just hoping my assumptions were wrong..

i wasn't completely forth coming.. the DATE.. is a wedding out of town.. and the man is an ex boyfriend from before scorp. and at this point canceling isn't and option.

So i guess the real question is do i tell him or hide it. But from the reaction I'm thinking i know the answer.


my dads a scorp, but dating them is a different story...

well aren't we optimistic ?

Thank you for your advice.. It's exactly what i needed to hear. 🙂

As you know I am still doubtful of this whole 'men are wankers but if they're Scorpios we can excuse them' bullshit.

Really, he ASKED you to date other people. OK, so we KNOW it's a supposed Scorpio test. On the other hand, if - IF - you and he continue, you have to function as a communicating couple. So if your inclination is to do exactly as he says (even if he doesn't mean it) then you have to do that, to be true to who you are. And if it doesn't then work out, so be it.

You can't go into a relationship pussy-footing around and being someone you aren't. FWIW 'my' (I use the word lightly, cos he never got as far as being 'my'!) Scorp did exactly the same thing. I called him on it (after we had stopped seeing each other) and asked WHY he made such a deal of it.

"I want to see you happy" was his reply.

"Wow! YOu have a great way of showing your concern!" I replied, with a wink and a smile (meaning that he said we should stop seeing each other and he knew I would have gone on).

He DID have the grace to chuckle and blush. I haven't had the option of seeing anyone else since (I suspect I'm older than you, and sheesh, do guys take their time when you're past 40! lol)

But I'm sort of taking him at his word. I think it's almost 100% likely he did actually mean it, and if he didn't, he needs to grow up and start to talk like an adult! Same with yours. If you were exclusive, that's totally different. As it is, he has gone out of his way to make sure you don't need to be. Now, it may well be a test - but if he can set such a silly one, you as a Virgo ain't never going to be happy with him.

IMHO.

Keep us posted!!

as much as i hate to admit it, the weekend date issue is the least of my worries now, and Bran unfortunately (and i hate be able to put fuel to his fire) was right. I broke it off last night with the scorpio. This relationship was definitely by his rules. I just couldn't take it anymore. He would give enough to keep me around and he expected me to be, but he was still able to go off and ignore me and I'm supposed to ok with it. when i finally said something.. he turned it around on me and told me i was being dramatic and i must love drama, then he went on to attack my character... So i said I'm sorry you feel that way and i don't think we should see each other anymore. He said fine and that was that.

heartbreak is miserable.

I've read that even when you dump a scorpio they don't go away that easy, true or false?

This scorpio makes me want to scream!!! I've never had such a short relationship that's has effected me so intensely!

(saturday night) So shortly after my post and Scorpio's cutting remarks he Text me "sorry i was an ass on the phone.. you know i don't mean to be.. u do care" (i never said i didn't so i'm not sure what that was about)

I didn't answer. I had my purse stolen on friday (such a pain) and scorp was with me, he was so sweet at calming me down, he insisted on giving me emergency money until i could get my affairs in order. He also talked about his mother coming to town and he wanted me to meet her, he said she already know w ho i was. Which is why his flipped personality on saturday was so hard for me to understand. So sunday I text him that i was stopping by to pay him back. He didn't answer, so i stopped by anyways dropped it off and left (he wasn't home).

Today I get and email that states he lost his phone this weekend if i tried to get a hold of him. The he goes on to say got the money , thanks, but stopping by unannounced is dangerous, and he hopes i had a good weekend 🙂 (yes he put a little smily face) . WHAT AN A**hole!!!!

his venus is in sag and mine is in libra .. from what i read we are normally compatible (i guess we're the exception)

"This scorpio makes me want to scream!!!"

FA

I did want a relationship with this scorp and he knew that. I never pushed the subject because he tented to imply that i was the only one he was seeing. But on saturday it was like a switch flipped, He said some harsh and uncalled for things to me and I wasn't going to stand around a take , no matter how much I liked him.

And after that email .. well now I'm just pissed off.

spoken like a true scorpio i'd presume ..

Are you Jewish, COP?

There's some worry that intermarriage would cause American Jews to go the way of the Kaifeng community, so that's nice to hear.🙂

No i know and thanks all comments and insight are definitely appreciated .. it's just my nature to be sassy 🙂

Update: scorpio called yesterday. Left a message. His message was so normal as if we didn't end things and he did send me that ridiculous email.

I refuse to answer i single call/message until he acknowledges he did something wrong.